What have you been able to get or teach a girl/So/wife to do?
 

What have you been able to get or teach a girl/So/wife to do?

Maybe she hadn't done it before, or it was something you liked especially, or maybe you got her to do it regularly instead of only occasionally. Did she take to it immediately or took awhile. Now enjoys, or just does?

In my case it was expanding her comfort zone from missionary/doggie to wot, toys, oral etc. She basically took to all things which increased out closeness. It did take years for her to get to liking cumming in her mouth, but that also got added to her top skills, more really on her own, but now it is quite common and she enjoys.

ZackDay and I must have had the same basic inspiration, same day.

His thread on when she began blowjobs
https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/showthread.php?t=220791

The first thing she does regularly now is squirt. I found out by accident she is a squirter. We had been fucking for 15 years before I slipped out of her pussy after fucking her hard from behind and she squirted. She told me I was too big for her to squirt while inside her and her ex told her it was nasty so she stopped. Now she squirts from oral sometimes and she'll even push me out of her while fucking so she can squirt.

The second thing she does more now than she did is anal. My wife is strange about anal in that she doesn't like lube and doesn't prep. For the first 10 years we were together anal was a once a year thing, kinda like a present for me. Then I introduced her to anal beads and vibrators and while I didn't get to fuck her ass much more than before she liked having her ass played with more to where she would request the anal beads. From then on I would finger her ass while licking her clit and she gets off hard from that with the added bonus her is already warmed up and I know if I'm going to get dirty that night. Now she gets her ass fucked once every couple of months.

I told her that I had a dream of her just holding a towel in front of her while there were 2 cable guys over. She sent me a picture and asked like this. Kind of but you showed more:eek: that lead to her sending more and more pictures to me. Needless to say I'm very happy about this situation:D

I taught my fiancée how to give a proper blowjob. She sucked at it (pun intended) when I met her.

I can't say I "taught" my ex to be nude in public; I merely encouraged and motivated her. When I met her the idea of being naked in front of other people was preposterous to her. Fast forward a couple of years later and you could see her at a nudist resort completely naked, walking around talking to people; or lying by the pool with her shaven kitty in plain view of everyone.

It's really all about building up their confidence. If you make them feel good about something, they're more willing to step out of their comfort zone and explore.

So true. And not just confidence in themselves, but sufficiently confident that "you" [BF, husband, the instigator in chief] willl not then hold anything against them for actually doing something new once the thrill of the moment has passed. Not just in the light of day but, depending on the relationship, also further down the road. Both have to be in place or many will not "risk" stepping out of their comfort zone. There has to be some level of trust that whatever will not negatively affect the relationship.

Absolutely. I spent a lot of time, care and energy "building up" my ex to try social nudity. When she finally did it; I was thrilled. But then she decided to run with it and take it further than I'd expected. She started shaving and being really relaxed about lounging around with her legs open. As I saw other nudists "enjoying the view" between her legs, at first I was like: "Wait a minute! That was not what I was trying to get her to do!" But then I had to do a reality-check, and come to terms with the fact that she was now doing it "her way", and not mine.

The same concept can be applied to sharing/swinging and whatever else "alternative lifestyle." If you instill in her the confidence to step outside of her comfort zone, you have to be ok with her doing it or taking it to a level that's more pleasurable/comfortable for her.

She taught me
 

Emma
 

Probably not everyone's cup of tea but something I love.

I've always enjoyed rimming Emma as part of oral sex on her. Usually with her legs held high so I can access all of her. I love the feel of my tongue pushing inside her anus and the way she opens up. Especially if we then have anal sex.

We talked about it and she did say that she loves the feeling of me doing it to her, I asked if she ever thought about returning the favour on me but she said she wasn't sure she could.

As we continued to have fun over the next few weeks I noticed that she was starting to pay more and more attention to my anus. Beginning with a finger against me when sucking my cock and then her tongue going a bit lower and lower as she licked and sucked my balls.

