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Maren1 11-04-2017 07:50 PM

Accidental exposure on purpose?
 
I don't know if this is the right place to start this thread, but I'll just do it. I'm sorry if I'm rambling (also, English is not my first language).

I've always had this wierd fantasy of exposing myself "on accident" in public. The idea of it makes me really turned on, but also shameful. Maybe it's because I'm a shy person in real life. Maybe thats why it's such a great fantasy. I take something private, that I'm not all that happy about, and just show it. To everyone. In my fantasies I use my shame as sexual pleasure, to my own advancement. The embarrassment I would feel if this were to happen is out of this world.

I don't know why it has to be "accidental". Maybe that makes me feel better about it. Like, so that people don't think I'm trying to show off or anything. Here's were I get to my point. I'm getting older each day, and grow a little bolder too.

My aunt and uncle has an outdoors pool and one day this august I decided to stop by and take a swim. I knew they weren't at home, and that made me less shy. Also I'm from a small place. There are far between houses and no peeping neighbours. I decided to take it one step at the time. I climbed up from the pool and untied the straps on my bikini-top, just enough to make them really loose. Then I dived in. The feeling of my top falling down was amazing. The way the straps tickled my back and neck as they slithered around me in the water. My breasts, bare in the water. I felt kinda shameful, but it was so good. Maybe that's what made it so good. It was partialy also the fear of getting seen. What if some neighbour actually saw me somehow? Or what if my aunt and uncle came home early? I had to do it again.

I did it one more time, made the top fall off. It wasn't as good this time, maybe I had too high expectations and this time the slithering of the straps felt kinda unpleasant. But I decided to untie both my top and bottom the third time. The butterflies danced in my belly. What if they came home and i didnt have time to put on my bikini? I'd look so stupid. Like a stupid little girl.

I collected myself dived in for the third time. I was disappointed, cause it actually didn't work... My top fell off, yes, but my bottom somehow stayed on me. They felt really loose though, so i started swimming, moving my hips quite a bit to kinda shake them off. Soon I felt the bottoms slowly sliding down my bum. It was magical, I tell you. The knees were the best part. It tickled me in a good way. But the anckles, that was the very great part! The feeling of my bottoms falling past my ancles was almost orgasmic to me. Then I was naked. Naked in an outside swimming pool.

Afterwards I felt ashamed and stupid. Maybe some of you think I sound stupid too, but I don't care. I'm trying to embrace this. To get more sure of myself and to live my fantasies. And now, I kinda want to try this in a public pool. I don't know if I have the guts quite yet, and I would first want to try it in public without getting seen at all. but I really want to. Not in my own home town of course, but in some other town, for sure :)

Is there anyone else who feel the same way I do? Am I making sense? I'd like to know. It was exciting sharing this with you. Also, if anyone got any tips I'd be happy to hear them :)

baddaddy 11-04-2017 10:06 PM

making sense Also, any tips
 
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Originally Posted by Maren1 (Post 2530113)
I would first want to try it in public without getting seen at all. but I really want to. Not in my own home town of course, but in some other town, for sure :)

Is there anyone else who feel the same way I do? Am I making sense? I'd like to know. It was exciting sharing this with you. Also, if anyone got any tips I'd be happy to hear them :)

Yes, I think you make perfect sense, I understood you fine.
And I think you're off to a good start. The more you do it in private, the less daring it will feel. Maybe find a public pool, in a near by town, or if your city is large a pool across town. Go there when it is slow, or close to closing time, anytime it is not crowed will do, wear your bikini but don't plan for it to come off, just go to swim. Practices tying your bikini, at home, so that you know it will come undone. Then use that knot when you go swimming.
I think you are a rock start, I so wish I could be at the pool when your bikinis top or bottoms come off.

You might also try leaving your blinds open a little, and just wear Bra and panties, as you do thing around the house. Once you become more confident, you can open the window more, or wear less clothing. Maybe go nude. Good luck, and please keep us posted on how it goes.

Maren1 11-04-2017 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by baddaddy (Post 2530143)
Yes, I think you make perfect sense, I understood you fine.
And I think you're off to a good start. The more you do it in private, the less daring it will feel. Maybe find a public pool, in a near by town, or if your city is large a pool across town. Go there when it is slow, or close to closing time, anytime it is not crowed will do, wear your bikini but don't plan for it to come off, just go to swim. Practices tying your bikini, at home, so that you know it will come undone. Then use that knot when you go swimming.
I think you are a rock start, I so wish I could be at the pool when your bikinis top or bottoms come off.

You might also try leaving your blinds open a little, and just wear Bra and panties, as you do thing around the house. Once you become more confident, you can open the window more, or wear less clothing. Maybe go nude. Good luck, and please keep us posted on how it goes.


