Do you go on nude beaches as a couple? does your wife/GF actively look at cocks?
 

My wife has always been happy to strip fully naked whenever we come across a nude beach on holiday. I love this aspect of her - she is very comfortable in the nude and being seen nude. I find it especially erotic as she is a total girl-next-door-butter-wouldn't-melt back home. She's now 51, still got a lovely body, petite with 36D boobs, lovely large circular nipples, smooth pussy (there's a fair few pics of her on here if you search around). Anyway, point is that she has always enjoyed having a good look at the array of penises on display. She is genuinely fascinated (and probably turned on) by the range of shapes and sizes.

At first she used to be quite shy about it, but I could see her eyeing them up. Nowadays, she is quite open and will often comment by saying things like "ooh, he's got a big one", "there's a lovely todger", "wow, look how that one bounces about as he walks along" etc etc.

Anyone else's wife or girlfriend an active "cock watcher"?

Yep, in fact the wife and I have a game. She points out any big tits I have missed and I do the same for big cocks she didn't notice. I think most women at nudist venues are well aware of the cocks around them, although most are too shy to admit it.

We have been going as a couple for 20 years now. She really doesn't seem to take note of large penises. She does notice people with obvious implants, big hanging lips, weird piercings, etc. Or people who are naked except for one really weird item of clothing.

I have taken both my fiancée and my ex-wife to nudist venues. My fiancée to the nude beach; my ex to the nudist resort. And yes they have both actively "looked."

That's more like my fiancée. She "people-watches" more that "cock-watches." So she'll notice "peculiarities" as well; also like breast implants, "micro-penises" (which seem to fascinate her for some reason), and "hairies vs shavens" (whether she felt it looked good on them or not). She's very discreet about it though; and will only quietly make passing comments or save them for the end of the day.

My ex was much more the "cock-watcher." But then she was also much more of a social nudist and comfortable in that setting; and just generally more extroverted and brazen. When a new arrival would undress for the first time, she would point out if it was a "worthy" or "interesting" cock to look at. When socializing with nudist men, she would get a kick from them standing up while she was sitting down and their cocks being in her direct line of vision; or sitting in front of her with their cocks dangling in full view. If she enjoyed the view she would make a funny comment to me; showing her "appreciation." Or "lack thereof."
She wasn't restricted to cocks either. If a woman was shaven, trimmed or bushy, she would notice. She would also notice women who hid their juicy, and those that tanned with their legs open. She'd ask me my thoughts on it; and then share hers. It was because of these "discussions" that she eventually decided that she'd shave as well, and adopt a more open-legged stance at the resort.

Her philosophy about "cock-watching", especially after she started shaving and tanning with her legs open, was: "I know men look at my juicy; so why should I be self-conscious about looking at their cocks?!" A good philosophy lol!!

Totally true. Over the years I have "caught" many women at nudist venues looking at my cock. I only take exception with those that will look at my cock but then hide their juicy. It's just unfair lol!!

My masseuse and I at nude beach
 

I good friend of mine several years back who was also my masseuse and barber used to go to a nude beach in FL. Her husband would have nothing to do with going nude and my SO at the time didn't care if I went with her. With her being my masseuse and manscaper nudity was obviously no big deal.

We spent much of our time at the nude beach taking walks rather than laying down. She loved to check out and comment on every guy's cock she saw. She wasn't a size queen. She just like to comment how nice looking one might be, or how ugly another might be. She always wanted my opinion - asking me , "Don't you think that guy's cock looks nice?". I'd usually respond that I wasn't into guy's cocks, but hey there is a nice set of tits on that girl.

Many times she would ask me if her tits looked nicer that "that" girls tits. Of course I always said hers were better and she would have me give hers a quick feel. A few times a guy would be walking toward us with a semi or full hard on and she would compliment him on it and ask him if she could feel it. Usually the answer was yes. She would feel it once quickly then walk away and give mine a discrete rub. Once she got an ass chewing from a guy's wife for asking though.

The trips to the beach always made her horney and we would find someplace secluded. Crazy gal!

