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A Questionaire for the Ladies of the Board
As I was thinking about ENF, I realized that I've never really heard a woman's side of the story. So, I have created this questionaire to find out more about women's feelings about embarrassment, modesty and exhibitionism. This can be answered by those who are and aren't modest. I couldn't really decide which section to put this in, but this one seemed best, as most of the questions are embarrassment related. Ladies, I realy am interested in the answers to these questions (even in a non-sexual way). The questions won't really require you to delve into your personal lives or make you relate personal horror stories (unless you want to, of course, then by all means do). However, I would appreciate honest answers. Also, please number your answers according to the questions. Answer only the questions you feel comfortable with (or all of them, if you want). These questions are not meant to judge you in any way, and are only meant to get a look at the "other side of the story". Thank you.
Here goes: 1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? For any "Ladies of OCC" answering: See next question. 8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC? If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?) 9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? 10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) Hopefully that wasn't too bad. Again, thank you ladies for answering the questions honestly. It is very much appreciated. Fango |
girls come on this is a really good questionaire i think you all should answer it
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Girls, don't do it yet. Make the boys reply first!
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The file name is called easily embarrassed. With that title, I'll be able to find it if there are several messages from the boys, answering substantially all the questions. Roxanne |
i'll take roxanne's dare
just out of curiosity i answered for myself
1. no , don't know 2. don't exhibit if i did it would be to see if i got a thrill from it 3.tell em to fuck off , probably leave to get money so i could finish what i started 4.do the scene , wouldn't matter 5.i'd go , haven't been 6. depend on if it was allowed in the area or not 7.not worried , don't think anyone would look long (might even break the monitors) 8. don't know , if i posted anything i wouldn't blur ( anything i posted i would be proud of) 9. don't , don't really care 10 if it embarassed someone i care about in conclusion i guess my ego isn't very big and my attitude sucks |
On whipping it out if you think it'll help you get laid
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The smart man knows that if he wants female cooperation, he needs to be willing to play along with her to get what he wants. If the dudes want to know what the ladies think, it might help if the dudes make the ladies feel interested in responding. I don't know how many ladies there are here, but we're definately in the minority. Most of you guys probably would be just as happy if we all disappeared from here, but for those who want an answer, it might help if you tell us about yourself. Back in the bulletin board days, a lot of guys asked me questions. My most common response was that I would answer the questions if they told me their answer to the question as they asked the question. |
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(Although I did get involved in a game of strip pool once where the lady against whom I was playing said that she wasn't really interested in me until I got naked (and to answer the question, no ain't got no pics). No boast here, and I'm nothing special: heck, I wasn't even, shall we say, noticably turned on. That's just what she said. Although, I suppose that we wouldn't have been playing that game if she didn't like the life support system.) Quote:
Okee dokee, Roxanne, I'll play. My thoughts: 1. No. / Depends on whether I've been working out, or it's the middle of the lazy season. 2. People generally, fine. Internet? I ain't that good looking. 3. Are there hypothetical police around who might not understand that my clothes just disappeared? Male nudity is treated differently from female nudity, so there are some additional considerations there. 4. Vain, but not that vain. 5. Big fan (only been to the topless variety). I like to look. 6. Well, I'm in public... Can't really gripe, can I? 7. I don't know. Is it flattering? 8. N/A 9. Being naked in front of friends would not be exciting. Fun, not exciting. 10. Not really modest. Your turn! ;) |
I'll chime in, why not?
Q1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? A. Not really. I'm not saying I have a raging bod, although I keep pretty fit. I used to surf alot and there would be times I changed out of my wetsuit to drier clothes right on the beach and I didn't really care who saw (with the exception of kids). I have been naked before at parties. When I was in HS "BJ parties" were really popular, and if you're familiar with that there usually would be a combo of Girls and Guys so if you were afraid to get naked (said in the voice of the "Soup Nazi" from "Seinfeld") NO BLOWJOB FOR YOU! Q2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? A. I would fall in the middle of the road, I don't flaunt it nor do I necessarily make it a point to cover up. I shower at the gym, I try on clothes at the store, I go to the Doctor. I what I'm saying I don't let it bug me if I have to get naked. The last thing I would be worried about is being naked in front of Women. Q3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? A. Well if I was at the mall what better excuse to have your clothes disappear? :p Q4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? A. If I was an actOR (i'm not) I would'nt have a problem doing it myself... (now are we talking mainstream movie or adult here?) Hollywood has always been more leanient towards showing more female nudity as opposed to male, a topic which has been an ongoing arguement for years. Q5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? A. No problem. We have nude beaches in Calif. and I've done it. Most of those who do the nude beaches are just there to get the full body tan anyway. I'ts pretty non-threatening. After all, you're all naked anyway. Q6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? A. I think at a place where you go naked and expect to have a degree of privacy I would be a bit ticked off if someone invaded that privacy. Not because I am afraid of being another statistic on the internet, but that someone feels it's ok to exploit unvoluntary strangers naked bodies. Again I don't care if anyone sees me naked, they just don't necessarily need a momento of it. Q7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? For any "Ladies of OCC" answering: See next question. A. Same as answer above, privacy invasion. Having it taken down would most likely be useless, as soon as it hits the web you're forever circulated for posterity. Q8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC? If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?) A. n/a Q9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? A. Either scenario would be ok. Like I answered in Q1. I have been naked in front of friends ans strangers at the same time at parties, and on top of that I was hving sex. How more vulnerable can one get. Q10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) A. Somewhere where nudity ws completely wrong (i.e. A Convent, A place where kids would be). Best I can do. |
Hehe...Great! This thread has done a 180 and is all about the guys now. :rolleyes: :D
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Behold the power of woman.