Thanks for your answer. Yes, that sounds like a good idea. If I find a way to tie the knots kinda sloppy it may all work out on it's own. I'm definitly gonna practice that :)

The blinders thing I can't do unfortunatly. I live far from the road and there are no neighbours :(

stargirlzx 11-04-2017 11:53 PM

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a good friend of mine , a guy used to do this a lot with his ex g/f. he had some great ideas and apparently they worked very well but I was always a bit too shy to get involved but they did stuff like that many times

Dookieman 11-05-2017 01:46 AM

Have you tried exposing "accidentally" with very short skirts....or skirts that would easily blow up on a windy day? (e.g.--the old pleated style tennis skirts) Women get away with that all the time, of course... since it is the wind that is exposing you, it is always a situation that is plausible as an "accident".

..perhaps there's friends or even extended family you could be a bit too "casual" around for good "oops...didn't realize you were there" kinda moments? Stories about those situations are always hot as hell to me. I happen to be a bit of an "accidental" exhibitionist myself, though of course it's much more difficult for men (and not as accepted) to get away with such a thing... best we can do are scenarios involving some loose shorts showing a bit too much to perhaps a female friend/acquaintance, or pants that are a bit tight in the crotch to show things off.

*oh another thing you could try-- perhaps a longer skirt that just has a split, or is a "wrap" style...? Since the wrap skirts can easily show off a whole leg.... I still fondly remember a certain female friend in college (*that I was absolutely smitten for..years later now; I'd still jump at a chance with her, actually), noticing her walking back to the dorm one day with a wrap skirt on..and suddenly the wind blew it open...and for a brief moment I got one hell of a flash of her entire right leg... still get hard just remembering this wonderful visual, and her reaction to quickly pull that part of the skirt back over.

OlliP 11-05-2017 02:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Maren1 (Post 2530113)

I don't know why it has to be "accidental". Maybe that makes me feel better about it.

I think that's the rule an not the exception.

I've been with many girls feeling like you. We went to nude beaches or into the sauna and there was no sexual komponent doing this.

But showing off accidental gave them (and also me) the ultimate kick.

Once I had been in a sauna with an ex-gf, nude for more than two hours. Then we went into the bistro, where everyone was in his bathing clothes. My gf had a little wadrobe misfunction. The hem of her bathrobe was pinched under the belt and showed her buttocks to everyone in the room (maybe 6 or 7 persons). Every sible one of them had seen her kompletely nude in the last tow hours, but this liitle situation led to my first hardon this evening :D

Maren1 11-05-2017 07:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Dookieman (Post 2530219)
Have you tried exposing "accidentally" with very short skirts....or skirts that would easily blow up on a windy day? (e.g.--the old pleated style tennis skirts) Women get away with that all the time, of course... since it is the wind that is exposing you, it is always a situation that is plausible as an "accident".

..perhaps there's friends or even extended family you could be a bit too "casual" around for good "oops...didn't realize you were there" kinda moments? Stories about those situations are always hot as hell to me. I happen to be a bit of an "accidental" exhibitionist myself, though of course it's much more difficult for men (and not as accepted) to get away with such a thing... best we can do are scenarios involving some loose shorts showing a bit too much to perhaps a female friend/acquaintance, or pants that are a bit tight in the crotch to show things off.

*oh another thing you could try-- perhaps a longer skirt that just has a split, or is a "wrap" style...? Since the wrap skirts can easily show off a whole leg.... I still fondly remember a certain female friend in college (*that I was absolutely smitten for..years later now; I'd still jump at a chance with her, actually), noticing her walking back to the dorm one day with a wrap skirt on..and suddenly the wind blew it open...and for a brief moment I got one hell of a flash of her entire right leg... still get hard just remembering this wonderful visual, and her reaction to quickly pull that part of the skirt back over.

These are all good tips :) I don't know if I'd be comfortable going comando with a mini-skirt all day, but it definitly sounds exciting for a short trip to the convienience store or something.

Being a bit too causual, thats the idea I really like. Maybe I like it the most because it's in front of friends. That makes it less scary, but somehow also way more scary at the same time. And that intrigues me!

Maren1 11-05-2017 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by OlliP (Post 2530245)
I think that's the rule an not the exception.


Once I had been in a sauna with an ex-gf, nude for more than two hours. Then we went into the bistro, where everyone was in his bathing clothes. My gf had a little wadrobe misfunction. The hem of her bathrobe was pinched under the belt and showed her buttocks to everyone in the room

Aw, that's so cute :D And if that is more of a rule and not ao much an exception I feel a lot better :)

nudony 11-05-2017 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Maren1 (Post 2530113)
Afterwards I felt ashamed and stupid. Maybe some of you think I sound stupid too, but I don't care. I'm trying to embrace this. To get more sure of myself and to live my fantasies. And now, I kinda want to try this in a public pool. I don't know if I have the guts quite yet, and I would first want to try it in public without getting seen at all. but I really want to. Not in my own home town of course, but in some other town, for sure :)

Is there anyone else who feel the same way I do? Am I making sense? I'd like to know. It was exciting sharing this with you. Also, if anyone got any tips I'd be happy to hear them :)

Nope I don't think you sound stupid at all either. You're exploring and pushing your boundaries. You should totally embrace it.

