Christmas Present
 

My wife said she wants to do something special for Christmas this year. She offered up anything I want sexually for 24 hours. Which she would do anyway, generally speaking. She clearly wants me to spend some time thinking about it and to push the envelope some.

If your significant other made such an offer, what would you choose?

In a heartbeat
 

I would get her to dress sexy and we'd go to a bar where she would pick up a guy and bring him back to our hotel room. He could do whatever he wanted and I would document the event

But between you and me that ain't going happen with my wife for many reasons.

I'd like to blindfold my wife and have a her suck some cocks while I filmed it.
We could watch the video after and see what she thought of it.

Careful
 

Mrs. Grits here::

Careful boys???.... When a woman ONLY offers sex to you for any holiday/birthday gift... it means she dosen't respect you and dosen't want to bother spending her money on you because you're not worth it...... sooooooooo the easy & CHEAP $$ promise of SEX is as low as she can get to give you that... especially if you're easy/desperate enough to go for that kind of "nothing" gift...

Now if she gets you the power dril & golf putter & I-phone you REALLY really want , ,, then the SEX thing gift is part of the big respectful picture you deserve!!!

What did you get her??.. do you think she would accept just SEX from you??.. lol..... If you don't get her the material things she wants $$$$$$$ you're a bad hubby/boyfriend.....

So why would you settle for just cheap no respect sex as your gift ??..... THINK..

And WHEN did sex become so special, its a gift??..(except for those who can't get laid). ------ ----oh, I forgot, prostitute sex is a gift . pay$$$ sucker!!

Mrs Grits is bang on with what she said so take heed gents.

She's full of shit - the OP never said this was his only present from her, just hat she wanted to do something special for him. Dunno why the gritz are so judgy, but they got up in arms for no reason this time.

I gotta agree that is the wrong attitude. It might be different if it's just a blowjob or something like that, but she's essentially giving him the keys and letting him go wherever he wants. That is a real present.

What would I do? That's tricky, especially this time of year, because getting a little exhibition would be fun, but the cold can kinda kill that, though her wearing a long coat would not be out of place. Might hit an indoor mall, or a large store like IKEA.

She doesn't like cumshots, so the opportunity to at least cream her tits would be great.

Best would be taking her to the local swingers club. Strip her naked, blindfold her, parade her around, bang her in some of the public spots.

I think the Grits misread the situation entirely. This isn't my only gift, there's no withholding anything. This was a reason for her to get me to push the envelope some. So maybe back it off a notch or two? Thanks.

I'm not inviting third parties into this deal (well except for this post, I guess). This is dress sexy and give it up territory, probably do something in public, something like that.

I was thinking of reenacting something from our past maybe. That seems like the easy road though.

Well no actually she was way off, but thanks for your opinion.

We've actually done this a couple of times!

My lady is into exhibitionism, but on her terms. Read some of my other posts for examples.

So, I have always taken the chance on these occasions to, as you say, push the envelope. The first time she stripped naked in a hotel room at night time, with the lights on and the curtains open, was from one of these 'gifts'. :)

Mrs. Grits
 

What??..... I am not referring to Mechboy or anyones thread in my TRUE statement... get w/ the reality program here??!!!??

If your wife/girlfriend is not ALREADY on a daily basis giving you the keys to sex?? .. WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP DO YOU HAVE!!???!!.....

Sex as a gift is a no respect-- got you by the balls--- cheap excuse to not bother getting you anything.. as stated above as I put it....

If you think SEX is a great gift ??... then you're really not having much sex are you??....

Holt Shit!!.. is this whats out there in men?? ... or should I say --"pussy wipped men"......??!!!!!!!

I'm glad I found a real man, not a desperate pussy wipped man..... and he gets the keys to sex EVERY SINGLE DAY... its never a gift. What kind of selfless bridezillas are you married too??

I'm sorry to hear those above responses,,, I didn't think it was that bad out there..... the demasculation of men...

Mrs. Grits
 

If you want// or need , to settle for "nothing", then do so..... enough said,,, there is no arguement from me...

I've said my peace in hopes to help you guys see the light..... but some are wearing blinders... enjoy.

This...
 

