Asking Your Wife Or Girlfriend What Someone Looks Like Nude
 

This is totally childish and I admit it from the go.

I never did this with my wife, but I once asked a girlfriend I was dating to describe to me in detail what another woman looked like nude who she had seen in a locker room. She told me in full detail and I loved it. It totally turned me on.

Naturally this is sophomoric and I know that, but I am wondering whether anyone else ever did this, and what the result may have been.

Yep :) Done this. Asked the wife what her friends look like in the buff (she swims with a few). She'll also tell me if she catches anybody we know in the changing room and I always ask how they look naked. She normally says "you'd like her tits, I do.". That's hot.

Me too
 

I'm doing this constantly with her friends and even with her sister, she usually smiles and teases me a lot calling me pervert and telling me she knows how much I would love to see them in the buff, and she finally end revealing me something about their bodies.
I love when she gives me details about their nipples, their colour and size of their areolas, and the very best is when she describes me their pussies, when she has the chance to see one of her friends fully nude once in a while, something that has given one or other surprise.

Yes I've asked how her friends bush is arranged what the tits are like a few times.

Sounds like a great question to ask your wife if you want to get in trouble.....

Says the guy who generally posts downer points of view of his comments here on OCC.

My fiancée will tell me if I ask her. Of course I have to be careful "how" I ask her: I usually do it with an air of casual nonchalance, rather than with my tongue sticking out. And she doesn't go into vivid details lol!!

When she went on a cruise with her then-BFF, the two went topless on the beach. I asked her about her friend, who had big boobs on a tiny frame that I'd always wondered about. And she described to me how her boobs were heavy, dropping a little yet still relatively firm for her age. They had a nice "bounce" when she walked on the beach. I would have loved to know what her nipples looked like but that would have been asking too much!
Since we were on that topic my fiancée also mentioned that she had seen her completely naked while sharing a cabin. She mentioned that she was also shaven. I asked: "completely shaven?" She said: "Yes, completely shaven!" Again I didn't go into details as far as asking about her clit; which I knew she'd seen.

My fiancée has gone to the spa with some of her friends; and I know who is shaven and who is trimmed. Most are shaven. And judging from her comments, I think she is a bit jealous of her shaven friends (she doesn't shave her labia because it's big and sensitive - so she notices).

Women are constantly comparing themselves against each other naked. If you think your spouse doesn't exactly know what her friends look like naked; think again!

Nice that you care. The amount of saddos that look up the posting history of somone that posts a comment they dont agree with and feel like they need to b*tch.........Seriously if i asked my wife what her friends looked like naked i would be sleeping in the garage, as i would suspect several tens of percent of people that asked the question. This is a fact, sorry if it puts a downer on the fantasy with a bit of real world stuff.

I we were talking about my wife going to the woman's fitness center she belongs to, she said during the daytime it is mostly older retired women like herself, when she does at night it is mostly the younger working women. She mentioned she see Helen there almost everyday, Helen is a very attractive friend of hers. I said something pervy that I'd love to be in the changing room when Helen is there. My wife said she had had a boob job and she really looks 20 years younger.

I promised her a weekend cruise if her phone accidentally got some pics of Helen from the locker room. I'm not holding my breathe waiting for her to commit a felony for her voyeuristic husband.

I enjoy your spirit, but yes - this thread was not designed to encourage you to go to jail for getting to see Helen's boob job.

My wife is always the one to bring it up. "I was at the pool with Friend today. She changed with us. Her boobs are tiny and really saggy with huge nips." She already knows which details I would want to know. I never need to ask. :)

She's flat, her slit is ugly and I here she just lays there while she's getting fucked.

Yeah. An honest report from our women on other women. We've all been there.

You know my wife's sister? What a small world!!!

Back when my wife and I first started edging up to lifestyle play we did this sort of thing. Seemed pretty edgy at the time (almost 20 years ago). We'd go to the gym together and occasionally comment on something juicy we saw in the locker room. She'd point out some babe in the gym and then describe the size, shape and color of her muff, or her nipples, etc. Likewise I'd clue her in about the fat, uncut cock I'd seen on some guy that just walked past her.

It was fun for a while. We were relatively newly married, and was just one of many things we hit on to enjoy doing together.

My wife and I have had the exact same experience. She is always describing women that she has seen naked in the locker room and will often just go there to strip and shower. I especially love it when she goes swimming with her sister. My wife will just change into her bathing suit in front of her sister and wait for her to follow suit. Her sister is a little bigger with huge DD breasts with large brown areola and protruding nipples that she would love to suck one day. This is her description because she knows I love to hear about it.