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Haven't posted much on here, although I'm an avid reader, but here are my answers:
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? Nope and nope 2. For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? It's only a body, we've all got one after all 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? I think, "Sh!t!!" and walk calmly to my car 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actor and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? No, do it myself 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? Haven't been yet, but would love to go 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? Wouldn't care. In fact, the more people who see me, the better 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? See above 9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? the first one is definitely the more embarrassing 10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) Being naked in front of family or friends, really |
Finally got some replies from the men
Finally got some replies from men, so I'll post what I wrote when the question first appeared. I'm don't believe the few women here have an obligation to entertain the men. I'm pretty much willing to answer ALMOST any question posed, IF the questionner is willing to answer their questions when they asked them. If no guys had the balls to reply, than I wouldn't have either. I don't have the balls (but I can borrow a pair on short notice, whenever I have need of them).
For those who have chastised me for asking to see some guys reply first, and who pointed out this is One Click Chicks, not One Click Dudes, or this is for ENF, not ENMale, I'm sorry, but you are to be pitied, and ignored. Occasionally, I'll see a guy apologize because there is a penis in the photo, or I'll see a guy complain there is a penis in the photo. I feel sorry for them. Were I to explain what I think that means, it would take this in a direction I know the moderator wouldn't want it taken. Here is what I wrote 8 weeks ago, and held until there was some action here. Roxanne ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ 1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? In general, I am not embarrassed by much. There are some situations if I was naked which could be embarrassing, but not involving friends or like minded people. I've lost wagers, and the exposure has been more than I've wanted to show in that situation. There was a Kentucky Derby Day party weekend a few years ago. All the races were on TV, with the right kind of chip for the satellite. Most of us showed some skin during wagering, and some of who didn't do well as horse pickers lost the garments we wagered. We went home without what we lost. We were obligated to wager on each race. Those with nothing to bet had to do something designed to embarrass. I didn't have to do that, but the woman and the man who had to perform did things which would embarrass me. At the Derby Day party, there were many private side bets. I had 2 side bets; both embarrassed me some. I spent several days on our last car trip through the southwest naked, riding or driving through Arizona, New Mexico and Texas. I gave a man old enough to be my grandpa an extended view, and I spent time naked in Carlsbad Caverns. Some of you know I do some writing. I occasionally post something I wrote, if it is on topic, in reply to a photo. I don't do that often, because this is more a place for images than word images. The Derby Day weekend story is partly written, but I don't know when I'll finish it. = = = = = = = 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the Internet)? Sometimes it's fun. That was more true when I was in high school and we went to Parkway Plaza in cloths designed to expose, or when I sat under a tree at San Diego State, where a peek down the top of my dress showed the grass I was sitting on. As I get older, it's not so much that I'm exhibiting, just that I'm being me. = = = = = = = For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? N/A = = = = = = = For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? It's more a matter of being comfortable in my own skin, then dressing and behaving in a manner consistent with what I believe and how I live. Unless I've been on the wrong end of a wager, I seldom force it. = = = = = = = 3. Hypothetical situation: You're out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you naked. Everyone around you notices and is staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? Hypothetical answer? I donno. Probably try and hide my most important body part, in case there's a camera around. I'd cover my nose and mouth with one hand; my eyes with the other. = = = = = = = 4. Hypothetical situation: Your'e an actress. Your role requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? In college, I auditioned for the female role in Steambath. Early in the play, she walks on stage wearing panties and carrying a towel. The stage is full of naked men in towels. She puts her towel down, takes off her panties, and takes a shower. She dries off, puts her panties back on, and d****s the towel over her neck, covering her breasts. That's her costume for the rest of the play; occasionally the towel slips. I got a call back, but didn't get the part. The woman who did ended up living with the male lead. There are no body doubles in a play. I was willing to play the part, or I wouldn't have auditioned. I memorized the naked actresses' credo. Nudity is OK, if necessary, to move the scene along. I was in a play in college, where I had to strip down to a flesh colored body suit. It was experimental theatre. My character was in the body suit because she refused to get naked, but she played the role as is