Seeing your wife's past lovers at your wedding
 

I suppose this may come off as sort of weird, but since this was part of my psychology, I thought it might be something others ended up thinking about.

I do have a thing for thinking about other men with my wife, and am turned on by knowing she has had more than a certain number of men who have fucked her.

We were married nearly 5 years ago, and at our wedding, one of her girlfriends asked me if I wanted to know who at the wedding had been to bed with her. I said yes, and she pointed out to me the three who she knew had been her past lovers. I found myself getting hard as a rock on our honeymoon making love to her thinking about those men who were with her, and their banging her like crazy. The thought of them French kissing her, touching her intimately and knowing what it's like to be inside her was, during the honeymoon, something my mind occasionally went to.

Has anyone else had these thoughts around the time of their wedding, seeing (from afar or whatever) their wife's ex-lovers and thinking about them close to their wedding night or nights of their honeymoon?

Nope,but then again,I'm not married.

You're a cuck(I don't mean this in an insulting way).

I am not insulted by the idea of being a cuck.
As it happens, I am in no way a cuck and would never go down that path. I do not even have fantasies about the prospect. I am a candaulist and my wife knows this and as long as there are couples and no cameras and we are a hundred miles away from where we live, she will go with me to hot springs. Since our wedding we have never played with another man woman or couple. We had three full MMFF swings when we were dating. None of these involved any cuck role play. I did very much enjoy seeing her with other men, and I did very much enjoy being with their women. Most cuck fetishes involve the husband being aced out of the action, or taking a beta position during the sex acts. Again, this was not the case with me and our playtime. I am probably not the least cuck at all. One can enjoy thinking of their women with other men without being subs or cucks or similar.

Maid of Honor
 

My first wife was...let's just say...very sexual. I think she slept with every guy and girl that she ever introduced me to from her past. For our wedding, her maid of honor was a girl she used to fool around with, both solo and as a part of threesomes. Just before the wedding, when we were all hanging out, they told me how it all began one night when they were both 16 and my wife and her boyfriend at the time asked this girl (a friend since they were in Kindergarten) if she would want to watch them having sex. She said sure...why not. And things progressed from there. How many times I grew hard imagining my wife, at sweet 16, screwing her boyfriend while her friend (still a virgin) watched...

Wife was having an affair with a married coworker for 11 months starting about a week after we got engaged.

She tearfully confessed everything to me just a few weeks before the wedding, I was traumatized threatened to call the whole thing off etc. etc.

I forgave her, my next big decision was whether to un-invite her coworker, who is coming with his wife, and his young daughter was a ring bearer.

I opted for letting him come. Even had a dance with the bride! Smiling like the Cheshire cat whispering in her ear, he had no idea that I knew.

There were two of hers. No way would mine have come. Her former lovers were our friends but but mine mortal enemies.

I was the past "lover" at a wedding once. I dated this girl we broke up, nothing too terrible just wasn't going to work out so we split. A few years later she ends up dating a good friend of mine they ended up getting married.

None of the wife's former boyfriends attended the wedding. One of the groomsmen had seen her naked a few times and she had given him a handjob before we started dating.

Our wedding was a pretty small affair so no, nothing like this there. But there was one time a couple years ago when we were in line for popcorn at the movies (I actually remember the exact film we were there to see - it was Jurassic World) and my wife randomly went "Oh my god, that's my ex boyfriend Paul. He's gained a lot of weight." and furtively pointed out this Jack Black-looking guy on the other end of the lobby with his friend (he didn't see us).

Feeling playful, I quietly asked her how long they dated and she said about 4 or 5 months back in 2010. "Did you have sex?" I asked. She kind of laughed and rolled her eyes and was like "Obviously."

"How many times?" She thought for a minute. "Maybe fifty."

"Did he cum in you without a condom?" She giggled, onto my naughty game. "Yes, most of the time."

I also got "yes" answers to asking if she had blown him, if she had swallowed his cum, if they had watched each other masturbate, and if he had ever cum on her tits. "He fucked me in the ass a couple times too," she added. Then we were up to get our popcorn and the conversation was over, though not too late for me to be at half-mast in my jeans.

