Posting Stories because You can't Post Pictures
 

OK, Just want to know if anyone is in the current situation I'm in:

I've started posting stories because my SO won't let me post pictures. If I do, I will probably be murdered or at least Bobbitted.

Now, until very recently, my wife did have an excuse. She worked for a law firm and if nudes of her were discovered, well, she'd be fired. And, as such, any photos or movies I've made are sitting on an external hard drive, much safer than the idiots who use the Cloud and actually expect it to not be hacked (sorry to any of you who do, but it's the truth).

Now I have one small hope. I know that a few years before she met me, she had bought a webcam in order to make the IRC chats she was having with distant friends more interesting. Very interesting, as I saw 2 photos on her own hard drive that had her flashing her boobs in one and her pussy in another. I was stupid, so I only able to recover one of them,when she tried to delete them. but I do live in hope that other photos are out there.

I haven't exactly told her I've been posting stories. But I'm going to assume she won't mind too much, because she's real down on her appearance (still can't grok why I keep asking for photos), but she loves written stories, because, as she puts it, "Everyone can be beautiful".

What if...
 

What if you promise her you'll only post photos that don't show her face? That's what my wife requested. And if I want her blessing to continue taking and posting pics, that's a rule I can live by! :)

I am, and I'm sure many others are in the same boat as you guys.
I've posted a few, very few, pics of my wife with face blurred or turned. And further, with low resolution. I also try to be careful of backgrounds with could prove incriminating.

Sure, because of all that, the pictures pretty much suck. But it is what it is.
She likes to be seen naked, but under her terms, some of which seem illogical to me. But as I said, it is what it is.
For her, I think the main thing is family seeing something.
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I'm in the same boat here. I've posted a very few and she seemed really nervous about it so till she comes around I'm posting stories

I am in the same situation.

After stumbling onto this forum I found a way to somewhat anonymously retell an experience I had at my friends lake house with my wife.

Since posting that weeks event it really excited me reliving that time. As it had happened years ago it started me talking to my wife. We have had conversations on our comfort levels of exposure and even touching.

I have written about each experience here as it occurs. Her comfort level seems to be a moving target at times.

I have requested a picture, I have requested me taking a picture and recently I told her it was OK for her to send a friend a picture. She absolutely refuses. I could blame the cloud also because she mentioned that as one of the many reasons not to have her tits on someone's phone or computer, face or not.

I have taken ModelT's suggestion in this journey. She may be moving at a snails pace but I am excited and supportive of anything she is willing to do including no pictures.

I agree
 

I was just talking to someone today about this subject- For me, at least, writing and sharing stories about our experiences is exciting for me. I get to relive it all again while writing it. That's the main reason I do it. Knowing that others enjoy reading them by getting comments and "Thanks" makes it truly worthwhile.

While its true that good photos to go along with the story really makes it an outstanding tale (read those by Nudebeachlover and many others here), pics aren't really necessary. There are many great stories here on OCC that contain no photos.

Beezelbozo, if you enjoy writing them, just relate your stories without worrying about the photos for now. Maybe, in time, she'll come around to allowing you to post a pic or two, especially if you pick a couple that cannot possibly identify her as the subject and get them "OK'd by her first.

Since she likes your written stories, if I were you, I'd write a story that I know she'll love, complete the layout with a flattering but unidentifiable photo or two of her and show it to her. Maybe she'll like it enough to let you post it "as is". ;)

Nectcouple

It is a huge bummer, but then again... I enjoy my wife and the time we are with others. Actually kinda' makes it better. I also worry about our jobs and such. You just have to be safe!

I'm Back
 

We haven't been on here as much as in the past. Sort of packing slowly to put this place up for sale. Bought a home where we are from. Also our 25 year old son has been here more. Puts a bind in getting on adult sites with a son looking over our shoulder.
Anyway I saw my name was mentioned..... without cuss words so that's a good thing.
Again I read things that made me smile. I really enjoy writing stories about us, especially kinky things my sometimes tame wife has done. Yes, writing the stories is just like reliving the adventures. At least we were smart enough to keep notes and photos of our wildest adventures. Without those and guessing what was said we are able to write.
I do add some photos but Dollie no longer lets me take new ones. So what I have are those from bike events and vacations of a few years back. The really kinky old photos are long gone from moving before and worrying about family finding them. On the plus side she loves sharing her pictures. I could show strangers at Wal-Mart and she'd smile!
Since I was a trucker and Dollie didn't work we don't have the problem of a boss finding any photos and firing us.
This and family are the probably the biggest worry of members.
Just keep writtiing the stories and slowly try to convince your partner into letting you add some mild photos.