she was naked. I did enter an amateur night contest in a bar, a thousand miles from anywhere I'd ever been before. I got naked. I won. = = = = = = = 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I've been to several nude beaches, natural hot springs, and a few naked resorts. The feel of sun and the breeze on the body can be very sensual. Besides, I keep telling all who will listen that the skin needs to breathe too. I've also been to many naked parties, including pool or hot tub parties. I go to spend time with friends. If the party is a clothing optional or no clothing event and my friends are there, I'm happy to be there too. Some of the parties have involved the winning or losing or clothing in games of skill or chance. Most -- but not all -- parties or games were amazingly non-sexual. Years ago, the games occasionally determined ones partner for the evening -- or for part of the evening -- but such games were the exception, not the rule. = = = = = = = 6. Hypothetical Situation: Your'e at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach). You see someone take a photo of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Take action, to the extent possible. That's why I stopped going to Black's Beach; too many perverts with cameras. At many clothing optional beaches, naked men run off people with cameras. = = = = = = = 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the photo is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC, you see your naked self. How would you react? It hasn't happened, or it hasn't happened yet. That makes this too hypothetical. I'd probably be angry, at least at myself. Who knows, I might be relieved, because the Internet cherry was punctured, but I doubt it. = = = = = = = 8. "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC? N/A = = = = = = = If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not? No, I wouldn't post a clothed picture of myself. Photos of me are on the Internet - dressed - but I didn't post any of them. No, I wouldn't currently consider posting a my nude photo online. I've read about ordinary women posing nude for charity fund raising calendars. That notion appeals to me on some level; it could happen someday, but it is unlikely there will be a way to trace THIS personality to THAT photo. Somehow I don't think my dad or my clients or my colleagues would hold me in any bad light for that exposure, but I don't think I'd give our CEO or Chairman of the Board an autographed copy of the calendar. No. blurring my face wouldn't matter. Those who know me might recognize me. I've seen some amazing work on OCC to defeat the blurs. Those who KNOW me (in the Biblical sense) might recognize me; that's not a good thing, in my opinion. = = = = = = = 9. If you're modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you? That's an impossible to answer hypothetical, because it ain't gonna happen. = = = = = = = 10. For those who are modest: What would be the most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? I think the most embarrassing thing possible for me would be sexually explicit photos or videos of me giving a blow job, or engaging in any naked sex act, whether deviant or not, to be seen by people important to my life. The photos would be even more traumatic to me than to have the same important person walk in and see me actually doing somebody or somebody doing me. The image would be worse than the memory. |
ok.. i read here since quite a bit of time.. time for a message.. isn't it? ;) and where better than here? so..
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? - no, i like being naked 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? - i like myself.. i like to see that other people like the way i look like.. i likke to see other people staring at me, and maybe turn on 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? - i thinkk i stay calm and ask if someone has something to cover me.. if i was clothed, it means it was no good place to be nude.. if i could be naked there, i probably already was.. if i lose my clothes among friends probably i don't care.. most of them have seen me naked 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? - do myself. no it doesn't matter 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? - i'm used to go to nudist beach since i was 15.. i like to tan naked, i like to be watched, i like to swim naked 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? - not embarassing, but it makes me angry.. stealing pics is not like watching.. it happenede to me once.. i went to the guy completely naked and standing in front of him i asked him to undress and let me take a pic of his penis.. he turned red, but did what i asked, and he had an erection, i still take taht pic as one of my funniest souvenir :9 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? - don't know.. angry, for sure.. but i don't think i'd ask the admins to remove 8. If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? - i'm considering it.. ;) 9. For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? - little group for sure.. there can be more interactions 10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) - nudity embarasses me not.. even sex pics of me would not embarassing for me.. as long as noone i know, noone i love, can see them without expecting it |
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Well, alexia, first off thanks very much for your response. Second, I sure hope you decide to go for it. You sound very comfortable with your body and I hope that you share it with us here at OCC someday. :) Thanks Fango |
Another male response... let's get some more ladies too!
OK, I'm male too but I want to provide another male data point and I want to see some replies from more ladies too.