Eventually she took the leap and quickly licked my anus. Which did feel amazing. When she realised it had the same feeling on me as it did on her. She was happy to keep doing it. Although she doesn't tongue fuck my anus in the same way that I do hers.

It is now part of our sex life and we both enjoy it.

Absolutely, every single chance I get!


(Admittedly that's not much these days.)

Barbarella, the missus, has enjoyed many an adventure nude on a beach or at a hotel window/sliding door or on a balcony. And as long as she is worked up and in the right frame of mind, she's up for it (that's my most important job - to make sure I've been able to put her in a position to be in that mood). It always makes her feel sexy and turns her on even more. But she's never taken the bull by the horns and done it of her own volition.

Until recently...

We were engaging in a bit of spring time shenanigans in our 10th floor hotel room that overlooks the water. It was around 4pm on a perfect day and the sheer curtains are closed, allowing sunlight in and somewhat of a view, but nobody able to see in. It was a twin room and after some foreplay and fun on the far bed from the window I moved Barbarella into a doggy position looking directly out the window/balcony glass sliding door. I stood behind her and continued the fun. She loves this position as she enjoys light SM play, so hair pulling, butt slapping, face pushing etc can happen. After a few minutes she reaches over and pulls one of the curtains open a bit (it was a really small room - no more than 20 centimetres between the bed and the sliding door).

At this point I was impressed. She's never done that before. I would either just do it or tell her and she'd nearly always comply (a few times I've got it wrong!). Little by little she opens the curtains even further until they are fully opened. The sun was coming directly into the room, so there was no chance that it was darker inside than outside. The sun was illuminating everything. There were some people in the water (It was a super low tide, so the water had actually vanished and people were walking around exploring the shallows) and if they looked up they for sure could have seen as the balcony guard railing was all glass.

This was great I thought until she says tells me she wants to stand at the window/glass sliding door. We pushed the bed back enough to give me space to be able to enter her from behind and I push her up against the window. At this point anybody walking below or exploring the shallows only had to look up to see Barbarella pushed up against the window with her hair back, tits and pussy on view and arms up holding the door on either side. She could see the people below and it only made her more turned on. We must have stayed at the window for a good 10mins until her legs could no longer hold her up and she was quivering and needed to lie down.

Barbarella has always enjoyed nudity in these situation and when she's excited she wants people to look at her, but this was the first time she'd actually taken the lead in doing it.

I was taught
 

I had a one night stand teach me Ass to Mouth. I met him at an event to honor a war veteran. He was a nice guy. Then we ended up hanging out after this all day event and ended up at my house. A few drinks led to making out, which led to foreplay, which led to sex, Which led to hardcore anal fucking. After his dick was in my ass, he pulled it out and said, “Eat it b*tch”. I sucked him dry, swallowed his cum and then he left. This guy taught me Ass to Mouth.

I've gotten several ladies to squirt, they said for tge first time ever. The all had cum at least once, from fucking, oral or fingering. Then deep g spot massage. Never had a lady who hadn't already cum squirt. It takes patience, but they all seemed to enjoy it.

When did the hype of chat roulette start? I got my wife to dress sexy and teasing some strangers on chat roulette - but without her face in it. It was funny, how many man were willing to put their dicks out for her within seconds.
I believe she liked that thing but never did it again.

Delicately getting naked
 

I've been a big fan of getting naked outside for years - ever since i started streaking campus back in college.

I can't quite remember how it came up, but when I was dating my now-wife I decided she needed to know this about me if we were going to get serious. I mean, at some point she was going to wonder where I'd been when I decided to run the neighborhood naked in the middle of the night!

We talked about it over a dinner out and I told her how I really hoped she didn't think I was weird for loving getting naked outside in public places (but not being caught). She assured me she didn't think it was weird and everyone has their own thing. She even agreed to maybe trying it some day (be still my beating heart).

On the way home that night, we were almost to her apartment and I said, "If you wanted to try some driving naked, your almost out of time." To my surprise she started taking off her top. Needless to say, I turned around quickly in the parking lot and kept the drive going. She saw how much her being topless excited me and decided to get fully nude in the car.

