Getting Turned On By Other Men Seeing Your Girl Nude and Knowing What You Get to F***
 

About ten years ago I hid three video cameras, pinhole ones, color, in three different angles of the condo’s guest bedroom. I not only secretly videoed my girl, but I got to see a lot of other women I knew in the nude, as friends came over to use the hot tub and pool.

One of the bonuses I never thought about was that I would get to show off my girlfriend in the nude a few of my male friends and my brother. Eventually six guys I knew got to see Cynthia in every inch, every angle of her, from her intimate bra and panties to her totally nude. I used to spank it, thinking about how they got to see what I got to play with. She was a hot sex toy, and a secret centerfold for other guys. It was like privately humiliating her and it was hot.

The other guys placed their gfs and wives in the position of being videoed, so we traded, as it were. In the case of my brother, we let each other watch a tape of us secretly working our girls from A to Z, every act and position imaginable.

Are there others like this out there, who did this, but also get turned on over other men learning what their girls look like in the nude, and what they’re like to f***?

ofcourse, I would love to do it. But with her permission ofcourse.

Got to post some vids mate !!!

Reading between the lines I'm guessing Cynthia is now your EX. Most likely she found out about your nasty dirty ways.
I've done many things with and to my wife. But never taken sneak photos or movies. I even get pissed when we see men taking sneak pictures and videos at the nude beaches and other places we hang out. It is just not right. Either do it openly with permission or don't take photos. There are more than enough willing women around.

That's also how I feel about ra--pe. Why do it when there are many women just begging for sex? In a way taking secret videos is a form of ra--pe.
As for the title of this post, yes I do get a thrill out of showing movies and photos of my wife during sex acts and nude but she was a willing partner when it happened. Also willing to let me show them to others. Often there.

Sorry, I just write it the way I feel. Feel free to delete this post.

Exactly!
 

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Exactly what Model T said. Couldn't have said it better!^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

^^^^^ Exactly what netcouple said about what Model T said. He did say it for me ^^^^^

LOL!
 

LOL! :D

Dude, not cool violating the trust of your GF. If everyone did that, none of us would EVER get laid again, except maybe under the covers AND wearing masks!
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But I'll forgive you if you forward me some of the vids..... :D;)
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For some who are posting here about how wrongful I am at spying on women when they are nude, I don't take you seriously.

There's are MANY voyeur threads here at One Click, usually beginning with "Unaware" or "Voyeur", etc., and NONE of you who have criticized my conduct have gone on their threads, WHERE THEY SHOW ACTUAL PHOTOS OR VIDEO OF THEIR VOYEURISM, and made the same comments to them.

NONE OF YOU.

I'm simply dismissing your statements of how wrongful I am as some kind of childish game you're playing out.

I know I shouldn't have written the things I did on your post. Sorry! But those really are my feelings. I love and respect my wife and would never do anything like that.
Whether it's right or wrong, it's actually up to you. There are many things on this forum group others are against and are wrong to some.
As for voyeurs we'd never enjoyed our original games without them.

You've made valid points. ;)

People will have various levels of "I'm okay with that"... and I'd admit that I've changed a bit on how I feel about personal adult content... ie: someone takes pictures where others are taking pictures (nude beach) and such - well, okay, shit happens. I'm sure there are strangers who have photos of my wife naked in semi-public places. Especially when she was sucking me off.

There are people who poses for photos or know they are being photographed while being nude or doing sex acts. Which many of us, would be "okay"...

I was cool about celebs photos that leaked (the Flapping) but some stars made some well thought put statements as their photos were purposely hacked from their phones/computers whatever... That is a different matter, no?

We all have our own moral values...

I don't think I care to be brushed aside so easily. I can't speak for others but what gets me about your action is your betrayal of the trust that should be present between people in a relationship.

So if I happen upon my partner enjoying a private session with a toy, I might peek through the door and voyeuristically enjoy the action. But if I invited my buddy to watch with me that would be wrong in my book. Because my partner could reasonably expect that I would not do that.

