Thoughts your wife masturbates to
 

Has your wife or GF ever shared her masturbatory thoughts? Mine has told me she has got off to all of the following.

1. Fantasising about sex with another woman. She has never done it but o always got off on the fantasy, including with me. She likes girl-girl porn and is especially into female solo. She says the thoughts of sucking a woman's tits, their tits touching together and going down on a woman are her favourite go to fantasy.

2. Amazing sex she has had. She once had a one off encounter abroad where she fucked the guy 5 times, masturbated in front of her and he made her cum "again and again". She still sometimes thinks of that.

3. "Servicing" guys in the area by wanking them off in turn while they touch her tits.

4. A massage with a happy ending, from
a woman or a man.

5. A doctor "examining" her and releasing tension by masturbating her to orgasm.

6. A load of guys wanking over her naked body.

7. Teaching young men how to make a woman cum.

8. Masturbating with another woman.

Am sure there are more but these are some
of the top ones. Don't think any of them are especially out there. We have both got off to all of these together too, sometimes with a bit of role play.

Any stories of what your OH masturbates to?

1. Being forced to strip in front of men and show them her lady parts. (done)

2. Submitting to all the sexual desires of her master (done)

3. Having her teacher spank her bare ass and fondle her. (too late to do that)

4. Being caught shoplifting and having to chose jail or submitting to the security staff. She thinks this is hot, I think of Mall Cop.

5. Being the subject testing sex toys to see how women respond. in front of 2 male techs. (we did this in a way)

6. Having her BF show her off to his friend. Explaining to him what to do to her to make her respond. (we did this in a role play with another guy)

These are most of her favorites, she has a lot which play off the theme that she is forced to submit. When the kids are asleep I'll ask he what I left out.

Hot!
 

It very hot that you have fulfilled so many of her fantasies. Every one of them a turn on too. I thought we would fulfil the FF one at some point, but it looks less likely now than when we were younger and she was so obsessed with sex all the time.

A lot of them are just meant to be fantasies and never fulfilled. When she was 14 one summer she stayed for a month with her aunt, uncle at 2 boy cousins her age range. She hung around with the guys and their friends, she was just developing and they were always trying to catch a peek without being obvious. She said it turned her on that she had that effect on them.

She has a fantasy they catch her masturbating by peeking in her bedroom window. They threaten to tell everyone what she was doing unless she masturbates for them and they get to explore her body. the only thing that really happened is one of the boys opened a door while she was putting on a swimsuit. But she loves the fantasy.

Things my wife thinks about while masterbating.
 

The things my wife most admits to when I ask her what she is thinking of are in no (particular order)

1. Stripping completely in front of a crowd of men at a strip club. (done a couple of times)

2. Being photographed nude outdoors by another man without me being there. (done several times)

3. Being sent home with another man while naked and spending at least a day with them. (done several times)

4. Stripping in front of one of our new friends for the first time. (done several times)

5. Answering the door naked for room service, pizza deliveries, or UPS. (done several times)

6. Being stripped and giving a blow job to another man while I watch. (done several times)

7. Any time I ask her to strip or expose herself to strangers. (done many times)

8. Being exposed to younger guys who may never have seen a naked woman before. (done a few times)

9. Having men watch her masterbate.

I can't just gloss over these two things without asking for more detail, please?

She Would Deny It, So I Didn’t Even Ask
 

I don’t think I’ve posted this before here. Many years ago, my sister-in-law (my wife’s sister) Kathy mailed us those little school photos of her four kids, including her 18 y/o son’s (my wife’s nephew) high school graduation photo. Not long after that, I noticed the photo of the nephew lying on my wife’s night stand by our bed. But the other three pictures weren’t with it. It’s not uncommon in my house for things to get lost and separated and wind up in places for no reason, so I didn’t think too much of it.