Needless to say, we got back to her place and had amazing sex. For several years after that, when we were out and had some drinks she would routinely start stripping in the car and ask, in a lovely sultry voice, "care to join me?" and we would drive around naked with her either giving me oral or me jerking.

She's toned it down in recent years as she's gotten less fit than she was and, as she says "we have more to lose if we get caught." but those were some damn great years!

There is definitely something to this last part.

My wife used to get ME to do things (imagine the title of this thread being reversed) and we thought nothing of it at the time other than having so much fun. Nothing wrong with anything we did, but the risks were insanely high. But that was almost 20 years ago. Now days, though, we have waaaaay too much to lose over something really dumb and not worth it, so we don't do much.

Their First time
 

I taught 5 woman how to take it in the ass, 6 if you believe my wife. :)

With cameras everywhere, smartphones everywhere and social media, it's definitely getting more difficult. I look back on some of the things I've done with past GFs and my wife and I can't believe some of the stuff we actually did. And I'd say it's tame in comparison to others.

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Similar to Karlhein, I taught several ex sex friends how to find their g-spot and then the ensuing arched back, screams of sexual pleasure and sometimes squirting would, er... flow.

Nothing quite as sexy as a woman with a finger or two inside her pussy totally arched up moaning heavily as she massages her g-spot.

Interesting thing is, I didn't even know it was the g-spot. I'd just found out by accident early on. It was until years later with the advent of all the sexual blogs and columns on the internet that I actually realised it was the g-spot.

My wife and I joke about this all the time. For example, we will be sitting on our swing in our yard with her legs on me, and I will be up her skirt massaging her inner thighs with her panties possibly exposed to the other backyards, or I will be down inside her bra massaging her chest, and we will say how for some people that would be the wildest thing they have ever done, but for us it's just another evening after dinner!

A few years back, I was casually dating a nice divorce MILF. She was a redhead, a little physically worse off for having born 3 kids, but with nice round pink nippled titties and a full red bush. She was fun, interesting to talk to and was responsive when I made a move. She loved to french kiss, adequate but not great at giving head, and fucked with enthusiasm, but couldn't quite cum. Between the lines, I got the sense that she very rarely ever came, and since her divorce (I was her 3rd lover since the divorce) had not cum. We had been together 4 times. I had seen a porn site when a guy sat between a ladies legs, and rubber her pussy, marked by her asshole winking when she came. I was curious uf it really worked.
So, we nade out a bit, wound up naked, and I pushed her up on her kitchen table. Pulled a chair up, and said "lets try something". I pushed her legs apart, and began touching her pussy with my forefinger. Now I had fingered her, and earen her, but I had never really watched what I was doing. She asked what I was doibg, and I told her just to relax and enjoy.
I spread her bright red pubes and began robbing up and down her slit. As moisture emerged, I spred her lips and rubbed my finger around her clit. This webt on for several minutes, and she got wetter and wetter, and her cliile clitty got more and more swollen. I would penetrate her with 1, the 2 fingers, but the go back to rubbing her inner lips and her clitty. I could hear her breating harder, and feel her back starting to arch. Fairly succenly, she got noticeably wetter, and her asshole started to wink. This wen on for maybe 45s, the she sort of collapsed, abd said,"wait, wait". Shit, I haven't fekt anything like tat in years. I kissed and stroked softly, then began to repeat the process. The result was the same. We did this 4 times over abiut 20 minutes. Just before the fourth orgasm, she yelled out for me ti fuck her. By thus time, I was very hard, abd very glad to pish my cock into her. I didn't last long, and she convulsed around me.
It turned out that this was her first ever multiple orgasm. To say she lijed it was and understatement. It became a regular feature of our lovemaking. Of course, with her asshole winking, it wasn't long before my fingers pribed there as well, and eventually told me that she qabted my dick there.
Si, at least for her, this "watching myself finger her" was a very effective technique, and with a pretty, very wet, red bush, it was visually appealing.