Women are unpredicable so don't give up!

Even dressed in a crowd she's nearly naked.

I've put out that idea, but she shot it down because she's afraid the people who really do know her will be able to tell even if it isn't her face. And she's more afraid of friends seeing them than strangers. Not so much that they will think bad of her, but she doesn't want them to think of her "in that way". "Besides", she tells me, "no one wants to see that shit (aka her naked body)"

(Which I've got a news flash, almost all of our male friends would be happy to see her naked, and several have made remarks in that direction).

What's kinda frustrating is she has an exhibitionist streak. You get her really drunk or just really horny and she'll do some crazy stuff. I may someday get permission, but I had a pretty lousy dating life before her and currently spending the best 14 years of my life, so I'm not willing to risk losing her over my thrills.

Also, I've got my own trust issues. I'd consider sharing some photos, but once they are out of my hands, I have no control as to where they go. So... yeah

Yup
 

You are right, there! You can't trust where they'd go. Maybe someday she'll let you, but you're right...post nothing without her permission. I wouldn't either!

Let me briefly echo some of what's already been said. It's a trust thing. My wife would never consent to having photo's posted. She worked for a government agency and would suffer huge embarrassment if the photo's ever became known. Once the photo's are out there, they're there forever. Behind closed doors she was an outstanding lover willing to try just about anything. Why would I mess that up by going behind her back and posting photo's?

For my side I totally agree with you. I think in your case you should not post :)

Both
 

We do both here, post stories, as well as posting pictures. While my wife was originally ok with the posting of photos, she changed her tune a bit with regards to her face. Most of the photos we post now either have no face, or her face is either covered or somehow situated where it might be entirely clear, even on the "full frontal" face shots. But, a few of our original posts showed her face.

We love posting stories from our past as well. It's great to be able to re-live those experiences, and sometimes it leads to creating new experiences. :)

Steering off course a bit...........
 

Steering off course a bit:
For those who posts wife's or GF's nude photos WITH face, and WITH the wife's consent or blessing:
Can you offer the woman's logic, mind-set, or reasoning that allows them to be comfortable with being seen nude in front of the world, particularly friends, family, co workers, etc?

That is, other than the obvious, which is that none of us should be so inhibited.

Can is simply be their exhibitionistic tendencies trump all?
Or?
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My wife is extremely sensitive about her body (always has been). She lost a lot of weight when she was young, so she's had stretch marks all of her life, plus her breasts are very lopsided. I had my hands in her pants a long time before she would ever let me see her breasts, and that took a lot of gentle persuasion (and tears on her part).

So, I don't want to embarrass her, and I wouldn't take a chance on a shot ever getting out. She knows I've written in this forum and been able to discuss some touchy topics I/we can't discuss 'in public', but embarrassing her would be wrong (we've been married almost 40 years, without ever having a real argument, so why push things now?).

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My wife hasn't given me the "official go ahead yet", (I posted a couple to judge feedback)she says that she feels like she's gotten "fat" over the years or that she doesn't have a nice body. I really want to post what I have (1200 pics)t show her off and prove she has a great body. She hasn't changed much since she was 18, except for bigger chest. After having a kid she thinks she isn't attractive anymore and it isn't the case!

Anyone have any tips? I feel like I am not articulating why I want to in the best way. I think she's beautiful and it turns me on when I see other guys checking her out. We've done some things outdoors and she says she loves the thrill of getting caught. I'd hate to push her away from it by botching "the pitch"

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Does she know you are a member here?

She knows I'm on a site, not particularly this one.

I"d show her...
 

I suggest you show her this site and show her some of the threads where husbands have posted pics of their wives, so she can see how proud the husbands are and how kind and complimentary we all are on OCC. Tell her that you're so proud of her that you want to do the same.

Show her some of the threads where we have debated the question of whether to post our wives, or perhaps faceless vs identifiable photos. There are a number of threads here that can help convince her that it might be a fun thing to do for both of you. My wife agreed because she knows how sexy I think she is and how proud I am of her. I promised that I'd post no pics of her that showed her face. After she saw some of the compliments she got, she was thrilled to do more.

One word of caution: If you decide not to bring up the subject at all or if you do and she still says "No", I would NOT do it against her wishes, even if they are unidentifiable!

Good luck to you (and us!) :)