How many guys have boned your wife?
 

Guys,

Do you know how many guys have fucked your wife. Before you or after you have been together? Has she told you her "number" and do you believe her?

Does her past make you angry or jealous or does it turn you on to think about her with others?

Do you personally know any of the boys or men men who have penetrated her? Have you discussed their experiences with your wife with them?

Personally, I started dating my wife in 1963 when we were both about 15 or 16. We started having sex--she was a virgin--and then her family moved across the country. We agreed we could "date" others--I thought that gave me a pass but she would be faithful. Wrong!

During high school apart she had sex with a couple of other guys--I knew two of them casually from when I visited in the summers.

Then we went to college far apart and she really picked up her activity when she started drinking and became known as the girl who would spread her legs after a few beers. Lots of guys tried her out.

We got married after college--now married for 45 years--and I thought she had been pretty conservative sexually while we had been apart. She admitted to three other guys, but that number grew as more stories came out. She's now said her number is 12 but I think she probably did more than that--maybe a lot more.

When we were younger, her activity made me a bit jealous and angry but now the stories turn me on--I love to hear them. She's had almost as many guys as I've had women.

And she's fucked a few of our friends since we've been married--at least two I know of but she tries to deny it. One of them admitted their affair to me and apologized to me. Turns me on thinking about him between her legs bareback.

Nice story.
Wished my wife had fucked some of our friends.

You don't have amy proof?

Donna
 

I know for sure that 9 other guys have fucked my wife besides me. (But I think there had to be more)

It doesn't bother me at all, as a matter of fact it is a turn-on.;)

I know 2 of them personally.:)

Here is a then/now version of her. Can't say I blame those guys for banging her.

My ex wife told me she had fucked 6 guys. The last was in detail causing me to have an erection. She noticed I was hard, she told me to pull my pants down and masturbate as she continued. She pulled her knickers off, spread her legs and told me to orgasm as she continued to tell me. I orgasmed..

Quite a few
 

Quite a few dirrent guys fucked my wife before she and I met. We got together when she was 26 and prior to that roughly 30 diffrent guys had fucked her. There are guys in her past whos dicks were in her mouth that she didn't actually fuck, but I dont know that number.
I know how many it is, because we have talked about it. She is pretty open about her past with me. In the begining, I hated it. I hated hearing her talk about it, I hated knowing how many men had fucked her. I hated that the girl I was falling in love with was basicly a sl*t. Some years have past now and im past the feeling of hating it. In some aspects, the idea is hot to me now.
I do know two guys from her past personaly. we don't talk about it. When she and I first got together, I did speak with one of the two about the fact that he had fucked her in the past, but the details or how it was or anyhting like that. He and I never really disscussed it again after that.

Neither one of us were virgins. My wife fucked some guy on her 18th birthday and got pregnant! She took care of that situation. When I met her she was 25, very beautiful, and as time went by I found she was very well used. I have no idea what her number is, but she dated a biker guy, a well-known musician, several steady guys...anyway it makes my lifetime of massage parlors visits seem trivial. Lets put it like this...when I'm in her pussy, there is 6 more inches I'll never feel! It's a turn-on, but at the same time I know I can't do what she's been used to. After 10 years of marriage I found she liked woman-woman sex best of all. I could never get her to orgasm like she does with a woman. I watched her once fuck a male escort. Yes I had a boner so hard it hurt. But as to knowing all her partners.... sometimes I wish I was a little less-informed!

How many
 

After we had been dating a while she told me 5 had fucked her before me,but a few years after we were married and during a night of us having some very dirty naughty hot sex she told me 12 had fucked her before we met. I cant prove it per say,but yea I think or more or less know she has been fucked maybe twice if not three times by someone else since we have been married. Do I care not really,I myself have got turned on by it and some of the other things she has told me. Truth be known I wouldn't mind watching another guy fuck her or helping him fuck her,that or just hearing about it. I can remember one time she told me about this one guy who would take her to the mountains in Colorado when she lived there,she told me he had the biggest dick of anyone that had fucked her. She told me he was almost 10 inches long and went on to tell me in detail how he would hammer her red bushed pussy with it,me and her ended up fucking all night after she gave me all the details and story of him and her. I'm not going to lie I have no right to judge my wife,hell I fucked 25 women before we were married and 4 more since. I did ask her what the real number she has had before we met was it really 5 or was it really 12,she told me it was really 12. She also confessed a little later on that one guy had fucked her since we have been married,but I think it was at least 2 or 3 that has. In return I confessed about one women I had fucked,hey if she don't tell all I don't.

