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Communal showers
Has your wife or girlfriend ever used a communal shower? What was her experience like? Was she nervous to be naked in front of other women? Was she in there with anyone she knows?
I've found from the limited anecdotal knowledge I have that women's locker rooms tend to have shower stalls more often than men's and women even tend to use the showers less often than men. My girlfriend has never used a communal shower in her life and one of our friends was fascinated when I told her one time that most dudes shower in the open. She'd never thought of such a thing. |
coed communal
I guess you won't mind hearing about coed communal showers. A nudist resort we sometimes go to has several communal showers. My wife complained to me that every time she takes a shower, one or more guys will instantly show up and start showering with her. Because of this, she one day asked to come with her. We were showering together and no one else was around. Since I don't shave in the shower, I finished well before her and then stood far off to the side, drying off. And just like she said, a older gentleman appeared and started showering beside her. She glanced over and gave me a dirty look. I got quite a chuckle out of that.
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Here is a true story I posted some years ago that you might like...
its in 2 parts. Part 1 https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/show...2&postcount=84 Part 2 https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/show...6&postcount=85 |
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Last summer I was at a German sauna, and the showers there are all open and mixed gender. I saw numerous couples showering naked without a care in the world. Couples next to single guys, next to other couples, no one seemed concerned. But for me as an observer, it was amazing. Many of the girls were extremely attractive, and here they were fully naked and showering just a few feet away from me. A highlight of the day was showering with a pair of sisters who were probably 18 and 20 years old with incredible bodies.
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When your gym switches changing rooms does your wife or any of the women say anything about the showers in the men's locker room? |
My wife had the usual teenage experience (change under clothes, individual shower stalls or wait till they could get home), but she work Ren Faire for a few years and they only had large open showers. She ended up learning really quick to get comfortable showering in front of other women because of the dust, dirt, and sweat at the Faire. And while she prefers to shower at home, she's not too shy about showering at the gym when we used to go in the mornings. She would frequently take the shower stall that didn't have a curtain so she could get out quicker.
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Even though she's never used a locker room shower, I do remember a couple of years ago my girlfriend had to start changing into scrubs at the plant she'd just started working at. She forgot she was going to have to do that the first day, though, and wore a thong. She was embarrassed when she entered the locker room with three other new hires and hid a little bit as they started to undress, but then realized it was totally normal to wear whatever underwear. After that, she'd have no problem walking into the locker room and stripping right down to under underwear, no matter what coworkers were in there or even if she was wearing a thong. |
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My fiancée doesn't do communal showers. She prefers to just come back and shower at home. But my ex was a nudist resort social nudist. And she never shied away from using the coed communal shower. I remember one time, as she was soaping up, a nearby guy said something to her; and she proceeded to turn towards him and engage in a conversation while still lathering up her tits. No self-consciousness. She liked to shower facing other people so she could chat while washing. I've seen women at the nudist resort do the opposite. Facing the wall, soaping up very quickly and avoiding really "getting in there" while washing. Like they were afraid of being looked at. Which was ironic since most of them had just spent hours tanning completely naked in plain view most of the day. I guess some people view showering as a "private" activity; even when it makes no sense. |
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The curtainless shower stall is also a matter of practicality. The vast majority of the women in the locker room won't use it, so if she wants to get out quickly, that one is pretty much guaranteed to be open. |
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To answer your other question nobody covered up...it was a sort of "unsaid" peer pressure if you get my drift. You felt compelled to just go with it. I am just glad that it was a warm day...ahem! :D |
Story One
I grew up in camps and in sports, so for me it was always open shower stalls as with most locker rooms and summer camps. Just something I had become used to. I was working on staff at one summer camp where there were a few bathhouses, but the newest and nicest camper showers (hot water) in the middle of the camp had an adult and a kids side, not odd when you consider it was boy scouts. But occasionally there'd be a female leader and so on the adult side there was a sign to hang across that would flip and said men/women so adult leaders knew not to go in. Oddly enough, the road that went around the bathhouse went up the hill and from the top of the hill just before rounding the corner you could see down into the adult side. It wasn't a hidden area, from inside you could clearly look up and out and see people coming around the turn in the road. Again, usually being almost all boys it wasn't a big deal and I just assume the female leaders probably showered at like 4am if at all.
