Keeping the Pussy Private....
 

I have written about a nudist lady friend I have known for over a decade. She is very outgoing, loves sex, and is over 60. Several times in the last few years, she has told me she wants to keep her pussy covered whenever she is around someone new and not let them see all her "secrets". Here most recently, this wonderful, attractive lady has asked me to return all my photos of her with her pubic area exposed.

When she meets someone new, she has always cowered and covered up until she was sure they were old enough and ok with her being naked, then she stayed nude without any modesty. Now she may be nude walking in the woods or wherever and she still cowers and covers up until she is ok they are alright with her being nude, but she keeps one hand over her pubic area and sometimes even puts on a bikini bottom, many of which are very small but still cover up some of her bits

When I brought this up to my nudist wife, she said she understands completely and may start covering her crotch around strangers as well. I have NEVER seen this behavior at any nudist club, although some new to the nudist lifestyle do keep their towels over their fronts for a while. Being a guy, I have no clue about why both ladies are so sensitive about a few square inches of skin. We are not talking about spreading your thighs and showing pink, we are just talking about walking around or sitting. I think these ladies keeping one hand over their triangles looks silly and, as a guy, it is a tease.

Most of us here remember when the pubic area could NOT be shown in photos or movies---it was against the law back then, but I don't see any relevance today, do you? Both of these ladies have talked and agreed to wear bikini bottoms at nude beaches or at least some minimum on their crotches, and to keep towels over their fronts at nudist clubs, leaving them off only if with people they know or to swim.

Has anyone else ever heard of this? Do your ladies keep their pussies covered?

Private Parts
 

Nice to see you started a new thread post. Way back when my wife began showing body parts it was her nipples she covered. Yes her nipples and not her pussy! It took years of actually accidentally getting caught totally topless before
If she wore a low top and a nipple slipped out you'd think it was the end of the world. In time Dollie stopped getting upset with men seeing her nipples. In fact it thrills her to show them.
Of course back then her pussy wasn't really showing. Just that cute little hairless slit. It took more tricking and teasing to get her to show her honeypot all spread wide and pink. So for her it no longer bothers her to show anything to anyone as long as they are over 20. Those 20 and younger kids still bother her to show.
Yet we do know women and have seen others who can go nude for hours yet will stand with their hand over their private thing while talking. We also have seen men that way.

This was at home from our living room with several male friends visiting.

My wife is funny that way. She goes through stages. For periods of time, no problem, other times a little shy when showing the pussy.

Regarding her tits however, she can't seem to show them off quick enough if the situation even remotely warrants them to be free. She's proud of them.

With the pussy, I think, at least with my wife, it is a matter of her not being so confident it is a beautiful thing. I try to compliment her and make her think that I, as well as all others, think it is beautiful. She does have some hefty hanging lips, and I believe that she somehow connects that "asset" with a sign of growing old.

Seems when she is more confident about herself, the more likely she'll be showing the kitty.
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In Portugal at the moment ...
 

In Portugal at the moment and I have some stories to tell but they can wait for now.

Wife, and her friend, enjoy topless sunbathing and sometimes nude. They are happy to do it amongst friends or with people we have met on the beach that day. She doesn't like strangers coming up to her and talking. These guys are often naked and come up to her and are a little overbearing for her. She likes meeting people and is more than happy nude in front of guys as long as they have been introduced to her and the social graces have been paid.

She will often be shy and closes legs etc at first. If she likes the person (likes as in nice person, not sexual) she will be more comfortable in talking to them and a bit of flirting, displaying bobs or minor pussy shots are forthcoming.

Her friend is German and quiet attractive but likes the company of me to protect her from roving men. She will often display signs of affection to me as though we are in a relationship, just to mark her ground and warn off guys who may hit on her (or funnily woman who may hit on me). She has no problem sunbathing with her legs open when I am around. She is a nudist and comfortable with her shaven sn*tch on display to me as she trusts me and knows that I enjoy it in a flirty fun sort of way.

I Had a Malaysian Chinese Roommate
 

When I lived in Kuala Lumpur in the late '70s in a kind of 'Three's Company' situation. After a while, Mary Jane [not her name] became comfortable enough around me to be in situations where her pussy was exposed. However, she always kept her breasts covered, or turned her back when she was changing her top/bra. Sometimes, she would lift the edge of her top (when she braless) to show how firm her breasts were, but always stopped just below the nipple. Once we went on a trip to Singapore together and shared a hotel room. We took a less than platonic shower together, but she wore a swimsuit top.