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? I am easily embarrassed, but a situation involving me being naked would only be embarrassing if it was a result of a bad decision on my part. If it were something like being photographed naked in a changing room, then no. 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? I am very exhibitionistic. I get off on the idea that a cute chick might be getting off on looking at my body. For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? N/A 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? Not my fault, so I'd probably just walk to my car. (Do I still have my car keys?) What would be embarrassing is trying to explain to someone that my clothes just inexplicably disappeared. They probably wouldn't believe me. They'd think I had done it deliberately and that would be embarrassing. 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? I would LOVE to get a role that required nudity, and I would do it myself. Get paid and get official permission to show off my naked body to lots of chicks? Absolutely!! 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I have been to one several times. I liked it. I got horny most times that I went. However, most people would say that I'm too skinny and pale. I got some comments like that. Also, people at nude beaches seem more likely to be rough pot-smoking types. So I didn't feel like I fit in. 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? It wouldn't be embarrassing. I would enjoy it if someone wanted to do it. The only irritation would be that I'm not gay and I would assume that it would probably end up on a gay website, so I would assume that women wouldn't ever see it. 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? Same kind of thing. 8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC? If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?) I have posted nude pictures of myself on a website with my face cropped/blurred. It was a website where both genders go. I got a lot of insulting comments from guys saying that the pictures looked gay. Dunno how a picture can look gay, but there ya go. So I probably won't do it again. 9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? As I said, the embarrassment would depend on whether they thought it was my fault or not, not on whether I knew them or not. The excitement would depend on whether there were cute chicks there, whether I knew them or not. 10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) Let me put it this way. Once I got drunk at a bar and went home alone, drunk and horny. As I said, I am very exhibitionistic and now I was drunk too. I decided to do something very stupid. I took off all my clothes in the lobby of my apartment building and carried my clothes in one hand and my keys in the other. Then I rode up on the elevator to my apartment and went in. It was about 3 in the morning so I didn't see anyone. But if someone had seen me, it would have been extremely embarrassing later (when I sobered up) because it would be clear that it was my choice to do that. I think that would have been the be all, end all most embarrassing. I don't know why I did it, but probably the fact that it would be very embarrassing was part of the rush that made me do it. It's different for guys, though. Someone seeing me do that could have gotten me kicked out of that building, arrested, people thinking of me as a dangerous pervert. So it was stupid and I hope I never do anything like that again. Comments or more answers from ladies? |
I came here to find a picture a friend was in. But I thought I would answer these questions since I am bored and no one here knows me.
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? I dont think I am easily embarrassed, but a situation being naked would be embarrassing. 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? I am modest I guess because thats how I was raised. Some things arent meant to be seen by everyone on the planet. 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? I cover my face with my hands and run as fast as I can to my car. 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? I would get a body double probably. 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I MAY be able to go to a topless beach, if it was just me and my friends. If everyone else was doing it, I could probably do it. 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? Yes, it would be embarrassing because I would be worried that someone was using it for something like a webpage. 8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC? If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?) I would never post a nude picture of myself online, because who knows who will see it. I guess if my face was blurred it would be easier to do. 9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? Being naked in front of a small group would be more embarrssing because its people I know, people who see me everyday. It would be easier to do it if it was a bunch of people I would never see again. 10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) The most embarrassing thing in the world would be to be seen in private, like in the bathroom or my bedroom, if I didnt know someone was looking, especially by people I know. A couple of years ago, I was about 16, they caught someone peeping in my bedroom window. The police arrested him and all of that. But they said they think he had been doing it for a long time, which is embarrassing. But since I didnt know that guy, it wasnt that awful. But if that had been a guy from school or something and he had been taping it or something, and everyone at school saw it, that would be the worst thing in the world. That was fun. Thanks. Bye. |
Any more ladies out there want to take a crack at this? :)
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1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? A:I'm not easily embarrassed (although I used to be when younger). So showing myself naked is not a problem for me now. 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? A: I think it's a melange of Risk and Excitement - I enjoy the excitement of showing myself - with the associated risks, and I get excitement and satisfaction from positive feedback from guys who appreciate what I do and how I look. A lesson here for the lurkers, obviously; leave a brief comment, albeit anonymously, and you'll see a LOT more pics! 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? A: LOL. My first thought would be whether I could cover my legs, which I regard as my least flattering feature! 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? A: I'd just take off my kit and get on with it. 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? A: Have been going to such places for about 15 years, I like the sun on my body and swimming in the sea without a costume on. 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? A: This has happened a number of times, with me lying or sitting on the beach. I pretend I haven't noticed. I actually feel a little sorry for the people taking the pics..... 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? A: This happened, in the very late 1990's. I hadn't seen the camera, I had been on holiday in Europe. I Have been showing myself on the internet for several years. After my holiday I was doing my internet 'research' for sites. I found a whole load of stuff on Voyeurweb where someone had been filming me only a week or two before. I was angry - for just a few seconds - then I was pleased that someone thought I was worth filming, liked the submitted supportive comments and did nothing as I thought that would just add to identifying me. For any "Ladies of OCC" answering: See next question. 8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC? If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?) A: The answer is already covered by my answer at 2 above....Although I do not show my face, as a promise I made to my husband to save potential embarrassment to him and to our business. 9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? A: Neither. Anecdotally, a year or so ago we had a dinner party at home, four couples. We had a similar conversation (after several bottles of wine). I got my tits out in response to a (male) question to the females along the lines of "would you ever consider..". None of the other girls did though. :) 10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) A: Not applicable And as I have completed the task list, I will ask a question of my own. Gents: you like seeing pics of naked women - why don't you leave a brief supportive comment having viewed, when you know that will almost certainly result in more naked pics being posted? An interesting thread Fango, thanks. |
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I also love hearing these kinds of info from the women. Roxanne had a great story about losing everything while water-skiing and having to endure a long nude boat ride back to camp.
