Who taught your wife or gf to fuck?
 

I love thinking about my wifes ex boyfriends and lovers and have no issues at all with jealousy.

I have a theory that in a girls sex life there are boyfriends or randoms who help them learn how to give great blow jobs and generally learn how to fuck

In my case Beth got off to a good start with the guy who took her virginity. He just used her for a casual fuck but he was good at sex and gave her a great start. After a few one nighters and short term relationships she had a boyfriend who was lot more experienced and really liked sex. They went on holiday together and had a lot of sex and by her own admission he taught her what he liked and how to be good at different parts of sex. A little while later she had a fling with an older guy who also gave her some good lessons - including the pleasure guys get from seeing a girl masturbate in front of them :)

The end results was that by the time i married Beth in her mid 20’s she was a nice, confident fuck who enjoyed sex. Therefore, I’m really grateful for the guys who taught her how to fuck.

Do you guys out there know who taught your wife or gf to fuck or did you have to do it yourself?

Interested in how other guys see this

I did...every time.
 

I have been a swinger for 33 years. I just had my 49th b-day. My first threesome when I was 16. and I was hooked to the lifestyle. I was always aware of it, being a snoopy kid with a father who had a modest selection of Hustler and Penthouse mags to learn from. During the 70's and 80's every magazine had articles about what women want from a sexual partner and how to please them.

I have been married 3 times, and between marriages had long term relationships (3 to 8 years each) where we lived together. I typically always preferred women older than me, but there is a middle age mark where you begin to look for younger. I have dated white, Latina, African-American, and Korean. Only the Korea was educated in the various sexual arts. She explained that it was common in her family for the women to teach the younger generations, mostly via advice and some exercises. However, I had to teach every other woman, despite the number of past lovers or age.

From being a life long swinger I just want to add this:
Men need to be taught how to have sex. Not from watching porno. Most men that I have seen are extremely limited. I refer to them as boys in men's bodies. It is unfortunate that boys grow up jacking off to porno then think that they know how to be a good lover. But their poor women suffer from never having orgasms. That is simply a sad state for all man kind.

Sex Ed should teach more than simply how to put a condom on a banana.

My ex-wife fucked lots of guys before we met, but she wasn't really good in bed while we were together. She coasted on her perfect legs, amazing nipples and sexy lips. After we broke up, she was with 7 or 8 dudes, but mostly had a relationship with one young guy. When we got back she fucked like never before. He turned her into an insatiable sex machine. She rode and screamed. It has been incredible. So I guess she learned a few things.

I had to teach my wife how to fuck. She found out she was a squirter before me and also found out she could get off from anal but I had to do the rest. For example, we were fucking around in my mom's front room one day. We started on the couch and I had her bottoms off but for some reason we stopped. She started crawling across the floor wiggling her ass back and forth as she went so I got behind her, grabbed her by her hips and started licking her pussy from the back. She never imagined I would do something like that. Plus, before me, her version of foreplay with her ex was naked wrestling until she let him stick it in.

interesting! I think maybe a lot of pretty girls slip into being ‘starfish’ girls because guys are so grateful just to fuck a pretty girl. It takes someone with higher expectations to get them properly into being a good fuck

She would say me, and she would be right. The desire was there but she says it took me to put it all together for her.

I'll be honest...
 

I'm still waiting for a man to teach her how to really fuck:)

My girlfriend had sex with two of her ex-bfs. Both of them were older than her (10+ years older); so they knew what they were doing.

She was an expert on giving handjobs and blowjobs, because she loved to suck their dicks. However, because she was quite young, she didn't have as many opportunities to fuck with them (she had to be home at certain time, hang in public places, etc); so they only did it a few times.

As I said, her exboyfriends were older than her, so they tried to do crazier things than those that she was ready to do and she stopped them on the spot. When her second bf tried to stick his dick into her ass, she got mad at him because at the time, she thought that anal sex was something than only hookers did. And so many other things that she stopped them from doing.

When she started dating me, I took very small steps to convince her to do crazy/er things; and she agreed to push the boundaries from time to time, until now, when she does really crazy and kinky stuff. Anal is quite vanilla for her now!