I mentioned this this thread to my wife, she thought it was funny. Then I asked her if she ever described me to her friends. She thought that was funny too and answered, "Not in a long time. But those size 15 feet of yours got some curiosity up a few times. I just let them know I was a lucky women".

For the record, the only time we checked, a long time ago, I was only 6.5" to 7" depending on where on my spleen you started measuring.

F***ing Boris Karloff, dude.

The first time this happened, it was my wife that volunteered the information. One day, there was this pretty, fit brunette working out in the weight room near us. My wife and I always would meet in the lobby after working out and that day, my wife just blurts out to me, "That woman had the fakest pair of boobs. They were like bolted on." It was fun to hear - even though it was a bummer to hear they were so obviously fake.

There was another woman who was a regular there that I really liked. Super cute face, and curvy, but fit, body. My wife told me that her breasts were shaped like giant melons that rested on her chest. And that she had a thin rectangular bush. Loved it.

I remember also there was this cute Indian woman who worked out around us all the time. My wife told me that while she (my wife) was dressing, that the Indian woman got into a very animated, buck-naked conversation with two women next to my wife. She said that the Indian woman propped one leg up on the bench, Captain Morgan style, while she talked. She had a thin black bush, with super long hairs. Good times!

LOL, yeah, I have been getting teased about that since I was 12 y/o. I guess it's better than having a big nose.

brunettesrule - thank you. you cracked me up with your response. but also, you got me horny with all of the thin, rectangular bush comments. LOL. Fuck, dude. You're a lucky guy to have your wife tell you all she did. If I were around those women after knowing their bodies like you did, I would totally spank it to that knowledge later on.

This is a little off the subject of the thread, but my wife is a total sport. She will point out hot women to me, "if you look over to your left there is a hottie and her tits are almost falling out of her top". Another favorite was in a restaurant, she said to take her seat when she got up to go to the restroom, the woman in the yellow dress has on sheer white panties, she was right.

Maybe the best was her telling me to watch out the front window about 8 am, there is a woman who jogs by who is a site to behold. She was right again. She is a great wing-woman.

Didn't even ask my wife. She volunteered the information that her sister looks like her, but without boobs. Thankful for the info, but I'd still like to form my own opinion....;)

Can you tell your wife you want to see her sister in the nude and she would be okay with you saying that?

I'm guessing not, but given that the family are Dutch, I'm hopeful of some "functional nudity" in the future.

Are you based in northern Europe? If you are, it's only a matter of time until you are all at a spa together and naked.

Do girlfriends masturbate in front of each other? Sounds hot.

Short story
 

My Ex had this friend A... who had a big thick head of hair. One day while I was shaving my ex's pussy I remarked her friend A... must have to use electric hedge clippers to trim her pussy since she has so much hair. She chided me for the remark and that was it.

A couple months later A... was over for a pool party and we all had a few cocktails. A... and I were getting drinks in the kitchen. She said that she had heard the remark I made to my ex. She pushed her bikini bottoms down to her knees and said does this answer my question. She was shaved except for this landing strip that was the biggest, blackest one I've ever seen.

I responded, in case you were wondering, and dropped my suit to my knees exposing my completely shaved crotch. We exchanged a quick feel of each other. Pulled up the trunks, went back to the pool and nothing was ever said again until after both of us were divorced.

Yes, women do talk.

This is a real "thing" for me--for all kinds of reasons.
I thank the person who started this thread and just wish more people would add to it.
Maybe it isn't that common a thing...

It started with my high school girlfriend mentioning to me that she'd seen a couple of different friends naked. It instantly peaked my interest and so I asked for some specifics. She told me one, a German girl who dressed impeccably and had thick bushy eyebrows had a huge black bush.
She also told me that another girlfriend who had beautiful curly blonde hair also had a dark, almost black thick pubic hair.
This turned me on incredibly. The idea that I knew what these girls looked like under their clothes without ever being intimate with them.

It really stuck with me. Her giving me this information for freely lead to me asking her during our next sex session to describe them again. She did and I came almost immediately. The images it conjured in my mind mixed with this transgression—her basically laying her best friends bare for my enjoyment, simply because I asked—it was intoxicating.

She went on to do it a few more times during the course of our relationship but I began to feel her growing increasingly uncomfortable with each new friend added and each successive telling. Yet, I could tell it turned her on too. It was a conflict and that bothered me so I stopped asking.