A few weeks later, I was at the house of a different sister-in-law (my wife’s brother’s wife), Linda, and since the guest bathroom was in use I used the bathroom in the master bedroom. While passing through the bedroom, I noticed the same photo of the 18 y/o nephew lying by itself on Linda’s nightstand, by the side of the bed that she sleeps on. Again all alone, the other three sibling photos weren’t there.

Having a dirty mind, my first thought was that both my wife and my SIL Linda were using this picture, just a head shot, for masturbatory purposes, the way I and many men do to photos of women. I found a web forum that was geared toward women talking about their masturbation techniques, I posted the above story, and asked how many women use photos like that to masturbate to. The only answers I got were, “Her own nephew? Ewww, no!”

Then I found a forum that specialized in relative fantasies, and asked the same thing. A couple of women replied, “Of course women do this.”

So I’m still going with the belief that both of these women, who were in their early forties then, were looking at their (legal) teen nephew’s school photo and masturbating thinking of him. But I’m still open to opinions or corroborating anecdotes.

Not while masturbating but -
While I am eating her she will either imagine 3 girls she grew up with are hiding in the closet. Knowing they are virgins she fantasizes that she is telling them how great I eat her.

Her other one is the same situation but it is me eating her in the car on a double date and my childhood friend is in the back seat watching her and she is telling him what it feels like.

It is easy to know which fantasy, because if it my friend in the car she grabs her tits when she comes. I ask her if he was playing with her tits. She denies it, but when her friends are in the closet she does not do that.

Years ago in a newish house we'd bought, i found some porn mags under our sofa. They were all either just naked women, or girl on girl lesbian photos. Lots of pussy licking I seem to remember. No cock at all.
When i asked what they were doing there, my wife, girlfriend at the time, said she'd found them on top of the fitted cupboards. They must have belonged to the guy that lived there before us. She'd discovered them a few nights before when cleaning.
I then asked her why they were stuffed under the sofa, and she sheepishly admitted shed got back from work early, got them down, and masturbated on the sofa whilst looking through them before I'd got home.

Shes also told me she thinks about being double penetrated by two guys in her pussy and ass at the same time. And then leaning her face forward and burying it it and another woman's spread pussy whilst shes got the two cocks inside her.

Thoughts of my wife neim masturbating
 

First of all: Of course my wife does it herself - she started doing it as a little schoolgirl and still does it regularly - just before 60.

And yes - she masturbates more often than she has sex with me or other men. And why not? I do it the same way.

One of her favorite masturbation fantasies is when she cheated me before our marriage to my then best friend, and she tells me about it in great detail while masturbating, exactly what the two of them did together. This happened really, and she came to a great orgasm or more, when she think about it.

Another fantasy is when she tells about how almost four years ago we opened our relationship and she had sex for the first time with my current best friend (we are two couples and haave much fun together).

Which she hasn't done yet - but which she fantasizes about from time to time: A white man and a black man stroking her nipples with their hard cocks until they come and spray over her little tits and her face.

Which hopefully will never happen to her: Sometimes she imagines herself being ****d hard by a complete stranger - in all her holes. Afterwards she always stresses that it's just a fantasy...

I think girls are as hot and horny like we guys are, too!

Lisa claims to not really needing to think of much to make herself come when she masturbates alone. She says if she does it is usually recalling something we have done in the past or just thinking about the next time we get to fuck.

The Mrs. masturbates to a lot of things, on fantasies, memories and/or porn

1. Having a threesome and/or a gangbang (a fantasy that she realized)

2. Having multiple cocks in her face/mouth

3. Putting big big toys in her pussy/ass/mouth

4. Guys talking really nasty/dirty to her, treating her like a w-word

5. Fucking in public, with the risk of getting caught (we do this on a regular)

Mrs. Horny in DE
 

She says she normally masturbates while thinking about times I’ve been in her or licked her. She did tell me when she wants to get off real hard, she does think about two guys taking turns, sometimes another lady with her, or just me watching her with a really hung guy.