Now, as I was writing this; I thought about the things that I would have loved her to have done in the past but she didn't:

1) Having sex without a condom. I love to picture her vagina filled with another man's cum.
2) Taking nude pictures together (even having sex). I would go crazy watching them.

My wife had sex with 4 ex boyfriends but the one who taught her how to become a great cocksucker was John, who she practiced on almost every day. John would also take her cherry and for 3 months would fuck her pretty much every day before she found out he was cheating on her and she ended it.. She says his cock is still the one she loved the most as it was perfect compared to the other 3 after. I was the 5th guy she ever fucked.

That sounds great, how old was she was her first boyfriend took her virginity? did she take to sex straight away or did he have to give her time to get used it?

Everything according to her (and approximate, of course): she was sixteen when she started dating him; and the guy tried to make a move from the very first day (he was 26 at the time).

As every teenager, she was easy to seduce, so she would jerk him off or give him head after a few weeks of dating (and she had done it before). After 2 months, she left him see her breasts, nipples and a glimpse of vagina, 4 months into the relationship, he could see her completely naked and a month later, full sex.

She says that her first time was very painful and the guy wasn't careful at all, I think that was the reason why she didn't let him do crazier things later on. They broke up when they were 9 months into the relationship.

My wife isn't forthcoming about too many specifics. I know about how she lost her virginity, but I don't know with whom she learned to give blowjobs, other than her saying she decided she'd better try because the guy was willing to go down on her. Turned out she liked it.

The one story I did hear was the first time she orgasmed during sex. She'd get close, but never could get over the top. One time when she was getting really close, her then-boyfriend grabbed her hair and pulled. It shocked and surprised her so much that she came instantly, and hard. The trick apparently hasn't worked since, but it did open the door for her to be able to orgasm during sex (though not always easily).

Wfe
 

I just hope my ex's current guy appreciates all the hard work I put in getting her to loosen up. :p

No one had to
 

I was the first one to have sex with my wife, but she was a natural, high libido and orgasmed the first time.

Wonder what percent of women cum their first time? I dated on when I was a student, I wasn't her first, but she was a very multi-orgasmic screamer, a true joy to be in bed with. She said that she came the very first time she fucked.

My wife, Beth, had a good first time. She was 19 and the guy was a bit of a player at her university. He just used her for a night out fuck but knew what he was doing and she liked it straight away. She didn’t cum with him insde her but he got her off with his fingers afterwards so all very nice for her. I think a good start is really helpful for girls to get them in good place about learning to fuck

The first time I fucked my wife, she was a virgin. She told me if I want to put that "thing" in, I had to do it myself, because she was not touching it. I asked her later if she came, and she told me she did not know she was supposed to.

She has developed into a multi orgasmic screamer. She loves to suck cock, and when I eat her she has to close the windows so the neighbors don't call the cops.

Jeanne
 

At least 9 guys had my wife before we met and I'm sure that each of them taught her a "Little Something". I am glad they did because I got the benefit of all her experience! :o)

She looks amazing, it must be great for you to know that she had fun with guys when she was in such great shape !

ukgoldfish, you are so right about the "starfish" girls. It definitely was one of the reasons I left her after I began to cheat. But now, you would never even believe the difference. It's like a spin workout where you cum at the end! She even tells me about her with the guy

Sounds like you owe that guy a beer ! Has she told you what he did or said that her snapped her out of ‘pretty starfish’ mode?

yeah. he was a 29 year old former pro athlete who fucked her day and night instead of treating her like the mother of 3 kids. he opened her up to her sexuality. i owe him a lifetime of beers....

it sounds like he was exactly what she needed and now you get the benefit! I get the impression that Beth has a similar kind of experience with her boyfriend. He was used to pretty girls and definitely wasn’t putting up with a starfish. I think he used the holiday to ‘set expectations’ a bit - for example he was first to have her in the bum

I don't think D did that with him, but who knows?