As I've grown older my fantasies have begun to revolve almost exclusively around women I know. Friends wives or girlfriends. I am emotionally close to these women and that coupled with their beauty and “availability” (ie: they are more of a “potential” sex partner than say, Jennifer Aniston or some other celebrity, model etc...) makes them very desirable to me.

Almost from the beginning of our relationship my wife had expressed mild bi-sexual tendencies—probably along fairly normal lines for a lot of women. We would fantasize about what she might do with another women—a concocted, created woman mostly—if she had the chance.

My wife's best friend, Stacy, was someone I had a crush on from before I even knew my wife. They were becoming closer and closer. Stacy got pregnant and I found that her pregnancy only made her more sexy to me.
One night while we were fucking on the living room floor and the dirty talk was ramping up, my wife was on top of me—masturbating her clit and getting close to cumming—and she suddenly said, “You want me to talk about when I saw Stacy at the swimming pool changing?”
Fuck yes!
She described her post pregnancy breasts: medium brown nipples, areolas the size of silver dollars. How they hung down and swayed heavily—obviously full of milk—as she dried her legs off.
She talked about her hairy pussy and came as I asked her if she would like to eat that pussy from behind—just bury her face in that ass and c*nt--as Stacy was bent over drying off.
My orgasm was almost instantly triggered at the same moment and that session is probably the best sex I have ever had in my 40+ years of fucking.

We don't talk about women so much any more. The opportunity for my wife to be present while other women are changing is just not really there these days.
We gotta get back into swimming, I guess!

Good to know about her sister
 

Wife shared it somewhat inadvertently.

My wife, who is 52, made a comment when we were at a water park over the summer on a family vacation. After changing in the locker room with her sister when we were finished she said she couldn’t believe how almost all the women shaved bare. My wife has a trimmed, but thick bush that I love. She never considered going bald because her friends growing up and in college didn’t. She told me in the past she was so anxious to get pubic hair because embarrassment after swim class in junior high when girls were all maturing.

Then she said “at least Cindy (her sister) and I looked the same while changing”.

Wow. I just made a calm “probably because of their bathing suits” reply. I didn’t want to seem too interested in hearing more about her sister. That is I can think of every time I look at her. I’d always wondered, but didn’t know how to ask.

Sister in law's nipples
 

My wife Lisa has described my favorite sister in law's nipples. I've seen her in bikinis many times. In some sexy dresses a few and in her bra and panties once. I also no from overhearing a conversation between this sis in law and another that she is waxed bare down below.

Anyway back to the nipples. As I have mentioned many times Lisa and her sister look very much a like other than Lisa is about six inches taller and her sister has much larger boobs. Sometime after the sister in law had her first child my wife and I got talking about breast feeding. Lisa said her sister was having a slightly difficult time because one of her nipples is partially inverted. Lisa then went on to say that her sister got the big boobs and Lisa got the bigger nipples. Even the non inverted one wasn't all that big. I had never really thought about them all that much before that but then thinking back I had never seen any nipple pokes from my sister in law.

wifes friends
 

my wife quite often describes what here friends look like nude.ranging from size and shape of tits to if they have pube or waxed or shaved .she even says you should see so and so s bush i keep saying would love to which she just smiles

I regularly talk to my wife about her friends, and less frequently her large breasted sister. When she was younger she went on several holidays to the med with her friends, all of whom went topless. I never tire of talking about their topless and nude bodies (even although they are all now 50+). She encourages me to talk about my fantasies particularly for her best friend in and she fills in the details about her friend's naked body. My fantasy usually involves a threesomes; although she will always say it is just a fantasy!

So I'm 30, and most of my friends are just a few years younger. One guy and two women came over to my place the other night and we played a card game version of Never Have I Ever. Mary, who is 24 or so, looked at one before starting and it was "NHIE shaved off all my pubic hair". She and Nancy got commenting on this. Nancy just turned 28 and is super cute and bubbly. I'd asked her out a couple times and for various reasons, nothing ever happened between us. We now both have significant others, neither of whom were present.

Mary was like "Off, no...". Nancy got a quizzical look and said "I don't think so. I've maybe done it once. I trim it occasionally", to which Mary replied "Yes, same. It's just too much work though. Not worth the trouble." Nancy agreed and said something about not bothering with it. I sort of laughed at all this to not show how much I was enjoying this. Mary then remarked about shaping it. I went "What?" and she said but not too long ago she had tried to shape her pubic hair into just the Batman symbol up above her vagina. She touched there too. I banged my head on the table and she laughed saying "That was a strange image I just put in your head. I'm sorry". I joked that I may not be able to look at her for a while and she started laughing even harder.

