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What are your Wife or GF's sexual fantasies?
What are some of the sexual fantasies that your wife or girlfriend have? Did they tell you about them freely? Did you have to drag it out of them? Or did you find out in some other way? Do you like their fantasy? Is it something that might actually happen some day, or only in fantasy land?
My wife is what I call a closet exhibitionist. She likes to be seen in different stages of undress, but she doesn't like to be obvious about it, or known for it. Until recently, she hasn't even been able to freely admit that she enjoys being exposed. Anyway, most of her fantasies are based on her inner exhibitionist, as well as submissive things. She is not good about sharing her secret or sexual fantasies, so I have to put in a lot of work to drag things out of her. Some of her fantasies: 1) She has a desire to be exposed (not necessarily naked, skimpy outfits can count too) or seen by guys who know her. While being seen by guys in general is a turn on for her, being seen by a guy she knows creates a mix of fear, embarrassment, and sexual excitement. Just last week she was seen in a micro bikini by a guy she knows who had never seen her in anything other than normal clothing. The fact that this guy saw her in a tiny thong bikini made her feel very exposed and vulnerable. It also made her horny to boot! She has already seen the guy once since the beach encounter, and she was extra horny later that night. She also admitted that it was such a turn on that she hopes more guys she knows run into her at the beach while she is wearing her smallest bikinis. I like this fantasy, and think its likely that more guys she knows will see her in various stages of undress in the future. 2) She just recently admitted that she would like to give 2 guys handjobs (me and another guy or even me and 2 other guys) at the same time, while she is naked and the object of their desire. She said the thought of having 2 cocks in her hands at the same time is surreal. I like this fantasy, and its probably 50/50 that it will happen. 3) She fantasizes about being naked and spanked in front of a lot of guys. I like this one too, but I don't think it is likely to happen. 10% chance. 4) She fantasizes about being an extra in a tv series that has a lot of nudity. She wants to be naked in the show for a few seconds. Her favorite example is to be a slave girl on the show sparticus or game of thrones. She would then be able to mention in passing to any guy she knows that she was "on that tv series" as an extra, prompting the guy to watch the episode and see her naked. Being on a major show like Game of Thrones would make it likely that a lot of guys from her past and present would see her naked. But she would hide behind the fact that she was paid as an extra to be on the show, and she couldn't pass on the opportunity (when in reality, she just wants a plausible excuse to being naked in front of millions of people, and guys who know her). While I would be all for going forward with this fantasy, I just don't see how it would ever happen. |
I really liked your previous beach story...
...me and everyone else :)
A way to move nude spanking in front of audience up past 10% probability would be using a lower-floor hotel window. I love spanking me some bottoms, and would work to improve that chance. Or was it not because you'd like to keep the audience off the stage? I just assumed... |
Mine got the 50 shades of gray syndrome like most woman who read the books :D
She also likes to flash people, and she got a "****" fantasies. |
My wife has always been extremely turned on by being submissive and being spanked. She loved 50 Shades but she never been into some of the extreme stuff in BDSM, following a Dom's commands and spanking is very arousing to her. Although we have a great sex life, I have never been into the D/s stuff, I do some spanking to turn her on, but since it doesn't excite me, I'm not very convincing as a Dom.
I actually found a guy for her, he has business in our city occasionally, to be her Dom. so twice she has spent an evening in his hotel room being his sex slave. He is much younger than we are and he's a very nice person who can step into the Dom role in a second. A fantasy which is part of this is having a friend of ours who is a biker bring her to a biker bar to submit to him and his friends, This is not likely to ever happen. Like earlier poster, she also loves to "accidentally" expose herself. She did it for years without my knowledge until I caught her at it, she thought I would be upset instead of turned on. When she was 20 she really did accidentally flash a guy and her told her how pretty her legs and panties were, that turned into a lifetime hobby. |
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As I have written in many posta, we live in the conservative society of Pakistan. By the stahdards here, I think we are very wild. Anyway my wife loves to fantasize and has hundreds of fantasies, but the main underlying theme is being force fucked. Sometimes she thinks of 4 men gangbang. I have a small endowment and most of her fantasies involve men with fat cocks.