Things my wife masterbates too
 

1. She told me she masterbated to the guy who was drywalling our house.
2 A personal friend who is about 10 years younger than us. Good looking, she has asked if I have ever seen his cock, which I have answered “not hard”
3. She loves watching amateur anal porn, it’s her favorite and she will cum right away if there is any moaning involved.
4. She thinks about me with a faceless woman with a tight ass, she says I am pounding her in a doggy position with a vibrator in her ass!
Those are just a few of her triggers

What does she masturbate to?
 

My partner says that when she is with someone and masturbates, whether its one of many people, then she is in the moment and thinking about them getting off and her getting off with them.

When she is by herself, it varies what she thinks about. She just laughed. Its what's ever got her mind racing in the last day or so. But a general thread is about being naughty, not just normal sex. Someway she hasn't done for ages, someplace she shouldn't be having sex, someone that she shouldn't be with. Something that gives the edge.

Gf and fb
 

My partner likes to play with herself while we talk about times she’s worn sheer or revealing tops in public, usually restaurants etc. and who saw her amazing tits. This is how I found out that her favorite viewer at a particular place wasn’t the smooth waiter we always requested but the busboy who was always refilling our water glasses.

A former gf and fb loved to be photographed and videoed while masturbating, and she would tell me stories about being exposed. I heard a lot about her summers home from college and teasing her younger brother (family exposure thread, p.2+). When she told me one of those stories she would usually come very hard in just a few minutes then give me a big smile. Her guilty pleasure, I suppose. She had other stories involving plausible deniability but the ones with her brother were definitely favorites.

Being watched
 

My now girl shared with me she had a couple of things she masturbates to. Originally she hinted imaging me doing her but diving deeper she admitted more.

She admitted she more than one time masturbated imagining a guy watching her while he was stroking his hard cock.

One she admitted really worked was masturbating in front of another couple and their loosing control watching her and both joining in masturbating with her.

My wife and I talk about this all the time.

She often thinks about other women doing things to her against her will while all the husbands watch.

Wife shares her fantasies.
 

Linda tells me that she thinks about being watched by some of our friends, which has happened several times.

She says that she would rather not have anyone other than me watching her relieve herself. But when one or more of our friends happen to be present when she is convinced to let herself go, the realization that they are seeing her completely lose control sends her over the top.

She doesn’t mind any of them seeing her just naked, looking at her tits, ass, and pussy, but having them see her touch herself and loose control, sends waves of embarrassment through her, which adds intensity to her climax. She says it is just too personal for anyone other than her husband to see.

In another scenario she imagines herself up on a stage in front of dozens of men, she being the only woman and totally naked, with spotlights blazing on her.

She opens herself showing her most private regions and touching herself where it feels the best. She masturbates over and over bringing herself to crushing climaxes each one more intense than the previous. The crowd cheers and encourages her until she passes out from the intensity.

She finally wakes up still spotlighted, sweaty, naked on stage. She has to do the walk of shame through the crowd. To get back to the dressing room.

These are two of several public masturbation scenarios my wife shares with me.

She’s very much into masturbating to the thought of having a regular man on the side who she treats as a boyfriend, fantasising about how he’d fuck her bareback and cum inside of her. Also allowing him to cum in her mouth. This is a regular thing she fantasises about during sex as well.

My wife is a very quiet, outwardly wholesome and professional type person and porn was never a feature in our early days together.

For years she was oblivious to the fact I could easily see her search history when I had been out at work.

My curiosity led me to the fact that she regularly and quite obsessively sought out girl on girl and threesome porn. (MMF and FFM)

Eventually she got a better understanding of how the internet works and we now watch her favourite themes together and she will openly admit she masturbates quite regularly to such material.

My EXs fantasy
 

One of my Exes had a fantasy.

