How many women have you been with in your lifetime so far ?
 

I was just thinking of this and remembering the ones I've been with. I have been with 46 in my lifetime and married to three out of that. They ranged from slim to bbws and different races. Some were one night stands and others short term to long term situations or in in between that meaning not short or long term.

I lost track. I would guess somewhere in the 40's.

Lost count somewhere between 80 and a 100

Mr Grits
 

Just a pair
 

The number is just 2 for me. I was 17 with the first one and the first time we had sex, the condom broke and we had a pregnancy scare. After that, I decided the risk wasn't worth it. Never had sex again until until several years later when my now wife and I had been dating for several months.

Well sounds like I am among the lesser of those that responded so far. As with maymedson11, I had only been with 4 (and a 1/2) I will say. The 1/2 was just oral.

Damn....
 

Ive just come to the realization that ive actually lost track of how many women ive been with...

MARCUS
 

THATS WHAT OLD BLACK BOOKS ARE USED FOR... Thats how I counted backward.......

I pads have nothing over old black books..... lol

I've had sex with 6 girls. I've gone down on 8 and gotten blow jobs from five. And anal with just the one.

Lost count
 

I have lost count. The first one I was fifteen. I was the male version of the high school *****RUDE TERM REMOVED*****. I have now been married 4 times. Currently married, once a month whether I need it or not with her so I'm back to my old ways. In the past month had sex with a 37, 33, and 20 year old. The best one was the 37 year old.

Lost count many years ago. It's been dozens.

My number is 15 and 13 of them have come in the last 8 years since I moved away from 22 years of marriage

You lucky bastards! I wish I could lose count!

Unfortunately, I can remember every one.

Something like 22+.

I stopped counting, because it was just depressing. I wanted to stop at #17. She would have been enough for me for the rest of my life. We were engaged, but then she refused to follow through & marry me.

I have no idea. Not really a fair comparison since my wife and I are swinger for over 12 years now. At a large party or a week at Hedo or Desire you can log in a pretty high number. One drunken afternoon the girls decided to play a game of musical dicks. There where about ten couples two I had already fuck but that was 8 right there. None of us really came but I guess that still counts. I guess pretty close to 200. but that is over a 35 year period of time.

WOW!!!
 

You guys have me beat!!!

Other than my wife I have had 5 women!

I feel like such a loser!!

LOL

I am really happy in my marrige. I married WAY UP!!!

More than 100

Only 6 for me and i am in my late thirtys. 3 long term relationships, two 1 night stands and a prostitute. Iv missed out due to my shyness / anxiety

Yep,Im in that camp too. Im mid 40s and its 17, all of whom made moves on me. I have never got a girl i tried to hit on.

Hmmm
 

Sad,
Only 2. Divorced now.

Somewhere between 25 and 27. Some not worth remembering but some definetly are and then i married my dream woman.

Old blacks books from High School to present in a shoe box in the closet.

Counting backwards was easy.. the only reason I did was before my wedding day, I wanted to see how I did in singlehood.... I included 20 unknowns,-- ie: one night stands, etc.

How to pickup chicks, very funny. If only it was that easy. :):)

i think is around 20 girls,i'm 35 y.o,i haven't use my appearance as i should,if a use it the way i should,the number would probably was around 500...but i'm not complain,the girl's i fuck and with some of them had short and long term relationship...was more than pretty!!!

I'm 56, never married. I would have no idea. I would guess well over 100.

The thing with the numbers game is it sometimes becomes just that with no reference to quality or enjoyment. I've only had about 12 but married quite young and have been getting good sex for 35 years, Wife even getting keener it seems. I do seem to remember my early years where I may not have had sex but a lot of enjoyable groping and fumbling.
For those of you feeling sad about low numbers, have a read of some of the stories in this article.
There are those worse off than you.

https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-44143003

1. Girl I lost it to. She was just interested in taking it. No hard feelings lol.

2. Fooled around with some kinky weirdo.

3. Never actually had sex with her, but a coworker and I were dirty texting each other for years and she got to sending me photos. I think before that happened we got drunk at a friend's on St. Patrick's and I licked alcoholic whipped cream off her massive breasts. Also she mooned me.

4. After 4 year dry spell, started dating a fun 23 year old redhead. That lasted like 4 months.

5. 2 years later I fooled around with this cute biracial girl at work. She was very sexually inexperienced. At first she just wanted to maybe like see each other naked. Then that turned into fingering her. She wanted to feel P in V but already had a medical condition that made it painful for even vaginal exams so didn't want me to actually fuck her. She kept staying over though for naked cuddling and mutual masturbation. Better than nothing. Lol

6. 2 more years of dry spell went by. Turned 29 and started dating a great girl. Not very kinky, but she is fantastic. So I'm 30 and I've fucked 3 women, or I guess 4 kind of lol, and fooled around with a few others.

At the age of 60, I've just reached the number 50.

I think it sounds 'a lot', but I played in a band back in the day and many nights were basically a knee trembler with someone at the gigs, in an alleyway, in the band van, the dressing room, etc, and probably 35 of my encounters were like that, in a year long period, with no reference to quality, enjoyment or even knowing her name. Getting a shag was one of the fringe benefits of being in a band (God knows it wasn't for the money). I actually got tired of that very quickly.

The other 15 were more memorable, longer term girlfriends, a wife, a couple of affairs that went on long enough for me to remember names and circumstances with fondness. My loss of virginity, first time with the woman who would become my wife, first time with her after marriage, the time we made love and it sent her into labour, lol, and my most recent liaison with a beautiful woman I recently met all stand out.

A modest 20 here. Slept with 13, then other shenanigans (hand jobs, blow jobs etc) with a further 7....