We love to roleplay and whenever she sees a man she finds hot, that night she always makes me act as if he is fucking her. She loves to be spanked, sometimes she acts sub and I spank her for her mistakes. |
Keep in mind that some, but not all, fantasies are just that, just fantasy, and never meant or hoped to be fulfilled:
... I know my wife has various fantasies involving being naked and masturbating for an audience, usually being coerced or forced to do so, sometimes bound, and sometimes even being on a stage. (again, something that she would never actually want to do) ... Another fantasy is something that she may be living through every day without her knowledge. That is, she always wonders, and fantasizes about being "on camera" every time she enters a changing room in a shop or boutique. She has told me since that is always on her mind, she always changes with as much poise whenever possible, albeit not easy in a cramped stall, and sometimes if feeling frisky, revealing more skin that is really necessary, and longer than necessary. (again, hoping that it isn't happening... but just in case, making the most of it, since its something she cannot control) . |
Our fantasies
Sometimes when we're fooling around and we feel like spicing things up we'll talk out loud about having another woman in bed with us. Although she's never played with another woman and claims she never would I think secretly in the right situation with the right woman she'd do it. We love to fantasize about this other blonde with big tits sucking my cock while my wife goes down on her pussy, or while I'm fucking the blonde how I'll repeatedly pull my dick out her pussy so that my wife can suck it for a minute then guide me back in, and so on and so on. She gets so hot and her climaxes are just that much more intense as are mine! Now would she ever do it? I think yes but the planets would surely have to be lined up in our favor. No swing clubs for her, no going to hedonism or anything like that but I think that if the right woman friend ever came into our lives and we all got high and the vibes were right I could see her getting into it.
We've also done the 2nd man fantasy thing but oddly it doesn't get her going as much, though I'd enjoy seeing her sucking another guy's cock. |
My wife's ultimate sexual fantasy is "to cuddle on the couch while watching Downton Abbey." Arrrrrrrrrg.
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My wife's is to have two black guys at the same time while I watch
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My wife likes to fantasize about other guys jacking off to her laying naked in front of them, the number of guys anywhere from 2 to upwards of 10. She has actually had me and a friend jack off to her once but that was due to alcohol lol. I also like this fantasy of hers and support it because the summer after I graduated high school one of my good friends and I were out driving around with twin sisters and another girl we were friends with and all of us ended up naked in the car. Unfortunately the friend couldn't stay out too late so we took her home and one of the twins went with her, but she was more uptight and didn't get along with us as well as her sister so it was ok. We ended up going back to my friend's house and the three of us hung out naked for a couple hours and eventually we started looking through some porno mags. Well, she noticed our excitement from sitting beside a naked girl looking at porn so she, shall we say, took advantage of the situation. We ended up jacking off in front of her and cumming all over her tits, stomach, and thighs and to this day two guys with one girl always gets me going.
I have told my wife about this so she knows I have no problem doing it for real, but except for the one time she has been content to leave it a fantasy. She also has fantasized about my friends that have seen her nude pictures jacking off to them but if she knew they really did it would be a toss up as to how she feels about it. Somewhat strangely, she is more comfortable with being seen naked in person than someone having her pics, I guess because she is more in control of the situation that way. |
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We've been married a long time, so I know my wife's fantasies pretty well, some realized, some not. I'll list them in order of the power they have:
1. To submit completely to a Master. Being submissive is her most powerful fantasy, he must be in complete control, she will do anything to satisfy his desires and needs, hard spanking is a must, but she doesn't want to be hurt beyond a red butt. We have role played this with the 2 of us, but it is much more powerful if it is another male. Twice I have made this happen for her with a guy I found online. It was a safe and controlled situation and she enjoyed it immensely. 2. Sort of the same thing, she is caught shoplifting and she is given a choice of having the police come or submit to discipline from the security staff. Obviously, we have not done this. 3. Her Master makes her come to his house and gives her a brief costume to wear, he has a party and she is a server, the guests are all male and they fondle and use her as they wish. |
Another fantasy my wife has is one of being tied naked to the bed and having one or two of my friends see her like that. I told her that if she was blindfolded they would probably end up touching her or jacking off to her or watching me fuck her. She got super wet thinking about that, especially if we all touched her at the same time to where she could realize it wasn't just me. This will almost certainly remain a fantasy unless I blindfolded her really well and snuck a friend in without her knowing, but that sort of defeats the purpose lol.