Did this with the GF a couple months back when covid stuff was starting. She'd tease a guy until he'd cum, typically not long, then move on to the next lol. It was a pretty good time, we had great sex after, but same as far she's never brought it up again so I haven't pushed for more.

What site was it?
The wife hasn't been online for several years now and I'm guessing it has all changed. I'm assuming the sites are all different now. The site we used to use never showed the other person/people, but it showed how many people were watching. Her best was over 2k. She never showed her face, so it was body only, but she used to do it with the sound on and would really let go. She was often reluctant at first, but once she started and got into it, she would really rev up and the sex after was always the best.

We didn't do it often though, it was a special occasion event. probably 3-4 times a year.

Helping my fiance understand that she's a submissive sl*t (and that its okay).
 

My fiance is beautiful, open, fun, and independent. When we met she had only been with 4 or 5 men, only one of which was a multi-year relationship.

A month or two into having sex with her, I began testing her boundaries - wanting to see how dirty she was comfortable getting. I started by gently pushing her head into a pillow while fucking her from behind once. Another time, as she gave me blowjob, I held her ponytail and pressed my cock into her mouth just a bit further.

She didn't say anything after those two incidences, but it was clear that she wasn't sure what to make of them. Don't get my wrong...she loved sex, but it was more like holding onto my back during missionary sex, getting pounded, and yelling things like "fuck me harder!" Sex like that was fun for our first few months, but it was a little vanilla for me.

Eventually, I decided I needed to up the ante a bit.

One night we watched a movie and had a lot to drink. I started fucking her on our couch. After she was revved up and sweaty, I slowly brought my hand from her right tit and up to her neck. I softly grasped my fingers around it. She paused for a moment, and looked up at me with big, vulnerable eyes. She seemed slightly confused and scared.

...Oh shit, I thought. I let go and immediatly said, "Sorry babe, I was just caught up in the moment."

She looked at me and softly said..."It's okay...I mean, if you want to."

I smiled and put my hand back around her throat, squeezing a bit harder this time. As I did, I could feel her pussy fill up.

Now we were getting somewhere.

As I fucked her deeply and slowly, I whispered in her ear..."Do you like being choked hunny? It's okay if you do, I'll be gentle."

She whispered into my ear, "You love me, right?"

I said "of course I do."

"Then yes," She said, "choke me."

This act was the beginning of my fiance understanding that it's okay to be an independent, tough leader in her personal life -- and extremely submissive in the bedroom.

Over the next few months, I eased her into several different different acts. Today, she's nothing less than a full-fledged submissive sl*t for me. Here's a list of what she enjoys now.

- Now, she only ocassionally wants me to say sweet things to her. She much prefers phrases like "you dirty fucking wh*r*." and, "my personal little fucksl*t" during sex.

- She begs me to choke her. She especially loves this when I'm on top of her. She says it's because she feels so overpowered by me, but still safe. She also says that she thinks the first time I choked her (the story above) was such a turn on for her, that she's able to revisit the feeling of letting go for the first time.

- She loves being spanked. Often times, when we are changing positions to doggy style, I'll grab her by the pony tail, and spank her ass until it's red. She'll squeel so loud, I sometimes have to reminder her of the neighbors.

- Speaking of which, she really enjoys having her hair pulled. Specifically, she loves it when I grab her by the hair and lead her to a different room. This one is extra hot for me too.

- My personal favorite...and the reason I'll never, ever break up with her (besides the fact that I love her, haha), is that she absolutely LOVES being face fucked. I can't tell you how much of a joy this has been for me. Usually, I'll take her by the hair, make her kneel in front of.a mirror, and I'll fuck her throat like it's her pussy. But the physical sensation isn't even the best part. The best part is that she knows I get off on her gagging and making gurgling sounds. She loves it since I love it, and she loves serving me, so she's constantly gasping for air and choking on my dick.

So yeah! I don't know if any of that qualifies as "teaching" as much as it is "revealing" to her who she's always been sexually...but needless to say I have it pretty good.

