Unavoidable Fact: Our friends masturbate thinking about our GF/Wife.
 

We are men; we masturbate thinking about almost every girl we stumble upon in life. From our family members to friends, coworkers, schoolmates, etc. And I'm 99% percent sure that the vast majority of us have jerked off thinking about our friend's GF/Wives.

So logic tells us that our friends do the same; but thinking about our partners.

They probably jerk off watching our GF's facebook pictures, the photos they took in a recent friend's trip or just remembering those denim shorts she was wearing yesterday.

I've found extremely exciting to picture my friends pleasuring themselves thinking about my girl. They don't have a clue about the way she looks naked; but they try to figure it out by seeing the contour of her body through her clothes.

I know for sure that most of my friends (if not all) have cummed imagining their load filling my girl's vagina.

How about you? Do you find exciting the thought of your friends masturbating to your GF/Wives?

I think thats too limited. Some of your male aquaintances have likely thought the same about you.....

Personally, i havnt done this for years - thats why we have sites like this

Awesome - so true
 

Awesome - just so true. Hands up, who has not found a look-alike pic on the net of friends / colleagues

Strange but true
 

Thinking of look-a-likes, the strangest thing happened to me the other day.

I was lurking on a swingers site where they have chat cams. I clicked on this single female, to my astonishment she was the absolute double of my own wife, her face, hair, body, massive tits the whole lot.

It was definitely not her.. before anyone one makes that remark! :)

Before I knew it, I was cracking one off to someone that looks like my own actual wife!

I don't need a look alike photo or whatever. Sure, I agree with this thread. I do it and hope my male friends do it thinking of my wife. One time during our now 5 year marriage I arranged for two of her colleagues to believe they were spying on her, unaware that I arranged for her to be watched after she showered and got dressed. She never knew it happened. If I could do it again I would. The thought of other men imagining my wife while masturbating is awesome. Knowing two guys who see her every day have seen her totally nude secretly is a great turn on to me.

how about more details on how you set this up?
 

sounds like a sexy story with the details

Friends wives
 

Back in the days before the internet, I used to do this with some frequency. Now, as pointed out by a previous poster, the images available on the internet provide the main strokin' fodder. I still do, however, cast frequent glances at nice bottoms and peak down blouses of my friends wives/gf's when the opportunity arises.

not necessarily... truly I really can't recall the last time I've masturbated thinking about girlfriend or wife of a friend. Thats may be because if someone has a relationship with one of my good friends her position in my life sits on a different place.

I'm not that noble.
 

I've definitely checked out friends wives, wife's friends, wife's co-workers, etc. Before we were married, a bunch of us used to meet once a week for live music, dancing and drinks. Kind of makes a lot of them 'fair game' as far as fantasizing.
I gotta say, a couple of them would be awesome additions to OCC! One is a dead ringer for Letha Weapons when she was a brunette. Another used to wear gauzy little mini skirts that were nearly transparent. I swear, sometimes when the light was right, I could see protruding pussy lips!
As for my wife fueling other mens fantasies, I suspect she does. She's got nice perky tits and an ass to die for!

I have one very good long term friend who I have been friends with for a long time. One night a few years ago we were both sitting up after drinking while both his wife and mine were off to bed hours before. He asked me if I ever fantasized about his wife and I told him no, which was true. He then without my asking told me he has many times fantasized about fucking my wife and jacking off to his thoughts. At the time I was really taken back but now with our introduction to the swinger lifestyle I find it is pretty common.

Roommate
 

Several years ago my gf (now wife) was going to graduate school out of state but we were able to visit each other monthly. During these visits we took several pictures of our time together while vacationing and weekend romps. These pictures varied from the very tame to the very explicit. I usually kept the private pictures in a folder on my computer but I also made cd backups and stored them in my desk drawer along with many other cd spindles. During this time I was living with my best friend who also got along well with my gf. He had complete access to my room and computer but since he had his own in his room he rarely used mine. When my gf came to visit he would usually spend the weekend away from apartment to give us privacy and would return either just before or right after my gf left. One of these times he was out and the gf and I returned early from a mini vacation. I was having computer problems so while my gf went out to pick up dinner, I went into his room to use his. While there I looked through his cds and found the game I was looking for. I noticed he had a window closed and heard the cd drive spin. I opened the window and it was a picture of my gf that I took. The picture was of her on my bed totally naked on her back spread eagle. My heart was racing and I got an instant hard on. He went into my room and into my desk and found my cds. I clicked through through the cd directories and there were about 10 folders containing our private pics. There were about 300+ pics on the cd and I checked his history and saw that he viewed all of them. I did a search of all of his image files on his hard drive and found that he had about 20-30 folders deep down in the hard drive that contained a lot of porn pics including most if not all of my pics. I checked the dates of the folders creation and they coincided with me being out of town. I checked to see when he last accessed the most recent pic and it was earlier that day. So he saved not only our pics but about 15 of our videos ranging from nude showers to her sucking me to her masturbating to us having explicit sex. So I know that he has been using our pics to jerk off for almost 2 years. Before my gf got home I left his computer and room as I found it with the cd still in the drive. I never told my gf/wife about it until years later what I found out. Also, I never told her of the pics of his gf (now wife) that I found.