She wanted to lay naked in a room with her eyes covered. Music on. And then me and 1, 2, or 3 other persons coming in to the room. And starting touching her naked body. First time massage only. If she was satisfied with the performance, she would do it more. And next time, she would be maybe want us to do some more. And I should never tell her who that person (persons) was. It did not matter to her if it was males or females who did the massage.

I had actually prepared a plan for that. A friend of mine wanted to assist. He would be very helpful, he said. :D Unfortunately, it was over between us before I could fullfill my plan.

My wife once confided early on in our relationship her masturbation techniques and fantasies. She said when she uses the shower head or a vibrator she doesn’t really fantasize. Just focuses on the sensation. But when she’s feeling particularly horny she bunches up her blanket in her crotch and humps it and sometimes fingers herself from behind. In these moments she plays out fantasies of being fucked by men. She insisted it was no one in particular but maybe a stranger or one night stand. At one point it was framed as “usually just the idea of a man”. I got hung up on “usually” and pushed a bit. What she came to divulge was that most frequently it was her ex from college who she absolutely hates. Over time it came out that he was manipulative and controlling and sexually too rough for her liking. But for some reason post-breakup she found herself fantasizing about him and his best friend having a threesome and that she played that out in her head. It became part of her masturbation routine and shed cycle through imagining different men she knew. Former coworkers, current boss, a neighbor that we had a mild feud with. Always someone who she doesn’t like as a person but is aroused by the idea of them taking control of her.

This might sound kind of weird but she is a very independent proud woman and doesn’t have any psychological hang ups. She’s not self loathing or anything. It’s almost like she has tapped into a subconscious thing and taken control of it by sexualizing it for gratification rather than letting things upset her.

Man, your wife sounds a lot like me. For example:

. "Fantasising about sex with another woman. She has never done it but o always got off on the fantasy, including with me. She likes girl-girl porn and is especially into female solo. She says the thoughts of sucking a woman's tits, their tits touching together and going down on a woman are her favourite go to fantasy."

I've already done that, and I fantasize about it a LOT

"Amazing sex she has had. She once had a one off encounter abroad where she fucked the guy 5 times, masturbated in front of her and he made her cum "again and again". She still sometimes thinks of that."

I do fantasize about that quite a bit. It's hard to forget. I also fantasize about the sex my husband has had with other women, especially the ones he cheated on me with. He has given me explicit details, and I can't get them out of my head. I'll just be sitting at my computer and almost involuntarily think about some of those encounters and get incredibly wet and horny

""Servicing" guys in the area by wanking them off in turn while they touch her tits."

This is one of my main fantasies, except that I imagine that I'm a sex researcher. I remove my top and see how long it takes for the young guy to get hard looking at my tits (my small, saggy mommy tits). I then jack off each guy and see how long it takes him to cum, how much he shoots. They can also play with/suck my tits

"Teaching young men how to make a woman cum."

I've done this once IRL, and I fantasize about doing it with a lot of young male virgins, teaching them about how to best make love to a woman to make her cum, and especially how to make a woman cum orally

"Masturbating with another woman"

I have done this IRL, I fantasize about it a lot, and I do it very often with my girl friend online

To add, I also fantasize about swapping with a couple we used to know online, me and the other guy's wife bent over the kitchen or bathroom counter and my husband taking the man's wife from behind and the guy taking me from behind while we watch and touch each other. This is one that keeps popping into my head whether I want it to or not and one that gets me going the most

Being forced <trigger warning>
 

My wife masturbates to vivid r a p e fantasies. Being forced into sex, having pictures taken, and so on. She climaxes to the ending where she has been left tied up, legs back and wide open, and the attacker’s cum visible inside her, when a male friend or I discovers her splayed and filled.

I was just talking about **** fantasies with my girl friend recently and we were wondering why so many women have them/what turns them on about them. Does your wife say what specifically/why she's so turned on by them?

Almost all of my coworkers say their wives listen to unsolved mystery podcasts so it seems like 90% of women are into this.

omgyes dot com has some great female masturbation tips. i've learned some good ones.

emily