Does being on this board make you want to share your wife?
 

I read the stories & see pics & I would love to see her in the pics on this site.

Would love to see her with 3-4-5 guys at once in a blowbang but alas I dont ever see her doing it.

Never thought I would want to see a gf of mine with other men.

Has this site changed your perspective?

I get where you are at
 

Seeing the pics on the site and knowing what I want sexually from my wife have left me feeling like there is an itch and I can never scratch it.

I can't see why it's such a big deal for her to have sexy with another guy or two, others seems to enjoy it.

I look at the the site and get excited and then leave getting upset knowing I will never see enjoy what others have.

I feel doomed

I originally found the site while looking for ideas on what to do with my wife while tied up.
And also the whole anonymous massage aspect. I can honestly say the thought of having another man fuck my wife never really crossed my mind until this site.
reading the stories have given me the courage to bring it up with her.
There is just something very erotic about hearing my wife say "I can't wait to get fucked" and discussing all of the details on how it might go down just gets me going like crazy.
so far its only in the throws of passion but I think she is really up for it. I have contacted someone I found on craigslist and first thing I said was he would have to be patient.
so far we are discussing having her tied to our massage table (purchased due to this site) and blindfolded. she does not want to know who it is. I informed our prospect it has to be 100 percent about her.
blind folded being taken from behind doggy style with me looking at her face and her sucking/stroking me is my goal. then she said she just wants to ride cowgirl style till her heart is content...
love thinking about it!!!

Its very much the exception to wife share than the norm, people into sharing will tend to congregate on boards like this. Just because many people here do stuff, doesnt mean that say more than 3% of the population may do it.

You could marry 3 or 4 other women and still not find a swinger.

Your wife is probably "normal" and you are not:D

Exposure normalizes
 

I wanted other men to please my wife before I joined this site and that urge has only increased. I feel your pain in terms of never getting to realize that fantasy. Worse yet, my wife has only been with me, and I have been unable to light her fire in any way. It is like beauty going to waste.

Now I will add that I'm subject to the power of suggestion, in that I will read
Some posts or look at some guys raving over a pic that didn't initially look attractive to me and I'll wonder what I'm missing, and sometimes get turned onto new things.

My wife has been with three others, all starting after I found this site. But I am not sure the site has made me want it to happen. I guess it could have influenced it, or perhaps it's completely coincidence. I will never know, but I have never thought of it before.

Some of the times. Search for my threads in the "Sharing your wife" thread.

To answer the OP, it's not so much that it changes perspective but makes you realise you're not alone.
For me when these thoughts first passed through my head it was before the days of the internet and there was no one in my social circles I would discuss it with.

I never understood this desire, nor do I feel any differently after reading the various posts here. To each his own.

I think that this fits the most. I've never shared my gf to anyone but the internet gives you possibilities and anonymity that let's you live out this fetish at least partly. Over the years I found quite a few good options to let other guys get off to my gf without revealing her identity to any stranger.

I found this board a few months ago and I like how people are open with their fetishes and motivate each other to deal with theirs and take away a lot of the "am only I this awkward"-feeling that's why I finally joined.
What it has changed to me is, after reading I don't know how many personal experiences and things like that I plan to go on IRL too. Not that I plan on letting somebody fuck her or something (at least not now) but I want people around me to crave for it.

I have planned to send a friend of mine nudes of my gf with a different phone number than my own, telling him that I'm a hacker that got those pics off my and my gfs phone. I tried it out with one nerdy friend of mine but he already within the first messages texted me to ask if I knew this number and sent a screenshot of the chat. Told him to block the number and that was it. Now I'm trying it on a friend that I know from childhood on and he is totally craving for everything. My old self would end the friendship directly but my new self understands that I like the thought and that he knows her for years now and must be dying to see her nude. (I'd love to see his gfs nudes as well so I guess that's normal)

If anyone interested I'll open a thread and post a few screens of the chat.

