Wives, GFs & Women..a lot sl*ttier Than We Think
 

" My usually shy wife/gf shocked me when she did this...said that".... "She swallowed his cum...she never does that with me"..."I then watched in shock as he started fucking her ass...she never allows me to fuck herass "...etc.

Cheating or Swinging...there is a button that is pressed that brings out the sl*t that is in all women...getting them to do..say things they never do...or do with current partner...or which they did with men before.

Next few months..I will give examples of how I bring this out in women...what they say..why etc..

Got examples? Share as well..

A friend of mine always told me that she hated to swallow from her BFs; but when she cheated her boyfriend with me (it happened a couple of times, mostly when she had problems with her BF and went to me for advice and, well, relief); she begged me to come in her mouth and swallow it no problem.

On the other hand, I hate to have anal sex with no condom (besides the health issues it might carry); but when I cheated on my College GF, the excitement made me not to think twice before sticking my cock into the chick's butthole.

Your assertions are very accurate and true. My wife explained it like this when we first got started in the lifestyle.

She says that she feels like she has a particular image she needs to uphold with me. I am the father of her children, go to sunday dinners with her family and have a certain expectation of the way she acts, dresses and conducts herself in most the circles we operate within.

She says when she/we meet a single guy, he is a one time thing. He will never sit and talk at length with her dad, never go to our church or give advice to our kids. She says the real sl*t side can come out because there are no repercussions for anything over the line.

One of the areas swinging has opened up to us is our ability to be freaks in front of each other. I always tried to get her to swallow during oral sex but she always said no. (good girls don't do that) and then we hooked up with a single guy who when she said no he pushed on and instead of stopping and pulling out gave her his entire thick massive load down her throat. Now, that is a usual part of our oral sex routine.

Anal sex was pretty much the same way. Now, she will tell me "Baby, fuck me in the ass." when she wants it that way.

My wife once said...
 

"Hand jobs don't count". I remind her every now and then, especially before social occasions.

....yeah women funny that way..if they feel judged or that they might be judged about the sl*t in them..they hide...do it with someone else..

Seems as if you gotta be a little bit of a bully dominant asshole to press that button in them..

Side note..strange that on a site like this..the words sl*t and c*nt - words men call women which some women are proud of are censored,- yet dick or asshole women call us arent..

Maybe Douche Canoe...
 

I am with you on the C word, but Sl*t is in quite a different class than asshole. I don't even know of a word one could use to describe a man that carries such a slap in the face. And yes I know some women wear the title proudly.

Yeah...they usually hide the real number etc... fear..shame...Ive akways wondered if wives open up more because you pressed her or when you tell your gangbang ..threesomes experiences too..

Interesting...how about the other way around ..does she react the same when you tell her your stories? Does she describe things they did to her that you don't /not allowed to do to her?

I talked to a (female) friend about this subject; and she told me some very interesting things as to why they are sl*ttier with certain guys and not others. This is what she told me:

1) The guy has to ask:

Woman are (most of the time) afraid of being judged or seen as too sl*tty (because that's how our society has made them think). So if the guy asks her to do something and shows that he is really into it; she will agree and most of the time, she will enjoy it and do it repeatedly (but only with that guy). First advice: ASK.


2) They try new things and they don't like them:

For example, she tried having anal sex with an ex-boyfriend, but she didn't enjoy it; so she would not as willing to do it with you because she thinks it's going to be a bad experience. Her advice is to know what went wrong with the past experience and trying a new approach to make it better.


3) The kind of guy they are having sex with:

Does the guy have a big cock? No anal sex for sure.
Does she has a very romantic love for the guy? No threesomes.

Every guy is unique and the sexual bond will be inherently different.


4) Timing:

Did she tell you that she wouldn't let your friends see her naked on pics? That means "she doesn't want your friends to see her nudes TODAY". Try in another occasion. Everyone changes its mind from time to time.

OK..so if most of what she did was ordinary..why is it such a turn on?

[QUOTE=ulsafiu;2462014]I talked to a (female) friend about this subject; and she told me some very interesting things as to why they are sl*ttier with certain guys and not others. This is what she told me:

1) The guy has to ask:

Woman are (most of the time) afraid of being judged or seen as too sl*tty (because that's how our society has made them think). So if the guy asks her to do something and shows that he is really into it; she will agree an8d most of the time, she will enjoy it and do it repeatedly (but only with that guy). First advice: ASK.


[B]2) They try new things and they don't like them: [/B

Yup ..straight from the horses..ahm naughty gurls mouth Lol.

Yeah they kinda remind me of that robot in I-Robot...response you get depends on if you ask right quesrions hit right buttons etc.

Cant assume they wont do xyz because theyre innocent/will be offended.

"My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday..read half of it and got traumatized by the fantasies women had..Lol

I lost my pdf copy..if you..or your friend can find it..send me a link

Totally!

I don't consider my friend to be naughty by the common definition of the word; she is a regular girl... and that's the great thing about this; that even the "normal" girls love to do naughty things. It's just about pushing the right buttons, as you said.

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About women and fantasies... when I've heard and overheard my female friends talking to each other about sex, they are surprisingly more open than men. They tend to be very vocal about things that men would only tell to their best friends in private. They are horny creatures!

But as you said: you have to know what buttons to press to get what you want (as in everything in life, btw).

About the book; sounds interesting! If I find it, I'll share it.

I don't know about him; but personally, I love listening both sl*tty and innocent tales. Here is why:

When a girl tells you about her innocent stories; you can accurately recreate in your mind what she experienced. If she tells me when a guy sucked her nipples, I remember any of the many times we did it together and swap places so now the guy is who is sucking her. All the sensations, the view, everything is known.

It really turns me on to accurately imagine what other guys felt when they enjoyed my GF.

I totally agree with the comment about the guy has to ask !

One of my favourite revelations from Beth's past is from a time she went on holiday to a Greek island with a guy she had been seeing for a few months. Apparently up until that point they'd been having good but relatively straightforward sex. Lots of it but nothing too crazy.

When they got on holiday the regular and fun sex continued - including sex on a beach (but I'll get distracted!) - and then one afternoon he simply said how he'd enjoyed anal sex with previous gf's and he'd like to do it with Beth.

In my experience girls will generally want to do something to please bf's in those situations and no girl likes to think that his ex was more fun in bed than she is....therefore he and Beth spent the afternoon in bed with him fucking her gently in the bum. By her own admission she loved how naughty and sl*tty it felt and had a great time. The rest of the holiday was in her words ' just a week of fucking in pussy and bum where she couldn't stop cumming for him'

However, and this is why women are so fantastically impossible to work out - she dumped him about 2 weeks after the holiday! :)

anyway, I loved her telling me about a time she felt sl*tty and it was made even better by the fact she'd clearly had great sex for a week and got a suntan!