We go to our local nude beach
 

At first my wife wasn't happy about my seeing other tits and ads. But now she's better with it. We both look at tits and judge and make comments.
Now for her and cocks she wouldn't look but now she looks more. Not quite at the stage of asking to grab one but has mentioned certain guys are attractive.

Funny thing is we once had a guy taking pics of us and he went from limp to fill hard on. She didn't notice but I said he went to go jerk off. She didn't believe me but when we saw come out from the bushes he was really limp. She noticed then

You mean he was taking your pics FOR you? If so, that'd be me. I've mentioned this here before.... Give me a camera and a naked lady, or even lingerie and boudoir pics.... Instant hard on. I have no answer. It just happens.
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And yes, when cameras were a lot more acceptable at nude beaches, etc. I had to be really careful... If I'm taking pictures of another couple or female friends, I need to be forcing myself to think about buildings burning down and car crashes. LOL! A little "chubby" is OK. But it is a fine line between that and a "diamond cutter".
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the guy
 

At the beach I always leave her alone and go for a walk so I can go check out the others. As I'm coming back I see a guy in the brush looking at my wife. Make some small talk and I invite down to meet her. He pays her tons of compliments and we ask him to take our picture.
He takes pictures pays more compliments to her. He snaps a couple of close ups if her pussy and gets a hard on.

If he was more to her liking we could have played a bit but she wasn't into him. He was older and not her type.

I hope you can remember this guy and incident at those times you're not so pleased with your relationship with your wife - other men can and do find her attractive. Perhaps working with her more to nurture her understanding of that will lead you both to some sexier times and places! :)

Best of luck!

its these times
 

that actually get me attracted to her to want to touch her. Otherwise its a cold fish

Do you go on nude beaches as a couple?


Yes.

does your wife/GF actively look at cocks?

Not really. At first, yes, a nude beach is a different experience, so there's a lot of 'people watching' goes on. By her, by me, by everyone new to it. After a while nothing is remarkable any more, and focusing in on one aspect of people's bodies doesn't even occur much, for us or our friends. We've seen all there is to see previously, and we're rather more focused on having a good social time with friends who just happen to have no clothes on.

Not nude beach, but topless in Cannes. The European men wore, as my wife called them, "weenie bikinis", Speedos. Yes, she commented on their packages several times, she got caught staring at one guy and he winked at her. The blush spread down to her bare breasts.

Hanging out at the nude beach or resort and "people watching" can be a fun part of the nudist experience, as long as it is respectful and not uncomfortable for anyone. When you're sitting, lounging around without much else to do I would even say it is a natural distraction.

On the other hand, when you're a social nudist hanging out with some long-time friends, it's also quite natural to just focus on the socialization without paying much heed to other people's nakedness. The conversation and the friendship supersedes the nudity, so to speak.

I've experienced both; and have found them to be interchangeable. And sometimes the two even intersect; as in my friendship with one particular couple, with whom we were perhaps more flirtatious (although non-sexually). We could easily have more discussion-oriented time, where we would be solely focused on chatting; and, usually after a few drinks, be a little more "silly" and be more open about our appreciation for each other's nakedness. My ex received a fair amount of compliments about her nakedness, her decision to shave, and her curvy figure from our friends, which really actually boosted her confidence and comfort being naked with them.

So I think it's ok to embrace both aspects of the nudist experience; and even "walk" somewhere in the middle. Just MHO.

I don’t know about actively look but she does notice. She once said to me some of these guys ought to have stayed at home.

When she got flashed at by a friend and I asked her if she was impressed she said well it was quite long but a bit skinny.

We regularly go and spend a day at a naturist beach in the summer or any other random fine day.
She doesn't comment of men's cocks as such unless she sees something really unusual.
She's more likely to comment on women by way of comparison with herself, asking my opinion.

I agree. Conversation is key, nudity secondary, but that's not to say you don't look and admire. No different from looking and admiring a woman in a swimsuit.

I'm taking a female friend, first-time naturist, on holiday later this year. I may start a thread about this... :)

My wife loves seeing other cocks...
 