Overall, it's kind of nice that to realize they probably both just have full bushes growing.

Ive always been intrigued with my wife seeing other nude women. She considers me a goofy boy for being so interested so she does not mind describing things.

In college she worked with the swim team so I would frequently ask for descriptions. It was a mountain west college and shaved pussy was yet to be common in that region, of course she was from the big city so she stood out.

Her older and sl*ttier cousin was the first to expose her to a shaved pussy so she was in a way kind of a body mentor.

Later as she became a young mom she would occasionally have a few notable episodes.

The first was with a young very pregnant friend who came over for a visit after a long day of errands. She was exhausted and it was a hot summer day so my wife offered up our shower tub and her friend took her up on it. This future MILF had a rack as large as my wife so I wanted details. Large DDs slight sag but large areoles and big but not long nipples. She considered her a breast twin, except she was Latin so they were darker. Sadly she did not offer to wash her back or pussy. Honestly I think girls should help each other out more often, she was nearly 8 months pregnant at that point and a pussy does not trim itself.

The other one that pops into my mind was truly a missed opportunity. A friend of hers, who had a short stint in a women's prison, but is quite reformed came over for a BBQ. Both were wearing string bikinis, not Wicked Weasel but darn close. One child got sick and vomited on her friend. So my wife took her back to our apartment where she got completely naked in our stand up shower. My wife helped her to clean up as the shower was big enough for several to stand in. Her tits were smaller, B cup, however she mentioned that were very perky and her nipples were slightly puffy. She never bore any kids so I guess they were never exposed to certain hormones.

She told my wife that because of her past she does not feel at all modest around other women and also because of what she saw there, ie lesbian sex.

I told her that it was ironic to me that she was talking about that subject in the shower and she should have decided to take her bikini off and shower as well. I think it was a subtle hint but she did not try and seize the opportunity.

I did get a promise from her that if any other women bathe in front of her she is now obligated to do the same!!

As I've grown older my fantasies have begun to revolve almost exclusively around women I know. Friends wives or girlfriends. I am emotionally close to these women and that coupled with their beauty and “availability” (ie: they are more of a “potential” sex partner than say, Jennifer Aniston or some other celebrity, model etc...) makes them very desirable to me.


I agree, there is a joke in spanish, bear with me as I translate:

"a married couple, agreed to have a list, of people to whom they would allow their spouse to sleep with, (sort of that friends's episode and the laminated list); the wife's choices were: Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Thor and some other actor/model; but the husbands choices were: his sister in law, the wife´s best friend, their hot neighbor and their son's kinder garden teacher. we man, are like this, basic and humble"

Didn't exactly ask what my wifes friend looked like naked, but did ask if she (wife's friend) shaved her pussy and when she told me she did, I asked for more details and til this day, everytime I see her friend I imagine what her neatly shaved pussy looks like.

"She considered her a breast twin, except she was Latin so they were darker"[/QUOTE]

my wife is latin, and as some here know (pics have been removed) her nipples are light pink color

we come in every color, just saying

Her friends
 

I met my wife (girlfriend then) in the apartment complex we were living in. One of her girl friend was trying to get us together. She told me to ask her where her mold was. Her mold was on her butt cheek. This friend also told me she had nice boobies. Sometimes I wondered how she knew, may be saw my girlfriend naked?

I did ask about one of my wife's girlfriend. She looked amazing fit, but then she's was Jazzercise instructor. They knew each other since junior high school. They went somewhere to help de-train race horses when the horses retired from racing.

She said her friend wasn't this fit when they were in school together. She did mentioned they did have sleep over together. Then let it slip that they had explored. Pressing further, she finally relented they had felt each other up. The most they did were fingered each other and nothing more (so she said - LOL).

After that I looked at her friend slightly different, but I never let on that that I knew about the sleep over. :D

I am really lucky when it comes to this. My wife will actually secretly film them for me and she gets off on showing me the videos. My wife and I are swinger but 95% of our friends are not. My wife plays and lot of tennis and her and her girlfriends often travel out of town to play. She also travels a lot with her female coworkers. They stay four to a room and there is always a lot of nudity when they are getting ready. She uses her cell phone with a spy app we installed or uses one of those spy key chain cameras. The key chain camera comes in handy for the modest ones that will only dress in the bathroom. Although sometimes she catches stuff that we would rather not see. lol

wow
 

I hope you realize how lucky you are