She claimed to be in her late 20s, but I believed her to be in her mid-30s. I did see her breasts once when the roommate who shared her room asked me to get something from their bedroom and Mary Jane was napping. Her nipples looked like they had been baby-chewed, which explained why she was shy about them being seen. I came to suspect that Mary Jane had had a child out of wedlock and it was raised by her older sister as my roommate's niece.

Just my observation
 

My comments are based specifically on things witnessed at nude beaches. I have been going to nude beaches and a few clothing option resorts over time. Some before getting married and some after. My wife and I go regularly to the clothing optional beach.

The thing I've noticed is the ladies tend to protect the breasts more so than the pubic area. My first experience came many years ago while I was single. I was at a nude beach where two young ladies about my age (early 20's) were sitting about 30 feet away. I can't remember how, but I ended up in a conversation with them for about an hour. We decided to leave and head up the road to a local hangout for some food and beers. I went to my towel and put on my suit, watching them without trying to stare. Both put on their bikini tops almost as soon as I left them, but not their bottoms. I packed and returned to them while they were still putting things away. It was not until everything was packed, that they put on their bottoms. I was curious, but chalked it up to them just being teases (as once we got to the place for food, they told me they decided to just head on home and it was nice meeting me).

Over time, as I visited other nude beaches, I watched and noticed again, it seem the top is the last thing off and the first thing on. My wife doesn't seem to follow any pattern. Sometimes it's the top and sometimes the bottom. I also observed that 90% of the women will sit on the ground or in their chair to undress rather than while standing. In between undressing and dressing, they have no apparent issues walking around interacting while nude. My wife sits to remove her clothes, but dresses while standing.

I mentioned it on a chat board once and received two possible explanations
1) Unlike men, when a woman does not have on her bottoms, her genitals are not exposed (remember we're going back a few years when bush was still routine). So it's like the hair provides cover. That would be the reason the top goes on, to cover the exposed breasts.
2) The sitting to dress/undress, could be related to exhibitionism. To remain standing as you strip off your clothes present the impression you are looking for attention. Most folks at the nude beaches (at least here in my area) are naturists, and are not there for sexual reasons. So subconsciously, there is a tie between undressing in front of folks and being an exhibitionist. But once undressed, being in the company of other who are naked, is not.

Either way I still enjoy the voyeur aspect of trying to catch a lovely young lady as she strips down. ;)

On the Vimeo Video Thread
 

in the Free Sites folder there was a Spanish language version of the Naked News. I noticed that several of the women take their bottoms off before they remove their tops. And they did so on different days, so it is not happenstance.



vimeo.com/fasolini/videos

It is the opposite for my girlfriend.
She is less shy when hair free
She really don't have much, having gone thru many laser treatments,
but when the few hair that are left are long enough, after maybe 3 or 4 month,
she is really doing me a favor by not removing them.

I don't really know why.
Maybe by having those few long hairs, that hide absolutely nothing, she realize that she is almost bald down there.
Or maybe by being hairless she is more uninhibited with her nudity, like young kids are

Women have different perspectives in that regard.

My fiancée will flash her pussy occasionally; but will not let it be extensively out in plain view - like at the nude beach. She likes to keep it a "mystery" to strangers. "Catch it if you can" type of deal.

My ex had a different perception of her pussy. Even on our first time to a nudist resort, she decided to go bottomless. She had a full bush at the time; and figured no one could see beneath it anyway. On the other hand she was self-conscious of her big titties. The next few trips she wore a sarong; fastening it around her titties but leaving it open in the front.
As we became more social, we met nudist women who had a "hidden pussy" philosophy. Keeping their legs crossed and their thighs closed; only showing a taft of pubic hair. They professed it was more "lady-like." I thought it was silly but my wife bought into it. She emulated that for a while. But then she got tired of it. And she saw other women at the resort who were shaved and enjoyed tanning "everywhere." So she ditched the "hidden pussy" philosophy, shaved, liked the way her pussy looked and felt; and went back to being comfortable with her "more" exposed pussy.
Still, I also notice more "conservative" nudist women who stick to pubes and that "hidden pussy" thing.