I'm not going to lie, knowing this completely random stranger we spotted in public had previously taken my wife from every angle and cummed in all of her holes was kinda hot. I was sort of thinking about it the rest of the evening. Good sex that night.

my best man was my wife's first, he took her virginity. She did not like sex with him whatsoever, her was too big she said, but the 3 of us are still friends. It was awkward at first but not anymore:)

But it doesn't seem as though your knowing this has meant really anything to you and you and her.

mE
 

Actually, I was the past lover at about 6 weddings I was invited too.:).... not awkward for me, but a couple of grooms had a problem w/ it....;).

The healthy attitude was, that was then, this is now,,,,, but some guys are into marrying for sex, and think theirs wives are practually virgins to them?? :rolleyes:

How do they think their wives learned about good sex that trapped theirs husbands???:eek:

A candualist? I had to look that one up. Oh yeah, but I had no idea that there was actually a formal word for that. I was with a woman for about 5 years when we were both in our early 20's. She got off on dressing up to go out and then playing a game where she would flirt with men in the bar. Didn't leave with them, never did anything hot and heavy with them, but it was fun. She encouraged me to do it too, probably because of the rush that she got seeing me get embarrassed when she would later tease me about the young woman that I was speaking to :D

She also liked going to the topless club with me and some of my guy friends...too bad she went batshite crazy...that is what ended it, she became a mental drunk.

See this post too https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/show...80#post1691080

2 guys at my wedding
 

I met my wife at university - she was 18 and still a virgin when she started university.

We got married 4 years after we left university and there were 2 guys at our wedding who had fucked her. One was a boyfriend she dated for about 6 weeks at uni. He took her to bed after plenty of tequila one night and fucked her. I know from what she's said when asked that he was very sexual and a bit more experienced than her and taught her a lot about sex. He came to the wedding with his partner who was a friend of my wife and so we couldnt really not invite him.

The other guy who came to our wedding was a friend of hers from the same course they'd done. Turns out that one time after a night out she'd been drunk again (anyone spotting a pattern) and he'd fucked her in her room. I found out from a friend of a friend that he'd fucked her bareback twice and left his cum in her pussy..

I have to admit was very horny seeing those guys at the wedding and knowing theyd seen my wife naked and fucked her more than once.

She at least had the decency to look shy when we met them in the line after the wedding. :)

For info, my wife is 5' 6", 34b, pretty face, slim, lovely legs and bum and at the age of 18 - 24 a very tight pussy :)

Photo
 

A couple of asked to see my wife at that age so here is a nice bikini shot from holiday when she was 20
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Wedding photo
 

And a couple of people have asked to see the wedding photo....I'm loving the comments so far :)

ukgoldfish
 

I replied to your private message... I'm not sure if it went thru or deleted... let me know...


Also, I forgot to say,,, I always enjoyed knowing I'd fucked the crap out of the bride.... >>>and it was the same at each wedding,, they looked over at me for a moment & smiled softly when they were cutting the cake... ...always the same?

Thank you
 

Thank you for the reply and the further comment

I must admit it made me very horny when my wife and her ex bf had a quiet moment during the reception and I could see how quickly she slipped back into flirting with him !

my messges to Grits
 

Originally Posted by ukgoldfish

Thank you for your comment about having been a past lover for 6 girls at their wedding - your comment was perfect that we should be grateful that thoughtful guys like you took our wives to bed and helped them learn to enjoy sex.

Can I ask if you felt satisfaction at the weddings knowing you'd enjoyed the girls and helped them mature sexually?

Griits reply
 

Yes, there was a kinky satisfaction that I taught most of them how to enjoy sex.. thats probably why they nvited me.... I wasn't interested in marrying them, ( I was married very briefly age 32-23)..... and they were sometimes mad about it, but I never promised anything, and always said I wasn't getting married again till in my 30s.... in fact I broke up w/ them all telling them that I didn;t want to hold them back from marriage dreams.... most got married w/ in 18 months of our break ups...... But I did show them how to "release & emjoy" the pleasures of sex w/o worring about using it to catch a man.. so our sex was very good.. they were able to let go and be a sl*t w/o worring about losing a potential husband who most likly might frown or worry about her desires and experience...... no one is marrying a virgin, but guys who can;t get laid usually think they are, sort-of, ..