My fiancée routinely goes out in a dress (not too short) or strapless romper shorts with no underwear at all. She likes the feeling of being nearly naked, out in the world, but without really showing too much. It makes her feel free and more confident. She considers herself to be a "lite exhibitionist"; in other words only being slightly exposed, in control of what other people see; and feeling naked.
When we lived in our first condo with a street view, she would also walk past the open window completely naked: the possibility of being seen naked, but not knowing if she was actually seen or not, made her feel good about herself.

My ex used to push boundaries too. Even though we were nudists, she liked to feel free outside of the resort. Sometimes she would wear a sarong without underwear on our excursions, untie it on the road, roll the window down and let the wind it her naked chest.
She has also walked down our driveway naked at night.

It seems that "streaking" would be right for you. Never mind the term itself; you don't have to call it that. You could find an isolated road, wear just a skirt and strapless top; and roll the window down along with your top like my ex used to do. Get that "freedom feeling."
Or go on a hike, dressed the same; and when you reach a part where there's no one near, roll down your top and roll up your skirt; enough to feel the nakedness but still where you could quickly pull your top back up and roll your skirt back down.
Of course, there is also the nudist resort. At clothing-optional resorts or lakes, you can wear a bathing suit. There, you would be able to experience the same thing as you do in the outside pool. Except you wouldn't have to worry about what happens when your bathing suit comes off. You'd just be naked like most of the people there.

stevezr1 11-05-2017 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Maren1 (Post 2530113)
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I did it one more time, made the top fall off. It wasn't as good this time, maybe I had too high expectations and this time ...............................The butterflies danced in my belly. .................................. Also, if anyone got any tips I'd be happy to hear them :)

A public beach away from home might be a good place to "show" yourself a bit while being ever so innocent.
...........That is, while sunbathing, arrange for your very loose bikini top to slide down exposing a nipple, all the while feigning sleep.
........... Or, come out of the surf with one breast exposed, and act as it you are unaware, for as long as you dare!
My wife, then GF, had the most exciting moments of her life, her first ever nude experience, walking out of ocean completely nude in front of a dozens of beachgoers all wearing bathing suits. I wrote about that here some time back.

Good luck!

nudony 11-05-2017 04:02 PM

Steve, your comment just reminded me of my fiancée's first time publicly naked.

Although it was at Club O; the nude beach.

Her experience was similar to the feelings Marlen described. She was wearing a bathing suit, albeit just her bottoms. She had gotten topless at one point; although we were sitting in the back, out of sight. She was very self-conscious.
What made her experience so similar was when she decided to walk out to the ocean and go for a dip with me. She had her back turned away from the crowd, so she wasn't too self conscious about being seen topless by everyone. We swam for a while; and I convinced her to remove her bottom while swimming. She agreed, and when she slid off her bikini bottom you could tell that she was reveling in the experience of her bottom sliding off and the warm water reaching into all her "nooks and crannies." She was just "glowing." She swam naked for a good while, loving every moment of it and the freedom she was feeling.

When we started wading back towards the beach, she agreed to stay naked for the walk back tour spot in the back of the beach. I've shared in another post what happened next. Something about the intensity of what she'd felt while swimming nude, and the realization that everyone on the beach could see her completely naked as she came out of the ocean. Her self-consciousness went right out the window; as she had a near orgasmic experience "accidentally" rolling around in the surf after falling, and letting the hard waves crash against every part of her body. She later joked that she must have given everyone on the beach "quite a show"; which she had. But I was glad she had gotten to experience true freedom and had embraced that moment!

Maren1 11-05-2017 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by nudony (Post 2530532)
It seems that "streaking" would be right for you. Never mind the term itself; you don't have to call it that. You could find an isolated road, wear just a skirt and strapless top; and roll the window down along with your top like my ex used to do. Get that "freedom feeling."
Or go on a hike, dressed the same; and when you reach a part where there's no one near, roll down your top and roll up your skirt; enough to feel the nakedness but still where you could quickly pull your top back up and roll your skirt back down.
Of course, there is also the nudist resort. At clothing-optional resorts or lakes, you can wear a bathing suit. There, you would be able to experience the same thing as you do in the outside pool. Except you wouldn't have to worry about what happens when your bathing suit comes off. You'd just be naked like most of the people there.