...is exactly what I was going to suggest. Wait with the lights off for the right chap to walk in your direction, then turn on the lights and put on a show.
For plausible deniability she can walk around the room with a towel, pretending to be drying herself after a shower. Or, if she really likes the lucky guy and wants to show herself more, she can sit on a chair and apply some lotion on her legs, which will need to be open and with the knees pulled up. ;)
Of course, you need to get a room facing the street with a big window, better if floor-to-ceiling.

In fact, this is giving me ideas... I think I'll try to set up exactly this situation with my lady for the Christmas holidays.:D

Bahahahaha emasculated? WTF are you talking about? Mrs. Grits, you don't seem to understand, nor do you seem to want to do so. Have a great day, please don't post in this thread anymore. Go find someplace else to play.

I agree completely. Those special gifts are usually meant to create a "special" moment for the spouse/partner. The wife/GF "pushes" herself a little bit further to make her partner happy. It doesn't always mean you have an otherwise shitty sex life.

For me it's usually my birthday. Two years ago, my fiancée she asked me what I wanted for my B-Day. I said all I wanted was a trip to the nude resort. With the added caveat that she "really" gets naked in front of everyone. It wasn't her thing, but she planned the whole day/trip herself, made the reservation and shaved. She not only got naked but showed the whole beach her kitty. She knew it would "make my day" if she spread out in front of everyone.

I'm a simple man; I don't need to some real kinky stuff - as I get that at home anyway. My fiancée is a closet exhibitionist, and for my birthday, I simply asked her to be a full-on naked exhibitionist for a day. So she stretched herself a bit to make me happy. Nothing wrong with that.

Mrs Rabbit
 

Rabbit, you couldn't have asked for a more personal, sexy present than what you wife has offered. Can't imagine all of the scenario's going through your mind at the moment. Here she is, your wife, offering you her body, soul and mind to do as you please. Her sole intention to provide you extreme pleasure - at your whim.

And to think grits's and his pseudonym's materialistic demands of a woman has to do with power drills, putters and an IPhone without a second to think about this incredible present your wife has offered you. And since you have requested his silence, I hope your responses are full of positive suggestions.

If you have a moment or two, I would be honored if you PM'ed me. I do accept friend requests and would happily respond. After all, my life is based on a true story - stuff you just can't make up.

Disagree
 

I have to respectfully disagree with you and MRS GRITZ. Don't buy me "stuff". No. Give me time. Give me moments to remember. Give me yourself. Give me excitement. I can buy (and usually do) buy all the "stuff" I want.

Make my day the most memorable day of my life. THAT'S what I want! And a new fucking drill ain't gonna do THAT!

Mrs. Grits has said in the past that a big part of here enjoyment of the Special Friend and Swinger occasions is the pleasure and satisfaction she is giving to her husband and friends as much or more than her own personal pleasure.

If this sort of enjoyment is available frequently and at will it would seem that there is not much, "special", anymore so perhaps an occasional exception of Mrs. offering something Mr. likes but can't get himself or regularly from others would indeed be a very welcome gift.

Anyone, including Mr. Grits, can easily anytime go buy himself a new drill or other toy. Indeed most men know what they want and put out a shopping list as the wrong drill just isn't going to work right.

What I truly appreciate is something unique, surprising and pleasurable from a loved one that I can't do for myself. If it's from my wife, sexual and pleasurable for her in knowing I will love it, that's just more frosting on the cake.

I think I am settling on visiting a college town nearby and getting a room. There's a home basketball game over break. Then I think I'll doll her up, go to the game, and see what happens after that. She might like to suck on some college cock

Mrs. Grits comments
 

What a bunch of Misogynist whiners. Mrs. Grits offered a woman's perspective on the subject of sex as a gift, and you dumb-asses, mansplained how you know better than a woman, what women do. LOL. Yes she may have miss that the sex wasn't the only gift, but he never said it wasn't, I thought that's all he was getting too. Mrs. Grits, thanks for your insights, and thank you for all your sexy post, too.

RE: Mrs. Grits comments
 

Really??? Are you serious??? Mansplained? Misogynist?? Get it right, pal. The "gift" was for a male. It was a male's perspective on a gift. And, if you read my previous post, you may see that it was not gender specific. Nor, does it need to be sexually specific.