If I am out gardening and just happen to spot my neighbour sunbathing topless, I can legitimately enjoy the happenstance. If I set out to spy on my neighbour in the hope that I'll catch her sunbathing topless, that would be wrong in my book. Both situations are voyeuristic but the intent or lack thereof makes a huge difference.

And you, SpyStrip, from your account took your actions without the consent of your partner and that is what is the downer for me.

I freely admit to enjoying the verbal voyeurism offered by this website. But a significant, although small, proportion of the messages leave me thinking that it would be better for all of us if the writer were behind bars.

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Ok. I was about to chime in here too, but decided it wasn't worth my effort. Just don't come back here crying or whining when she finds out what you do and divorces your ass. :confused:

a follow up
 

Thank you for all of your recent comments after I made my first follow up and pointed out the idiocy of acting all noble here on One Click.

First -

Yes, there is definitely a difference between walking in the forest and hearing two people make love, and then creeping down the path to watch them totally nude and f***ing their brains out, versus my predatory and wrongful intent-filled conduct.

What we did back then was WAY out of the ballpark in a moral sense. We were (my friends, but especially we meaning my brother and I) turned on by the idea of doing this, and then socially interacting with our women afterward. That is, we played our games using connecting rooms in Las Vegas, then went to dinner with our girls dressed to the 9's at a great restaurant (in this came Michael Mina's at the Bellagio), then went dancing with them, all the time their not knowing they were turned into porn stars. This was extremely hot at the time, and we were in our early 20's and were rather childish about it all.

Someone mentioned Cynthia divorcing me; we were never married, and broke up for reasons totally unrelated to this. I don't believe it was ever headed to marriage and children and we were kids.

We literally burned all of the tapes, not out of a sense of morality, but out of fear that everything of this kind is eventually discovered if not destroyed.

Some interesting discoveries I made from doing this:

My brother had a fetish about women's hidden tattoos, and learning about them was a real turn on to him.

The one woman we let in on when it came to this LOVED watching the men naked, and wanted to know how every guy she knew was hung, and it put her in the mood for playing with my brother and I.

The more shaved a woman was (this was about 2005), the more likely she and her man would grab-ass one another as they got dressed/undressed in preparation for using the hot tub.

Seeing your boss in a bra and panties combo that matched is HOT.

My brother said watching his girlfriend's mother undress was fantastic.

I don't mind ending the debate at this point and moving on to my reason for posting this, which is -

I really REALLY posted this to attract others who have shown off their women to other guys and the effect it had on them in their sexual minds during foreplay, thinking about how their modest wives or girlfriends had been seen by other men. The idea of it still gets me hard. Does anyone have similar experiences?

You're right
 

We did get way off track here and I appologize for that. Also, thank you for being more civilized in our conversation than I was. (I owe you an appology for that, too.)

To answer your original question, hell yes! Both my wife and I get excited over the whole process, from posing and/or taking the photos to posting them and reading the comments and messages we occasionally get.

For me presonally, I love knowing that guys have seen her photos here on OCC and get off on them. As for RL, there have been a few friends of mine who have seen a few of my wife's photos as wallpapers or desktops on my laptop, tablet and phone. It is a real thrill when they notice it and ask for a better look or ask if I have any more I can share. I usually say no because it mostly happens at work where it is not a good idea to be perusing those kind of photos, lol. There is one friend of mine who has seen a large folder of her nude photos after I loaned him a memory stick I forgot to erase first. (I swear it was an accident!) I wrote about that incident somewhere on OCC. BTW...because he asks for more pics quite often, I still share the occasional photo with him. It is real fun for me when he comes over to visit. I know what he is thinking when he looks at her. Its easy to see.