Didn't read the rules but I hope my first post is acceptable :D

I've never had and still don't have any interest in my wife actually having sex with other guys, but I love and always have loved situations where other men see her naked or topless. Fortunately, she's always been generally receptive of this too, especially around strangers (nude beaches and stuff are no problem for her at all) but on fun rare occasions around people we know too!

I joined the site because I already enjoyed sharing my wife's pictures and her body with local guys.

Already have shared her. We're swingers on a few swinger web sites. We're having a good time.

I have fantasy about having my wife blindfolded and restrained, and have guys come over and fuck her. I've told her this while we are fucking and it turns on, but not sure if she would willing at first at least

I would love to see my wife fucked by another guy or even a couple of guys, but she is prudish and no longer interested in sex (she is 65 like me) and so it will never happen. The odd thing, although perhaps understandable, is that I wouldn't want her to have sex with another man without me knowing ... but the thought of being there to watch her being fucked is a real turn on. And not just guys ... she has a close female friend of a similar age that I really fancy and I really like the thought of watching them having sex together. An occasional wank fantasy for me is finding them making out (I don't think they are in real life, but who knows) and fucking her friend from behind while she is going down on my wife. I am sure she would be horrified by what I would like to see her doing!

I have liked the idea of sharing her for quite some time, so it is nothing to do with this board ... but it does perhaps reinforce it a bit.

I can come from the wife's perspective. I never in a month of Sundays would have thought I would be ok with sharing, and yet this weekend my husband and I shared our first foursome and it was amazing. I was a virgin until 21, have only slept with 9 guys including my husband and have been faithful to him for 23 years so I was probably one of the most strait-laced people you could meet.

But I was the one who brought up the idea to my husband, and slowly over the weeks we have been exploring it. Have you even brought it up to her? She might surprise you.

This, more or less. The only thing reading all these posts has made me think is that there are a lot of betas out there.

Not sure if it's changed my perspective. I've always enjoyed hearing her relate stories of her past sexual life. It's like watching her, nice fantasy. Not sure if i'd like to see it in person, but you never know. Most likely the situation would be (and it's not likely at all) that we would share each other with another couple. Both enjoying and relishing in the new sensations.

What "this board" (and all porn) has done is give me a perspective and curiosity into the MM side of things. Hugely curious about watching another couple together and participating. Touching both, feeling both. Can't say that it has established the idea of kissing another man or having my cock in his ass (or vise versa) but there is the enticement of feeling a cock as it slides in and out of a woman's pussy, mouth, hand or whatever.

No. Honestly, I do not get at all this desire to share you wife with someone else. I don't enjoy reading about any of this sharing of a wife, setting her up with other people etc etc.

Not that I'm against other people doing it. If it floats your boat, then good on you. :)

Hell, my Mrs is always going with other blokes and getting fucked. I Love it, some take her away for a night or 2 and the odd one have took her away on holiday for a week. They all know they'll get as much sex as they want, she is a true mature sl*t :D lol and she's next to me now as I type :D

No, never have had any desire to share my wife.

I know my wife would never agree, nor do I wish to do so. But, it has encouraged me to share pics and videos of her with other people. One, I've been swapping with for quite a few years.

I would never do it and I know she definitely wouldn't. But I do know threesomes (two guys, one girl) is a big turn-on/fantasy of hers. She even mentioned wife sharing as a fantasy one time when I was asking her what her sexual fantasies were. She pulls out her vibe every time she reads one of those erotic threesome books. And one time I saw where she had been watching porn with two guys inside a woman at once. But she would NEVER actually do it - just a fantasy.

I was in denial over my desire to see her have sex with another guy, if she teased me about another guy I would get turned on, but deny that I enjoyed it. Baby steps got us closer and closer, flashing, a sensual massage, flirting, finally she did it when out of town on a business trip.

So I enjoy the stories on the board about sharing, but we were way down that path before I found this board. I completely understand that most men find the idea abhorrent, I did too for a long time.