thoughts about wife
 

what do you do with your thoughts that youre wife had former sex in earlier relations or
the fact that she is cheating on you and have sex with another man.

maybe the thoughts of it turns you on when you have sex with her or maybe you fantasize about it or
maybe other reasons or maybe you become a cuckold.

Thoughts
 

I know mine has had sex in former relationships she had three kids when I met her, as well was boned 10 other times besides by the childrens fathers. The tow boy's are from the same guy but the daughter from a different guy. I sort of think she was fucked just before our wedding but not really sure, but from what I seen and could tell it seemed like it. I as well think she may of been fucked a couple of times after we got married but again unsure of it. I can say she hasn't been with no one but me in the past five years for sure, we married in 2009 and she is my third wife. As for what my thoughts are, yes I do think about how the others fucked her and have fantasized about it, in short got turned on by it. I have also wondered what it would be like to watch another man fuck her in front of me for real, all these thoughts have turned me on.

My wife was a virgin when we met. I changed that on her 18th birthday and we have been together ever since (about 18 years). I'm pretty much certain she has not been with any other men, but there have been a couple of occasions where I've though maybe she did cheat on me, but that is more likely due to my own lack of monogamy than anything else.

I'd love to swing with her (she is still the best fuck I've ever had after maybe 100 or so partners) but I don't think I would ever be able to get her interested in the idea. The closest we have come is having sex in the same bed as another couple at the same time. I guess I'm enough for her, but I personally like a variety of pussy (as Larry Flint would say).

My wife has had sex with two people in her life. Her first was when she was eighteen and dated him til she was 21. They parted on poor terms when she broke their engagement. I see the guy around town once in a while and would love to hear about their experiences but have never mentioned it. Wife does not talk about it either. I fill in the blanks on my own!

Last time I saw him I had a conversation with him, just small talk. Hopefully I will catch him in a bar someday. I was kind of shocked he talked to me, he always blamed me for the break up. Once he broke the ice I figured next time the conversation can get more involved.

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Originally Posted by romikk32
do you know or ever get to talk to the guy in friendly conversation? beer is a great starter. However if she split with him, he might be a skunk.

Last time I saw him I had a conversation with him, just small talk. Hopefully I will catch him in a bar someday. I was kind of shocked he talked to me, he always blamed me for the break up. Once he broke the ice I figured next time the conversation can get more involved.

I am looking forward to it!

My girlfriend is 23 years old and we have been together for over five years now (I'm 25). Last year we got engaged and next spring we will get married. So far I have been the only one she had sex with (after one week of dating her - she was a horny 18 year old back then and had trouble holding back even one week). She is very shy, but gorgeous as hell and knows exactly what effect she has on the males around her.

I often imagine her being seen nude by other men and have tried to stage it, but had no success so far (she is suspicious and clever enough). During sex I also phantasize about other guys fucking her regularly. It goes so far, that I can not even watch porn anymore, without picturing her in the scene. Especially when it comes to situations regarding accidental nudity, swinging or sex in public.

I have a couple of recurring phantasies. One goes as follows:
Her younger sister (18) just got a new boyfriend (around the same age) who is still a virgin. He is over at our apartment to play some videogames with me. My girlfriend is sitting on the couch with us, wearing a very revealing top. Then I notice that the boy is trying to catch a glimpse of her firm c-cups. So I take my gf into the kitchen with me to 'prepare some snacks'. There I tell her what I noticed and ask her, if she would like to give the young man a nice present. You know, in order to welcome him to the family. She reluctantly agrees and lets me take off her bra, still wearing the top. Once we return to the living room she starts leaning forward more often than necessary to make sure he gets a nice view. After a couple of minutes we both notice the bump in his pants, confront him with it and have a great laugh about the situation.
Then I take it one step beyond: I ask him if he would like to see more. She looks shocked and embarrassed, but I don't give her any time to react, pulling up her top, completely exposing her boobs to this inexperienced boy. She tries to cover up, but I convince her that he has seen her now anyway so why not let him touch. It surely would be great practice for him and she would do her sister a favor that way. It takes some convincing but in the end she agrees and I can sit there and watch his shaking hands reaching out to touch a women's breast for the very first time. And no other than my gf's, wich makes it even more exciting!
My cock is rock hard by now and I can tell that she enjoys the attention just as much. So it is very easy to go one step further, undress her completely and start fucking her. All the while the young guys greedy eyes race all over her body. Finally I offer him to join us and watch him fuck my soon to be wife.


Recently I have told her about my phantasies and that I would like to share her with another man. She did not seem too eager about it and said that she wants no one but me, but in the end she had to admit that she likes the thought of it, as long as it stays a phantasy. Nevertheless I am confident: I have planted the idea in her mind that I am open for it, so now I just have to wait for the right guy to join us and then harvest my reward ;)

This is my first post here, so please let me know, if you like or even share my phantasy. I have a couple more and even two of hers that fit in here quite nice.

Inter-racial sex
 

I have always been into inter-racial sex and was over the moon when I first had sex with my hairy British Indian wife. She has a British accent and shaves only in the summer.

It has always been a turn on knowing the men she prefers, white, probably enjoyed the best most exotic fuck of their lives. I always enjoy hearing how older married men fucked her starting when she was 18. She was very promiscuous and had sex with well over 16 young men and older gentlemen. I do not mind at all knowing other men have had x's with my wife. She I too good not to share!

Moving into out new neighborhood it was a surprise to find out her new gynecologist is among our circle of friends. She has stopped going to him but it's a pleasure for me knowing he's seen my wife spread wide in front of him, exposing her completely shaven pussy. I love it.