Calling people Misogynists, whiners, and dumb-asses for stating their views on their wants and desires? I hope the best thing your significant other gives you is a drill. Be happy with that. You truly deserve it.

#smh

Awesome reply.

This thread just gets more bizarre by the day. Stoops.

In an effort to keep this thread on track, Ill pose a question. I am mildly interested in seeing her done by a college guy. That is a very hot fantasy for me. I often fantasize about going back in time and fucking the tits off of her at age 19-20-21. She is an extremely hot fuck at age 47.

I wonder how to dress her to attract attention from that age group. When she dresses up for me, when we do the stranger in a bar thing, she is dressed sexy but age appropriate. I think that might be intimidating for a 21 year old. I was thinking of dressing her in a tight t shirt, a fringey hem denim mini skirt, tights and boots. At 5-9 and 140, she can easliy pull that off. But would she be more likely to attract attention dressed in a tight skirt, black thigh highs and heels? I wonder about that. Would she be too intimidating?

I am also concerned about a 21 year old having the balls to fuck her properly with me watching. That seems unlikely. I fucked a few milfs at that age but think that being watched would have weirded me out. Thoughts?

I can't speak to the fashion question so I won't. On this second one though, I'd say you're right. Gotta be very few college guys who'd be up for that situation. Recording the whole thing might be much more doable. Doubly so if he gets to keep a copy. ;-)

Seeing her done by a college guy
 

To me, nothing is sexier than a woman in a thin, flowing, low cut, black dress with nothing on under it. Simply irresistible!
As far as a 21 year old willing to have sex with her in front of you, at that age and horny, not much will stop them after being turned on by her. LOL You might have her be courageous and ask some admirer to dance a slow dance with her and allow him to feel her softness in his arms as she presses her body into him. BINGO! Game on!!

Thanks this is all helpful. We have talked about my fantasy in the past, I'll need to give her the green light ahead of time, and both of us will need to take it slowly. I guess I don't know if she would want to be watched or videoed either. If I'm not there, then its not as much like a gift for me. Hmmm.

I know that she will need the guy to make the first move however. That is why I'm concerned about her being not intimidating. The MILFS I fucked at that age made the first moves. She isn't the first move kind of girl at all.

I think now I might just plan this night for me to take her to a college bar and fuck her. If someone else wants to fuck her, we can deal with it then.

Yes you are at least partially correct in that she at least in part wants to justify some behavior by my consent or asking for it, something like that.

Update?
 

Did you settle on what your present was to be? Have you received it yet? :)

Hope you were able to convince her to do something sexy and fun! And you captured it all in photos! :D

I thought about this alot. Sometimes I really wanted to see her boned by someone else, other times the thought made me feel hollow. I decided the risk wasn't worth it. I told her I wanted to do my 80's fantasy in the summer sometime, so that is coming up. More to come on that.

In the meantime however we had an interesting experience over the weekend. We went for an overnight trip back to college. Got there in time to check in before the game. She dressed in jeans and a white blouse, over a black and white floral corset with a matching v string. Black thigh highs and black suede ankle boots with spike heels. black leather jacket over all that. After the game, we went to O street and ended up in the Haymarket at a live music event. T went to use the bathroom and when she got back she told me that a guy had grabbed her ass/lower back and sort of maneuvered her into a corner where he proceeded to tell her that she was the hottest woman in the place, he'd love to take her home, that sort of thing. She claims she told him that he was very flattering but that she wasn't interested. She was flattered for sure.

We left shortly thereafter, went back to our suite and boned for hours.

Never understood this as 'fantasy' or the whole cuckolding thing. We're all capable of affairs, I guess, in the right circumstances and straying happens. But I really don't get the willingly watching/knowing/being told after you'd set it up thing at all.

I couldn't work it all out in my head to be a positive thing, glad I decided as I did. I am jealous of the guys who did her back in the day. I would love to go back and do it myself. There's no way to turn back that clock.

No. Most women had a life before we came along, and ditto us with other women. That's life. Affairs could be part of life too. Beyond that...nah, don't see the appeal, although plenty have that fantasy and if it works for them...

I should clarify. I am not jealous of them. I'm envious. I don't mind that they did, at all. I would have and would love to. Better yet, I get to. Still. Anytime.