My wife surprised the heck out of me
 

I thought I’d take a few minutes and relate how my wife surprised me in a way that I never expected. To give you a little bit of background, my wife and I are both 56 and have been married now for 38 years. We got married right out of high school and neither one of us had ever had another sexual partner, as we started dating in high school. We were both raised very conservatively and had what could probably be considered the ideal marriage. We have 3 grown children and 8 grandchildren. People that know us would know that we are very conservative, church going individuals that are very dedicated to our family and friends.

For the past 10 years, we have gotten very comfortable with each other and have problem taken each other too much for granted, as many couples that have been married as long as we have, tend to do. Over the last 10 years, our sex life has really dropped off, to the point where we have sexual intimacy once every month or so. Now I will have to admit that a lot of it is my fault in that I have allowed myself to put on a lot of extra weight, and therefore have had to take blood pressure medication, which in turn dampens the sex drive. My wife is always tired as she is always busy with our children and grandchildren, and therefore has a lessened desire for intimacy as well.

Now comes a date that we had about 2 months prior to our 38th wedding anniversary. I had been trying to find a way to put some of the old spark back into our marriage, and during dinner, I talked with my wife and made her a deal. She had been after me for years to drop 30 pounds, so I told her that if she would be willing to do something for me, I would drop 30 pounds before our anniversary in two months. I told her that if she would allow me to show her charms off to another man on our anniversary, I would be willing to put my nose to the grindstone and make the concerted effort needed to drop the extra 30 pounds. She perked right up at that and very slyly said that if I would drop the weight, she would allow me to do just that. Now you have to understand that this would be a really big step for her, as no man other than her gynecologist and me, had ever seen her naked. Like I said, we are both very conservative and had never taken our sex play outside of the bedroom.

I immediately joined a gym and started working out daily, and the pounds started dropping off. As I could see that I would easily be at my goal weight, I placed an ad on Craigslist, and started looking for just the right man. I wanted to find a man that we could feel extremely comfortable with that I felt wouldn’t take advantage of the situation and do something my wife wasn’t comfortable with. After a couple of weeks of constant emailing, I narrowed the selection down to one individual that I felt very comfortable with. It was a married man that was 32, whose wife was almost ready to have a baby, so he had been without any sexual relief for almost 6 months as his wife was having a number of complications with her pregnancy.

When the day of our anniversary arrived, I rented a limo, and after the chauffeur picked us up, we picked up the man we had chosen and went to dinner. During the ride to the restaurant, we all chit chatted as we got to know each other better by the time we got to the restaurant. We had gotten very comfortable with each other and by the time we got back in the limousine, the sexual tension was very evident. All three of us sat on the seat along the side of the limousine, and I reached down and took the hem of my wife’s dress and started raising it up her thigh. As our guest was sitting right next to her, his gaze just locked on my wife’s legs as more and more of her legs were revealed as I continued to slide the hem of her dress upwards. He couldn’t take his eyes off of her. Before we left our house, I made sure that all my wife was wearing was her dress and her heels, so it wasn’t long before I had raised the hem of her dress high enough that he could see my wife’s neatly trimmed bush. His eyes were bugging out as I finally stopped lifting up the hem of my wife’s dress when it was bunched around her waist.
I then suggested that he might want to open up his pants and take out his obviously aroused penis. He did and when I suggested that he could touch my wife’s vagina, and that he might like to have her touch his penis, they both kind of melted. My wife had never seen another man’s penis let alone touched one before, and another man had never touched her vagina before either.

I reached over and took two fingers and spread my wife’s vaginal lips apart and told him that he might like to rub her clit. He did so, and my wife just kind of slunk back in her seat to give him better access to her clit as she grabbed hold of his cock and just massaged it.

Now my wife had told me that she would only allow another man to see her, and at most, she said that she might allow some mutual touching, if she felt comfortable enough, but she did not want it to go any further than that. She has never wanted to have sex with anyone but me, and she really didn’t want to do that then. I had told our new friend in our many email conversations that he would definitely get to see her sweet charms, and that he just might be able to touch them as well, if he was really lucky, but that he shouldn’t plan on anything more than that as she had specifically told me that there was no way that she wanted anyone but me.

I told him that he was to take his queue from her, and only go as far as she wanted to go, and he promised that he would gladly stop at whatever point she wanted to. I felt comfortable enough with him that I knew he would be a man of his word and stop when my wife reached her limit. Knowing my wife as I do, even letting another man touch her vagina would be a real stretch for her, so I made sure that he would definitely.

At this point, I figured my wife would probably put a stop to things, but she was seeming to really enjoy having him rub her clit, and she was seeming to enjoy stroking his hard cock. After a couple of minutes of this, I thought she would be ready to stop, but instead, she leaned against me, and turned a little bit so that he could have better access to her vagina. When she did that, she let go of his cock, and let out a little moan. I couldn’t believe it, but this was going a lot farther than I ever thought it would and she was relaxing and enjoying his touch. She was staring at him with wide eyes, and what he asked her surprised me. He asked her if she would mind if he put a finger in her, and she just nodded. He put a finger in her and played inside her vagina. He did that for a while, and then he put a second finger in her. The look on my wife’s face was a look of total sexual lust.

I then asked my wife if she was ok, and she just said yeeeeeeeeeessssssss. I couldn’t believe that this was my wife. She was totally enjoying the sexual attentions of another man.