Besides me, she only had the tip of a 'bone' between her pussy lips.
She also never blew another man (still doesn't do that often).
I wished it was more, maybe she would have like sex better.

My friend took my ex-wife's virginity, then I dated her and married her. Been divorced for over 10 years now.

1 guy before we started dating and 3 since we've been married. There's been a few others that she has played with but only 3 that have gotten inside of her!

She was a virgin when we met. Not because she was a saint, but because being raised in catholic school had her terrified of sex, so she gave out blowjobs like candy. After 3 drinks, she would drop to her knees pretty much anywhere and blow a guy. Her best guess is that she's in the low triple figures for dicks sucked.

Did she??
 

My wife only dated one guy seriously in high school, others were only one or two dates. She would not tell me if she fucked him or not, so I assumed she did.

When we got sexually active, she did not seem very experienced from her teeth when giving blowjobs or how very tight she was when we had sex. She was a very quick learner, thankfully.

A few years later, coincidentally I got temporarily stationed at the same base as my wife's former boyfriend. One night I showed him some of her nude photos, figuring he had seen it all. He was shocked---he never got to second base but he LOVED the photos.

So, she walks in on your fucking this old gf and stops dating you. You go away, and as soon as you move back she moves in with you.

What's your secret, man? What the hell did you do in the intervening time to win her back? 'Cause I need to learn it! :)

she had five before 3 since. We met in college before were all HS.

28 so far
 

my wife started cheating on me, because she thought i was cheating on her. i knew something wasn't right and through a series of conversations i got her to open up about her naughty extramarital activities. she was really at it for a short time and then when it was open between us she started cuckolding me properly. The first time i watched her she allowed herself to be fingered in a pub and the rest as they say is history.

my wife had been with 11 guys before me.... then she did one of her exs while we were engaged and then she fucked my bestfriend who was also the best man in our wedding after we had been married for about 7 years....

109
 

To Start she is currently 30, I met her when she was 27.
She has fucked with penetration 107 guys before I met her.
I am #108 and she fucked one more guy after we met. Giving her a Grand Total of 109
Her past does not make me angry, although she has fucked a lot of people I know. Related to one of them.
I personally know at least 8 of the men she as been with.
It turns me on so much to think of all the cock she has had and all the dirty situations she has been in.

Hey romikk32
 

Just have to ask, do your friends know, that you know they're fuck her.

A bit of a variation to the question, with apologies in advance if it's too far afield. I'm not married, but I know a woman who is, and I have fucked her before she was married, during marriage #1, and during marriage #2. But if either of her husbands answers this, their count will be one short as we've not gotten caught yet! :)

Exes
 

This is a very interesting thread... My girlfriend is - as one says - very experienced. Her first boyfriend cheated on her that`s why she had a lot of partners. I think she was searching for the right one, but she had trust issues... One day she sent photos showing her nude taken by an ex-boyfriend to tease me. First I was jealous but then I got excited thinking of her posing for another guy. I was wondering if he still looks at the photos. She never told me how many guys she had sex with but according to her photos of the past and stories there must have been at least 20... I know two of them.

Would you all say I'm insecure if I was to say it would piss me off and make me jealous to know/find out I wasn't the only man (or at least not the only man after we got together)?

Crista
 

I need to weight in here. Crista only ever had my cock. We met young and I had her first. She never had the time or interest to fuck other guys. She has often said she would like to try some cocks that she missed as she went through her teenage years, but is quite happy with mine since it satisfies her so well. All this and 4 kids too. Just wanted to add something different.

More of her here: https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/member.php?u=623704

My wife has had 3 other guys since we married, all with my knowledge and blessing. Good for her, help ease my concience. Like Nicci, other wife provided a funny situation. A new guy at the office invited my wife and I to dinner at their home one night, when we get there he introduced me to his wife, Debbie. I recognized Debbie instantly, when I was a teen Debbie lived in our neighborhood and I was one of many 'boyfriends' she had. She was not sl*tty, just a sweet girl next door with a very high libido. She was my first oral, both ways, my first handjob, and the first home run.

Debbie is shooting me daggers with her eyes, she apparently has not shared her history with her hubby, I acted like we've never met. At one point in the evening we were on then patio, my wife went to the bathroom and her hubby went to get drinks. She immediately thanked me for my silence, I told her those were great memories and our secret.

I never even told my wife that she was the neighborhood girl I had told her about.

My ex had three men before we married.And unknown to me at the time.A number of them after we got married.Including two so called friends of mine,one of whom did her on a regular basis while I worked a 24hr shift for an EMS service.And another who she banged one night after I was passed out after having to much to drink at my birthday party.I found all this out years later,after the divorce.:o

very nice :)

Seems like there's another thread on this subject somewhere on the forum, but what the heck.......we all like talkin' about our wimmin, right?