I don't drive, but walking along the road and pull down my top, that sounds really exciting. The fear of getting seen seems thrilling. If there are no cars in sight it might be quiet safe for a start :) Also, I'm from Norway. Theres probably a nudist beach here somewhere, but it's not that easy to find. Norway is a small country with a narrow culture and not that many options. Espesially in my part of Norway. But I'll see what I can find out :)

Maren1 11-05-2017 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by stevezr1 (Post 2530541)
A public beach away from home might be a good place to "show" yourself a bit while being ever so innocent.
...........That is, while sunbathing, arrange for your very loose bikini top to slide down exposing a nipple, all the while feigning sleep.
........... Or, come out of the surf with one breast exposed, and act as it you are unaware, for as long as you dare!

Good luck!


Yes, making my top slide down a little sounds like a good plan. Making it fall off completley may be way too scary. Those things are hard to tie back on underwater, and I can imagine even harder when stressed out x)

My friend had a nip-slip at the pool once. She didn't like it at all, but I thought it was cute :)

Honeys poppet 11-05-2017 06:30 PM

Maren1

Great to read about another naughty young lady on OCC

Please, please take a look through my many posts...you may well be inspired to carry on with your shenanigans!!

xx

nudony 11-06-2017 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Maren1 (Post 2530632)
I don't drive, but walking along the road and pull down my top, that sounds really exciting. The fear of getting seen seems thrilling. If there are no cars in sight it might be quiet safe for a start :) Also, I'm from Norway. Theres probably a nudist beach here somewhere, but it's not that easy to find. Norway is a small country with a narrow culture and not that many options. Espesially in my part of Norway. But I'll see what I can find out :)

If you live in Norway near the coast you do have some nude beach options:

https://www.tripsavvy.com/nudism-in-norway-1626512

If you're able to make it there, you can have that same experience bathing with your bathing suit on, taking it off, swimming naked; and if you're ready, venture back to the shore with your bathing sit still off. I think you would find walking out of the water naked after swimming and strolling nude on the beach to be a totally thrilling experience! And if you're not yet ready to be naked in front of everyone you can always set up on the far end of the beach.

arnoldziffel 11-06-2017 03:32 AM

'Accidental' exposure....?
 
[QUOTE=Maren1;2530113]I don't know if this is the right place to start this thread, but I'll just do it. I'm sorry if I'm rambling (also, English is not my first language).

I've always had this wierd fantasy of exposing myself "on accident" in public. The idea of it makes me really turned on, but also shameful. Maybe it's because I'm a shy person in real life. Maybe thats why it's such a great fantasy. I take something private, that I'm not all that happy about, and just show it. To everyone. In my fantasies I use my shame as sexual pleasure, to my own advancement. The embarrassment I would feel if this were to happen is out of this world.

Firstly, your English is damn near perfect; secondly, thanks for inviting us can(OCC admirers of the female form) into your scheming. Here's what I think.

In places like the UK (I'm not from there btw).....there is a term - Flasher - which I'm sure you've heard of. The term immediately brings to mind men in trenchcoats wearing little or nothing underneath who open their coats in public places exposing themselves to unsuspecting passers-by. They are sometimes referred to as ' willy-wagglers' ( a 'willy' being a penis). However; women get far better opportunities to expose themselves ...'accidentally' in public. OCC is full of pictures of ladies showing more than they thought they were showing but, is that really the case in all of those instances?. I think and know it is not, thankfully.

Women like to be admired, we all do to one extent or another. Whether it be a new hairstyle or jewellery or a nice dress they bought they love their fashion choice being complimented. The same goes for their bodies, for many but not all women. You're a woman who would like men, and perhaps other women to admire your hidden beauty. There is nothing wrong with that desire but it must be done carefully.

Why not use the situations that are depicted here on OCC as inspiration .....look at the many sitting 'upskirt' photos - ladies on steps, in skirts, knees together under their chins exposing their knicker gussets and sometimes more to anyone bothering to look. Other women passing would think "oh the poor girl, she has no idea what she is showing"... but they pass on without warning the unwitting exhibitionist and probably get a little thrill out of it too, because it it isn't them, but it could easily have been!

Another scenario is the obvious 'downblouse' or 'one too many buttons open' ...the opportunities for this type of exhibitionism are endless. Another is wearing stockings with a wrap skirt or even pantyhose/tights with no knickers underneath...this to any voyeur prompts the question " oh wow nice crotch flash but was she wearing anything underneath?" They'll never know but will take great enjoyment out of wondering which was the case, you'll enjoy knowing the real answer. Wearing a skirt with tights to a public toilet can also be a potential disaster for some ladies, especially when they are in a hurry and catch the rear hem of the skirt when pulling up their underwear. They leave the toilet walking out exposing thong clad buttocks to all. Great fun for the voyeur indeed.