In 3 years on staff and more years before that as a camper, I had never seen anyone in that shower area, let alone a female in the shower until one night the water to the staff laundry/shower building had gone out. We had an actual building with separate stalls and a lounge area with the laundry, it was loads better than the campers had. But that night it was dark and there was a thunderstorm projected for later in the middle of the night. As leader of an emergency crew I had to go out and make sure camper tents were secured and my zone was the west ridge. After finishing the last site I was walking back with one team member (buddy system) and the other two had already gone back when finishing their last site. We walked often with no lights because it saves our night vision, and the gravel roads were easy to see in contrast with the woods/ditch/grassy areas. It was after curfew for campers so no one except staff and leaders were supposed to be out of their campsites. We come around the turn talking and both see at the same time, our two hot (relatively) kitchen staff females in the changing area with a lantern on. It was amazing, we were able to see them, and they could not see us without our lights since they had no night vision. We were very far away and couldn't make out a nipple from that distance, only the mounds for boobs and dark area of pubic hair, but for two teenage boys who for two months had only been around other boys, it was the greatest moment of the summer. We waited the entire time for them to finish, and then waited for them to walk away and we waited until at least 5 minutes after we couldn't hear them walking on the gravel before we went on. We never told anyone else there. |
Story Two
Right after college my wife and I were on a road trip when we pulled in to an rv style camp site for the night. We were not really mature yet, though thought we were and so we were having drinks and playing card games in the back of the SUV because we weren't ready to go to bed yet, it was still early. Very early for our college partying lifestyle.
We decide to go use the showers and get cleaned up, brush teeth, etc. to get ready for bed. The toilet/shower building was next to the small lake very close to us. It only had one door on one side when we walked up so realized it was co-ed. I go in, looks like my high school wrestlers locker room but brighter and cleaner. Maybe there was a double vanity along one wall, a bench in the middle and then opposite wall from the sinks there were a few toilets in stalls, opposite the entry door was a cinder block divider wall with a 6 foot gap into the open shower room that was slightly smaller than the "main" area, about 12x12 with I think 8 shower heads on 3 walls all around and a smooth concrete floor. She was very shy but at the time she was deeply infatuated with me and I would often convince her to do things she normally wouldn't like sex in the ocean in broad daylight, road head every time we were in the car for more than 45 minutes, etc. So I convince her it'll be fine, the campsite is mostly empty (it very well was nearly full, but we pulled in in the dark and parked in one of the first spots), and we hadn't seen anyone walk by us to the showers, likely because we were in the car with the lights on and drinking/listening to music/playing games. In an instant I began planning to have sex with her in the shower. So I strip down first, and lay my clothes on the bench, head into the shower and I wave her over, proving it is safe. She strips down and walks over. We start side by side, but inevitably share a shower head being young and in love/lust and begin to fondle each other. Just as I am about to bend her over against the wall and enter her from behind the door opens and a much older gentlemen walks in two steps before looking us and she and he both jumped very startled. She tries to hide herself with her hands, but I have a large boner I am sure I am not hiding well but I think he was trying not to look and the poor man was stammering an apology. I waved at him and said something to the effect of "no worries, come on in, it's a community shower right?" My wife is attempting to stand behind me and with her arms in front of her chest and now very tense. I move to my shower head and now she is staring at me with her backside facing the 'common' area where the man was starting to brush his teeth. I get the soap and start soaping her and I up. She just stands still doing nothing. He stripped down and had the largest area of fuzzy grey pubic hair all over both thighs too. He comes into the shower and is careful not to look at us, just like she is not looking at him. We all shower in complete silence then I go get our towels and we wrap up. She and I brush our teeth and then head to the car while he is still in there. She was quite upset with me when we got in, not to the point she was going to yell, but that she was giving me the silent treatment. The next day was fine, and we could see all the RV's and vehicles in the campsite. Amazed only the one man came in. After many years we've only laughed about it and told the story to one other couple friends of ours when we were all drinking together and pretty much never spoke about it again as though she has tried to forget it. |
My wife doesnt shy away from communal showers at all. We have been to nudist resort communal showers. Whats really cool is we used to frequent a pool/rec center and several days a week the college swim team practiced there. It was a great time to check out smokin hot swim team gal with killer ass and legs. My wife is bi and enjoyed them very much as well. When we leave for he showers she would often get in there same time as the swim team girls. Shes very casual about nudity and some of those girls were prudes and change fast but some were comfortable to have a good extensive group shower while visiting and she would make small talk with them. Shes close to thier age. She would mention which ones looked good in the shower and what their nipples and crotches looked like.