My wife's first cock was some kid who ran in her crowd in high school. He fucked her best friend, so then the predictable girl competition thing kicked in, and she let him fuck her. Twice. And that was that.

Couple of years later she met her future first husband and they began banging regularly. After about a year he started eyeballing some other babe and came up with the usual "I-think-we-should-be-permitted-to-date-other-people" shit. By then she had lots of college friends and fucked a classmate of hers a few times. "He had a really big dick too," she thoughtfully added while telling me her history.

Future first husband sees this going on, gets jealous, and reels her back in. They got married and she stayed faithful to him for about 15 years, until he started fucking his secretary. Emotionally done with the marriage, she subsequently met a guy online and they eventually hooked and began periodically doing the horizontal bop. First husband went apeshit. Evidentially it was okay for him to say he wasn't happy and and start plumbing the secretary, but as soon as she did it, well then, that was just beyond the pale. They got divorced.

So, at that point her total cock count was four. After her divorce she sort of let loose. She estimates she fucked a dozen guys in the next couple of years. I happened to be the next one in an increasingly long line of cocks she let into her pussy. Taking her guesstimate of a dozen after her divorce at face value, that means I was number 17.

We got married after about a year, and lived happily ever after.....except for the part where I talked her into becoming my hotwife. And then we still lived very happily ever after. Since she started fucking other men with my blessing she's run her absolute total up to 35. I think.

Might have missed a couple in my mental calculations. Also this total doesn't include a couple of guys she blew and never actually fucked. Slick Willy says they don't count.

Great stories! Mine had approximately 12 to 15 before marriage and 1 that I encouraged her to do after we were married. That was great to watch! :D

Thanks for the interesting topic: I discuss some of my thoughts on this matter here:

My wife admits to 4 sexual partners prior to me and swears here fidelity to me for the past 22 years. I seriously doubt both claims and some of the rationale has been posted in the link above. However, fear not, I have more. My wife has admitted to losing her virginity at 14 which, if I am being completely honest, had been a slight sore spot when we first started dating and sharing this kind of information. I am sure that jealousy played a major role in how I felt given that I was nearly 18 when I gave mine away. I also don't want to minimize what I am sure most of us betrothed fellas feel when confronted with our significant other's past: We love them but to other's she was just a piece of pussy. Can I get a witness?

Now, my wife and I were 20 when we started to date. While it is possible, I find it hard to believe in the 6 years between losing her virginity and the beginning of our relationship, she slept with only 3 other guys. First, to lose one's virginity at 14 suggests a sexual maturity beyond her years. There is a thought process deeply entrenched to even consider such activities at such a young age (remember, this is the mid 80's we are talking about here). I seriously doubt that this young fella was the aggressor (though I, admittedly have no empirical evidence). I can safely assume this based on how my wife behaved when we first met. She was, to say the least, very attention seeking and flirtatious (we were just friends for almost 2 years prior to dating).

Now, she was in a long term relationship when we first met and, I have been told, that it extended back into high school. I knew this guy relatively well, though we were never the closest of friends. My assumption, though we have never discussed it at any length, was that they fucked frequently while dating one another. I should also mention here that, according to my wife, he cheated on her frequently. So, that leaves two lucky bastards before she started dating her high school sweetheart. One, another guy that I was familiar with, fucked her at a party when, according to her, she was drunk. As she tells the story, he approached her and said, "I wanna get my dick wet," and this was all that it took for her to allow him to fuck her. Please note: Drunk at 16 at a party, the ease of entry if you will. Important factors in understanding my lack of faith in her assertions.

The story of the last fella needs some detailing as I apologize for the length of this reply but the facts are germane to the case. While we were friends (we worked at the same place while in college), one of her old high school friends called her the "devirginator". To hear the story, it was a nickname that she was given after she took this fellas virginity, we will call him Mike. We need to now flash forward to about 6 months before she and I actually started dating. We had been spending more and more time together, along with our work associates, and, as a consequence, we growing quite close. There was certainly a spark between the two of us and, even though we were both dating other people, it was clear that we wanted to be together. She was still trying to end the relationship with her high school sweetheart and I was trying to fuck everything that walked (I may have been late to start but I maximized my time wisely). Things were getting rather hot and heavy and, after a party, I actually inserted myself into her after a rather long make out session. She asked me to stop and I did. She stating that she didn't feel right given the situation (one point to her). I asked of her, at that time, to please make a decision regarding us. I was really getting tired of waiting for her to end her current relationship and she professed to being serious about us.