In the 1970's and 1980's when my lovely wife and I visited a couple of nude beaches and perhaps thirty nudist clubs/resorts around the U.S., there is no doubt she stared at cocks. A few guys, seeing her stare, began to get erect. If she was where she could respond by spreading her legs or reaching down to part her lips, a few times we enjoyed seeing his cock rise to full attention, and knowing what she is showing, I had a reaction, too. That sometimes lead to an introduction. I loved bringing guys over to meet my wife and she loved having a conversation while watching their cocks.

My favorite introduction, not related to this topic, was when I saw the UPS man staring at my wife who was talking to a lady friend. He stared so much, he nearly walked into a tree. I spoke to him, and offered to introduce him to my wife. He said he had limited time, but with a little encouragement, he agreed. I yelled at my wife to come over and she did, and UPS guy and I both enjoyed her walking without a care or a single bit of modesty toward us. They shook hands and he had a very obvious tent in his brown UPS uniform. He kept staring and told her she was really attractive and then he asked me if it didn't bother me that other men could see my wife's most secret places. I told him no, that I was proud of her. He again expressed how attractive she was, and that she reminded him of the most beautiful girl in his high school, and that's who he thought she was when he first saw her. He was fully erect and sweating when I suggested that my wife take him inside the lodge where we had one of the two bedrooms upstairs. They went on, with her telling him we had cold drinks, while I told our other friends that I would be back in a while. They had watched and knew what was going on. I heard the UPS guy tell her "I only have a few minutes". I laughed to myself because I knew he would be following her upstairs with his face only inches from the swinging crack in her ass.

When I reached the room, the UPS guy had his trousers down and my wife was on her knees examining his balls and jacking him too. He was groaning. I explained she didn't fuck anyone but me, and he said "I just have to get off---I am in pain". She sat him down on the bed and while stroking his cock, a nice sized one, she licked his balls and he groaned. Then she stood, walked to the other side of the bed and got over him in a 69 position. He began to tongue her wetness and she continued to stroke him. He shot up in the air, over and over. I thought it was over but she said not. She reached between her legs and spread her lips as far apart as they went, showing her very wet pinkness, feeling his breath on her. She demanded "stare at my most secret place---look at me. LOOK AT ME!! and he just said she was so beautiful and she began to cum, rubbing her pussy against his face and groaning.
I noticed he was getting a bit of a chubby as he stared deep into my lovely wife's vagina.

Back on topic, another way I knew she liked to look at cocks was if she saw an attractive male nudist far away or walking away from us, she would insist we walk toward them so she could eventually see their cock. If they got away like into their car or into their dwelling on the property, she would express her disappointment. And being a southern girl, she got a big thrill from a black guy seeing her fully exposed to his eyes, and had to see his cock. We saw some very modest ones and some that were really impressive that made her weak in the knees. We chased one African American guy at a western nudist club so we could talk to him, but that is another story. She was much more insistent on chasing guys to see cocks that I was to see naked women.

But she also had an appreciation for a well shaped male ass and would point them out if they were special. We followed one guy to a back corner of the area around the crowded pool. We laid our towel beside him and introduced ourselves. He was alone that day, he said, but his wife and family were coming the next day. She was sitting beside me facing the pool and others, when the guy said he was going for a swim. He stood and reached down to pick up whatever , a towel or something, and in doing so, his butt was close to my wife. She turned to face it, and to my surprise, and his too, she stuck her tongue in his ass crack and started licking, while reaching for his cock hanging between his legs. I looked around to see if someone would see but no one was looking our way. He just moaned and stayed still for a few moments, feeling her tongue as it penetrated him briefly. He sat back down with an obvious hard-on, wide eyed. She had him sit with his back to the crowd and she jacked him to a finish. She then explained to him that she needed to be fucked and ordered me to follow her to our room. I had to keep my towel in front of my hard-on back to the lodge. The entire time I was pounding her doggy style she kept asking " did you see me tongue his ass? did you see that black kid's swinging dick? did you see the cocks swinging on the tennis courts?.......and more. I confess I was the first man to fuck her and she did not date a lot so maybe this is just catching up for her.

My wife looks at everybody. At age 58 my blonde woman has always sported a full-on, light brown muff. "I don't like being able to see the lips," she told me one day. She'd rather look at fur, like she has.

