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Delamitri 04-10-2018 03:13 PM

Convinced the wife to holiday at Naturist site but she wants to go more au natural.
 
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OK so I’ve finally convinced my wife to try a naturist holiday but she feels she needs to grow some pubic hair back on account of the fact she thinks “the Europeans” are less likely to shave than us Brits. I’ve tried to convince her otherwise but at the moment it’s a deal breaker, she grows some hair back or she doesn’t come.

I really want her to stay with the shaved look, attached is a pic of how great she looks. It would be a shame if she was partly covered up, after all she has a beautiful look, all sleek and smooth, although sometimes her clit hood and a little bit of lips are out which is great too.

So have you got any ideas on how I can convince her to keep the great look and keep her exposed for all to see while we’re there?

Thanks for your suggestions and ideas.

DRDavenport 04-10-2018 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Delamitri (Post 2606648)
OK so I’ve finally convinced my wife to try a naturist holiday but she feels she needs to grow some pubic hair back on account of the fact she thinks “the Europeans” are less likely to shave than us Brits. I’ve tried to convince her otherwise but at the moment it’s a deal breaker, she grows some hair back or she doesn’t come.

I really want her to stay with the shaved look, attached is a pic of how great she looks. It would be a shame if she was partly covered up, after all she has a beautiful look, all sleek and smooth, although sometimes her clit hood and a little bit of lips are out which is great too.

So have you got any ideas on how I can convince her to keep the great look and keep her exposed for all to see while we’re there?

Thanks for your suggestions and ideas.

Don't make a big deal of it. Just go on the holiday and let her see what the other ladies are like. She'll make up her own mind. Any pushing on your part will just generate resistance.

DR

britrob 04-10-2018 09:59 PM

believe me European ladies shave too - she will not be at all out of place or feel uncomfortable

jimmybob69 04-10-2018 10:02 PM

Let her do what she wants. Razors work in Europe, too.

brunettesrule 04-10-2018 10:35 PM

Most people would just be thankful that their partner went naked with them to a beach or resort. Appreciate your good fortune.

nudony 04-11-2018 01:22 AM

When my fiancée and I went to Club O, she wanted to keep her "hair down there" because she figured it would look "better." I just went with it; I was just happy she wanted to try nudism.

It turned out many of the women there were bald. When we got back to our room I asked her how it "felt" being the only woman there with pubes. She shrugged her shoulders and I offered her a more "fashionable makeover", using her razor. She agreed to it under the stipulation that I leave a patch. Of course I faked a "razor malfunction" and lopped off a piece of her patch. So I told her I'd "fix it" and of course shaved off her patch.

She was fine being shaven. She blended right in.

thefergieferg1 04-11-2018 01:52 AM

Agree with many replies, go with what she wants and she will see what it's like for herself when she gets there.
For some the full body shave (men and women)is a morning ritual that can be seen in the showers.
It's very much each to there own.

On a general note on the subject of shaving, I don't know why people get so excited about it because either way it's not permanent. My wife prefers a trimmed bush which I think it nice to look at for the retro look,and easier maintenance. Occasionally shaves which is nice for a change and better for oral, so best of both worlds.

barepubs 04-11-2018 05:44 AM

Convinced the wife to holiday at naturist site but she wants to go more au natural.
 
I had a relationship with a lady from Macedonia in the 90's and she had a full black natural bush and we would always go to nude beaches and she never shaved or trimmed her pubes

wxt50 04-11-2018 12:14 PM

My wife and myself have been naturists for many years. You will almost certainly find that most ladies and (quite a few men) are shaven or mostly shaven. It rare to see a full bush these days.

But really it not so important. Just enjoy your holiday....

DiegoJames 04-11-2018 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by jimmybob69 (Post 2606792)
Let her do what she wants. Razors work in Europe, too.

Taking a friend (a first time naturist) on holiday later this year. The two questions she asked where 'does anyone mind tattoos?' (she has one in what would be called her pubic area) and 'shaved or hairy?'

Her thinking was that if anyone minded tattoos (they won't) she could grow out her bush to hide it, and maybe 'natural' was the more accepted 'dress code' anyway (it isn't, most people, M&F, in naturism are shaved).

As a first time naturist, she was also a little disconcerted by being fully 'revealed' if shaved. I've said if it bothers her so much, to go natural, see what everyone else is doing, and then make a decision to go bare...or not. Yes, razors work in Europe!

Delamitri 04-11-2018 02:34 PM

Thanks to everyone for their replies and advice.

The most important thing is she wants to come and experience it, I've not made a big deal of it and I'm not going too, just wondered if anyone had some advice that might help with her confidence in staying shaved, but the responses have been pretty much along the lines that I was thinking - basically let her see for herself and she might change her mind, if she doesn't it's no big deal.