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Meeting the family
A couple of years ago, the wife and I returned to my small hometown to see my family over Christmas. My sister, wanting to keep up with some water aerobics exercise she had been doing where she lived, convinced my wife to join her for a random class at the local YMCA.
After the class, busy in conversation and not knowing the setup there at all, they got naked under their towels and walked through to the shower area expecting their own private stalls. My wife described being greeted by about 15 mainly elderly ladies completely naked in an open communal shower. This was all they had there so at that point they were left with no real choice but to hang their towels up and join them. She told me her and my sister REALLY got to know either well that day! |
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Apparently there's a popular wedding destination in Mexico that has a two-person open shower where the bridal party gets ready. Some brides and bridesmaids have gotten to know one another a little better.
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Well, she took to it pretty fast also - and a bunch of older women naked in the showers. So much that the three of them went buck naked to the women's sauna, then back to shower off after. I have to say, thinking about the three of them naked does get my imagination going. |
Greek Islands
I seen it first hand that on the greek islands, especially the campsites. Many showers were communal. I haven't been there in a while. Regardless, some european chick will change into their bathing suits right in front of you, even while conversing.
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Nudist Resort Shower
Over memorial day weekend my wife and I went to a nudist resort. We have been to a few before but this time was a bit unusual.
In the evening my wife and I had been in the pool and my wife says she is going to take a shower and I told her I'd be right there. When I got over to the shower there was my wife and another couple showering. There were 4 shower heads. My wife was on the far right the couple were in the middle two and I had to go to the one on the left. The 4 of us naked from head to toe. We were all soaping up and making small talk. I'm getting an eyeful of this lady showering right next to me and no further away than about a foot or so. It was exciting to watch the other gent getting an eyeful of my wife too. This went on for a few minutes. We said our goodbye's and the wife and I went to our room. What made this awesome was the nudity and just how close the four of us were during this shower time. I hope to have this experience again. |
The more "rustic" nudist resorts tend to have a more convivial attitude when it comes to nudity and coed showers. At my fave resort it would not be uncommon for there to be 6 or 7 people showering at the same time. You could tell the newbies from the veterans; as the newbies would typically be showering facing the wall and washing self-consciously, while the vets would be facing each other, taking their time lathering everywhere and chatting at the same time.
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Sturgis Showers
We often go to the biker rally in Sturgis. The last time we went, the showers at the campground were unisex. My wife, who was somewhat shy at the beginning of the rally, was quite at home with showering with males and other females after the two-week rally. She was O.K. with stripping totally nude and washing and shaving all body parts by the conclusion of the rally. Truth is that the males outnumbered the females 2 to 1 in the showers, but she was still comfortable with it. We are going back to Sturgis again this year, and she says that she will have no problem with shower nudity. It is all what one is used to. I am glad she is now over the nudity thing. There are some guys that like to strut and profile in front of the girls, but most guys are just happy with an occasional glance at the wet, naked shower ladies. It doesn't bother me for them to look, because I am glancing around at the other ladies myself. It is all just a part of the Sturgis biker experience. As long as she doesn't screw them, I don't care what she sees or shows.
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Co-ed Showers
My wife and I have been to 4 different nudist resorts. Each one has co-ed communal type showers. I usually go down to the showers with her, but she really doesn't care one way or the other whether I go. It is a turn on to see her shower with other guys in the room. She really doesn't hesitate while there to scrub her privates as needed either and carries on conversations with the guys and women while showering. And I must say that I also enjoy the views of other women showering a foot or so from me. Anyway, my wife is not bothered in the slightest by showering nude with a roomful of guys only several feet from her. She walks to the shower naked and returns the same way. She has come a long way from her initial shyness.