I think the "smoothy movement" has made a lot of women more comfortable with their pussies. After all, there is nothing left to hide anything, so I guess it's liberating. I've seen women arrive at the beach, kick off their shoes, hike up their dress or skirt up to their waist, and proceed to the beach bottomless. I also once saw a shy newbie wearing a sarong all day; yet she had no problem pulling up her sarong to her waist to go wadding - bottomless.
Over the past few years I've seen more bottomless nudists; opting to keep on their top but nothing else.
I've shaved my fiancée once; but with her "big lips" she didn't like the way her pussy looked, so it was a one-time deal.

As far as undressing, my fiancée goes topless first and sits down to remove her bottom. That's also usually what I've seen at the nude beach. My ex would often just wear a sarong, and she would just pull it off before sitting down. Many women to tend to sit down before undressing to avoid the "striptease effect." Sometimes the top comes off first, sometimes the bottom.

My wife has barely any modesty sat all about her boobs, but when she was younger her pussy was a little more private. I've posted this before but, the 1st time we went skinny dipping at a pool party with my college frat buddies and their GF's, my wife, then GF, had just shaved herself bare as a b'day present to me. As people were stripping down she joined in a bit hesitantly and at first tried to hide her bareness, but one someone got a glance she was the hit of the party, none of the guys had seen a bare pussy. She liked the attention, but some of the other GF's were jealous.

We have never gone to a nude beach or nude resort, but she had no problem going topless in Europe. She did tell me of a the few times when someone walked in on her nude she would cover her pussy first.

Whenever my wife was caught naked with others around her first instinct was always to cover her pussy, didn’t matter shaved or not. Not sure why. Her tits are a pretty nice size. She sometimes would try one hand on the pussy and arm across her tits but that usually resulted in nothing being covered.

As far as my fiancée and my ex, I know why.

My fiancée has what same might call "big lips" (large labia.) Her breasts are small so she's not as self-conscious about them; as a matter of fact she goes braless a lot. She will instinctly cover her pussy when "caught", especially if she's shaven since it makes her big lips even more noticeable. She'll throw both hand in front of her pussy but leave her tits open.

My ex had big titties, but a tiny labia. So it was the other way around. She would instantly cup her tits or cross her arm in front of her tits when "caught." She has crossed her legs to hide her pussy; but it's been a secondary reaction. She's just not as self-conscious about that, since she felt her pussy was too small to really be seen.

So for them it was about what they were more self-conscious about. A woman with big tits and a large labia would have her work cut out for her lol! I once "caught" a friend who had both; and it was comical to see her try to cover her tits with one arm (it didn't work), while crossing her legs and covering her pussy with her other hand. She almost fell over!! :p

Next step after fullnudity
 

My wife and I go to nude beaches and nudist resorts. She doesn't seem to mind showing herself fully nude. That is especially true at the nudist resorts. She is very nice looking for her age and has never really messed around to my knowledge. Well, maybe a little with friends that swing, but, at that, it may have been just a finger fuck while she was really drunk. To my knowledge it looked like she pulled back pretty fast from the finger fuck by our friend -- if it, indeed, did occur. I saw it, but I was busy finger fucking someone else, and only caught it from the corner of my eye. All I know is when I entered her moments later, she was wetter than I ever had felt her. So I think he did get her juices flowing with a good clit massage. I really don't mind her getting finger fucked if she wants. She needs to get sexed up as much as possible. I am not certain after all these years that I do it for her anymore. Same old, same old. I want her to be as satisfied as is possible. Yet, I feel she is holding back for moral reasons. Any ideas how we can advance her pleasure without her feeling guilty. I have told her it is O.K. to go ahead with anything she desires, but I think the associated guilt may be too great for her. After we go to the nudist resort, we are scheduled to get together with a couple of swinging couples. One of these guys may be the guy that might have fingered her. The other guy wants to fuck her so bad that he can't hardly stand it. I think she should start with a first or second finger fucking and go from there. Any ideas how I can get her to loosen up and enjoy whatever sexually activities she desires. I think she really wants it, but is reluctant. I don't care whether it occurs at the nudist resort or at the home of the swingers. I just need ideas as to how to get her to advance to the next level. Thanks for any and all input.