When my wife lived in Colorado she had a friend who had a brother that was hot for her, this was before me and her met. Anyway, she was spending the weekend with her friend one time and her friends brother came over. He was in the bathroom not far from her room, as she walked by to go to the room she was staying in, she could hear him saying her name thru the door while he was grunting. It was more than obvious he was wacking his meat to her. I ask what did she do after hearing him in the bathroom jerking it to her, she said that she just got redfaced while laughing to herself and hurried to the room she was staying in.

I always take my DSLR camera to every party and trip to shot everyone and everything. All my photos are quite normal; I don't shot butts or boobs for the sake of it. My (girl) friends, cousins, aunts, etc; love me because they can focus on enjoying the trip/party and they always get some very high quality photos from me.

Most of the times I take more than 200 photos, so I can pick the best among them and send them to my friends or family, or publish them on my Facebook so everyone can see them.

But obviously; when I'm "reviewing" the photos, I always find interesting things like: a friend showing her big cleavage; an aunt showing her bra (or nipple) through her translucent blouse; a yellow thong from the back or some very fit pants that let me see my cousins' round asses in all their glory... and all in HD!

I have my own stack of "voyeur" photos of my friends and family and I jerk off now and then watching it. The perks of being the "official" photographer.

I often wank thinking about my friends' wives and my wife's friends ... imagining fucking them in a variety of fantasy situations. Therefore, it seems inevitable that my friends, and the husbands of my wife's friends, wank over my wife ... which is a bit of a turn on. Never discussed it with any of them though.

Sorry, I just noticed that I deleted half of my reply... there goes the rest:

Of course, those girls a lot of times happen to be my friend's girlfriends. I would love to send them those sexy candid shots and tell them how hot their GFs look.

I don't post or send the girl's "sexy" photos; because and don't want them to think that I am a creep and stopping me from shooting them. However, I do post some photos where my GF looks sexy; mainly because I want people to see what I get to fuck, but also, in the hope that my friends will look at it and jerk off.

Of course we all have.

I've definitely fantasized about some of my buddy's wives and/or girlfriends.

And, I've actually been told by a few that they have at one time or another fantasized about my wife. HUGE turn on!

I would be so turned on if a friend told me that he jerked off thinking about my girlfriend. If he did, I would even show him some pics so he could do it more often while remembering her in sexier poses and fewer clothing.

As a single guy, YES, I definitely jack off thinking about other women and most are married to other men lol. I have several friends who have given me pictures of their wives through email and asked me if they make me horny and if I jack to them. I think it is just normal.

Roughly ten or so male friends of ours have seen my wife's breasts in the time we've been together - a few for almost an entire unbroken hour one night involving a hot tub, admittedly in dark lighting but from a matter of feet away and without her making the slightest move to cover anything once - so I'd certainly imagine that at least some of them have masturbated to the memory of her. I'd honestly be more weirded out if none of them had, haha.

Exactly, the question is not if the have masturbated to your wife... but rather how many times have they done it? And better yet; what did they imagine her doing?

Hand up... Never even tried or thought about this.

I don't find any of my friends' wives attractive, but I'm also able to see them for what they are, wives of my good mates. I'm not a swinger and neither are my mates so that's a definite no go zone.

My big thing when I'm around my mates' wives is to build up my mates in the eyes of their wives. The confirmation that she's got a great bloke is massive for a lot of women and helping out their relationship in anyway is a benefit not only to my mates, but to me as well.

As for my missus... yeah, I'd say some of my mates my have had a few indecent thoughts over the years, or maybe not, perhaps they are like me... I don't think I'm the norm though to be honest.

Just to be clear...
 

Just because I've thought about someone's wife, doesn't mean I'd make a pass. I try to be respectful and appreciative!