She looks at all the dicks too. "Most of 'em look the same when they're down." She will, however, comment on the big ones. She'll turn to me and whisper, "did you see the dick on that guy?!"

One more observation.....
 

Another thing we used to watch for at the nudist camps and beaches were very obvious tan lines. We sometimes had them, too, and people seem to stare more if there is a sharp contrast between the tanned and untanned areas. Since we went once a month or so, we were usually "white tails" or untanned but a girl or guy with an obvious tan around a bathing suit was so sexy. To me, it told me they weren't used to showing their nakedness so they were even more attractive.

I have always thought a strong tan with a no-tan swimsuit area always drew your attention to the private parts, just like a garter belt and stockings frames the furry triangle and brings your eyes to it.

I have never been to a nudist camp, the closest one to me is in another state. But a couple of years ago I meet a girl and she brought up nudist camps, and she was telling me she goes to a local one where she lives and she gets so aroused looking at pussies and cocks, she ends up going into a toilet to masturbate.. Of course I got aroused at the thought lol

It's a little like some nudist women who "just don't want to hang out" completely naked; and wear a T-shirt. What they don't seem to realize is that when their vagina is showing even just a little bit under the shirt, it actually brings more attention to it. Just like being a "cotton-tail" (tan everywhere except the butt).

My gal realized this while at the nude beach. She first went bottomless with a cover-up that barely covered her boobs. She got a lot of "looks", as her boobs kept slipping out and her vag was visible from under the cover-up. When she finally got naked, she got a lot less looks as she just sort of "blended in" with the rest of the naked crowd.

Although it seems counter-intuitive, what some of these "shy" newbies don't get is that they would blend in and actually get less "looks" if they actually went naked from the get-go!

you are on the money with that
 

we were at our local nude beach and out in the water. an obvious new couple to the scene decided to try the beach. the guy went nude but the girl only went topless. as she strolled by people she got a ton of looks. the couple went for a walk and when they came back she was nude holding her bottoms in her hand.

now all the guys moved so they could get a look at her and her bald pussy. had she just gone nude at the beginning no one would have paid her much attention.

I've seen this happen too. When someone who has been covered for a while finally decides to get naked, there is a: "ok...so what has she been hiding this whole time?" curiosity effect.

When my ex started out with resort nudity, she would take the approach of starting the day wearing something (sarong, T-shirt, towel); and then disrobe or untie her sarong gradually as her confidence built up. That had the interesting side-effect of getting her a lot of attention. You could see the eyes pointed in her direction as her boobs and bottom became more and more visible; and especially towards the end as there was only one last thing standing in the way between her being covered and completely naked. Then people would really look. I call it the "striptease effect."

It was my idea to start undressing in the parking lot of the resort and just arriving naked. She would still get looks when she first walked into the pool area already naked; but the looks were much less sustained. When she realized that she blended in easier when she was just naked from the get-go, she abandoned her sarong/T-shirt/towel.

I was at a nudist get-together once, where my wife and I befriended a very shy, reluctant and fully dressed wife. Over the course of the day my wife managed to convince her to disrobe gradually; changing into a sarong at first, then untying the sarong and opening it up to get "acclimated." As her boobs slipped out and her butt flashed, you could just see all they eyes peeking over at her. And when she finally dropped her sarong to get in the hot tub with my wife, you could almost hear all the necks breaking trying to catch a peek of her newly exposed pussy. It was actually so evident that after the hot tub my wife and the woman retreated behind the hot tub so they could continue being naked without all the attention the woman was getting.
Had there not been this "striptease effect", people wouldn't have paid that much attention to the woman. She would have just blended in with the half dozen naked woman there that day.

And then there are those that should stay dressed..
 

One of our former neighbor couples was very fit and attractive. Her bikini made her breasts look perfect and the bottom of the suit was brief and showed a very firm tan ass. He was also fit and was very muscular. My wife and I hinted they could go with us to a nudist club but they said that wasn't their thing.