Groom and Bestman
 

A few years ago when we were regularly in the "lifestyle" and going to our favorite Adult Club we hooked up with a guy. Since my wife like him we exchanged emails. The next day he emailed telling me how much fun he had with my wife and how sexy she was and hoping to met us again.

We chatted a little and he said his friend was getting married and asked if my wife would be interested in giving the Groom one last fling before marriage. I told him I would talk with her and get back. After some discussion she decided she liked the idea of being the Groom's last piece before marriage and ' "kind of Hot". My wife said I should work out the details but just let her know when and how to dress. So it was set that my wife would do both the Groom and Bestman in a local motel but I would be would tag along for her protection and watch. He then asked if the Groom's Men could have a chance with her. I worked it out but didn't tell her that part.

The Bestman had worked out for her to be the entertainment. My wife had agreed to go but she thought she would only be fucking the Groom and Bestman. She didn't know about an hour into fucking her and having her nude with a guy between her legs and spreadout on the bed that 6 other guys in the wedding was planning on joining in on the action with her at the motel. One of the guys told his wife, shit hit the fan and the guy cancelled 1 day before the meet. That would have been a fun time. They were planning on taking turns fucking her all night.

Knowing her and how "Hot" she thought fucking the Groom would be and our lifestyle at the time I knew she would have had a great time. To bad the guy told his wife.

I would love to party with her!👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👅👅😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

Opened her asshole
 

Others had been in her pussy before me, but I am the one who took her ass cherry.

I started slow by playing her asshole and eventually sticking a finger in. When she was more comfortable, a second finger went in too. Took a few times before she agreed to let me try it with my cock. We don't do it often but every once a while with plenty of lube.

Once I had a vibrator in her pussy then I went into her asshole. The vibration came right through her walls and I could not hold back to make it last. Tried a small vibrator in her asshole while I fucked her. Talk about a vibrating pussy. WOW!!

She has grown to like to have her asshole play with while I fuck her. Besides just penetrating her with my finger or fingers, I curl my finger tip to work on her asshole from the inside to open her up.

Only DP her with me and another dildo or vibrator. Wish we had try DP her with another man. I think she would have enjoy it. May even airtight after that. Anyway, her asshole was all mine.

My wife has may more experience than me so maybe it is what has she taught me.

She has taken to a bit of exhibitionism, posing naked in the woods for pictures and exposing her self ... way more than flashing ... to truckers on road trips. She may have had this urge already as when we met she wore skirts without underwear.