I think an even more unavoidable fact and probably even more horny is that our wive's and girlfriends have certainly spent time masturbating about at least one of our friends fucking her...ever wonder which one(s) she thinks about? :)

Very interesting thread, good stories. But I always thought that I had a pretty decent idea of the way that other men thought; that, like me, we are almost always checking out other women whether they were off-limits or not, and instantly having lurid vivid detailed sex thoughts about them.

But I make no pretense that I understand women at all. Two things I'd be really interested in learning more about is 1) like ukgoldfish, WHO women are thinking about in their fantasies, whether they are masturbating or just having passing thoughts, and precisely WHAT vivid acts do they imagine is happening in these fantasies;

And 2) I've wondered how much women understand the depths that men are thinking about them. Sure, they've heard about how men are always thinking about sex and always checking them out and always having fantasies. But how many women REALLY comprehend that most men they know even slightly, from nice old uncles to nice teen boys, regularly imagine them, from instant passing thoughts to detailed fantasies, as pure fuck toys; picture them naked in countless positions, poses, making noises, making faces, doing so many unladylike things for their pleasure. What would women think if they got into the mind of any of us?

That is quite hot, too.

My GF and I have two friends who are a couple; the guy is a close friend of mine and the girl of hers. My GF told me once that her friend was complaining to her that the boyfriend ejaculated quite fast when he penetrated her.

She went into details like size, hardness, amount of cum, etc. (For the sake of science, I suppose) My GF told me the story and we discussed it normally. (She didn't tell me the details, she just told me that the friend did it; so my GF knows the details, not me).

But now that you tell me so; she probably masturbated a couple of times thinking about his cock. She just needed to put the details together and she had an almost accurate image of his hard penis (and even of how much he would cum inside her). Hot!

My wife would not have ever believed this was true until a few years ago. We had some vanilla friends that ended up splitting up. The wife immediately had another partner but after almost three years the guy was still alone. We had stayed friends with both over time.

One evening we are at his small apartment that sat above a store on a busy city street. We are out on his very small deck and my wife asks him about dating and future plans. He tells us that he has not dated since the breakup and doesn't ever think he will find anyone again. Of course there is wine involved and my wife starts asking about his sex life. He is obviously embarrassed but slowly tells her he has not been with anyone since the split.

My wife is feeling sorry for him and moves over to the chair he is sitting on and sits on his lap. At this point she is trying to console him and telling him about people she thinks she can fix him up with. Somehow in this course of conversation masturbation comes up and he tells her he has basically pictured and fantasized about her since the breakup. My wife takes that as a compliment but tells him he has never seen her naked and asks what sort of fantasies he has about her.

Long story short she ended up asking to watch him jack off and he finally agreed. the night ended up with her fucking him. He actually became a regular fuck buddy for her for about a year and a half until he met his current wife. She always asked if he was still jacking off thinking about her and he said yes every time during that period.

I am an enabler
 

one very close friend, I know hes masturbates a lot

like a lot, and we started sending each other some wife pics

I can do the math

I know what he uses them for

I return the favor and thats that

I'm pretty sure guys have knocked one out over mine. I've had some of my best wanks thinking of women I know. Years ago a I used to go drinking with a group of 3 friends, only one of us had a girlfriend (not me), she was a couple years older than us and the friend would often turn up with her on a saturday night before we hit the town. Back then we used to take out a disposable camera with us, guaranteed every time this girl would end up flashing her tits or mooning for the camera. One time she was particularly drunk and mooned right next me while I had the camera, she bent over too far and I ended up getting a photo back from the developers of her ass and pussy. Anyway, it was a running joke that one of us was fucking this girl and the other 3 were wanking over her (he married her in the end).

This theory can also be equally applied to us women on here. I probably masturbate 2 times a week and have never done it without thinking about some hot guy I know and many times they are friends of my husband or guys we know well. Usually I imagine the guy inside me or fucking me when I get off.

Most things that guys are into we are too. Women love cock as much as guys love pussy in reality. I never understood why if I love sex I am a sl*t but a guy who loves sex is a stud. :confused:

Pretty sure my wife has done the same thinking about some of my mates or whatever. We regularly watch porn together, mostly her preference seems to be lesbian or solo woman porn - not sure if I should be worried lol. One time we were watching a girl and multiple men, I jokingly asked if I should invite some mates over for her to try several guys, she said depends on what mates I invite, so she's obviously thought about them in that way.

hot subject
 

super hot subject will post some stuff here tomorrow when i have more time

I'm not disturbed by this idea, but my wife is. She's got a problem with the idea that any of her male friends think of her "that way". Unfortunately for her, they do, so it's no small leap to think they've stroked one out to the thought of seeing her naked.