Along those lines I loved SukiNippz story about finding pics of her on voyeurweb. Guessing you're a Brit from your language (costume, holiday). Any chance of us seeing those ;) I also wonder: since you're not terribly easy to embarrass, what's your most embarrassing exposure (even if its just a BF catching you rubbing one off)? And what would you consider a more embarrassing picture of you to be left up on the computer when a mixed-sex group of friends were around? You spreading it wide, or you clothed but pleasuring your man by hand or mouth? And your point about compliments is well taken. I always make an effort to compliment original contributions for that reason. |
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Yes, I have noticed that you leave comments. And yes, I am British. The voyeurweb stuff is long gone - hell that was 9 years ago! if someone still has them I wouldn't admit to them being me, as they showed my face (see answers to Fango's questions above). And your last question I have some trouble giving an answer, really. The one scenario (a leg spread) is (to my mind) just nudity; whilst the other is a form of porn and assumes that my face is visible. The first scenario could happen, whilst the second one wouldn't, as I try very hard to be in total control of the cropping of my pics so there can be no accidental ones around showing my face. Suki |
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Fango I put your question up on another forum and thought you might get a kick out of the answers. I may have added one as well.
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? Yes, Very. Naked= scary for me 2. For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? I am embarrassed where my body ended up at. I am not happy with myself as I am, and I am not one of those "happy being chubby" people. sex= lights off, in bed or in shower. I wear at least a tshirt or something to cover me a little, showers with lights off.... and I wont change in front of anyone. 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? Hopefully someone has a (big)jacket near by.... I duck and hide behind anything I can. (jeebus christy I am going to have nightmares now, aren't I?) 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? body double. no questions asked. (sharpei doubles should be cheap ) 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I'd go if *I* didnt hafta be nekkid. Again, my own demons and insecurities. I envy people that are ok with who they are 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? If I was comfortable enough in myself to be naked, I dont think I'd give a crap if people were taking pics. Either a) someone thinks I am hot or b) I am apparently a side show and my pics will be all over the net the next day. 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? I'd ask whoever posted it if he's single 8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? both make me puke in my mouth a lil. probably people I know. I'd never be able to look them in the face again 9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) jeebus any of the situations you have listed above would have me in counseling for a LONG LONG time. 10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them things it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later. I'd take their suit too... and I'd be pissed. UGH. STOP THE MADNESS! lol 11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover? one arm across boobs, one covering the kitty. In a fitting room, being naughty. LOL I wasnt as chubby then though whew. |
1. I am not easily embarrassed. Being naked in front of strangers would be embracing being naked in front of friends not at all.
2.I am somewhere in the middle I guess. I dont find showing all of my goods to strangers fun for me. Just how I was raised I guess. I would much rather have my hubby see me. 3. i borrow a coat until I can buy new clothing.. In a public place children are around.. there needs to be decency. 4. I would do it myself depending on the situation of the play or movie. Also how much would be shown. 5. Sure nude beaches would be fun 6. Humm I would be pissed because I dont know what they are doing with them not out of embarrassment. 7. Same.. without my consent my image shouldnt be plastered about. 8. Large group I guess 9. uhhh I guess being naked in front of my family wouldnt be so great.. 10. Again it depends if it was at night and I had other clothes around it would be funny. If I was in daylight and there was a 5 mile walk involved I wouldnt call them my friend anymore.. 11. I havent no.. 1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? not really. 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? I get sexually excited. I like for my partner to fin the pictures and be thinking about them when he sees me. Also I want other people to feel like it is ok 3. What do you do? wave 4. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? do it myself 5. why not? I would go, but have not been. I still have some things on my list to do before I die 6. How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? It would not bother me really 7. Now, how would you react? I think it would be a violation to post it. I would talk to the person who posted it. But in general it is more of a priciple I would be enforcing 8. Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? Really just walking down a street. 10. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later. I have dipped in the pool without a suit. People in general do think it is funny. But it would not bother me. Well it would not paralyze me from action.Revenge is a dish best served cold 11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover? I actually cover my nipples. |
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?haha no i'm not very embarrassed in general unless it's something to do with my mom...mmm depends on who was seeing me naked, one of my coworkers walked in me while i was changing pants i was mortified
2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?i show it off, low cut shirts...shorter, body hugging dresses...tight pants...why? because it makes me feel sexy and more attractive...plus you do catch more flies with honey 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?my face would probably be 10 shades of red but i'd pretend i didn't notice a thing & pray that i had waxed my vag recently 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?do it myself, why get a double...that would be admitting i was insecure about my body, while there are things i wish might be a little firmer or smaller, it's my body and i love it...took me a long time to get to where i could say it 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?oh i'd love it, i walk around nude in my house 85% of the time if i have clothes on it's usually because i'm coming home or going to work or i have company that being nude is not really an option 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?i wouldn't want someone taking pictures of me, i don't do free porn...the point of a nudist beach is where you can be in comfortable surroundings with like minded people, not pervs who are going to take advantage of the situation or even worse people who want to take snap shots which they can later ridicule on photobucket 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?seriously pissed & then i'm callin my momma....then heaven help ya cause my momma is a scary broad 8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?it would be more embarrassing to be naked in front of friends and coworkers...i would 9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)mmm... i think the most embarrassing thing would be having my stepdaddy or my cousin Matt (who's like a brother) walk in on me while nude...bleh i think i would cry and vomit from humiliation 10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them thinks it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later.haha i've actually done it to my best friends...we laugh about it but if they did the same thing to me i think it would be something to laugh at because we've been swimming topless numerous times, which i was the only chick but oh well 11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover?i got caught without pants luckily i had on a long sweater....i didn't cover up i shrieked then explained i was changing pants he didn't see much and he turned his head.. |
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? Hm, yeah i would say so. I blush easily. If i was in a situation where i was naked it would be very very embarrassing.