Four or five couples who lived near us hung around together, partied together, and became really good friends. My wife kept bringing up all of us going to Pinetree, the nudist club several hours away in Maryland, but no one seemed to take us seriously. One guy finally said that if my wife wanted to be nude, she should feel free to get naked anytime. She and at least one of the other wives had been topless at a pool with all of us, but never nude.

Finally, everyone agreed to go to Annapolis for some seafood and we booked the hotel rooms. My wife, always insistent, told everyone how much less expensive it would be at the Pinetree Nudist Club in nearby Crownsville, Maryland and one of the guys said "Fine. You book us there and we will all go. I don't think you are really nudists after all" They all agreed that my wife and I were just teasing and were not really willing to go nude around all of them and a large group of strangers, too.

The story of this trip is in another thread, "Can you be more exposed at a nudist resort?" if you have an interest.

The point here is that this very fit couple, the most fit and tan of our group of friends, went with us to Pinetree. When they came into view for the first time, it was the biggest disappointment. Her breasts were sagging very sadly and had extremely dark, almost black, large nipples Her pubic area was shaved but her pubic area had a huge gash, that had some remaining stubs of hair around it. I have never seen another quite like it . He was very muscular and shaven, oiled up like a body builder, and his cock was an acorn. Granted it was large for an acorn, but it was an acorn. I hope it looked better erect but I never saw that. Honest, I got a hard-on when she was wearing her bikini but nude, a hard-on was out of the question.

Sometimes you can guess pretty accurately how someone would look naked; and sometimes you miss the mark entirely.

I was at the resort once when a woman arrived with two young kids. She wore flip-flops, a dress that looked like a worn out potato sack and her hair was completely disheveled. She looked a hot mess and I figured her naked body would reflect that.
After she got her kids situated, she kicked off the flip-flops and took off the potato sack. She was completely naked underneath. And I couldn't have been more wrong. Her boobs were large but firm. Her stomach was flat. Her body was toned and shaven. She had an uncannily amazing physique for a mother of two young kids. I realized that her sloppy attire probably had more to do with the busy life of a mother with two young kids.

The opposite has happened too. I've seen enough boobs dropped down to the navel after the bikini top was removed to know that appearances can be deceiving.

watching him get off
 

Wife and I were at a somewhat crowded nude beach. At the time we were probably in our late 40's.
A younger couple, late 20's - early 30's were sitting on a blanket about 20 feet in front of us. She was a bit heavy but had really nice tits, big with big aerola. A black man then set up one of those beach wind screens in front of the other couple, maybe another 20 feet away. He also had one of those low beach chairs. But the wind screen didn't face the ocean as the others on the beach were facing. It faced directly back toward the other couple and us. We watched as the women in front of us would open and close her legs. She finally just sat there with her legs spread wide open. We couldn't get a good view of her because we were behind her but the black man a great view. He came prepared with lube and jacked off while looking at the woman in front of us. We watched the whole thing. We could see him shoot his load in to the air. He then poured bottled water on himself to clean up, toweled off, packed up and left. I said to the couple that he really enjoyed himself. The man answered yes he did, the woman said nothing.

Wife and myself are 58. Never been to nude beach or nudist camp. We discussed fantasies and she knows that is one of mine. She be,wives I only want to go for the girls which is certainly a big part of it. But as much as anything else, I am hopefull we will encounter some really hing men ! I want her to see BIG cocks (and I’d like to see them also.). I think it would be wonderful after seeing some hot men with big cocks to casually reach over after 30 min of exposure to seeing one or some and see how wet her pussy is. And of course I would enjoy seeing men look at her nude tits, ass, and I’d like to have her willing show her pussy to others by laying in a lounger with legs a little more open than necessary.

Good long looks
 

Thanks for resurrecting this thread Fazel.

I have taken many women to nude beaches with me and they all have seemed to enjoy the excitement of admiring the various sizes and shapes of the naked men around them to various degrees.
But they all seemed heated by the experience of just going for the first time.
I have written a couple posts on some of the more interactive encounters my current partner has had over the past few years.

On a nude beach on vacation pre-covid it did not take long for her large tits to attracted a number of mens attention as we walked too and from the water and played in the waves, and she would generally gaze around and sneak a peek at our neighbours.