Jeanne
 

The best part is knowing that they all had fun with her! She claims that she never used a condom in her life so all those guys got to make their deposits. :o)

I am totally obsessed with thinking about all of the guys who have cum inside D

i love thinking about the guys who’ve cum inside Beth as well, and the ones who made her cum!

I was lucky enough to meet one of her exes at our wedding and it was very horny knowing he’d cum inside her :)

I met the dude with the porn star wife at our wedding. I loved knowing that they had both fucked her

9 before you met. How many since? And how long ago since she fucked someone other than you?

all of them

I can't even imagine all of the guys who have cum inside her. Even all the ones since we split. But that's a LOT of cum

When I met D's ex whose current wife is a soft core porn actress, I was obsessed. D watched all of her movies while we were on their sofa. D fucked them both after I went to bed at their house.

Fredox, she has fucked at least 15 guys since we met. About half she loved the sex

Do you all think about how many dudes have cum inside your wife or ex? I was only kind of into the idea before we split. But after we got back together, it was an obsession. We talked in detail about it all the time. Wow. She got fucked a LOT

I was a Virgin and my wife then girlfriend ( we were ages 18 & 19 ) was my first Fuck , however , I was not her first Fuck and from what little she has told me there were at least 3 or 4 Cocks inside her before mine!

The boss
 

My wife didn't lose her virginity until close to the end of college. Her sister set her up with a friend of hers, they started dating and became an item. He was her first fuck, first dick she sucked and only one to ever fuck her ass. He was pretty vanilla, not much more than run of the mill missionary and doggie.

Her real education started when she began sleeping with her boss at her first job out of college. He was an older man in his early fifties, married and in lust with her. They would go on business trips together with their vendors. He would fuck her every witch way possible. bent her over couches, chairs, beds, balconies, you name it. She loved taking his bare married cock in her hot wet pussy. She was still dating her first boyfriend from above but was growing board of him.

Her married boss taught her how to suck dick and that she should swallow if she really wanted to please her man. This went on for about a year or so. Then one day, they were out to lunch and he asked her if she wanted him to leaver his wife for her. That just about freaked her out, she told him she was just in it for the sex. That ended that, she got a new job in the same industry, using the same vendors so she would see him on business trips or events. Never got in the sack with him again.

He did wind up telling some of the vendors what a hot fuck she had become and some of them tried to get her into bed. Some succeeded, some didn't.

My wife was sexually active before we met. I had a few experiences before college. When we met she was a born again Christian and wanted to wait until marriage before having sex. As with many couples we did not quite make it that far although I was patient waiting close to a year before getting past first base, although we started sleeping in the same bed after about three months. All of her experiences prior to our start of a sexual relationship were insert, Pop and snore. She says she never had an Orgasm from her boyfriends prior to our relationship. While she had some some oral experience she says that I taught her all of what she know now. She seems to enjoy giving blow jobs and swallows 95% of the time and if I come on her as the result of a blow job, handjob, or pulling out she will scoop it up with her fingers and lick them clean. She has learned many different positions for intercourse over the years and different hip movements during intercourse. She loves the feeling of my warm cum deep inside pussy, there are times when this can even trigger her orgasm.
She has even gone so far as to tell some of her girl friends about what I have taught her over the years. There have even been a few occasions where after a night of drinking that she has convinced me to let her girlfriends watch us and even stay in bed with us or help up us take pictures or video. When the wine was flowing along with the margaritas, she has had them join us and talked them through some of her favorite moves. She is still quite multi-orgasmic at 54 years.

Great posts ! I think it is often the case the girls learn most sexually from the boys they are least emotionally connected to. I know in Beth’s case that it was the short term bfs and occasional one nighters who seemed to expect the most from her sexually and got her to try and enjoy new things...

I wish i could buy them a drink to say thank you !

my ex was a total fuck toy. She had sex with 10 guys in the year we met, all without condoms. After we separated, her first dude and her would fuck at least 5 times a day. She picked up my phone call once when they were having sex. When she and I hooked up the first time after we started sleeping together again, she was so much better and more expressive. So she obviously got "taught"