I think we all are here because we are all voyeurs or exhibitionists to one extent or another. That is what draws us here, right? We might not be showing photos of ourselves, but lots of us sure like exhibiting our wives. (Exhibitionist by proxy? I think I just invented a new term!) :D

Regardless of how we aquired them, we love to show off pics of our wives and hope someone says, "Wow. You lucky bastard!"

Later!
Mr. Nectcouple

nectcouple and ModelT
 

nectcouple,
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Thank you for your response.

Yes, I believe the 'lucky bastard' aspect of things is a lot of fun.

My brother and I were different. He became turned on by other men knowing the details of his girl's body: how her breasts were shaped, the darkness of her aureole against her breast, how she was shaved, etc.

I was more holistic, and liked that men saw my girl nude entirely, and could imagine what she looked like when being worked.

There's a thread here called 'Unaware Wife', have you seen it? 90% mask the face, but it's still exciting. Yes, your memory stick moment is also that kind of thing.

I appreciated all of what you wrote on the thread here. I will look at your past posts and comment as I can.

ModelT,

You may want to look into 'Burning Man Regional Events'. I go to several, and there is a lot of flashing and similar antics there. Please private message me for details.

SpyStrip

This thread took several sharp turns but I'm sure many of us are learning from what we see and read here. After all, we are all voyeurs and perverts or we wouldn't have joined in the first place. The great thing about it is we all seem to be understanding adults and critsizm does not bother us.
In the real world I often say things before I put my brain in gear. Here I sometimes write before my fingers listen to that same mind.
As for netcouple............ "Wow. You lucky bastard!"

Yes, thread took an ugly turn
 

Let me just say this, and then lets get the thread back on track.

I've spoken here on OCC about how my wife puts herself in situations where she CAN be voyeured around the home and at beaches.

But further, she has told me that she fantasizes about be peeped on or even photographed when in changing rooms and dressing rooms. So much so, that she says she always tries to look as feminine and seductive as possible when in a dressing room or changing room..... just in case.. !! (not an easy task in a tiny cubicle)
I know the thought of that gets her a little excited.
Not saying she'd actually WISH for it to happen..... just a fantasy.
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SteveZ there is a thread here I think about changing room exhibitionizm. I even wrote about times Dollie did it to look accidental.
But I also belong to a few other sites and been so busy these things are beginning to run together. Still I think it's here someplace. Fun reading in that changing room thread.

Dollie trying on clothes in Key West.

This is my current kink
 

Regular porn started getting boring to me, so i started looking at a lot of dirty and sometimes fucked up porn, eventually that lost it's appeal. Then one day I was going through some old stuff and found some vids me and my wife made fucking. She thought these had all been deleted. I got really into just watching and hearing her get fucked. I started screen capping images out of the films and touching them up a bit to look better... then it hit me, i look at so many porn sites, why don't i start contributing. Since then I've been uploading my wife everywhere, face and whole body exposed, with dick in her mouth at times. I've also started getting creep shots and videos of her changing, or getting her to flash me when she doesn't know about a camera nearby capturing her tits for me to share with the world.

It really turns me on thinking that other guys are getting off on my wife. I love it when I can get other people to write short stories or scenarios of her getting fucked and abused, sometimes with my help. Captions too.

For some reason the thought of another guy banging her brains out in a kind of non consenting way gets me rock hard.

Anyways, here's a few pics of her.

imagefapper
 

That a very cute and sexy wife of yours. Love the hot nipples of an Asian woman. Keep them cumming!!

If you're taking request would love to see some of her masturbating.