Being a resort nudist for over 20 years, I have not seen any big changes in how nudist women "treat" their vaginas; except that more women now decide to keep their pubic hair. Of course, there are always newbies, who may not be ready yet to let it all out: sit with their legs crossed, put on a sarong or a towel around their hips to walk to the bathroom or shower, or hide their vagina when someone starts talking to them. That's pretty much expected and accepted.
There are also "older" women who may feel that their vagina is no longer "pretty" enough to be in full view; or feel that they should be more modest in their "older" age. I suspect that the OP's wife might have been feeling that way.

But for those guys whose wife still hides her vagina in a nudist setting, my only question is: are you being social?


Going to the nude beach once every blue moon, and then sitting on the far end of the beach not being social ain't going to "do it." Because when those "couple of nosy guys" walk by and your wife is the only woman around; well she's going to be the only person they look at. And unless she enjoys being the center of attention: of course she might feel self-conscious. And unless she's bold, she's not going to learn to be comfortable tanning open-legged by herself.
The first time I ever took my wife to a nudist resort, she didn't care so much about going topless; but she was fairly squeamish about other people seeing her full-on butt naked. But she saw other women there, hanging out by the pool naked, some open-legged; and one in particular tanning her shaved labia spread open. My wife's squeamishness didn't last long, because she knew she just be one out of several women naked in the pool area; and that the woman tanning spread-eagled was going to get more attention than she was anyway. The resort was very social; and as some of these people started talking to her, she became less and less self conscious about what they were seeing. And as she talked with some of these women who weren't trying to hide anything, she became less inclined to hide anything as well. And before long, she was chatting away, not caring about her shaved vagina being out in front of other people. She has not tried to hide since.

I've seen this happen with other women at nudist resorts as well. They see other women's vaginas, and figure it's ok for theirs to be seen too. And when they interact with them, they get comfortable with the fact that their vagina is not the only one that can be seen. So if your wife is still hiding her pussy, go to a nudist resort, meet some other couples and hang out with them. If the other woman is comfortable socializing with her vagina out; chances are pretty good that your wife will emulate.

Not so private pussy anymore
 

As a follow-up to my earlier post on this string, my wife and I did visit with our swinger friends. I thought she might be ready to have a go at a little more action than she indicated in prior encounters. Boy, did she! She got really drunk on Tequila shots. Pretty soon after a nude stint in the hot tub with the four (2 husbands and 2 wives) of us, she came back into the house, and she and the other wife stayed nude and started going at each other with groping hands everywhere and deep tongue kissing, followed by titty kissing. It was more than two guys could handle watching them. We both moved in. Initially, we participated with our wives on the other woman, but then we switched over to just working on the other guy's wife. After awhile, I saw my wife getting a good and rigorous finger fucking from our male friend. I responded likewise for his wife. And after both women climaxed, my wife mounted the other guy with both of them totally nude while he was sitting on a chair and her straddling him chest to chest. He was working on long tongue kisses and attempting to get every square inch of her boobs in his mouth (while alternating between sides). She was breathing quite heavily and began to ride him like the bucking bronco he was. It was pussy to dick for some period. Finally, she climbed off and said that she was ready to call it a night before she passed out. I don't know whether it was from the fuck or the alcohol or both. With that she staggered off to bed and passed out.


On the way home the next day, she claimed that she couldn't remember anything about the evening. I started recalling it for her. She said that part of it was somewhat vaguely familiar, but that most it was foggy notion, at best. Then she said that she didn't want to talk about it anymore. She said, "Did you have a good time?" I responded that I did. Then I said that she sure seemed to be having a great time -- grinning from ear to ear and laughing the whole evening. Now, I think she actually feels guilty about what happened. I told her it was O.K., and that I loved her more than ever. She asked if it bothered me to see her with another guy, and I said that it was somewhat of a turn on. She said that she didn't see why. Then she said, "I don't want to do that again." I asked her why, and she said that she thought she had been too bad. I said, "Don't worry about it -- it was all just in good fun." I also told her that I was O.K. with whatever she did. I just added that I wanted to be able to do the same without any concern from her side. Anyone have any ideas how I can get her pass the moral dilemma that she is working through. We have been married long enough that I know that in the moment she was enjoying everything she did and experienced. It is almost like buyer's remorse. And I think she feels even more guilty that she liked it so much.