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So, last weekend, the missus and I had a pre-planned trip to Belgium where we intended to visit our favourite nude spa. A week before, her older sister turned up on our doorstep as a ‘surprise’ visit from Oz. Not wanting to miss our Belgium trip or any time with her sis, the SIL was duly invited to come to Belgium with us.
After a day wandering and seeing the sights, I queried what they wanted to do the following day. After being met by silence, I suggested that we go to a spa and both agreed. The next morning, we met for breakfast during which the SIL said she’d need to stop on the way to the bus stop to pick up a swimming cossie. We told her she wouldn’t need one at which point she asked if the wife had a spare. When we told her they weren’t allowed, she was taken aback and said she needed to think about it. Cutting a long story short, she came with us and it was a bonus to be allocated three lockers together which meant undressing next to two sisters. I left them in peace after stripping down myself and went to the communal showers. I deliberately chose the middle shower so when the wife and sister came in, they had to stand either side of men whilst they showered giving me full and clear views of their tits and cute pussies. |
With New Year’s Resoltuions in full swing, curious if anyone has any new stories? Maybe someone signed up for a gym they didn’t realize had communal showers. Or maybe more awkward family experiences over the holidays.
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One of my wife's favorite things: showering with others
I have written about this in my long article on being a nudist in the 1970's and 80's on OCC already, but to my lovely wife who is now in her 70's, the great value of communal, both-sex showers is soaping each other up. At the 20+ nudist clubs we visited around the U.S., if she saw others in the shower, she would just go in and make herself at home. Almost every time, another person would ask if she would like to have her back washed, and she agreed, offering to do the same for others. If no one offers, she would. Once the soaping was started, she would suggest they do her legs--which almost always included her bottom, and would then turn around and ask if they would do her front. Since they had done her, she would do them. You can offer subtle hints on what you want. If they are doing your lower back, you stick your butt out and ask if they would mind doing everything.
Sex? It depends on the privacy. If it is more than you plus one or you and another couple, the soaping up is very normal, but actual sex is unlikely. If you are alone with only one or another couple, just look for signs of what they are comfortable with. She has been felt up thoroughly, including being fingered, with thick foam making it less obvious even in crowded showers, but the chance of a blow job or intercourse are nil. She has given handjobs often, especially to younger men, or older men. Most of the nudist men in their 30's to 40's are there with partners. Funny, if she is soaping them up and they guy gets a hard-on, she thanks them because the erection is easier to wash. Her enjoyment of group showering has lead to when we meet with old friends at our home, their home or even at a hotel or resort, she will invite them back to our room for a shower. Often, if these were nudist friends or good local friends, she would remind them of how much she enjoyed the communal showers and misses them now. Then they might say, let's do it again. One last thing. Showering frequency varies, of course. But if you are using the swimming pool and have sun tan lotion, you need to shower before getting into the pool to wash off the lotion, then again when entering the pool to wash off the chlorine smell. In an active day, you might shower 6 or 10 times so the chance of having a shower partner are much higher. And, since the showers are wide open to anyone to see who is in there, you can pick and choose who you are showering with. Women and men alike do great jobs of soaping, too, although I have never been soaped up by a man. Her best soaping was when she was about 30 and two boys maybe 15 came in the shower and she offered to soap them up, and then they reciprocated. Any "hard-core" soaping/ showering stories are in my nudist thread, no need to repeat them here. Finally, most nudist clubs have multiple communal showers, near the pool, of course, but often near the residence areas and near the other exercise facilities. |
university
When I was in Uni, the girls at some of the sport groups joined the guys in the mens sauna after training.
They wore towels in the sauna, wrapped up, but after a while you get really hot that way, so you have to go shower and cool down, and you can't very well do that wearing a towel. If you'd excuse yourself at the same time, you'd get to shower with them naked. This happened a few times after judo training, if there was a party afterwards some of the girls would join the guys for a beer in the sauna. Also, for a while the girls at swimming training had the same practice after friday training, until some daft dude complained! Oddly enough, when I went on exchange to Germany I also trained judo and swimming, but this didn't happen even once. |
Korean Spa
My wife likes to visit a local Korean spa and the protocol there is for everyone to shower before you put on the traditional robes and go out into the co-ed areas of the spa. The showers there are open stalls and you're required to be fully naked in the showers, saunas, hot tubs and therapy pools. My wife and I are long-time nudists so that's no big deal for her.