So my advice would be to try some of those everyday scenarios and p!ease do report back on your success and most importantly, how it made you feel afterwards.

jamsicator 11-06-2017 04:35 AM

Pool fun
 
Hi Maren,
Another way of “accidentally” exposing yourself at the pool is to get a white or very light coloured swimsuit and remove the lining from the gusset and breast areas. I had an exhibitionist friend who did this and the effect was amazing. You can easily pass this off as accidental, too.


Good luck with your journey of self-discovery!
Jamsicator

Maren1 11-06-2017 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by arnoldziffel (Post 2530773)

Firstly, your English is damn near perfect; secondly, thanks for inviting us can(OCC admirers of the female form) into your scheming. Here's what I think.

Women like to be admired, we all do to one extent or another. Whether it be a new hairstyle or jewellery or a nice dress they bought they love their fashion choice being complimented. The same goes for their bodies, for many but not all women. You're a woman who would like men, and perhaps other women to admire your hidden beauty. There is nothing wrong with that desire but it must be done carefully.


Another scenario is the obvious 'downblouse' or 'one too many buttons open' ...the opportunities for this type of exhibitionism are endless. Another is wearing stockings with a wrap skirt or even pantyhose/tights with no knickers underneath...this to any voyeur prompts the question " oh wow nice crotch flash but was she wearing anything underneath?" They'll never know but will take great enjoyment out of wondering which was the case, you'll enjoy knowing the real answer.

Thank you :) I feel so glad to talk about it at all. This isn't excactly something I've told to my friends, so it's nice to ba able to let it out.

I think you have a point about being admired. But I also think there might be other factors. The humiliation is an important part of it. The most attractive thing about the fantasy is that embarrassed feeling I get thinking about it. Maybe I wouldn't feel that way if I wasn't so self conscious about myself. Neverthereless I think it makes it exciting.

I have at least one top that can get embarrassingly revealing if I don't pull it up every now and then. xD
Your pantyhouse/tights with nothing underneath suggestion also sounds very appealing to me :) I wish it wasn't so damn cold outside right now!

Maren1 11-06-2017 05:24 AM

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Originally Posted by jamsicator (Post 2530786)
Hi Maren,
Another way of “accidentally” exposing yourself at the pool is to get a white or very light coloured swimsuit and remove the lining from the gusset and breast areas. I had an exhibitionist friend who did this and the effect was amazing. You can easily pass this off as accidental, too.


Good luck with your journey of self-discovery!
Jamsicator

Sounds very exciting :) thank you.

piecenick 11-06-2017 02:55 PM

My wife is an expert in this category, she has loved to "accidentally" flash long before she started telling me she was doing it. It started when she really did flash accidentally and instead of being upset, it turned her on. The mood strikes her most often when we travel, since the beneficiary will likely never see her again. One time a guy called her bluff.

We were staying in a hotel in Seattle, we were in the restaurant having a drink before dinner, the dining area was raised about 3' from the adjacent bar area. My wife seems to have forgotten to put on panties and she had the attention of a guy in the bar. Not unusual for my wife, she said the restaurant was too cold and she was going to run back upstairs to the room for a sweater.

When she came back she was flustered, I asked if something was wrong, but all I got was "I'll tell you later". When we got back to the room wanted sex right away, then she told me what happened. She told me about not wearing panties, which was in itself a surprise, and 'maybe' one of the guys in the bar got a good look. But when she was waiting for the elevator she realized a guy was standing next to her, the guy she flashed at the bar. When they got on the elevator and the door closed, he said "you like to show your pussy, don't you?"

She said she didn't know what to say, but he said "show it to me again, lift your skirt, I know you don't have panties on".

She said she blushed, but did as he asked (she is very submissive), he reached out and fingered her, inserting 2 fingers and putting a thumb on her clit. He kept to it until the elevator stopped. Then he said "thank you" and got off on his floor.

So tease and flash all you want, but someone waqy call your bluff.

arnoldziffel 11-07-2017 02:12 AM

Weather?....yes of course but...
 
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Originally Posted by Maren1 (Post 2530797)
Thank you :) I feel so glad to talk about it at all. This isn't excactly something I've told to my friends, so it's nice to ba able to let it out.

I think you have a point about being admired. But I also think there might be other factors. The humiliation is an important part of it. The most attractive thing about the fantasy is that embarrassed feeling I get thinking about it. Maybe I wouldn't feel that way if I wasn't so self conscious about myself. Neverthereless I think it makes it exciting.

I have at least one top that can get embarrassingly revealing if I don't pull it up every now and then. xD
Your pantyhouse/tights with nothing underneath suggestion also sounds very appealing to me :) I wish it wasn't so damn cold outside right now!