My wife when we first started going to nudist resort would war a wrap around her bottom when we would go for a walk. I asked her to stop doing that, as we are at a nudist resort, and she did. She walks with me totally bare. But to this day, when she lays to get a tan, she always keeps her legs tight together. I have asked her to tan between her legs as it is more comfortable that way, but she still is shy about showing her pussy. If the human body is not obscene why hide your pussy?

My wife has very nice tits and at nude beaches or nudist resorts she was never shy about showing them. They ae a good size, 38D, I don't know what cup size. To this day it is her pussy she wanted to keep hidden. She is a bit older now and she feels her pussy is not pretty any more. I tell her she is nuts, but you know how women are. She used to let me shave only the bottom of her pussy, but when we went to Cap d'Agde some years ago she saw everyone shaved totally bare so she wanted to look the same as all the other women. But now she insists I let her keep some hair near her clit area. It's a compromise! She sits at the resort with her legs together, so that no one can see her pussy. She thinks no one would want to see her spread wide. A few women sit and stand normally, if their legs spread a bit and you can see something, so what. I wish more women did as I for one would love it, but my wife is shy. Any suggestions? Anyone!

legs open
 

her most comfortable resting position, whether on a towel at a c/o beach or on a lounger at a nudist resort, is to lie on her back with legs casually flopped open. stays that way whether asleep, reading, or conversing. not exactly private, but suits me fine!

That's what I want her to do, but she is shy. Very few women sit that way. I am surprised more don't. On a regular beach, when women are wearing suits, most do sit that way, but not when nude. Is it their upbringing?

It's learned behavior.

My wife, like many women, was taught from a young age that "good girls keep their legs crossed." The implication is that open legs will "invite" boys to misbehave and cause some mischief - harassment or worse.

Some women are able to "kick" that notion when they get into nudism; others not. I've known experienced nudists that still got self-conscious and kept their legs closed at all times. On the other hand I have a friend who rarely ever keeps her legs closed. It depends on how much their upbringing has a hold on them.

My wife started out self-conscious. She sunbathed with her legs closed and covered her bottom when hanging out outside the pool area. But over time and little by little, she started growing more confident and less worried about getting "too much attention."
Now...it depends on who is around. If she's sunbathing in front of the lake, she lets her legs flop open because, as she says, the people on the water are too far to see her cookie "in detail." If we're hanging out with our nudist friends, she's so used to them seeing her naked that she'll stand or sit in front of them "comfortably"; which means with no self-consciousness as to how open her legs are. She's admitted that it "feels nice" to stretch out legs open. I think that a lot of nudist women would; but not all have the confidence to do it.

Keeping the pussy private.

In my wife's case, it wasn't as much a lost bet as it was a "dare."

There wasn't anyone around at our nudist venue; and the topic of "spreading" came up (don't remember how lol!) Now; my wife is not really squeamish about how "exposed" she is, but lounging around "spread open" to her is taking it a "step too far." I replied: "well; you've never really tried it; and no one is around right now...here's your opportunity!" Not one to back away from a challenge, she decided to "assume the position", much like the pic below (not her either; I'm still kicking myself for not having the presence of mind to snap a pic.)

Her "feedback" on it was that it actually felt "really nice." It was in fact so relaxing to her that she fell asleep in that pose! When she "came to" she just turned to me and asked if she'd been spread open the entire time; and I just giggled and confirmed it. She was actually surprised that she'd found it THAT comfortable. She wasn't even bothered when I told her that a couple of people had walked by and seen her asleep with her legs open.

She still doesn't "stay spread" around other people; but she has a different opinion of it now. But like many nudist women, she doesn't want to feel "on display." So many will never allow themselves to enjoy relaxing legs open.

I can't remember a time that she kept it Private!
 