One night I did have her blindfolded and handcuffed to our headboard while I fucked her. She was like that for almost two hours and I went in and out of the room to get different things and a few times before I would leave I would whisper in her ear that the next time I returned there could be someone with me. She bit her lip really hard, started breathing really heavily, and gasped out that I better not. When I came back I made some extra noise and started caressing her leg all the way up to her pussy before sliding my fingers in her. She was unbelievably wet and I teased her about if she was sure she could recognize my touch. This gave her huge orgasms each time and made her face flush extra red. Of course I didn't have anyone there and she sort of knew that, but, I'm sure in the back of her mind she was not 100% certain lol. A few times since I did that she has sort of hinted around at wanting me to confirm I was alone but I always give evasive answers and later we always end up having extra hot sex. |
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we would like to have sex outside, we don't care if anyone see us....we have done something in pubblic until now, like show her bare boobs in our car in the middle of the traffic while we couldn't move because of traffic. She put down her shirt, with many cars around us, and I coul kiss and touch her breast!
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We like having sex outside, in daylight. The object is to find places and times where you may not be seen, but there is always the chance that you might. Our fantasies tend to not be fantasies because we do them for real. That makes them even more arousing. You think of something. We can't possibly do that, or maybe we can. Oh yes, let's try. Very often it's not full penetrative sex, but you can have great arousal from going as far as you think you ought to go, and then further.....and perhaps further still.
Take our walk in the park last summer. Just one of our adventures this year. A small river runs through the park and we thought we remembered that there would be somewhere on a bank that we could get up something exciting. We walked all up and down the river, never found anywhere. We had two choices. We could go home, or make the best of what we'd got. We decided to do the latter. We found a little corner with a hedge on two sides but visible right across the park from the other two. We spread out our travel rug, layed down and started to kiss and cuddle. After a while I started to run my hands up her thighs, lifting up her short skirt. Her knickers were now on show. Eventually I've pulled her skirt right up to her waist and start to run my hand up between her legs until I'm fingering her through her knickers. She tells me to stop, she doesn't want to go any further, but I know she does. She says that if I carry on she'll get so turned on she won't be able to stop herself from cuming. I tell her that there's no reason why she shouldn't cum, just to be discrete, and that's what happens. We carry on kissing, I carry on fingering her, sometimes venturing the finger inside her knickers, and she cums. Sometimes, depending on just how public we are, she lets me pull her knickers down too and I finger her skin to skin, but she usually likes to have them handy around her knees, just in case. We can fantasize about this at home later, but I can assure you that this story is real and not fantasy. We probably do this sort of thing four or five times a year and are looking forward to next summer. I think the best fantasies are those that are not too outrageous so that you could act them out.....if you dare!! If you enjoyed this, try this, where we had full sex in public. https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/show...59&postcount=6 |
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My wife of twenty years comes from a very conservative christian background. She tells me she has no sexual fantasies, I think she does but is just too shy to tell me.
However, she did read 50 Shades od Grey and that led to another steamy romance novel and then another. One week she masturbated every day, sometimes twice and three times. How did I know? Her toys kept moving around. She didn't know I was monitoring them or her. It was kind of exciting really becuse I did not know she masturbated until this point in time. Call me naive. |
mine
My wife's fantasy is to watch me vacuum, wash dishes, do laundry, etc. I can tell she's not lying because whenever I do this she is horny as hell.
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I'll leave it a fantasy
One night my partner asked me about my fantasies and I said I was always curious about threesomes and she said that she would not be at all interested but she would like to watch two guys having sex! I don't think that I'll be pursuing that one.
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Not all that uncommon, but with a twist.