None since I was married 10 years ago at the age of 32

I'm age 49, live in England.

My count over 30+ years is up to about 130.

Girls age range 18 to 55. White, brown, black, oriental; threesomes, anal, watersports, you name it (except gay, definitely not for me).

I was quite adventurous and experimental as a younger guy but starting to feel my age and calming down a bit now, but still add another notch now and again!

Love the variety, enjoyed every minute, don't regret any of them. Well maybe one or two... :D

Extra question - How many of those women you have been with are still in your life?

I'm lucky enough to have 5 people I have slept with still as part of my friend circle. 2 are very good friends from childhood who I slept with a few times as a 20-22yo when I was on a daft "shag anyone" phase, 2 are old Uni friends who are still very active albeit not close to where I live and one is my ex of 4 years who just started working at my place :eek:

My wife knows about all 5 and there was one amazing night out where I was sat at a table with 4 women (including my wife) all of whom I had been with and all of them knew about each of their experiences with me. That was a god night :)

I'm 70, and have run out of fingers and toes to count with, but I remember all their names, and at least the first time scenario with each lady. I believe all were there because they wanted to be (e.g. not pros) and I think all but 2 were 'satisfied' by the encounters. I have a nice gf now, so given my age I guess that the number is unlikely to change.....but it isn't a big enough number.

How & what??
 

Reading others here & what it included , ie :HJ, BJ, etc...…….. All mine were fucking only...…


Extra question - How many of those women you have been with are still in your life?--
---16, ie : "select friends 3" & "private Swing Group 12".... & wife..... all others are gone except a few who married and are just friends.

I'm 37 now, been with five girls over the past ten years. One was in her mid twenties and all the others were older than I. Two were over sixty.
I still prefer guys so I don't consider myself a lesbian.
My friends tell me I'm an odd one. I only let very young 19-21 year olds or very old 65-75 year old men have me and then only a few times each.
I will never marry, I like being on my own.

More
 

I lost count at a about 25. Wasn’t much more than that when I met my wife. She’s been it since we met 33 yrs ago.

About one per year on average
 

About one per year on average since I was 18 -- three in the last 2 months

I'm 68. I was engaged / married until I was 35 when my first wife died of cancer.
I continued working , raising my son until I was 42.
in the ensuing 26 years I have had 62 lovers including 10 serious romances.
I still count 8 of those as continuing lovers, even though at our ages, we don't get around to "it" as often as in the past. Most have husbands / boyfriends / girlfriends and we are all friends.
Many of the others have passed on , 10 of the 62 in fact. That's sad, but I am buoyed
by the memories and videos we all made. Those files and folders of pictures are where I came up with my numbers.

In my life so far, it's been 6 women in total. I've had two girlfriends in my life. They were short lived but the experiences I've had with them were a lot of fun. The first one I met was on an online dating app. She was absolutely gorgeous. Blonde hair, blue eyes, a lot of freckles, above average height, balloon tits, and a beautiful pussy with small lips poking out. The reason the relationship didn't last long is because she wasn't a good girlfriend

The second girlfriend I had I met through mutual friends. She was more exotic looking than the other one. She is Iranian, actually. Typical Middle Eastern physical traits but very petite. She has long black hair, almond shaped eyes, light brown skin, a gorgeous delicious hairy pussy that is a lot bigger than you'd expect on a woman of her size, boobs that fit perfectly on her, and a very tiny ass. The relationship ended because she fell out of love with me.

The four others were one night stands. The first one I had was another blonde. She has hazel eyes, a toned well shaped body with a bigger bone structure for someone of average height. Her boobs looked good on her but nothing to write home to lol. Her ass is shaped perfectly. Her pussy is on the smaller side, very tight. A solid 9 in my book.

The second of the four is a Latina. Typical Spanish facial features, long black hair, about 5'4'', with a curvier body. Her ass is less defined, a bit meaty but I'm not complaining since her skin is very soft. Her pussy is shaped like butterfly wings but it wasn't as tight as the rest. At least she had a tang to her taste which I love. Her boobs were enhanced but you'd have no idea they were altered. A solid 7.

The third was a lot older than the rest. They were 20-24, but for her she's in her early 40's. I have a thing for blondes so of course she turned out to be another pretty looking blonde. Difference is that she had some gray growing in her hair. She's about 5'7'', big bones, great curves, one of the most perfect asses I have ever seen. A real peach. Perfect sized boobs for her body type, and a tight puffy pussy with a bit of stubble. Mature women are the best.

The last one is very petite. Probably the same height as the Iranian one. She looked to be mixed, asian and caucasian. Light brown hair, dark brown eyes, small boobs with perky nipples, just the right amount of meat on her ass, and again; a bigger than normal sized pussy for a small girl with pretty lips peaking out and a noticeable stubble. A lot of fond memories.

I lost my virginity late into my 16th year of life. I lost it to another virgin and dated her for about 3 years. I then had a dry patch for a couple of years before entering another relationship for 2 years. A year after this relationship ended I entered into a 9 year relationship. During this time I grew a desire to sleep with as many women as possible, but I didn't have the heart to end my relationship as I was scared for a variety of reasons. So I began cheating on my girlfriend for years.
Eventually I was able to do the right thing and leave the girl I was with. At that point I was 30 and had slept with 12. I met another girl who I fell in love with, but early on I told her I couldnt commit as I had a goal in life to sleep with at least 100 different women. As luck would have it she said she would help me to achieve this goal! So I am currently 38 years old and have had had sex with 59 women and counting.
I have used a variety of methods INCLUDING paying for sex, to keep the numbers and variety of nationalities increasing. I have my written list in front of me right now as i type. It includes 11 FFM threesomes and females from 23 countries.
Not a soul in my real life knows this info so it feels good to share it.