Unless your talking about just being married and with the family around when we have everybody over to use the pool and Hot tub, that would only be the only case for my wife to keep her pussy or anything Private!
When we went out with a group of friends and was River rafting and staying at a Camp site, I think everybody there got a handful of views from my wife on seeing everything!
Maybe I was a little out dated on some stuff, but having a group of younger women sitting around and talking as well as showing how their pubes extend out from their Bikini bottom's and even showing dropping that bottom telling them just look at this furry mess that I have to deal with was always a thrilling adventure!
With friends and neighbors coming over, it seems like the tits were the 1st thing that came out with my wife asking all of them if she should have her boobs enhanced or are they Ok just as they are now?
I remember back in the day going to the regular Beach's with family and friends, all of the women mostly had a single piece suit to wear and the kept their legs together at all times even when tanning on the Beach!
Since we been to Topless as well as clothing optional Beach's, it appears that my wife along with mostly all of the other women there have NO Problems in being exposed! On our 1st trip that was a cruise vacation, my wife along with her female cousin never did cover Up anything so the rest of the family and friends that were there couldn't see plenty of that Inner Beauty!
Even for doing the full NUDE tanning on the Beach or on the Boat, my wife had her legs spread apart so now with that smooth bottom your able to view both of her glory holes~ lol
Back in the other time, all you got to view was my wife's furry bush and that acted like a cover Up at the time period!
Just like at the Beach with the signs stating that Beyond this point you might encounter NUDE people, I need one of those Signs posted in out house cause my wife ends up shocking many of the friends that I have stop over! lol
The Funny part was my wife wearing her New C-Clamp vacation suit at our house to show off for family and neighbors! It has No top, so she was Topless from the start! Then later the C-Clamp suit that covers and goes from her ASS around the bottom to her Pussy, ended up coming off and missing! She never did notice and didn't cover Up when told, but a lucky neighbor found it at the bottom of the pool and gave it back to her but she didn't put it back on nor did cover Up! :o

We started out at C/O resorts; but then we came across a very nice "nude-mandatory" resort that my wife really enjoyed. It took a little bit of "adjustment" just leaving everything in the car; but now my wife actually prefers just staying naked all day long. All the other women are also completely naked; so she's not so concerned about "standing out" when she's doing resort activities or socializing naked in front of people. And being around other women who are not shy about "NOT keeping the pussy private" has radically increased her comfort level with her "full cookie" being seen by other people.

It seems that the more women are confident naked, the more other women will emulate them. But it works the other way around too: if most women constantly cover up; other women will shy away from being openly naked.

Very true - the trick is to first create an environment where women feel safe and comfortable being naked. Think about what might make them fell less safe or less comfortable.

Yeah, that's what I noticed at my college's naked run, as well. Whenever a girl "got shy" during the run, she covered up her breasts, and not her vaginal area. I always thought it was odd, as the vagina is so much more intimate and private than the breasts. But I certainly wasn't going to complain, because nothing beat seeing my cute classmates' pussies.

Lucky guy
 

Lucky guy, here in my country (France) there has never been nude runs in Lycée (dame as College in the USA) or université. Iwould have been very happy to see some of my female classmates (those who were pretty) naked :)

This is the Most Interesting thread here!
 

I have to say that reading all of everybody's thoughts and ideas, as well as live adventures makes this perfect for learning and teaching others!
I have to fully agree with plenty of the things that "southrn500" said with his observations and experiences!
We have only gone to the Topless and Clothing optional Beach's while married and neither one of us as singles!
Back in our early start I do remember that women having all of that Furry Bush that really acted as a cover Up for their Pussy's. When somebody came around with a camera or just somebody that the women didn't want to see them exposed, the hands went to cup their breast or arms Up doing a full cover! When your new to this, you tend to notice plenty and if your the voyager type there is plenty that you can find exciting! Just like "southrn500" stated, I also enjoy watching the women either dress or undress and being able to view them in different thrilling positions! I also remember going to the Beach's when everybody wore a bathing suit, back then all the women kept their legs close together and never spread them even for tanning~
But now things are more different and it seems like most of the women don't mind spreading open for the total TAN, but are showing both of those Treasure holes for our viewing pleasures!
As for my wife, I was more of shocked as well as impressed by her lack of shyness for covering up any of her Private area's when around friends / neighbors and even family! She does enjoy buying the suits that hardly cover Up anything and still leaves exposure for her Pussy and nipples to be in view~ The BEST part about it is with the less material they use, the less the suit cost and its a Win for both counts - Showing her natural Private charms and saving Money! lol
Being able to enjoy seeing the Private parts from all of these women that include my MIL / Sister / female Cousins & neighbors - along with all the others on the Beach makes of plenty of Eye Exercises! lol
Another great thing is the Sand, watching my wife along with the others bushing the Sand out of her Pussy and Asshole has all the guys watching and my wife enjoys that too~
Keep Up on the Adventures, we'll love to hear more of what You think or had done too!
Thanks for sharing~
;)