I am 58 years old. I have been pretty much single since I was dating age when I got my drivers license when I was 15. Over the years I have gotten many different women to do many different things. From swinging, going out in public in a dress with no panties, to flashing my friends in a bar, to wearing cum on her face in public and more.
But one thing that seems to stand out among all is, there have been a few women that said Anal was off limits and refused to even talk about it. But eventually got them not just do it but love it.
One example was, when I was 21 I was dating this 18 year old catholic girl that was adamant about not doing anal and that she wouldn’t even talk about it. Once I was fucking her real hard missionary style and as doing so, I reached around and started rubbing my finger on her asshole. She tried to move out of the way but I continued to fuck her real hard and she just didn’t have it in her to make me quit.
Just as she was cuming I shoved my finger into her asshole. Afterward she halfheartedly acted as if I done something bad. I just joked with her telling her she came so she liked it. The next day I was fucking her doggy style and I was hitting it pretty hard. As I was doing so I put my thumb on her asshole and was just rubbing it. She said stop but I didn’t and she kept moaning and groaning and was getting close to climax. Just as she was cuming I shoved my thumb into her ass and kept on fucking her. She screamed and came hard and fell on the bed breathing hard and shaking.
When she calmed down and was able to talk, she said I hate to admit it but I liked that. She said it made her orgasm more intense. I said it is time to talk about trying anal now. She said ok. After talking to her about it a few more times and teaching her that this was something that needed to be planned so we don’t make a mess. She should do an enema.
Back in the early 80s the only lube I knew of at the time was KY jelly. After her enema and came to the bed. We had a vibrator and I told her to put it on her clit. I lubed up her asshole as she masturbated with the vibrator I lubed up her asshole and finger fucked her asshole. She had a small orgasm. At that point I lubed up my dick real good. I put my dickhead at the entrance of her asshole and I told I will not push and for her to get into the vibrator and only push on my dick when she felt like it.
As she got excited and was bucking her hips, I kept the pressure in her asshole. I felt the head enter her asshole as she was bucking and having orgasms form the vibrator. Before long, my dick was half way in. At that point I said OK I am going to fuck you now.
She was so excited she couldn’t say anything. So I stated slowly and I could feel her relax. I started pumping in and out slowly and going more and more deep. Before long I was going in and out of her asshole all the way and she was cuming over and over and to the point I started to cuming inside her asshole.
After it was over, she said, I like that! She said it with enthusiasm. I said to her any time you want it just ask me. To which she said I will be asking a lot. And after that day she did. After that day it seemed she had an obsession with anything anal. She wanted me to go to the video rental store and rent a porn dedicated to anal. There was not much to choose from in those days but we did. Then she started to lick my asshole when she was going down on me without me asking or suggesting it. Almost every single time.
One day we were making a bet one time. I cannot even remember what the bet was but I do remember her saying the loser has to tongue fuck the winner’s asshole. I then said I don’t care if I win or lose. She said I know! With a smile in her face. One night we were drinking with some friends (another couple) and we all decided it was time to fuck.
My girlfriend and I was in the bedroom and our friends were in the adjoining room with the door wide open. She said out loud “FUCK ME IN MY ASS” I know they heard her but I didn’t care. I laid down on my back she got on top grabbed my dick and shoved it into her ass. No lube, no slow going, She just crammed herself down on me hard. She was screaming an orgasm in less than a minute. Afterword as we were all getting up and getting dressed and talking to out friends, as the friends were leaving the guy said, did y’all really do anal? I didn’t say anything and she said with enthusiasm YES! Her girlfriend said Ill never do that with a snarl in her voice to which my girlfriend said I used to be like you until he taught me how and now, I prefer it in my ass over my pussy.
I hated that the two of us split up because she would have been one of the few girls I would have wanted to stay with forever but that is for another conversation. But I can say I taught her and/or convinced her to do anal and she absolutely loved it.

What have I gotten her to do? Be independent. Enjoy sex for sexually pleasing herself. She now understands that her feelings, her desires, her fantasies, her sexual desires are hers to own and none of them are wrong. That's probably the most important things I have taught her. She is a better sexual partner now. Luckily, she shares them all with me.

I have been taking it for granted, but for many years I have been able to get my wife to talk about the GOOD things she misses about her ex-boyfriends, sexually. She kept resisting and saying she left them for a reason and that they were terrible people (which I get; I had an abusive ex-wife), BUT I tell her to remember the FUN and sexual parts (I had a few fun moments even with my horrible ex-wife).

So, I have been able to get her to vocalize the fun things she misses, and does she ever love it. Everything from calling out their names to re-telling some stories in great detail. She has amazing orgasms that way, dozens at a time.

When she is in middle of the orgasms of her life, she asks me if it's okay, I tell her yes, then I have great orgasms, too.

I think it's because her entire life everyone thinks she is a super prude, frigid, etc, but even her best friends have no idea some of the things she has done. :) They wouldn't believe her if she told them anyway.

How about Jack Shit! After 30 years I got head twice. Not to completion because it was so bad. One, I said one, HJ to completion. Which was more me masturbating than her jackin me. You would get more response from a sex doll. She dislikes screwing as well. always did.

I guess I am lucky - The first time we fucked I heard - "if you want that "thing" in me you have to do it yourself! After that, she could not get enough cock.
We graduated to oral sex, with her even having orgasms when she sucks me. She learned to like being naked as we drove, and masturbating as I watched.
We have tried anal, but it is not her thing, although at times she likes it. She rarely sucks me off, because she wants to feel her c*nt being filled.
We have tried the swinging scene, but she just likes to watch and be watched. She has eaten pussy, sucked other cocks, and one time at a clothing optional resort, she invited the guys in the rooftop jacuzzi to eat her. She quickly came over their faces.
She is always game for something.

nudity
 

I think the main thing I taught my wife to do was to be comfortable naked. She came to me with some pretty strong hang-ups due to strict Catholic parents. I found out pretty quickly that there was a passionate woman begging to be set free. It wasn’t but a few dates over a few weeks and she was partially, then completely naked around me.