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Broken showers
I work as a system engineer at a school. Last year the complete staff had some kind of in-house teambuilding day with lots af (sporty) activities and a concluding dinner/buffet. After a long sweaty day of silly (but fun) excercises it was time to hit the showers and get dressed for the buffet and drinks. But it turned out that the showers in the female dressing room were broke. Since all the excercises took quite a lot longer as planned, time was running out. So most of the women joined us men in the showers. Quite some ogling was going on from men and women alike. For me, it was quite nice to see my female co-workers naked. Some of them I rather would not have seen, but most of them were quite pleasing for the eyes. :)
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Scuba diving rinse afterwards
About 12 years ago, my wife would have been 55. We were diving off of Key Largo on a chartered dive. Following the dive my wife wanted to shower as we were going to dinner with friends who were also on holiday in Florida. The folks at the dive shop told her it’s around her back and just a hose surrounded by packing crates. On the other side of the crates were hoses on the ground for folks to rinse off their dive gear.
My wife announced that’s ok with her and off she went with her towel and a change of clothes. Soon followed by several guys including myself to rinse off our dive gear. Jill is 5’11” and 36C. Long legs and has always sported a full bush. Needless to say she’s not shy and loved having the guys watch her. |
Communal Showers as well as Locker Room
I haven't posted in awhile but was checking out the experiences and had one that was relevant to this post. Last summer my wife and I took a trip to a European country to tour and see old castles. On a couple of occasions our accommodations for the evening were at a high end Spa Resort. We were in a Mountainous region which was know for a lot of hiking and had many people there doing that. One of the off days from touring we decided to try out the facilities and relax by the pool. upon check in we were pointed to the locker/dressing room and found it to be mixed gender. My wife is somewhat shy and I could tell that she was a little startled at this finding. My wife has pretty large heavy breasts and large nipples which she has always been somewhat self conscious about. When we arrived it was mid day and although the pool area and spa were very crowded, there were only a few people at the lockers changing out of their clothing. We also noticed that they didn't change into swimsuits and instead grabbed their towels and headed to the showers to rinse off before heading outside! My wife mentioned that and I looked around and noticed a sign with two figures wearing swimwear and a large circle slash over it. We should have anticipated this knowing the region that we were in but we had kind of decided to do this on the fly with an off day. At any rate, we stripped down and held our towels in front of us as nonchalantly as possible and made out way to the showers which were mixed gender. Upon entering there was an older couple rinsing off who smiled and nodded at us which was reassuring and likely heard us speaking English. We quickly headed out and luckily found a couple of lounge chairs together since it was pretty crowded. My wife immediately laid down on her stomach so she could cover as much of her nudity as possible lol. I reclined and began to read and enjoy the warm sun on my completely nude body, which felt amazing. It was pretty warm and soon I was hot and knew that my wife had to be since she usually cant take the heat as long as i can. I asked her if she wanted to venture into the pool and she slowly agreed despite here reluctance. As soon as we made our way into the water and my wife noticed that nobody batted and eye since they are used to this, she loosened up and we relaxed in the cool water. After returning to our chairs she adjusted the back of her lounge chair and sat there reading like me. I have to admit the idea, and looking at her completely exposed with her large breasts and ample pubic muff was making me feel the blood rushing to my private parts. Ever so often a bit of a cool breeze would touch us and I would glance over to see her large nipples stiffen as she continued to read. As the afternoon wore on the pool area began to clear out and as luck would have it, the older couple who were in the showers when we arrived took seats on the lounge chairs next to us. As I glanced over the man smiled and laid out his towel on the lounge chair next to my wife with his wife on the other side of him. They were older and seemed well versed in this environment so I didn't really give it another thought. I dozed off and was awoken a few minutes later to my wife talking. The older man next to her spoke broken English and the two of them were talking as he worked in the same field as my wife. I sat there listening laying on my stomach alternating between cat napping and listening. When I opened my eyes slightly the older mans penis seemed to be semi hard which i was sure I was imagining lol. As I watched it became obvious that he was getting erect as he sat chatting with my wife. She seemed so caught up in the conversation that I figured that she didnt notice, although how she didnt would have been difficult! after a little more of this it was getting later and the pool area was clearing out so I suggested we head back to get ready for dinner. As I was gather up our stuff towels books etc, I glanced down and our new friend sitting next to my wife was not only fully erect but also had an enormous drip of precum on the head of his penis! As we walked toward the changing room I casually mentioned to my wife the their conversation must have been pretty stimulating, and we both laughed so she knew what I was alluding to.