I love talking about my wife and showing her off any chance I get :) . It blows their mind to know she shaves her pussy, is into anal, or let me take tons of pics. She comes off as very conservative but as soon as the "bed room door closes" she changes. (I put that in quotes cause she likes outdoor sex too)

I think knowing intimate details of someone is very hot you're not supposed to know these things. A friend of mine told me his wife started trying anal and in the past has either swallowed or let him creampie her, now when I see her I picture that :D

Agreed
 

I absolutely feel the same way. It's a HUGE turn on knowing that other guys are checking my wife out, getting turned on, and sometimes jerking off to her. I love hearing those stories, and sometimes she does too. Sometimes she'll feign embarrassment over it, but it's a big confidence booster to her as well.

yes I totally agree I love to think about this.... showed a guy at work my wifes tits and his first comment was i wanna cover those with cum lol

Spy: I voy and unaware shoot and film my wife, and I openly do so. I share without her knowing. I get off on creating and cultivating my collection as well as sharing it and discussing it. Don't let these porn site surfing moralists, who are likely pretending to be so fucking pure and open with their wives, get to you. Film, share, enjoy.

I'm not a voyeur moralist in any way. I look at it and enjoy it. I don't have a moral quandary about it.

Back in the day my ex was a nudist. A confident one; she was naked all the time at the resort, shaved and lounged with her legs open. Hundreds of people have seen her naked in the flesh. I imagine it wouldn't have been difficult for someone to snap a pic of her with her legs and labia open; as some we can see in the nude beach picture section. Would I be offended if I did find a pic of her online? Heck no lol!! I would say "go ahead and enjoy!"
I have pics of her myself at nudist locations, and of my GF masturbating. I personally choose not to post them because they would be a) a violation of trust b) possible legal ramifications.

But as far as b) the odds of being "found out" are fairly slim if posted on a website such as this. They would have to be copied and posted on a variety of other sites. And as far as a), some women are exhibitionists or very confident and actually enjoy being shared online. If my GF gave me the go-ahead to post her masturbation pics, I'd do it in a heartbeat. She's hot.

That might make me sound like a hypocrite; but as I said I have no personal moral quandary about it. I enjoy what's out there; it makes my day sunnier!

pics
 

Pics of them??... WE NEED PICS OF THEM!!....:D

Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:)

I've never encountered women willing to have nude photos taken, nor have I ever met women just begging for sex. Perhaps I live in a Puritanically hypocritocal part of the world devoid of such lovely ladies. I would love to know your secrets regarding how to find these women! :D

That’s unfortunate! I’m sure there are plenty around, just you haven’t managed to happen upon them yet.

From my many years of dedicated, diligent and debaucherous research I’ve found women are attracted to men who are confident, in control, know what they want and present well in whatever style that may be.

I had a friend who was an amateur photographer. He would approach women on the street, show them his portfolio of tasteful nude photos and many would agree to pose. They would go to vatios parks and beaches, set up signs stating a nude photo shoot was in progress, and then he would photograph them. Later he would give them copies.

He was very successful in doing this. He showed me his portfolio; it was incredible.

At our wedding, I met a lot of friends of my wife from her grad school days...they days when she would skinny dip in groups and flash at parties...a lifestyle she gave up when she "settled down" with me.

Seeing guys (and a few women) drooling over her who never got to play with her, but I had been screwing my wife several times daily for a year or two, plus the next 20 years (and counting) after the wedding, yet those people drooling never got to even touch her. I just loved the way they stared at her in her wedding dress, trying to remember what she looked like naked under it.

My friend has the biggest crush on my wife, and she knows it. She's never been nude in front of him, but she likes to flirt around and tease him.

It fucking kills him, and drives her wild knowing how bad he wants to fuck her.

After he leaves, its straight to fuck town.

That reminds me, I need to have him over for a few beers.

That's the best part of having a wife you love dress up for you. You know both men's and sometimes women's eyes are going to be on her. My wife has done it plenty in the past before we started swinging. When she was younger my wife's boob's defied gravity. After a few kids and 15yrs later they're still hanging on ok.

The issue we have is my wife has a vision issue so she can't see anyone looking at her unless they're really close. I can, but then men turn away. We sometimes wear our black rings out on our right hands or on her thumb to indicate we're swingers but we've never been hit on. I'd like to change that. Few pics over the years.

1st is from a date night in Boston around 2007. (2pics)
2nd is a date night in Providence around 2016
3rd is probably from a few years ago.