2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? I only like showing it on the internet because i can decide what get shown, so it's "good" pics. I show it because I like reassurance and it makes me feel better about myself....unless people are saying negative things. :X 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? I'd be extremly embarrassed and hide behind something and beg for someone to throw me something to wear. LOL I'd also be worried about getting charged for bein naked in public. 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? I'd get a personal trainer so maybe i'd tone my body. IDK what i would do. I wouldn't like someone pretending to be me. 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I haven't been to one, but if i improved on my body I'd maybe go. It would be nice to feel "free." 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? Hm, I'd ask to see the photo and if I liked it... they can keep it. hay if ppl are gonna have pics of me they better be flattering >:O 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? I'd be in shock and it would depend on the site I am on. I would maybe want it taken down...I would definitely email whoever owned the site and tell them that they should have permission before they post pics of people. 8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? Well, they are both embarrassing.... but i think i would choose the strangers. lmao... 9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) Being caught naked in front of any classmates or co-workers would reallyreally suck.. 10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them things it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later. Something to laugh bout later, but i'd be really pissed at the time. 11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover? my ugly boobs LOL |
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2. It makes me feel sexy and I love the excitment. 3. I would hide and ask for help. Some places are not meant to be seen in that light. 4. I would play the role. 5. I have always wanted to go to a nudist resort for the experience, excitment, and freedom. 6. I would most likely shrug it off and/or show off a bit. 7. I would post on the thread letting them know that I am aware of what has happened and go from there. All picutres posted should have the permission of the model. 8. I would prefer the intimate group. I'm not a fan of crowds in any situation. 10. I would laugh at depending where we were and who is there. There is a good chance that I would do it back to them and just keep swimming. As long as there was no one else there I would have no hard feelings. 11. If it was someone that I did not want to see me then I would cover everything. 1. I am very easily embarrassed in general, yes, and that would carry over 100fold if it involved me being naked. 2. I don't have a significant other -- never had a boyfriend or anything. I won't show myself because I am very embarrassed with how I look. I don't even think I've looked at myself directly in the mirror in a long time now. 3. Probably make a dash for the nearest clothing (or other) rack, try to cover myself, and then curl up into the fetal position and start crying as I hear the nearest teenage boys asking if they just saw that fat cow over there. 4. The only place I would get cast as an actress would be the "before" model in something, whether it was for some acne product or a new diet pill. I guess it would have to be me, then, but I am sure I'd refuse the role. 5. Never. 6. Well, assuming in the hypothetical situation I was nude, I would be extremely upset, because I would be sure they were going to post it on the internet as some ugly fat chick on a joke website. 7. That would be pretty amazing. I guess I would PM that person. 8. Definitely the large group of strangers, for some reason. I guess I feel like the people I know already see how disgusting I am, so while it woud still be highly embarrassing, I would move on. 9. Anything involving nudity, really. I suppose it would be if someone stripped me of my clothes and threw me into the middle of some all-boys high school. Those guys usually like seeing women, since they're around guys all the time, so it would hurt much worse for me to be so bad that they would be repulsed by me, much worse than just at a normal high school, if that makes any sense. 10. Actually, I would probably just rip off her swimsuit, too, if she ever did that to me. Assuming no one else was around, it wouldn't be all that embarrassing. It would probably be kind of funny. I only have 2 friends, but they are the best friends anyone could ask for, so I wouldn't be embarrassed to be naked around them. I just wish I could see them more often -- I only get to meet up with them like once or twice a year . 11. Yeah, by my younger brother. It was during one of my weight loss attempts when I was 16. I took off my jeans to work out on the exercise bike in my parents' room, because I didn't have any pants that would allow me to move freely. He was 12, came in to watch television, saw me, we basically just looked at each other and he turned and walked out without a word. It wasn't complete nudity, so I don't know if it counts, but it wasn't all that bad, I guess. If I were completely nude and caught by a stranger, I would probably curl up on myself. |
1. Actually embarrassed easily with certain things (like confrontations in public, criticism in front of others, doing something clumsy/stupid, etc.) but when it comes to anything sexual or dealing with nudity no problems with being embarrassed at all. Modesty and embarrassment are two different things. I learned to not be modest from the earliest of times in my life with having to change outfits for routines and competitions (dance, twirling lol, cheerleading, etc.) in dressing areas set up with curtains just under the stands or just out of sight’s eye for most observers (everyone changed in these places not just me) as well as from doing runway modeling and stripping as soon as you hit the curtain to get in the next set and be right back on the runway (with security guards all around making sure no one bothers you- what a job! The guys loved it and my mom always reminded them that I was X years old… what a great mother…. hehe).