....,perhaps wearing jeans in a hotel or somewhere with tiny knickers underneath but with the zip half or three quarters down might be possible....I mean you could even air a few test photos on here to see what we think , ..just trying to help a fellow OCC member of course...ahem.....no selfish motive or anything...,

Though it might not suit your desires, until the weather improves another way could be an accidentally turned on webcam - you could record yourself undressing and having ensured your face isn't shown, play the video as a 'live' event on a website and watch the comments roll in.

I didn't appreciate that the humiliation thing was such a major factor but I think I understand now, thanks for clarifying that for me.

Maren1 11-07-2017 05:12 AM

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Originally Posted by arnoldziffel (Post 2531323)
....,perhaps wearing jeans in a hotel or somewhere with tiny knickers underneath but with the zip half or three quarters down might be possible....I mean you could even air a few test photos on here to see what we think , ..just trying to help a fellow OCC member of course...ahem.....no selfish motive or anything...,

Though it might not suit your desires, until the weather improves another way could be an accidentally turned on webcam - you could record yourself undressing and having ensured your face isn't shown, play the video as a 'live' event on a website and watch the comments roll in.

I didn't appreciate that the humiliation thing was such a major factor but I think I understand now, thanks for clarifying that for me.

Haha, oh you! ;)

But I thought enjoying embarrassement was normal? That's why I chose the enf-central of the internet to tell my story :p If I didn't feel embarrassed about getting seen naked, I don't know if it would turn me on as much. Then it would just be a normal thing, that I would be kinda indifferent about.

But to clarify, it's not the only factor. I also of course wish that if someone saw me, they liked what they saw. Another part may be that I would feel naughty, in lack of a better term : )

arnoldziffel 11-07-2017 03:15 PM

Silly me
 
.... terribly naieve sometimes but, from the male point of view, there is something very erotic about a lady being both turned on and embarrassed when they are being naughty. The idea that otherwise 'respectable' next door lady/girl might have such naughty thoughts and indulge in that specific brand of perversion is so very erotic. I'm sure our fellow OCC members agree.

juliets 11-08-2017 11:36 AM

As someone who has exhibited for a number of years I would say that initially I got a buzz from being looked at by a stranger. It gave me more confidence about how my body looked. I also took pleasure from the effect it had on my viewer particularly when I could detect a definite bulge in their trousers. At first it was like a drug and I wanted to do it more and more and looked for every opportunity to display myself. I visited shops where the changing cubicles had curtains which could be left gaping open slightly. I felt safe that my viewer could only look and that I was able to strip off without it seeming obvious that I was exhibiting.

stevezr1 11-08-2017 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Maren1 (Post 2530797)
Thank you :) I feel so glad to talk about it at all. This isn't exactly something I've told to my friends, so it's nice to be able to let it out.
.... I think you have a point about being admired. But I also think there might be other factors. The humiliation is an important part of it. ....................................!

As others have noted, yes the "humiliation" factor is a BIG factor. A rush for many folks for sure!

Presuming you would prefer stay true to your term "accidently on purpose" exhibitionism ................

..... Do you think you'd rather put yourself in a position where you could end the "show" when you've hit your limit? Such as coming out the ocean (or pool) with bikini top askew and a breast (or two) exposed, and pretend not to realize it until you are about to explode..... and then quickly pull up the top showing shame and embarrassment.

...... Or, put yourself in a position where there is no turning back, no where to hide? Such as wearing a white totally see-thru-when-wet bathing suit at a crowded pool or beach and not bring a towel or cover-up. Imagine the many eyes on you as your come out of the water with no means to cover yourself, acting as if you have no idea of your exposure, all the while you are burning up with excitement with no end in sight. You do not have control over your humiliation!
..... Ah, the possibilities!
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Maren1 11-08-2017 02:36 PM

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..... Do you think you'd rather put yourself in a position where you could end the "show" when you've hit your limit?

...... Or, put yourself in a position where there is no turning back, no where to hide?
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I like them both, but the first one is probably better for starters. I'd probably die if had to walk around all day like that :P But maybe someday. One step at the time :)

Maren1 11-08-2017 02:38 PM

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As someone who has exhibited for a number of years I would say that initially I got a buzz from being looked at by a stranger. It gave me more confidence about how my body looked. I also took pleasure from the effect it had on my viewer particularly when I could detect a definite bulge in their trousers. At first it was like a drug and I wanted to do it more and more and looked for every opportunity to display myself. I visited shops where the changing cubicles had curtains which could be left gaping open slightly. I felt safe that my viewer could only look and that I was able to strip off without it seeming obvious that I was exhibiting.

May I ask, how do you feel about it now? Has the buzz died down. Do you need harder "drugs" now to keep it exciting?

juliets 11-08-2017 07:06 PM

I do still get a buzz from accidental exposure and still love changing room flashes. However I have escalated what I do over the years and planned and carried out opportunities to allow men the chance to watch me masturbate and to join in and masturbate themselves. I regularly flash delivery guys and being caught naked doesn't bother me and makes me wet.