As she generally lays on her tummy while tanning it leaves her at eye level to the crotches of the men sitting on low lawn-chairs just behind us. She would eventually take the time to window shop the wares on display and as the men accommodate her curiosity she would make eye contact and smile and things would escalate from there.

As it is completely taboo to admit there is anything sexual happening on a nude beach, I can just say that in a very discreet manner, both sides of the equation were providing a little show and tell session and I saw more than one erection displayed to her in the line-up of men behind us, and she provided some unobstructed views of her own as she would navigate the blanket for the most comfortable spot throughout the day.

There was definite excitement in it for her and at times even running down her thigh. Definitely glistening in the sunlight on her parted and swollen lips and clit.
I had the pleasure of slipping a finger or two into that overripe beach and she about erupted at my first touch.

So like I say, its far from an accepted practice on most nude beaches, but its not that it doesn't happen at times.
But they all have to be willing participants and very subtle little tell tail signs emerge when both parties want to proceed.

You certainly do not want to offend anyone or come across creepers that just won't leave you alone or get uncomfortably close or aggressive. Its much more low key enjoyment. But erotic and hot and instigated by her more often than not.

We try to go with a group of friends!
 

We do go plenty of times just my wife & I, but then when I can't go my wife takes our adult daughter with her too but that's mostly to a Topless Beach!
As for going with a group, we make a game situation out of it by having Us guys sitting away from the wife's but still we're all in viewers sight of one another!
I'm not the only guy there that finds it exciting to watch as guys come up and try to hit on our wife's!
I have to say the women do get more attention from the guys coming over to talk with them and maybe get a better close up look at those Goodies!
But we did have a few times too when a entire family walked by having the wife checking us guys out, then come back later by herself to talk with us mostly on a sexual nature too!~
But when we're back all together we'll hear the wife's or my wife & daughter talking about the cocks they viewed and if the guy was getting excited by growing or bobbing while in their view!
Having 2 females neighbors that own their own Beauty Salon's, then hearing about the talk that goes on in there makes the Beach Hunt appear normal~ lol
:)

Do you go on nude beaches as a couple?
No. When we are both there, we go separately.

Does your wife actively look at cocks?
Yes, I do. Fun and games.

I wouldn't label us as regulars, but we have gone 5 to 6 times a year for the last two years. We always go as a couple. She's never expressed a desire to go alone, but I guess I wouldn't say no if she she really wanted to. We've taken a couple of friends, at different times with us, and another that I got dragged along for as a reluctant chaperone.

The cold hard truth is that an attractive single woman at the nude beach is going to attract some weirdos.

So yes, as a couple or group.

Does my wife (she was my girlfriend last year) look at cocks? Yes, but not in a thirsty way. She gets looked at, and she looks. I was talking to a friend the other day, and this actually sort of came up. We aren't nudists, we enjoy the low-key sexuality of being naked and being seen by others. We like seeing others with the same mindset, too. So looking and being seen without being rude or awkward is why we go.

We've only seen one massive guy (like porn star big), and her reaction was, "Holy Shit" :D

On occasion
 

We don't frequent nude beaches all that often,even though we have one very close by. We never go there because she doesn't want to be discovered by someone we know who wouldn't understand.

When on vacation we usually try to spend at least one day if there is one near where we are staying.

We always go as a couple, on rare occasion we have taken someone we know, so far its been only men friends.

They are usually hesitant to go to a nude beach but when my wife points out that they will be spending the day with her naked, they usually decide to go with us.

She has never desired to go alone, she wouldn't feel safe being a single naked woman.

She has gone without me but accompanied by another male friend. She tells me that is a totally different experience when she is with someone else and I'm not there with her. She once went with two of our male friends, the 3 of them spent the whole day together naked. She loved it. The guys later told me that it was one of their life's highlights. (can't imagine why)

Does she actively look at cocks? Most certainly! She loves to look at men's cocks. Being a typical woman, she is more discrete looking than we men are, but there are few that she misses. She will point out ones that she especially appreciates and will (in jest) tell me what she would like to do with them. On rare occasion she will try to take a quick photo to refer to later. She's even asked some men if she could take a photo of their cock.