Several months went by and I was really cognizant of giving her space. Although I had no experience with long term relationships, I suspected that it was really hard to end one given the time and effort that almost certainly went into maintaining one. So, I'm out having a few beers with the boys after work one night, and up drives Mike (whom I had never seen or met) and he starts to chat up a couple of my coworkers. He was just explaining to the boys how he had just come from fucking my future wife and he spared none of the details. I, being single since our conversation after the party some months ago in anticipation of being in a relationship with her, was devastated. When I confronted her about it, she explained that she was not ready to get involved in another serious relationship so soon after ending one. She said that she knew we would be together for life and she just needed to get things out of her system. I called "bull shit" at the time but ended up with her a about 6 weeks later and we have been together ever since.

I tell you all this only to explain my stance that I am quite certain that she is not telling the truth in the number of sexual partners that she claims nor am I completely convinced that she has been faithful to me for the entirety of our relationship. In fact, I am relatively sure that she continued to have sex with her high school sweetheart after we started dating and, I am equally sure that she has had relations with at least one other person. I am, however, 95% sure she has been faithful since we got married which is all a husband can really ask for.

As an aside, I would LOVE to share my wife with other men. Perhaps it's a psychological side effect from the whole Mike situation or maybe I'm just bored. I have been faithful to her for the past 22 years (not that I have not been tempted because I certainly have).

Thoughts always welcomed.

A royal screw up.....
 

My wife had dated a guy in high school just before we started dating. She was a virgin when we started, but she had hinted that she had fooled around with the former boyfriend, although they did not go all the way.

I ran into him one afternoon at the airport and we started talking old times, and he asked about my wife--"his first love" as he called her. He had traveled in Asia for business and brought back a beautiful Asian girl at least ten years younger than him. I commented on how attractive she was when he showed me a photo and he hinted he could show me more.

We met one night at a bar and talked for a while. After a while, he brought our about 15 full color 8X10 photos of his new wife, in lingerie, nude, having sex, outdoors, etc. and she was unbelievably attractive and had a great figure. I brought out some of my Poloroids of my wife when we were dating--nude, spread, etc.---and I thought he would faint. He could not stop staring. He said he never even got into her bra back in high school, much less see her fully nude. He loved the photos, but I was embarassed that I showed them to him. I had wrongly assumed he had seen everything she had back in high school.

How would you feel if you got to see fully nude Poloroids of your favorite girl when you were in high school?

The truth is woman are just as much "Dirty Dogs" as men but most of the time are much better at not getting caught.
They also mostly keep their past adventures to themselves no matter how long you know them.

Way back in my college days I had a girlfriend who twigged that I got off on talking about her previous partners (we were both young but even so she had been a very 'busy' girl, whereas I had very little sex experience at that point).

She also had a fetish about giving handjobs, so a frequent night's activity was for her to masturbate me while we talked about her past activities.

one - me !!!!

although I have shown my best friend a picture of her naked I took without her knowing - she would kill me if she knew.

he's always asking her if she would like a shag - joking - but meaning it!

trouble is she's seen his cock & it's massive - & it frightened the life out of her when she saw it one drunken card game evening

Mines the same way

It's worth figuring out a way to ask and make it happen! My first wife Joyce and I had a great time with the one couple we were friends with for a long time....

Abot 35 I think

your wife is a beauty, both young and now. I would love to see her turn over, I bet things still look good. Its in the smile and attitude.

I know exactly what you mean about my wife having been just a piece of pussy to other men. I love her, but for so many guys, she was just an easy fuck and nothing more.

Donna
 

I know the feeling too. When I met Donna she was dating a guy more than 20 years older than her. He was a drummer in a band that played at a local night spot. She was nothing more than a "Band groupie" to him that he could bang whenever he wanted some pussy.

I must admit that it is quite a turn-on to know she let herself be used by this gut as his "fuck-toy".:p

Four or five before me, I think. None since we met, I'm pretty sure. She hasn't told me "the number", but she has told me about her ex-boyfriends, and also that she never had one-night-stands, so I think the number is five.

Her past has never made me angry. Maybe a little jealous when we first met, not so much now. A turn on? Yes. Mostly, it's a relief that she didn't have any hang ups about sex.

None of her ex BFs live in our neighborhood, so I haven't met any of them.

mine ,too
 

My lovely wife was a virgin when we got married,but she had had at least 2 dozen men by the time we split (34 yrs)..She had 3 while we were separated and the rest we shared..yes,I helped my wife fuck quite a few while we were together..we both loved it