2. I love my body. I am completely comfortable with my body. I like showing that state of being with others and to give some women who may have had bad situations in their past like me with name calling and such to realize that they too can have confidence in themselves and their bodies. You have to love yourself before you can truly open your heart to love someone else (that has nothing to do with posing nude in any way). There are things that are not my favorites about my body, but I love that I have been given what I have. 3. Laughing my ass off would be a start. Followed by “wow I didn’t know they had invisible clothes vacuums in here?” or “I knew I would get caught taking those clothes” (not that I would but that would teach a moral too). Then more laughter and “Can I borrow a shopping bag or something to head outside so that I don’t get arrested?” That is if anyone were left standing by that point in time around me. 4. I would do it myself no matter where I was. 5. Yes. I have not been to one, but I would like to go. It is on my to do list. I have not been yet as I am always with friends or family who just do not understand that side of things when I am even remotely close to a place like that. Another thing is that everyone has their perception of what they like in a person’s body. What if I go and there is no one that I like? That would be a disappointment. 6. I would talk to the person if I realized that it was being taken. After all, why take a picture of just me when I would invite them to take a picture with me. I do not mind having my picture made (even naked) and would love to give them the picture that they really want. 7. I would ask them how their vacation was at “x” place and send a picture of me to them so that they knew that it was truly me speaking to them. I would probably give them a Spotting Verity award for actually seeing me in public and posting a pic. I would also ask them why they did not want to take a picture "with me" instead of "of me"? 8. You know I would not mind being naked in front of either group. But, I would be more excited to be in front of a larger crowd. 9. Not modest… so not applicable. 10. Definitely something to laugh about later. Hopefully the friend taking the bathing suit off was a guy and that leads to something else. But never know those girl friends can be quite naughty at times too. 11. Yes. I have been caught when I did not want to be caught. In the past I would have covered my boobs with one arm and my muff with the other. That was when I got caught. Now, I do not care as I am naked in my home most of the time and completely comfortable with my body. I have found in that situation that it is better to come back at them with something funny, like “How are you today?” When they turn tail and run in embarrassment for catching you naked, then you throw in the “Have an awesome day!” That will get them every time. Just turn the situation around on them. |
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1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?Yes, I am very easily embarrassed and being naked would be difficult 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?I worry about people thinking I am unattractive 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?Blush, run, find the first thing to cover up with 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?Acting allows you to be someone you are not, so I would do it either on stage or in a movie, but a movie would be easier. 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?I have been to one, but didn't take my clothes off for the above mentioned reasons. I have no issue with them though and if I felt like I would be accepted I would do it. 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? That would make me very nervous and I would leave 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?That would upset me because that person is violating my privacy 8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?It would be much more difficult in front of people I know. Especially if I have to see them again. 9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) The most embarrassing would be becoming suddenly naked by someone or a group in order to ridicule me. 10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them things it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later.embarrassing 11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover?hasn't happened |
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?
Easily Embarassed is an understatement. I don't like to do anything that will draw attention to myself. Being naked would be the ultimate humiliation for me. 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? I don't show my body because I am ashamed of it. The only reason I post pictures here is because I am trying to change that belief. It is hard going. 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? I would be motified and grab the nearest anything to cover up with. 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? I could never be an actress, so this would never happen. 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I wouldn't go because I don't even like getting into swimmers, never mind going naked. It's not for me. 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? I would not like people taking photos of me without my permission. It is the same as people taking them from here and posting them somewhere else without me knowing. They have no right. 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? LOL - I just answered that above. I would be furious and ask for it to be removed. Especially if they show my face which I have made a conscious decision not to show on this or any other forum. 8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? Both would be my worst nightmares. 9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) Any situation where I am naked would be horifying for me. That plays right on to my largest insecurity and I would do anything to avoid putting myself in a situation where it could occur. The only reason I am able to post pictures here is because of the anonimity. No-one knows who I really am. 10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them things it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later. I wouldn't be laughing about it, and in all honesty we probably wouldn't be friends afterwards if they did that. 11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover? Never been caught - make darn sure I can't be either. |
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?
Kinda easily embarrassed, depends on the situation. And depends on where the nakedness is taking place 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? I have some pics I am willing to share and others not so much For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? Cause the body is a beautiful piece of art 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? I would probably tell them to take a picture because it lasts longer, take two incase they loose one 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?Do the scene myself.....LOL It wouldnt matter, acting is acting 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I would probably go....I have never been to one, but would be willing to go 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? Ummm if a person took a picture of me I would atleast like them to tell me they were doing it 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to here (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? I would probably freak out.... 8. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? Dinner party would be more comforatable 9. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) 10. Say your swimming with you best friends and one of them things it quite funny to take off your swimsuit and leave you naked. Would this be embarrassing or something to laugh about later.Soemthing to laugh about later 11. Finally have you ever been caught by someone without your clothes. If so what do you cover? I cover my boobies, I dont know why just do |
Thanks, DWK. That's great reading!