It took a couple of years of dating and then marriage before she started allowing me to strip her in the presence of others. She took to it like the proverbial duck to water. She discovered the freedom of being naked with others and according to her, looked forward to being seen.

I could have written this almost verbatim, except replace "Catholic parents" with "Asshole first husband". He really did a number on her self-esteem. She was finally able to move on from him, and had an awakening with me. Now sometimes she's crazier than I am! :D

Same here. It took quite a bit of work; convincing and encouragement. And a few trips to nudist venues.
She started out by just going topless. Then she decided to go nude; but only while swimming or tanning. After some time, she decided to go for naked walks with me around the resort; but only if there weren't too many people around.

Then finally one day, she just decided to stay nude for the entire time, after I encouraged her to "give it a shot." Once she got comfortable with everyone seeing her completely naked, she never turned back. She now gets naked as soon as we arrive, socializes and participates in activities without any concern about people seeing her in all her naked glory. Heck, she even misses it if we don't do it for a while.
She'll still argue with me that she doesn't consider herself a "true nudist"; but her level of comfort and enjoyment spending the day naked around other people says otherwise.

Taught her how not to be a starfish. When we met in college my wife had a handful or so of partners before me. Several jock rowers that were mostly full of themselves starting is HS and into her freshman year of college and a football player. Moving on to a liberal arts upperclassman cruising the frosh bait. And finally, a bible thumping Christian Crusades for Christ peer. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with being a conservative Christian male, as that described me to a point.

From me she learned that she too was supposed to and could have an orgasm during sex, something she says never happened before me.
Intercourse can last more than five minutes.
She learned that she is multi-orgasmic, that coitus is a lot more fun if there is foreplay and she gets lubed up.
She found out that performing oral sex can be fun and empowering, and now enjoys giving a blowjob.
Foreplay can be just as good and even better than sex at times.
I helped her to deepthroat, and play with the glans, shaft, balls and perineum. She has never really gotten into rimming although it does occur when she has been drinking.

She has gotten into sheer bikinis to excite me as visual foreplay.
And more into revealing clothing like burnout tees and tops to let her nipples pop.
Yoga tights and short a size too small, to accentuate the toe.
And other clothing that might give some peek-a-boo action.

And sex in risqué locations with people around.
Personal portable cabana on the beach next to an amusement park.
Near the boardwalk.
Resort pool at night with other couples around. Late night at the resort next to the pool. And the open space between the condos at the resort.

My wife didn't learn from me, but from Watching!
 

My wife was the first women / girl that did oral on my cock on the first night we met in a BAR. I was told from 2 other guys in the BAR that she was Great at oral and let them cum in her mouth and she would swallow it.
So I got introduced to her and it was just what I was looking for in a woman to do, let me cum in her mouth and have her swallow it too cause none of my other GF's went that far~
That was a Good thing, but I have to say she was just normal on dong the oral with just going Up & Down while waiting for you to cum.
It wasn't till we now had the house on our own and talked about trying to add some new Spice back into our going dull long married life. So we both agreed to giving sharing a try and with the help of playful neighbors that go to all the Adult Events we got to met up with many wonderful people!
This group has what they call Theme Party's, so those invited know what to expect and how to dress for the occasion or not dress? lol
One Party Theme was "How to give the BEST oral to your guy?".
This party was new to us and there were 8 couples there, some married some just BF & GF too! They had a round circle of chairs for us to sit in with only a Single chair in the middle! They also had a drawing to find out the order of Who goes 1st and the rest that would follow! The Rules were simple too, the guy sits in the center chair with his other half in front of him. She does her Best oral performance on his cock from the start all the way to the finish!
Everybody in the outer circle sits and watches, I can say its not easy trying to watch while your all NUDE and not get a erection just from watching! lol
Then after their done the next couple does the same till all the couples are done, then comes the part that I loved the most. When its all done the guys are able to pick out a wife / GF and have her now do the same on your cock and this is done all at the same time now so things get more busy!
You can keep on going and picking out different women for doing your cock, or have your favorite doing it over again! The other thing that I enjoyed is the more that I have done, the harder these women have to work to get me off again! lol
But getting back to the beginning, my wife got to see just how these other women would make use of their hands or mouth and lick everything or even finger your asshole too! loll
My wife added more improvements to her oral style and makes use of her tongue and sucks the Balls as well as licking the entire shaft too! After going home and talking about what we done and went through, I was surprised that my wife didn't have a sore mouth or jaw from all the cocks she sucked on and enjoyed plenty of cum too.
My cock was RED and Sore from being greedy and trying to get them all to do mine, but it was a learning moment and if you go to any party's this would be a great start up for them too!
Thanks, ;)