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My wife normally says she has no fantasies and doesn't talk about them much no matter how much I pry but she reaffirmed yesterday that her biggest fantasy is to be taken by a stranger, tied up and then stripped, and then be taken by force, "but not like a r**e". Although I'm not really sure how you accomplish one without the other, I imagine it means very little violence of any kind. Perhaps after she is tied and stripped by him (by him cutting her clothes off with a knife) he is kind but still menacing, maybe even a little apologetic, but he is GOING to have his way and after a little seduction or at least some fondling, he takes her. She's told me of this fantasy before, a long time ago, but I forgot all about it! This is one that will probably never happen in real life but one that I can play off of... Thanks, Squirrel, for starting this thread! Thanks to you, I see some real fun in my future! |
Why is it many women, I (Mr) have encountered always say they have none? You would think that after lying there and having a good love making session that they would have no problem expressing themselves. But yet again I find this a common answer. Is it a written law somewhere?
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Trust
Perhaps it`s a question of trust? Maybe she feels that if she tells you her fantasies you`ll pester her to follow through with them and it might open the floodgates - which would allow you to see her in a new light - does she feel yu`ll loose respect for her ...etc etc
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I just think many women aren't wired for fantasies. Sone if known have ****/domination fantasies, a freedom from guilt thing. Many others, not so much. And I've tried. Although I was amazed how many would let me take pictures. The attention of it maybe?
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My wife has some interesting ones;
She loves to be watched while having sex. We have been to a few swingers parties just so she can fuck in front of other people. She also loves masturbating in front of people, which she has done a few times now. She has always fantasized about being cummed on by a group of guys. Haven't made that one happen yet but she still talks about it a lot. She fantasizes about being tied up either naked or semi naked in a public place. We did that once a long time ago which led to a funny situation when some random dude came out of nowhere and found her! |
a few fantasies she has done
My wife probably has developed her fantasies thru some prompting from me, but she adds things that I haven't mentioned to her, so what may start with my suggesting something, expands to an act that she dreams about.
She loves to be seen naked, by our friends, and by complete strangers. We make up situations where she is seen "accidently" by friends and once seen, I insist that she remains exposed. There have been several times that she has been sunbathing naked in our back yard when friends have dropped by and she had nothing with which to cover herself. While traveling she has been seen by several room service and pizza delivery people. She has accepted the challenge to get ice from the ice machine while naked (and was caught). Same for the soda machine. She has stripped on stage for me and 40-50 strangers. We have hiked all day with her naked, except for shoes, with no clothes to put on with us, and met other hikers on the trails. While posing naked for me at a beach, several people walked by and stopped and watched while I took pictures. She has gone to a male friend's home naked and had to stay that way alone with him until I went to pick her up or he brought her home. We have done this several times. The underlying theme seems to be to be put in a situation where she has little or no choice of being exposed. She likes to be put in a state of "controlled helplessness" where the option of covering her nakedness has been taken away from her. |
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Fantasies have been a major part of our sex life for the 35 years we've been together. While she enjoys telling me her fantasies about other men or women, she loves making up stories where I end up with another women, usually a girl in her teens or early 20s. She even asks me to point out girls in public or people we know that I would like to fuck.
She once had a threesome with 2 other guys when she was 17, but she was so drunk she doesn't remember much. She talks about doing that again. She did come close to fucking another guy (with my permission of course) about 15 years ago, but she backed out at the last minute, after she let him feel her up. |
She says she doesnt have any...its a source of irritation...
I mean COME ON!! :( |
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By the way what's a vacuum and how do you start a washer? :confused: |
It sounds like some of you guys missed some great fantasy game chances while having your wives tied and blindfolded. I'd had another man there if I had to go out on the street and beg.
Other than that I believe we've done pretty much everything else listed here except my wife being bound or blindfolded. I just can't get her to agree with that. To keep this simple read our stories encluding Dollie Thanks OCC and Dollie's New years Eve adventures. These are no longer fantasies of hers. I can't believe all the things she's done since joining OCC. I thought she was wild before but these are almost games for the fiction section except this ain't fiction my friends. The moral of this is never give up. |
My girl wants sex in an elevator
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A while back my wife's fantasy was to be caught cheating on me. Before that she did have sex with other men but would do it either at their house or while I was out. I told her that would be very hot for me to walk in from work and she is naked and sucking or fucking someone else. Her current fantasy is a lesbian orgy. She wants to have a Christmas party of non family members. Preferrably women that are curious, bi or lesbian. Everyone drinking and having a good time and then a few of them get naked in our den and go for it
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