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Last summer we stayed at a few hostels as we traveled through Europe. We’re older than most hostel folks burnt we didn’t mind. At a couple of places, the shower rooms were coed and we’d go in either together or a couple times separately. Not sure if the bigger thrill was me seeing the 20 yo females naked or watching the younger guys look at Jen
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shower in hostel
When I travel I always stay in hostel. I found many communal shower both unisex and coed.
One of the best was in Spain. The shower room was very narrow with four shower stall closed with doors. The doors were closed with old and broken latches so the doors kept an open gap of one inch inside the stall. The stalls were very small and you should hang the towel and clothes outside the stall. To simplify, there were stall but everyone could see you showering. Moreover, it was super hot summer and everyone took more than a shower a day. One afternoon I found the four shower occupied and a girl around 20 waiting. I waited in line too. From my place I could see a curvy girl showering without caring of me. After some minutes a door opened and a guy took his towel and walked out. The girl in line in front of me quickly removed her shirt and bra and bent to remove yoga pants and panties in one move. She was facing away from me so I could only see her back and ass. There were no other waiting in line so I moved to look inside her stall. She had nice tits and a quite shaved pussy. Then another shower got free and I jumped inside. While a I was showering three girls around 20 came to check shower availability and stopped in front of my door gap. I was facing them with a hard erection but I was keeping my eyes in other directions. They watched me for some seconds that looks hours for me and they they left. |
Communal shower
The wife was taking swimming classes at a local college. She described it as basically being communal. Each shower area had small dividers, but was in a larger communal shower area.
I would say she was self conscious about it. Her being in her fifties and the majority of the women there where college students. The whole shower situation is what got her to start trimming her pussy. She noticed that the majority of them where clean shaved or trimmed to almost nothing. She felt her full bush made her stand out and look old. So since then my wife has been keeping her bush trimmed :D |
College service trip
I stumbled on this old thread, and it reminded me of a lovely experience I haven't thought about in years! I was in college when Hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans, and I was one of the many college students who signed up for an "alternative spring break" to volunteer rebuilding homes there. The conditions were very sparse; we slept on cots in a big warehouse, ate yogurt from big tubs for breakfast, and had PB&J sandwiches every day for lunch.
Part of the cheap conditions was the shower area. There were three stalls side-by-side, and volunteers were instructed to take 30-second showers. Now, I thought that was ridiculous, but I still tried to go as quickly as possible. The whole point was to save water in a disaster area that needed all the resources it could get. Now, the great thing about these shower stalls is they were built with wooden slats dividing them. I was thrilled one morning to be in line next to a girl I vaguely knew from my college; she went into one stall, and then I was assigned to the one next to hers. By pressing my eye up to the crack between the slats, I was clearly able to see her naked body as she got ready to shower! I can still see her ample boobs, her delicious bubble butt, and what I now know was a birth control patch(!) on her leg. Again, I had to be super fast, so I only allowed myself a quick view. But I can still see it in my mind's eye nearly 20 years later! |
In the 70's we went water skiing every weekend with a group, 4 couples, 2 boats and a lot of fun. Afterwards we all went out to eat together, but the problem was the state park where the river was, had minimal accommodations and we needed to rinse off the river water to get dressed. There was a shelter with one open hot shower, no walls, at first it was ladies first while the guys waited back in the trucks, but by mid-summer, all day drinking beer in the sun, numerous swimsuit malfunctions, things loosened up, except for one couple, everyone just stripped and showered quickly. It wasn't a big turn-on, we were starving and quick.
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