That's because the "pussy" is technically the "vulva"; and the vulva can't usually be seen if the legs are kept closed while standing; although there are some cases - like a nudist friend of mine - where the woman is skinny enough to have a pronounced thigh gap - in which case the vulva is more easily discernable.
So oftentimes the only thing you're actually seeing is the "mons pubis" or the top of the clit hood.

Women don't necessarily consider this "exposed"; especially back when they were hairy. Which explains why my very reluctant ex-wife had no issue going bottomless on her first resort trip in spite of her pre-nudist modesty; as she didn't consider herself "exposed" (in her own words: "no one can see anything anyway".) She technically wasn't wrong, as the only thing actually visible was pubic hair. It was much more challenging for her to let her tits out.

Letting the vulva be seen is much more "committed"; as it implies having the legs open to a degree where the vulva can be seen. In the nudist world, it can be nearly unavoidable as a consequence of simply lounging comfortably or doing physical activities. Some women embrace it; while others simply accept its inevitability. Which is the case with my wife. She shaves bald; and she knows that through or various interactions with other nudists, and while doing physical activities, her vulva (aka "pussy") is going to be clearly visible to other people - from time to time. She's not going to flaunt it; but she's not going to be shy about other people seeing it either.
And I like that lol!!:p

The above post is very correct, and the timing is hilarious.

My wife's vulva (my favorite word, btw) is so far between her legs that you can't see ANY of it unless she is sitting. In fact, her bush is also so low that she looks completely shaved while standing normally, even though she isn't!

Last night she was walking around the house completely bottomless because she forgot something upstairs and didn't feel like putting anything on. I asked her if she was worried about others in the house seeing her. She said "You can't see anything down there anyway when I am walking!"

I had a friend in college talk about this once at dinner because the women were all asking each other what they would rather show if they could only cover one thing. All the women said they would gladly let their boobs show while covering down below, but my friend said she would cover her boobs because "everyone has a butt anyway, and you can't see the front part anyway unless you are digging down there!"

This is an interesting thread. Some women, my wife for example, the vulva is right up front, she's an outie, she keeps herself trimmed, so from the front all is visible. She has smallish boobs, so she was in the cover-up the pussy first school, she figured her boobs would get much attention, she's wrong about that. One time a pool party turned into a skinny dip, the booze and pot helped, there were 5 young ladies there, my wife included, the other female's bush hid that their vulvas, but my wife was very visible and got a lot of attention from guys. At first she was embarrassed, but that changed when she started enjoying the attention.

The comfortable way your wife is sitting in your photo is the way I wish my wife would sit. I love it when ladies pose that way but so few do. It would really turn me on knowing that others would be able to get a good look my wife's bare pussy.

Just a quick correction: that is not my wife in the pic; I was simply using that photo as an "illustration" of how my wife sometimes lounges. But when she does it, she is facing away from other people. Occasionally someone wading by will "catch" her thus exposed; but it's not very frequent. But it wouldn't bother me in the least if she did it around people.*

We have a good friend at the resort that shares the same distinctive physical traits. On top of that she has a pronounced labia (aka "big lips"); and you can see all of it from pretty much any angle. In her case she has clearly chosen to not care. She probably comes off as an exhibitionist to some people; but the reality is simply that her pussy is practically "unhideable."
The "challenge" for me is not looking at her "ever-present" pussy when we interact. I don't want to make her self-conscious; even if she appears to not care. My wife, on the other hand, does look; and will even talk to me about seeing a LOT of our friend's pussy while hanging out. But I guess she feels that being a woman herself - coupled with the fact she also has "big lips" that our friend has seen - gives her "permission" to look. Women can be "funny" that way.

Sorry for assuming that was your wife. I just wish more ladies would sit that way.

My current partner has a very tidy pussy appearance so even when fully shaved she only shows her mound and outer lips even when laying back. Unless she actually spreads her legs.

