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How to Spice Sex Up
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I want to spice things up in the bedroom, we did some webcam stuff / bedroom sex with camera a few years ago but fizzled out and was always me pushing. The recommendations need to come from a 3rd party so I don't look like a total perv.
Looking for sites I can send her to which are "how to spice up your sex life" which recommend webcam sessions, boidour sessions, posting sites, public see through etc. I could create one and may have to but wondered if anyone had seen one they could point us too so. I want her to start doing webcam sessions again - one 2 one or group sessions. - sessions where she is blindfold and has to guess who is looking - sessions where she is in control - sessions where one guy commands her and she has to obey etc. I want her to do a full boidour session with me taking pics. - tips on poses and outfits I want her to flash / oops. - see through tops, flash in changing rooms, low cut tops, nude in car, nude under coat. I want her to put some sexy pics online for good feedback. - sites like this so she can get feedback. Any ideas? or do I need to create a site, any helpers can come along on the journey with us. A pic attached, looking for help in my quest ;) |
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As a woman,,, may I suggest:
Go to a hotel/motel and leave the shades open... women love being in hotels, and if shes a little risque, let others accidently see you fucking... also having room service send up soap & towels and answering the door in a risque sex outfit is erotic. Also... alcohol always helps... |
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Honestly,
We just did that this weekend.. we took a country road trip and stayed in a low rise motel where the doors & windows are where you park your car... Hot tub room and king bed by the window... we left the shades open about 5 " "by accident"..lol Saw a few people take a quick look while we were fucking........:D |
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Having just joined the forum, I have quickly learned that I am fond of you and your posts. Having a great time following threads you've posted in. Just wanted to say thanks for sharing. |
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That is one very hot lady - great body and sexy as hell.
Would she/does she like the idea of guys looking at her and masturbating? would she like to read how a guy got off while looking at her pics? I have an ex who knew guys would jerk off to her pics (she did a nude photo shoot in a magazine) and would show plenty of skin while in a bikini/workout wear. I would tease her that the guy that was checking her out at the gym was probably home jerking off, I would stroke my cock to match what I guessed the guy was doing "he would start slow and rub his balls with the other hand" (with me demonstrating)..... she would watch and put her hands down her panties with a wicked smile on her face as the story continued. And yes it turned me on that other guys fantasized about her. |
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Thanks for the tanks...:)...... Hope to see you comment on our posts.. always fun to interact w/ others on OCC. |
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Motels/Hotels always do it for us..... we're going on another road trip this weekend to visit in Sweet Home Alabama wifes roots near West Point ,Alabama..... We plan to stay in a motel and probably leave the shades open a bit by "accident"... lol........ She likes short skirts and I like her in them, so she'll spice it up a little more risque w/ her wardrobe away from home..simple but risque always works.... I know she;ll probably be "accidently." showing her panties bending over to pick things up at stores and gas stations.... She wouldn't do that at home, (expose herself purposly), but away from home, IT SPICES THINGS UP, like the thread requests. Try it............ |
Do remember that web camming isnt as private as it used to be. Its likely stills and full video of your wife will end up on public view on sites like this. If thats what you want.....
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Nice cherry outfit. 😁
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Is that a wicked weasel cherry suit? BTW, love seeing them being slid off. Favorite thing for me to watch a woman is to watch her slide off clothes, epecially when the gilrs fall out of a top.
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Grits: You mostly post pictures of Mrs. Grits in her different forms of fantasy costumes but to me something like this with a lot of skin showing while getting out of clothing and ready for action is far more erotic.
Thanks for the different view. Love to see more pictures like this. |
welee & looksalot
[QUOTE=Welee337;2531796]Is that a wicked weasel cherry suit? BTW, love seeing them being slid off.
Welee, I don't think its a wickefd weasel?.... just sheer panty and sheer bikini set lingerie.....made for sex. Glad you like it.. thanks Looksalot, Thanks for the compliment... yes she does always wear something for sex.. she likes it, as she says seducing a dressed woman is "forbidden" feeling..... like reaching under a skirt is "forbidden" territory...etc etc... it turns her on sexually.. Love to see you guys interacting on the thread-- "Sharing your wife..' w/ me/her when we post. |
To the OP,
Perhaps there's a different way to get to your end goal... In my view one of the best ways to spice up your sex life is to do all the little things to make your wife/partner happy. But don't do them because she asks, do them of your own volition. These really small things may be insignificant to many men, but to many women they are really important. Now once you implement this strategy, it will take a few days to really take affect, but what it will do is turn your wife/partner's mental state into a more receptive one towards you. She will see you as more desirable. Once that happens, she'll be more open to trying new things in the physical relationship because she's more happy in the mental relationship. Some little things you can try-- - Don't get frustrated or negative when you drive with her - Don't speed to get somewhere with her - Don't get frustrated if she is still getting ready after the time you're supposed to leave to go out - Don't throw dirty clothes on the ground - Don't leave dishes in the sink for later - Turn off lights after you've finished with them - Don't fart or burp in front of her - Ask for and consider her opinion in something (make her feel you're a team, not two individuals in the same race) - Don't put her down as a joke - If you're home when she comes home, stop what you're doing and greet her and see if there's something she needs help with (perhaps she's carrying groceries etc.). It only takes a minute. Unless you're doing something vital at that exact time, it can wait a minute or two. - Remember her mother or father's birthday. But don't mistake these as bending over backwards to do what she wants you to do. These are just really small things that you can control. This all may come off as a little calculated, but it's not really as these are things you really should be doing anyway. They'll also mean you're a better person as well. In a more traditional relationship following this advice will generally help you achieve a better physical relationship over time... in my opinion. |
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Yo Grits, would appreciate your thoughts on my sharing weekend!
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well, both actually!
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Regardless, don't just jump in, be it her thing or your thing. Take baby steps. For boudoir, take a few snaps yourself. A photo here and there. Get her used to the idea that you like them and it turns you on, even if it does nothing for her, she might turn her on to know you are being turned on. And I gotta agree about the hotel idea. Get her out of the house, on vacation, even if it's just a weekend trip. Giving some new surroundings can spark the imagination. |
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Mrs Grits
a couple questions.... first, it seems like sex with D since the couples weekend has been all about her talking of her watching me and me watching her. she can't wait until the next time. on the one hand, that's super hot. on the other, she had apparently already fucked him previously, and i wonder about her motive/objective second, carter's girl was absolutely amazing. is it part of the life to feel that way about someone else? |
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