I sent you a Private Message... Thanks Fango |
What forum did you get these from?
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http://chubbyparade.com/forum/showthread.php?t=47846 Never mind the PM then, DWK. :cool: Fango |
google is a fantastic thing for searching for forums eh lol
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A bump to see if there is anyone new to add to this interesting topic
This is a really interesting subject and I think it need a proper bump to get the ladies interested again, so I will give another male answer to these questions in the hope that the ladies will share.
Q1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? A. I don't think I am, nudity does not embarrass me at all, although if women want to see me naked and I am not already naked they have to strip first... Q2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? A. I am in the middle I guess, I don't exactly enjoy people looking, infact I kinda find it sad (I have scars from head to toe, have a beer gut and am hairy). But having said that, at most I just tell them to get naked too, which most people find offencive if they are just perving (male and female alike) Q3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? A. I wouldn't care much other than the fact I'd be arrested, but I would tell people to get naked too if they liked staring so much.. Q4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? Just do it I guess Q5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? A. I have been to them before, because people there don't look at your dick so much as your face, its refreshing. Q6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? A. It's happened before, I chased them off when they started taking photo's of a group of girls who didn't like it, its really quite rude in those places... Q7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? For any "Ladies of OCC" answering: See next question. A. Meh. I'm on the webs somewhere right now naked I'm sure 8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC? If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?) A. N/A but it wouldn't matter blurred or not, I am not ashamed of my body Q9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? A. Neither really, I get no thrill out of being naked, nor do I feel any embarrasment over it Q10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) A. N/A not overly modest I hope this sparks some renewed interest in the ladies out there, and to the blokes that did post to this it was interesting to see your view points too, it was all in all an interesting topic, and to see the different points of view. |
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? Yes I am, generally, but I am quite good at pretending I am not in most cases
2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? Never done any topless or anything of the nature, I do like that idea of having to show myself because of an obligation. I get turned by humiliation and being in someones wicked hands.N For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? I would be mortified, and I am not sure how I would react. THe problem is, I have had a few close ENF situations in my life and when you are surrounded by people you know its not exciting at all, just plain embarrassing 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? I couldn't do it, or maybe you would get used to it. If it was on stage it would be awful. 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? I haven't ever been. I can't imagine it, but the only thing is that as everyone is the same, I could pretend its normal, and would certainly feel a lot better about it than if everyone else was clothed 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? A nude picture! With my face and everything! I would be mortified, and very very angry at the person that dared to take a picture, but, can't see myself arguing with no clothes on, would have to cover myself up first [/COLOR] 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? For any "Ladies of OCC" answering: See next question. I would be even angrier, if you couldn't see who I was, then not so mad, but if they could, I would be paranoid that people would see it, I don't know if this situation would tb to severe to have me excited or not. Its not even like my fantasies of blackmail, as the worst has already happened. 8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC? If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?) I would do it and have, under certain circumstances, not just the sake of it or to show off my body 9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? Both cases sound awful, but if I HAD to choose, then better stage with strangers 10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) If I fantasize with people I know seeing me, then I don't even get turned on. It has to be strangers, and being exposed on the internet would be bad. In a park, hotel, street, restaurant, ANYWAY, where my clothes were not in my power, and if I had to beg for them, I would be turned on, but extremely extremely embarrassed. |
"If I fantasize with people I know seeing me, then I don't even get turned on. It has to be strangers, and being exposed on the internet would be bad. In a park, hotel, street, restaurant, ANYWAY, where my clothes were not in my power, and if I had to beg for them, I would be turned on, but extremely extremely embarrassed." From wherearemy clothes
it is always the unknown that creates the best fantasy, the mind can work best not knowing the patterns of the people involved....and having your clothes near by dear, but not within your grasp is a classic dangling of a carrot....so close but yet so far away |
My Replies.... From Dee...xxx
Here goes:
1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not? A.I am quite easily embarrassed, if I'm honest 2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)? For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)? For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body? A.I have only shown my body part to my hubby and the faceless pics I have posted here. I was really nervous to post at first - not exactly 18 and skinny any more - but got a great response, so it gave me a total confidence boost! 3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do? A. I'd die....! and would be totally freaked out...! I'd grab the nearest persons coat..! 4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage? A. If I were an actress - then I wud go with the part and do it myself after a Stiff Drink..! 5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not? A. Never been - not sure I would go naked...topless maybe...! 6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action? A. As I wouldn't go naked - this would never happen...! 7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react? A. Honestly - would Probably ask a Mod to take it down - as a naked pic showing my face would cause embarassment to my family.For any "Ladies of OCC" answering: See next question. 8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC? If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?) A. The great comments I have had have given me a real Buzz! 9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? A. The most embarrassing would be in front of a group that you know definately..! 10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.) A. Being walked in on by my kids when having sex...! - So I lock the door...! Replies are from Dee not Paddy....!!! |
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