Being from a conservative area of Indo-Pak subcontinent, achieving even small things mean alot to us. Children here are taught that sex is a taboo and something not to be enjoyed. My wife was a virgin at the time of our marriage and haven't had even a boyfriend before our marriage although I had enjoyed the company of a few girlfriends. Over a period of 15 years of our marriage, I have taught her to enjoy:
1. Vaginal sex with extremely intense orgasms.
2. Oral sex. She enjoys getting it and gives excellent bj but she gives occasionally.
3. Anal sex. This she loves so much that she literally begs me to rim and fuck her ass.
4. She learnt to express her desires and fantasies and enjoys roleplays.
5. She now enjoys to remain nude whenever possible but only infront of me.
6. The best of all is that she now enjoys peeing all over me, except my face, although she still won't let me pee on her.

We are still learning new things and I hope one day we could visit a nude resort and do swapping.

Pretty much everything
 

My wife always considered herself somewhat adventurous. We were friends for a long time before we ever dated, so she knew that I was very kinky and liked doing bdsm type of stuff. So when we finally did start dating, she informed me that she was okay with bondage. She had been handcuffed by a prior boyfriend. That was all. I taught her all about safewords and those rules, and to keep me informed on what she was and was not okay with, and I'd ease her into it. So I introduced her to being tied up in different ways, different positions, spread-eagle, hog-tied, for extended periods of time, etc. She came to really enjoy it and was very-much on board with exploring the submissive lifestyle a lot deeper.

Eventually we started getting into her being a submissive anytime we were alone together in my home. She would take her clothes off when she arrived and remain naked until she left. She would follow commands. It took a little training, but eventually I got her to start calling me "Master". Then we worked our way up. She would refer to me as "Master" when we texted back and forth. She would capitalize any word that referred to me and make any word that referred to herself in the lower case. So instead of "I'll see you tonight" she would text "i'll see You tonight." This actually happened so frequently that she once accidentally texted "thanks Master" to a friend of hers, lol. She was very embarrassed, but she thought it was really funny and he brushed it off as some weird auto-correct mistake.

We worked our way further into her submission. I would text her when I was almost home, so she could greet me on her knees at the door. She would ask for my permission before doing anything, including having to go to the bathroom. I would spank her, sometimes as a punishment, and sometimes as foreplay, and she learned to say "thank you" after each spanking.

I had key words I would say. Like "mannequin" and she wouldn't be allowed to move or speak until I gave her permission. "Pet" and she would get on all fours and would act like a dog, and bark until I allowed her to be human again. It was extremely immersive, and she really enjoyed it. This went on until I got laid off from my job and we ran into money issues. She needed to work more and I needed to bring in a roommate, and so the Dom/sub fun had to end. She still brings it up that she wants to do it again when we're by ourselves, but we haven't been in the financial position to do it ever since. Hopefully soon. I taught her a lot, and it'd be a shame for all of that to go to waste.

Planning to teach her not to hurry up doing blowjob, I do not know what is the reason of this behaviour