Omega88 11-09-2017 10:20 AM

Fun thread with some great suggestions. With the embarassment / humiliation aspect being so important, you obviously feel the need to be "caught" by other people being exposed, not just them seeing more of you than they might ordinarily, but you visibly realizing that that have seen you. Probably the easiest way to do this is a "wardrobe malfunction" like a strategic button on a shirt magically pops off or at least slips through the button hole. You can control where this happens or leave it to chance to increase your surprise.

Years ago a former girlfriend had an old shirt that the buttons would not stay buttoned if any pressure was placed on them. Discovered it by accident late a party one night when I walked up behind her as she was talking with some guy who had been after her for a year or more. As I stood next to her could see his eyes were locked on her chest, but he was always like that so did not pay much attention. As we walked away minutes later I noticed her shirt was unbuttoned way below her bra. As I debated whether to tell her or not [being the good boyfriend or the lusting teenager] another woman did and she buttoned her shirt but did not seem concerned. Later that night she was extraordinarly enthusiastic. :) So the next time she wore that shirt I made certain to tug on it a bit and sure enough we had a repeat. For some reason she kept that shirt for years - guess she liked it as much as I did.

nudony 11-09-2017 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Omega88 (Post 2532309)
Fun thread with some great suggestions. With the embarassment / humiliation aspect being so important, you obviously feel the need to be "caught" by other people being exposed, not just them seeing more of you than they might ordinarily, but you visibly realizing that that have seen you. Probably the easiest way to do this is a "wardrobe malfunction" like a strategic button on a shirt magically pops off or at least slips through the button hole. You can control where this happens or leave it to chance to increase your surprise.

I was about to post the same conclusion, but you beat me to it lol! Very perceptive Omega!!

Reading over the posts, it's clear that Maren is not ready yet for full-on exhibitionism; so streaking is out. And my idea of the nude beach is doesn't really fit either.

So it seems to me the "wardrobe malfunction" route is the best indeed.

I think it's a lot easier to pull off a wardrobe malfunction in the summer, when it's warm enough to wear those type of clothes. My fiancée has a few such items, like strapless romper shorts and a strapless loose-fitting dress. She wears them without underwear, knowing full well the potential for a wardrobe malfunction; but embracing it. With the dress, all it takes is lifting her arms too fast and: "oops", a boob pops out. It's the same with the romper, with the added bonus that if she stretches her legs too far: "oops", her labia shows up. Sometimes she truly forgets about the potential for a wardrobe malfunction; and I think that's the way she likes it: if it is truly unplanned, she can truly be embarrassed. And that's what's even more arousing to her.

At the beach she has worn a loose-fitting cover-up without a swimsuit top. Again she is fully aware of the potential for a wardrobe malfunction; as the simple act of turning sideways too fast will result in a "boob-slip." One time at the beach she was at the bar chatting; she turned to the side to address some guy sitting next to us, and her boob slipped out. One woman sitting by us remarked that her boob was out; she was embarrassed, but I could tell she was loving every moment of it. She took her time putting her boob back in place, only to let it slip out just moments later!

So yeah...if you can get creative with clothing, there are lots of possibilities.

arnoldziffel 11-09-2017 03:24 PM

How about......
 
Knicker elastic sabotage..so you buy cheap underwear, obviously sl*tty ones, e.g. see through or crotchless or perhaps with a slogan on the front like "BBC owned" or a Spades logo...whatever. You cut the elastic so that it will fail with a bit of pressure, then you go to a cultural event. You choose a moment when you are visible to most and your sl*tty knickers fall down around your ankles.

Possibilities?

andyt29 11-09-2017 05:08 PM

Somewhat along these lines...at a pool party some years ago. Guy jumps in the pool and yanks down the bikini top of this girl. Blonde, wonderfully full natural breasted girl. They were globes, so nice and heavy...anyway, she stood there top off, hands on hips "pouting" and "yelling" at the guy for pulling her top off. She did this for a good long time, waist deep in the pool, hands on hips, turning a bit. Really seemed like she was making sure most everyone saw her. It was an exhilarating peek. Would certainly say that the exposure was accidental, but the prolonged nature was on purpose.

Lucianado 11-09-2017 05:21 PM

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Really good thread, though I can only echo what other people are saying.

It sounds to me like you want things that are as close to real accidents as possible, so there's unpredictability and that rush of shame and loss of control, but it's not TOO far away from your core (shy) personality. (That's very hot.)

So yeah, I think it's down to careful choice of clothes. The skirt is the classic - it doesn't even need to be super-short, just light and floaty. Or there are things that are tight and so show shape, or go see-through easily.

One other option is clothes that are simply very old, so are at high risk of ripping, zips jamming or clasps breaking - and you could always add a little sabotage beforehand if they're looking too resilient...