I know mine do
 

I know for a fact some of mine do. One day we on vacation with my best friend my wife bent over and basicly all of her big tits were visible. My friend said omg lol he told her thanks for the view... we were all close so it was ok at the time. He told me he was going to use that sight later to rub one out. He had talked about her tits for years before. they eventually fucked a few years later.

My other friend does too he has told me he jacks of to my wife.

My neighbor jacks off to her as well.

I do too to other friends women so I get it totally

I'm sure if you shared some pics here, there would be even more guys stroking to her!

I do!

Sorry, I missed checking for your album before I posted earlier.
Your wife has amazing tits, and I'd love to have been the one to have frosted them as in the one picture!

Glad ya like! :)

Two guys from work.
 

Both of their wives submitted photos to an online modeling contest. One got quite far in the competition! The other dropped out in the first round even though I thought she was hotter! I've seen both in bikinis and when they drink, they like to play a little slap and tickle together.
I'm pretty sure they both know that most of their friends have fantasized about both of them.
Another gal I know recently competed in a bikini contest at a carshow. She posted a pic of the top five on FB. She was number two. She must have suspected what would happen because she posted a shitload of cat and dog videos shortly afterward. Trying to bury that pic was pointless though. By the next day, everyone in the shop had seen it! She should have won!

I would agree that it is common.
 

I know I have and I have friends (even one gal) who admitted to me that they have enjoyed self pleasure fantasizing about friends spouses.

Example:

We had just met this couple. She was a large-framed gal. Not overweight at all, just tall with broad shoulders. Middle aged, long legs, flat stomach and very nice large tits. She is out-going and cracks jokes about her size etc., but not the swinger types.

I stopped by their place one day to pick up something I had left there by mistake. I called him and he said to stop by anytime that day. There was no answer when I knocked on the door. I figured they were out back so I walked around to their backyard. As I got to the corner of the house I saw her laying on a lounger tanning. She was nude laying on her back. I took a good long look taking in her shaved pussy except for a landing strip. What amazed me was her very dark nipples and areolas as she is blonde.

Damn did she look hot. I wanted to lick her and enjoy her love box. No time for a picture I went back around to the front and knocked again. This time he answered, greeted and let me in. He said just a second and I'll get "her". She is out back tanning. She came back with him dressed in a robe. All I could think about was knowing she had nothing on underneather that robe. I got my item and was on my way.

I went right back home and luckily my SO was gone for the afternoon. I got naked and went out on our pool deck and was already starting to get a chubbie. At home we never wear bathing suits in the pool unless certain guests are present.

Well, I got in the pool and climbed on an inflatable float. I floated around visualizing my new friend laying there nude as I had just seen her. Of course my hand went to my crotch and I started massaging my sack. I fantasized that instead of backing away at her place I walked up to her and she invited me to tan nude with her.

Of course this led to sex and by now I was stroking myself intensely. In no time I had cummed. I rinsed the cum off my belly and hand. I then just layed there on the float thinking of her more until I fell asleep. Ever napped on a float like that? It's a great way to nap.

The funny part was I was awakened by my SO when she got home with her friend with her. Here I was laying there with a full hardon. They both laughed and remarked that I must have been having a good dream. I laughed and stroked junior a couple times for them and said, "I guess so". The two of them stripped down and got in the pool with me and I told them the "rest of the story". We had swapped with her friend and husband before so it was not shocking to her.

Another:
A friend of mine related his experience to me at a bar one night after several drinks. He explained how he had come home one day and his wife was altering a friend's summer dress. They didn't know he had gotten home. He noticed they were doing something in her craft/sewing room. In a reflection in the grass of a picture frame he saw that the friend was standing there wearing only a thong.

He said he slipped back outside and peaked in a window and watched them. The gal put the dress on and off about three times. He even saw his wife touching the gals breasts as she was altering that part of the dress. He said he stood there on his patio and took his dick out and started stroking. He related that he has stroked off to that visual a few times.

My wife ordered a book from Amazon on BDSM, her favorite thing, she didn't want to have it delivered to home because one of the kids might open it, so she had it delivered to my business. Even though it was addressed to her, my partner just opened it without checking the label. He looked at the book, looked at the label, handed it to me and apologized for opening it. He said very deadpan, "my favorite sex fantasy just changed".

I just laughed it off.