(from UKgoldfish - sorry for messing up the messaging !)

not sure if this counts here or not but the bestman at our wedding fucked her a few times..... didn't happen till years after the wedding tho.

Was it something you encouraged her to do?

Long term lover or casual
 

I just wondered if people had a different reaction if the past lover who attended the wedding was a long term boyfriend or just a guy who'd used your wife for a casual fuck?

I enjoyed seeing both of them and knowing they'd enjoyed my wife in different ways

As requested by some members
 

Another photo of Beth at the age when those guys got enjoy her !

And another
 

To see the 'good girl vibe she had at that time :)

Grits, thanks for sharing this detail. Its great to hear from a more experienced guy who knew what these girls were like in bed before they became 'good girl' girlfriends

My wife was a virgin when we met and got married and we were each others first sexual partners. So, we got to teach each other.

We did get invited to a wedding and I was in the wedding party of a friend about a year ago. For the four years previous the guy had been fucking my wife regularly and he asked me to be his best man. He had fucked my wife well over 200 times over the years before he met his new bride. At the time his new wife had no idea but he later told her about the relationship and she was ok with it.

ukgoldfish
 

So sexy and beautiful! Would love to see fully, nude or clothed!

ukgoldfish
 

Would like to see her in action.!!

Would like tp know what goes on in your bedroom?

Fac position, spit/swasllow, dirty talk, condom ir bareback?? etc...

Thanks again for the nice comments

Just a follow on which is just about on topic..Beth and I were at a college friends birthday party at weekend and one of her ex lovers was there with his partner. I think he was the 4th guy to fuck her. I made sure we sat next to them at the table and I had a good chat with his partner while watching him flirt with Beth...it was very horny seeing them together and knowing he'd seen her naked many times and fucked her lots.

From our conversations over the years I'd say she has two basic types of ex bf / lover. One is bf / friend types where it was nice girl sex and the other type are one offs or short term flings with player types.

The guy from Saturday night was the 2nd type. They never really dated properly but did hook up a few times. He fucked her mostly with condom but did bareback a couple of times including cumming inside her. After lots of wine and subtle questioning she also admitted that he was the first guy to take her in her butt (apparently he insisted but was very good at it)

All in all it was a very horny Saturday evening watching her with him and then finding out later that he'd fucked her so casually...

Similar experience
 

Newbie here and reading through so may horny stories in these categories, I don't know if this is allowed but felt like adding.
Not my wife and not at a wedding, but a couple of years back I was with my mate at his gf's 18th party.
There were a couple of boys there I didn't know ( nothing special in that) but after a few beers and some chatting it turned out they had met my mates gf on holiday earlier that year, recontacted her after and she had invited them, but not really mentioned everything to my mate..
I learned quite a lot that night and had a sort of knowitall look as my mate and ( some of) her friends carried on unaware.
Sorry if this isn't totally in keeping with thread, but it made me remember

After a bit more digging it turned out, both of the newcomers had "got with" my mates gf on her holiday ( and one of her friends too) Maybe blokey drink fuelled chats but the details I got were hot!
So actually knowing things which very few at the party did, made it all the more arousing for me. (Which I think maybe the point of this thread)
And yes, in case any of you are wondering she was (is) very attractive and I had made efforts before, but not got too far ( before she started dating my mate)

So did you ever tell your mate?

Hey
Having the information which I had made me see her and her friend differently and after that I was always wondering and looking more into things she said or did just in case history was repeated (If that makes any sense)
I didn't say anything for fear they would split and I'd not be able to discover any other gossip, although they did break up a few months after.
It wouldn't have been good me telling him at that point that I had known her secrets, so I never said apart from sympathising with him and suggesting perhaps she wasn't all she seemed

Did you get all that detail from your wife, before or after the party?

A bit 'Kill Bill' perhaps
 

A bit 'Kill Bill' perhaps

the movie Kill Bill
 

the movie Kill Bill

I thought so too. She did invite a guy she had known from college, but assured me they had never been an item. Years later she confessed that she had let him finger fuck her, whilst she gave him a blow job. She said that doesn't count. I haven't seen him since our wedding day.

Thanks for sharing anowland..that sounds hot! Do you know if that guy had seen her naked? I think that is one of the hot parts of this thread..knowing that other guys at the wedding had seen her naked and enjoyed our wives bodies before we had :)