Has anyone got any advice to help her with the experience, I know she's nervous and doesn't quite know what to expect. Is there anything I can do to make it easier? Anyone got some past experiences to share about taking someone along for the first time? I haven't been for a long time but I use to go a lot, although I've never been to one in France before.

xXroninXx 04-12-2018 08:59 PM

Just go and don't make a big deal out of it.

If she feels less naked with some hair around her pussy let here, she will see once there that people come in all size and shapes, hairy and bald.

Keep in mind nudism isn't any thing sex related, so keep your dick down and your eyes open and have fun :D

raysallx 04-15-2018 10:25 AM

It's all good
 
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Originally Posted by Delamitri (Post 2607050)
Thanks to everyone for their replies and advice.

The most important thing is she wants to come and experience it, I've not made a big deal of it and I'm not going too, just wondered if anyone had some advice that might help with her confidence in staying shaved, but the responses have been pretty much along the lines that I was thinking - basically let her see for herself and she might change her mind, if she doesn't it's no big deal.

Has anyone got any advice to help her with the experience, I know she's nervous and doesn't quite know what to expect. Is there anything I can do to make it easier? Anyone got some past experiences to share about taking someone along for the first time? I haven't been for a long time but I use to go a lot, although I've never been to one in France before.

Yes, the fact that she's going for the experience is the most important. Once she gets into it, she'll be the one suggesting you go to nudist resorts. One thing I would suggest is viewing some photos of nudists online together (you might "pre-screen" them so that the majority of women shown are shaved). Also, maybe find stories of "first time" accounts written by women to ease her fears of what to expect. Have a great time and report back herd on how it went?

brunettesrule 04-15-2018 10:45 AM

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When my fiancée and I went to Club O, she wanted to keep her "hair down there" because she figured it would look "better." I just went with it; I was just happy she wanted to try nudism.

It turned out many of the women there were bald. When we got back to our room I asked her how it "felt" being the only woman there with pubes. She shrugged her shoulders and I offered her a more "fashionable makeover", using her razor. She agreed to it under the stipulation that I leave a patch. Of course I faked a "razor malfunction" and lopped off a piece of her patch. So I told her I'd "fix it" and of course shaved off her patch.

She was fine being shaven. She blended right in.

We had a similar situation when we went to Club Orient in 2002. Mrs BrunettesRule went down with a full, dark bush and we got lots of pictures of her out on the beach, alone or with me, with a full bush -- which I loved. About halfway through the trip, she trimmed it into a small landing strip - which also looked great. For me, the best of both worlds.

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Has anyone got any advice to help her with the experience, I know she's nervous and doesn't quite know what to expect. Is there anything I can do to make it easier? Anyone got some past experiences to share about taking someone along for the first time? I haven't been for a long time but I use to go a lot, although I've never been to one in France before.
For us (particularly, her) the best approach was to jump right in. Very quickly, she will notice how she will not be the center of attention and she will quickly relax. We've been doing this annually for 20 years (and had visited a couple nude resorts before that). I think the one exception was when we finally tried out Baker Beach. While there is a stretch that is clothing-optional, while WE were there, nobody else was actually naked. We checked with an elderly guy who was wearing a white thong to make sure we were in the right area, and he said yes. We got undressed and took pictures, but there were people all around us. We were nervous, but nobody bothered us. I wasn't even aware of how many people were paying attention until I looked at the photos later. Below is an example:

limogesguy 04-15-2018 03:25 PM

Naked in France
 
There's lots of good advice above. Probably within minutes of arriving at your chosen beach you'll see all levels of hairiness from entirely natural (including underarm hair) to entirely hairless (including shaved head!). Make sure to pack her preferred shaving equipment.
Don't forget that the main reason to go on a naturist holiday or just to spend a day on a naturist beach is to enjoy the feeling of the sun and the breeze on your skin, and when coming back from a dip in the ocean not being stuck in wet swimming-clothes while they dry on your body. On many beaches you might see all ages, from babes-in-arms to (great-)grandparents, enjoying the clothes-free lifestyle.
Sadly, from the naturist point of view, there is often a portion of the beach which is reserved for more adult activities! Sometimes off to one end of the beach, or in the sand-dunes behind the beach if present. You'll usually recognize these areas by groups of males (and occasionally some females!) standing watching some activity that they find interesting ...
Best wishes for your holiday in the country that I have chosen to make my home!
John

jimmybob69 04-15-2018 05:50 PM

Not meaning to sound preachy because that is not my style, but,
From me way of thinking, you are making a mountain out of a molehill.
I have been trying to get my wife out of her bikini on the beach and at nude resorts for well over a decade.
If she would ever even suggest that she just might go naked with me I would drop to my knees and praise God on high.
I wouldn't care if she was bald or bushy.
I wouldn't care if she wanted to paint herself purple.
You should be grateful that she is going to do it and not even waste any time worrying about the state of her public area.
Life is too short and there are more important things to concern yourself with😎


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