Often she'll ask me to walk along the beach with her so she can see more naked men. She also like the attention she gets from the men looking at her. She's very aware of every man who checks her out. If we are at a beach that allows, she'll ask if she can see them erect.

Does it bother me? Not at all. One of my greatest pleasures is exposing my wife naked to other men. I enjoy watching her show herself and watching her reaction to other men's cocks. I get the added benefit from her getting excited by being in the presence of several naked men. If they strike up a conversation with us (her mostly) she will be so wet that it's not unusual for her to have a bit dripping down her leg.

She looks at them, but she claims they usually don't do too much for her ("meh, they all look pretty much the same when they're soft"). The only time one gets a reaction is if it's big. She'll turn to me after we pass by and quietly hiss, "did you see the dick on that guy?!"

We go to resorts, not beaches.

We socialize a lot, so it's pretty normal that she would notice their members; especially if she's lounging and they're standing right in front of her. The reason I know she does is because she might bring up (anecdotaly) something specific about it (large or small, cut or uncut, etc...)
And it works both ways. No big deal.

We felt the same way our first time, but we both got over it when we realized one of two things would happen. If we were discovered, they would be naked, too. :D

If on some off chance they were the pervy fully clothed type, they are still there and, even worse... just trying to catch a glimpse of nude women or men. We felt they were both likely to keep their mouths shut. :p.

Do you two enjoy being looked at? We didn't admit that to ourselves at first. We didn't deny it, but we had all kinds of rationales. It will feel great not to have any clothes on. Her, not having strap lines...

We aren't there to pick anyone up, but we liked being seen more than we would have admitted a couple of years ago, and it was hot talking about it. I think someone going out of their way not to look is more creepy than just taking a glance.

Obviously, don't answer if you aren't comfortable, but what age bracket do you two fall in? Others answer if you feel like it, too.

My wife is in a 21-25 bracket, and I'm in a 39-43 band. Of the couples we see, they stack in the 60+ bracket or early 30s band, for the most part. I'd say that all the couples at the beach we go to give at least a glance.

Early 50's to her mid-40's.

It really depends who is "looking" and how.
We're social nudists at a nude-mandatory resort, so "looking" and being looked at is a normal/natural part of our naked interactions. After all, we don't expect each other to keep eye-contact at all times; that would be weird.

With the people we know - and there are many - I guess there is a level of enjoyment; but it's more to the fact that we know we can trust and relax about them seeing us; that's there's no "agenda" behind it. For example this summer my wife was discreetly sunbathing with her legs open by the lake. A couple of friends pulled up right in front of us. My wife did not bother "closing up" because she knows and trusts them; even though our male friends were clearly seeing her kitty as they talked to us. So the enjoyment comes from not having to worry about "prurient interest" and remain in a relaxed state. Had she not known the individual, or had he demonstrated a fixation with her kitty: those legs would have closed right up.
It works both ways too.

When she asks if she can take a photo of a guys cock does he then ask to take one of your wife or with your wife? If so does she let them or do you take one of her with the big cock?

We go to nude beaches, but...
 

My wife and I go to nude beaches, but where she gets the best looks is at nude resorts. This is never more true than when the guys climb down into the conversation pool while she is sitting at the base of the entry stairs. I have watched her eyeball the nude guys as they enter the pool. They are watching where they are going and not immediately looking at her. So, she gets a real close up of their assets. Her eyes get pretty big as the better endowed guys enter right past her. I only have an average sized penis, so she has a base line to determine who has something more to offer. I have noticed that she always has a tendancy to eventually move over closer to the better endowed guys to start a conversation with them. Frequently, she will move over to the regular swimming pool, and they will eventually follow over after a few minutes. Then, a little later i look over and they will have her in a life saving grasp and moving around the pool with her. Who knows if they have stuck that long sword in her beautiful wet pussy. After they return to the conversation pool, she will follow a little later as if noting happened. Who knows?

My wife and I would go to nude beaches often and she would always check out other cocks. I always loved when she would comment on the ones she liked.