Maren1 11-09-2017 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by nudony (Post 2532374)
So it seems to me the "wardrobe malfunction" route is the best indeed.

I think it's a lot easier to pull off a wardrobe malfunction in the summer, when it's warm enough to wear those type of clothes.

Really looking foreward to that, maybe cause I subconciously know how long it is till summer (so it doesn't sound as scary). I got this excited feeling. I wish I could go outside right now, into the night and do something fun and embarrassing.

Maren1 11-09-2017 05:33 PM

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Knicker elastic sabotage..so you buy cheap underwear, obviously sl*tty ones, e.g. see through or crotchless or perhaps with a slogan on the front like "BBC owned" or a Spades logo...whatever. You cut the elastic so that it will fail with a bit of pressure, then you go to a cultural event. You choose a moment when you are visible to most and your sl*tty knickers fall down around your ankles.

Possibilities?

I like that idea actually. You made it sound so naughty :P

Omega88 11-09-2017 05:44 PM

In another thread the phrase "plausible deniability" was used and maybe Maren needs to have a fairly rational "explanation" for what happen causing her exposure if she needs to, whether for herself or if one of her observers possibly makes a comment.

Years ago a girl who sat next to me in a class had left a couple buttons undone on her front button knee length denim skirt which when she was sitting there taking notes opened up to reveal her panties / knickers and a bit of her oh so soft thighs. The placement of the skirt "opening" could not have been better. If she were standing no one would notice and it took most of the class before I did. Looking back a number of years later I realized it was probably done intentionally - but she could pretend she was in a rush getting dressed and did not finish with the buttons if she needed too.

Then there are simple things like a wrap skirt / dress / top which can easily fall open. A somewhat loose fitting moderate scoop neck top can fall away from the body when leaning over a table / desk or to pick up something off the floor and revealing all to a lucky observer. There are lots of way a motivated woman can create situations for her own and others pleasure... :)

arnoldziffel 11-09-2017 06:36 PM

Naughty eh?....
 
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I like that idea actually. You made it sound so naughty :P

Well it was the intention, but your inspiration helped of course Maren

Dookieman 11-10-2017 10:43 AM

oh yeah, the "romper" style shorts which are very, very loose... those are good. They have fortunately been very much in style for awhile now (haha and I hope they never go out of style!), and those are constantly showing off a fair amount of booty-cheeks. I can see how it may be a bit mundane to some exhibitionists though since your cheeks are exposed all the time in those, usually. I can't get enough... the view gets especially good when they happen to be in front of you on an escalator or going up some stairs, of course. (*it's THE reason to go to your average mall these days)

*sidenote-- for some of us (voyeurs) catching the "show"... the embarrassment factor is an added bonus to the visual for sure. Personally, it's 1000x hotter when the woman reacts to what is "accidentally" on display...be it suddenly pulling the hem of a short skirt down after it just blew up, or saying things like "woops! sorry..", blushing, etc. I think it's because this highlights the "forbidden fruit" aspect of what we're seeing...further cementing it in the mind that you're catching a glimpse of something you aren't supposed to see on her.

cufan86 11-10-2017 11:14 AM

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Really looking foreward to that, maybe cause I subconciously know how long it is till summer (so it doesn't sound as scary). I got this excited feeling. I wish I could go outside right now, into the night and do something fun and embarrassing.

You mentioned earlier that you live far from the road with no neighbors. Why don’t you wait until night and walk to the road wearing just your underwear or even less if you dare. Or walk along the road in baggy sweat pants that could accidentally fall down when a car appeared.

I think my wife is a lot like you. She likes to be seen but is embarrassed. But there has to be plausible deniability for her.

nudony 11-10-2017 12:29 PM

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oh yeah, the "romper" style shorts which are very, very loose... those are good. They have fortunately been very much in style for awhile now (haha and I hope they never go out of style!), and those are constantly showing off a fair amount of booty-cheeks. I can see how it may be a bit mundane to some exhibitionists though since your cheeks are exposed all the time in those, usually. I can't get enough... the view gets especially good when they happen to be in front of you on an escalator or going up some stairs, of course. (*it's THE reason to go to your average mall these days).

As a matter of fact...!! :D
This summer my gal went to a party in her romper shorts outfit. As she was walking upstairs (a steep flight of stairs) a friend of ours happened to be walking right behind her. I was already up the stairs so I got a good look of his face. His expression was priceless! Because she wasn't wearing underwear he not only got an eyeful of buttcheeks; but a nice cameltoe as well! My gal never knew our friend got a close-up eyeful...or did she???!

For those who have no idea what romper shorts look like, here. The second pic is exactly like my gal's (although hers is actually an inch or so shorter). Combined with a strapless loose fitting top (my gal pulls hers down closer to the nipple), it's a near perfect accoutrement for "accidental yet planned slips."


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