I was the 11th or so thatmy wife had had...i love hearing about the other and all the details of them. Not sure why but it makes me so hot.....

my wife surprised me
 

My wife and I have been together since I was 16. One night after drinking and playing some card games with our Best friends, my wife and I ended up on the couch making out. Our friends were also sitting on the other couch and after watching us make out they followed our lead and proceed to do the same, slowly I started pulling my wife's shirt up and un doing her jeans. We ended up in our under ware and after my friend seeing what I was doing he did the same with his wife. I pulled off my wife's bra reveling her big double D títts and went to our bedroom .After a few minutes of fucking my friend peered in the door and said " do you mind if we join you guys "? I quickly looked at my wife and she said " sure "! I have always wanted to share her but never thought of with whom or how. Our friends climbed in our bed and proceed to fuck right next to us, I continued to fuck my wife in different positions, eating her out and having her ride my cock. After about 10 minutes my friend grabbed my hand and placed it on his wife's titt as he fucked his wife, this was so hot so I grabbed my friends hand and placed it on my wife's titt, I could tell he was enjoying it too the way he played with it and pinched her nipple and my wife was enjoying it too. I never imagined this happening and I was enjoying every minute of it. His wife moaning and as he pumped her pussy with his cock and my wife doing the same it was great. After a few more minutes my wife came and we let them finish. They ended up going home for the night and we never talking about it again. Just thinking of it still makes me hard and it is one night i would love to re live again!

Donna
 

I know for sure that at least 9 other guys have banged my wife. It still turns me on to think about them screwing her. I get especially hot when I am fucking her and fantasizing about the drummer who was more than 20 years older than her, shooting a load into her hot pussy. She never had any of her lovers use condoms, so I know a lot of guys got to feel her "meat to meat". :D

turn on
 

my wife had lovers before me
she never spoke about
it make me gues how the sex was for her
how do you think it was

Forgiveness
 

Good luck to the two of you, DI. Thats tough news to hear. :(

It's 18 years ago. Water under the bridge.
Everybody f**ks up and has regrets. The older you get the more regrets you have. Don't dwell on it.
It's what your life is like now that matters.

DR

:)
 

Absolutely true!

My Wife's History
 

My wife is approximately 12 years younger than I am. When we met she had already been married twice and had one child from her first marriage. She is originally from Russia and spent much of her teens and twenties in Kiev, Ukraine. She emigrated to the US 20 years ago, is very bright, has an extensive English vocabulary, which she delivers with the sexiest accent.

As we began dating, I decided I wanted everything to be upfront and told her about my previous sexual experiences, which were pretty extensive. She has been much less forthcoming, indicating that she has had about 20 lovers. The most I can glean from her about them is that one boyfriend in her 20s had a very large cock which was uncomfortable when they had sex. She also shared that she had had a threesome with a couple one night in college. Also, her previous husband was endowed and could go a long time in doggy, spanking her and fucking her hard. He also bought her a dildo, which we have used a couple of times.

We have a very active sex life and she says that if she hadn't met me she wouldn't have experienced how fulfilling sex could be. I love the compliment, but she is great in bed, and I would love to have been a fly on the wall for everyone of her previous encounters.

I try to get her to open up about it, but she is basically a very pragmatic woman, and considers all of that in the past. She also seems to believe that what was between other men and her does not concern me.

My wife's previous encounters all concern me (but in a good way because the stories make me hot!) but I also know they don't count now except that they all contributed to make her the lover she is now. I thank all the guys that came before me!

My wife got fucked by a lot of different men before we met. I use to hate this about her, but have grown to enjoy knowing it now and am turned on by it.

turned on
 

turned on by exlovers

When I met my wife, she was 21. She had about 10 lovers before me, 2 at the same time.

But in the first 5 years together before marriage she cheated 7 different times. I only knew about one lasting 3 months and it almost broke us up, because she kept going back to him.


I only found out about the other 6 after we'd been married 20 years. It would have pissed me of back then, but it really turns me on now. Most were 1 nighters, or 3 times at most. One was with a guy almost 50 and one guy was 18. One was a really good friend who was a professional photographer. He shot her and I only saw the first few pics, not when she got nude for him.

My wife has been with 10 guys before we married. Found out around 2 years ago one of her exes contacted her online to see how she has been. They were engaged at one time, but broke up 26 years ago, we have been married 23 years. He lives overseas, so they ended up telling stories from their past, and exchanging photos, and fantasies of what they would do if they got together again. I was at first upset, but also turned on by the situation. Turns me on for some reason thinking about another guy playing with my wife's breasts and getting her pussy wet.

My wife has a couple internet boyfriends; one old/long term bf and others from when she saw younger/growing up. She will send them semi and nude pics, they comment on how hot she is and what they would do to her. I usually need to do some phone snooping to find these communications.

My wife and I are swingers and have an open relationship so there isn't any concern about cheating. My wife has had a lot of lovers before we were together and after (as I have mentioned in other threads). I love the fact that so many others have gotten to enjoy my wife because it makes me proud to know that she has turned on so many others and still does but also it has taught her to enjoy sex and not be shy to ask or tell others what she wants during sex. I get to reap those benefits of all the others she has fucked besides me!

We swing
 

After being married many years, swinging spiced up our sex life. I love watching her get her jollies with another guy. It is sexy as hell. And i think she enjoys me pleasuring other women. She gets hot and hotter and climbs all over me by the end of an evening of swinging. She seems to carry her horny feelings from her strange fuck back to another fuck with us. She becomes an uninhibited wild woman after screwing a strange dick. It makes our sex so much better. And i am so horny after watching her climb all over another guy. It is good for both of us. And to the guy that thinks his wife won't do it and swing, just ask, and you might be really surprised.