My previous partner had a very short trimmed patch with a puffy soft mound but her clitoral hood and labia were very visible even when standing.
(Labia hypertrophic) I believe they call it but dangly bits is what I called it. And more upfront too.

It Attracted the attention of many when we were naked on the beach or around others.
Caused more than one guy to get an erection in our presence.

So then it was his turn to try to hide what was between their legs before their wife or partner noticed their reaction.
I actually loved it… Made her unique.

My wife is private until she isn't. In other words she'll say things like 'I'll only wear that thong bikini when no one is around' but as soon as it's on, all the modesty goes and she'll make no attempt to cover up.

Many times we've been to clothing optional beaches and she's kept her bottoms on, but whenever she is brave enough to take them off, she'll totally relax into it.

As others have said, pubic hair provides good coverage, so it's strange that shaving bare often results in a less guarded approach. I can say that my wife has been naked with various styles of pubic hair, but her fully open / spread fanny has only ever been seen bald. There is definitely more confidence, even though she was originally reluctant to shave.

It helps that she has (as I like to remind her) a very fuckable pussy, just the slightest hint of an outie, a slit that's mainly underneath but visible at the front and perfectly proportioned juicy lips.

For those who have no idea what that actually would look like, I found a perfect example. This looks pretty much like our friends'; and I'm sure everyone can understand now why it's "unhideable" and why it can be hard to maintain eye contact while hanging out lol!
For a social nudist, being "equipped" in that manner is going to obviously take a lot more confidence; since it is certainly going to attract much more attention than a "lower" vulva.

My wife also has labia hypertrophy; but her labia is much lower than our friends'. So she can easily choose whether it is seen or not. Our friend does not have that option lol!

This is today's lesson in female anatomy lol!

It's an interesting fact. It happened with my wife; but even more strikingly with my ex. It was a "chicken or egg" thing with her: I don't know if she became more confident first and decided to shave as a result of being "ok" with people seeing her vulva; or shaving and having "nothing left to hide" made her more confident. I'll have to ask my wife...

You say that her pussy is unhideable but of course it would be hideable if she kept her bush.

It's another feature of the bald pussy trend, that you are not only exposing your most intimate parts, but also something unique and personal.

It never fails to amaze me that women choose to share this with me and others at beaches and spas.

Making the pussy public...
 

On that topic...

Not that long ago, my wife and I were discussing some of our more "uninhibited" nudist friends and acquaintances; including the one I described earlier. I'm actually pretty lucky that's she's willing to have these conversations! :p
So I asked her how come some women at our resort will actually have a whole conversation with their legs open right in front of me. She says there's usually two reasons (not including exhibitionism):
- The feel they can trust me and be comfortable naked in front of me, so they let their guard down. If their "natural posture" is open-legged, they're going to be fine with me seeing them that way (which my wife has done herself with others).
- They're newbies and they're trying to "prove" they're confident (they're usually not) by taking a more "open posture" (which my wife has also done).

I know some may find this incredibly erotic. But I've been in situations: whether it's someone standing right in front of me with their pussy right in front of my face, sitting open-legged on the top ledge of the hot-tub, or simply reclining on their lounge chair with their legs open; where it's actually pretty awkward, as it turns out. As a proper social nudist you're "expected" to maintain eye contact; and I've sat there, stuck, with a pussy right in front of me but forced to maintain eye contact. It's like having an itch you can't scratch! Sometimes it feels like they're doing it on purpose; as a matter of fact, my wife admitted she has done it with one of our male friends just to see if he'd be able to maintain eye contact without looking at her exposed pussy!
These "rules of etiquette" don't seem to apply to women. I asked my wife: "what about a guy standing in front of you with his dick dangling at eye level?" She says: "well...I'm going to look!" WTF!? LOL!

Nudist women can get away with that kind of stuff because the resort culture allows them to. They can get a guy kicked out of the resort with a single complaint. At the same time, it can also help women be less inhibited; as with my wife. She knows that when standing open-legged in front of our group of friends, the women might look at her pussy; but the men will force themselves to stare at her face. She also knows that if she looks away they will then look while she's not watching; which gives her complete control of when and how they see her pussy. Must be nice!

You forgot that some simply don't care. Their spread legs has noting to do with you, whether you see them or not.
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