How long does it take to get your women to orgasm, and in what way?
 

How long does to take to get your women to orgasm, and in what way?

Some might take 30-40 minutes and some just a few, in general of course, an individual can vary. For a particular lady did you find you and she had a preferred way to get to cum?

I've been with a few who couldn't orgasm through piv and we used oral and vibrators. So for them that was their main way. One lady would be 20 minutes, with occasional 3 minutes for orgasm, and another 5 minutes pretty regularly.

Her first orgasm of the night takes the longest, anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes and then from 3 to ten minutes for successive orgasm. It took around 2.5 hours for 23 individual orgasms. This leaves her exhausted sweating. This is a combination of Oral, Penile, and Digital stimulation. I will usually have two or three orgasms. She has squirted only a few times in the past but now squirts regularly.

Orgasm time
 

Tell you the truth I like to draw it out as long as I can and many times I’ve withdrawn just before she’s ready to come. It’s funny to see their expression and it a guarantee for further

I have found that my wife can lose momentum and not reach an orgasm for the session.

Orgasm time limits
 

My wife also loses momentum but on restarting picks it up .but she will plead,” please finish me “, a turn on. I like to be in control and let her know it. Makes her more compliant

When we are alone it usually takes her about twenty minutes. When we are with friends, she can sometimes take up to an hour, but when she starts she can keep going.

The sure fire way to get my wife to orgasm is to settle in for a nice long licking session of her sweet little Pussy making sure to nibble the lips and gently suck on her tiny erect clitty!

My wife takes less than 10 minutes when I’m between her legs licking and sucking. After her first orgasm she “needs my cock” in which she cums again within 2/3 minutes. After that I usually pull out and lick her sensitive clit until she has a mamouth orgasm again and then usually has one more when we start really fucking

Quick
 

My wife cums very fast during sex. She can get her first orgasm within 2-3 mins and usually has multiples. Now it can take up to 20 mins for her to cum from oral.

Always been too busy to time it, but I think it takes about 4-6 minutes (with a vibrator) for her first orgasm. If she has a second, it'll happen with another 2-3 minutes, followed by pleasant (but decreasing) 'aftershocks'. After that, she's done for the day. Back when we were more active, she MIGHT be able to cum again the next day, but it wasn't likely.

She's been that way for almost 40 years (it took a few years for us to figure out how to get her to orgasm -- at first, the only way was with a shower massager. For years, the only good way to get her off was with a vibrator; I've gotten her off only a few times orally, and almost never manually. She's never cum from intercourse, and the only time she did orgasm during intercourse was with a vibrator.

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If racing to an orgasm is the goal, my wife can usually hit it around the minute mark using warm running water with little pressure.

My lady can orgasm in about 20 seconds - which makes her the envy of all her friends whenever they have sex discussions.

I'm pretty sure I've written on here before about her 'talent'. It has lead to a few unusual quirks in our sex life. For one, a pretty common kinky thing I do is to 'forbid' her from cumming for a time during foreplay or sex. This leads to her scrunching up her face and visibly concentrating on holding things back!

A second thing: she is often the one who wants sex to end. If sex passes the 10 minute mark (by which time she'll have orgasmed about 15-20 times), she often asks me to hurry up an finish!

@ 3 minutes orally usually. Sometimes though, she just never gets there at all.

About 5 minutes, and only with light caressing of her clit. She absolutely hates it if I try to make her last longer.

3-5 mins each time.

Pretty quickly
 

If she's already in the mood before we start, she can orgasm in 15-20 seconds from my finger on her clit. If I do oral, it's about 30-45 seconds. We rarely try to do it that quickly, however. A more common time frame is 1-3 minutes oral or finger.
If we're having sex, it depends. Sometimes 1-2 minutes, but sometimes not at all even in all of her favorite positions.

Audience
 

The surest way to get my wife to cum is to fuck her in front of an audience. We have done this many times, and she goes ino a trance. I am delighted I married a complete *****RUDE TERM REMOVED*****.

When she finds the dress she has been coveting on the sale rack 60% off, about 2 seconds.

grits
 

I forgot about the shower massager. About half the time she cums in less than a minute, sometimes at first splash!

Anybody here old enough to remember the 80's comic Andrew Dice Clay? He had a short career compared to most, but he had one joke that was his trademark IMHO.

How long does it take for a woman to have an orgasm?
Who cares!

Am I hearing a set of groans from the members here?

Been with my wife for 14 years and we've been having sex for nearly 18 years. We were both quite experienced when we got together and both know what works for each other. Id say 10 mins or so if its intercourse, quicker if there's extra stimulation on her clit. If its just my tongue then id say about five mins on average. Having kids, we quickly worked out how to have a quickie that satisfies us both

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