Taking his queue from my wife, he asked her if she would mind if he tried something else that he was certain she would really enjoy. She was so lost in the feeling that she just nodded yes. He stripped off his pants and said, I know you don’t want to have sex, but I really think you will enjoy this. With that, he turned my wife around to where she was lying on the seat, and he kneeled down on the floor in front of her, and then he started rubbing his cock up and down her very wet vagina. He would start, just above her anus, have his cock slide between her vaginal lips over her vagina, and then pop out and rub up along her clit, until his balls were resting on her vagina. He would then slide back down and start the rub all over again. My wife was so turned on, that her vaginal secretions were going crazy, and his cock and balls were covered in her juices. He did that for 10 or 15 strokes, which was just driving my wife crazy. I could tell from the looks of things that both of them were getting really close to having an orgasm. Then before he did it again, he adjusted his kneeling position, and this time when he rubbed his cock over her on the upward stroke, the angle was different, and this time as the head of his cock was sliding over her vaginal opening, the tip of it caught my wifes vaginal ring, and instead of sliding past her opening as it had before, this time the tip started to enter my wife’s vagina. You should have seen the look on her face when she felt the tip of his cock catch in her vaginal ring and start to enter her.

Being the gentleman that he was, he just held his cock there without pushing it any further inside of my wife. My wife had a look of terror on her face as she realized just exactly how far this game had gone. But it was a look of major confusion. Her body was trembling, and you could clearly see that she was running a bunch of mixed emotions. She was so close to having an orgasm, and she had thought that she would be able to do it without any penetration, but she felt another man’s penis ready to slide into her, and this was causing a major emotional conflict in her. You have to give the guy credit as he just held that position with the tip of his penis in her vaginal opening waiting for my wife to give him any kind of indication as to what she wanted to do. It was too much for my wife. Her orgasm started and she was too far gone, so she just hooked her ankles behind his butt and pulled him into her. He bottomed out in my wife, and the two of them both came at the same time.

Needless to say, I was flabbergasted. My wife who had never wanted anyone but me had just pulled another man into her vagina where both of them had a major orgasm. He literally shot round after round of sperm into my wife’s vagina, as the both of them spasmed and twitched until their mutual orgasms subsided. He laid on top of my wife for about 10 minutes as the two of them came down from that tremendous high. When he got off of her, she was literally leaking cum from her vagina like crazy.

He got dressed and we took him home before we had the limo drop us off at our home. That night, my wife and I had sex 3 times during the night and it was fantastic.

The next morning as my wife and I cuddled together, she said, you know, that is the one and only time you are ever going to get to see that, because that will never happen again. I’m sure she’s probably right, but it has given us some great memories and made for some wonderful sex sessions ever since. In fact, we now have sex a couple of times a week, thanks to this one hot session.

That was a story about two very lucky men.

The only time? For some reason, I doubt it.

They say that you have to drag a woman into swinging, but then you have to drag her away from it.

I'm guessing she gets more adventurous in the future, after this first bite at the apple! :)

you never know
 

I was extremely surprised that it went that far, not that I'm complaining, but with as conservative as my wife is, I would be blown away if it did happen again.

I would be willing to bet real money that it happens again. Once the genie is out of the bottle, it's hard to stuff it back in...

you are very lucky. I guess my wife also needs this treaty, I just wished I knew a way to get her do this.

Johnnymac, you're right in that I too never thought I would ever see what I saw. I honestly though that she would allow me to show off her sweet charms, and that would be the end of it I was really surprised when she alllowed it to go to the touch stage. Think it helped a lot that we took the time to get to know him first. It helped me a lot to get really comfortable with him by emailing a ton back and forth for the couple of weeks prior to our actually meeting. I was able to get comfortable enough with him that I felt confident that if by some outside chance he was able to fuck my wife, that I would not have to be worried about the possibility of disease. The only thing that caused any concern was the fact that our friend was shooting live sperm and my wife is still very regular with her periods and we haven't had to be concerned about birth control for the last 25 years. But then again, I really never expected it to go past just looking, and at the very most, touching.

I'm pretty certain that all of can see a little bit of ourselves in the experiences of others
I'm willing to bet that when my wife agreed to my proposition, I had to have looked like a kid in a candy store. But never, even in my wildest imagination, did I ever think it would go as far as it did.

Johnnymac, I've always been leary of posting pictures of my wife online after a good friend of mine had a real bad experience when he posted pictures of his wife online. The only person I shared some of her pictures with was the guy I chose to help with our anniversary experience.

Thank you for sharing this story! Hat's off to all involved for creating an amazingly erotic encounter, even if it's not to be repeated. Many of us would gladly have that "one time thing" both for the experience and to be able to relive it together. Once can certainly be enough.

Simply awesome. Thanks again!

Fact. Known from experience.

DR

You could be right, but knowing my wife I really think this is a one time event
I was totally surprised that it happened this time. I alluded to the fact that it was exciting to see my wife's reactions to the sexual attention of another man, but it was very obvious that as turned on as she was with the playing, I saw conflicting emotions in her face and body language the entire time. I saw excitement and apprehension.

I also have to admit that I too had the exact same feelings. Excitement and apprehension. I honestly never expected it to go beyond the showing and touching stage. That just wouldn't be my wife. I wasn't prepared for how far it went. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoyed it, but I wasn't mentally prepared for how far it went. I went past the point that I had mentally prepared for when he asked her if he could try something that he thought she would really enjoy, especially when he prefficed it with the comment that he knew she didn't want to have intercourse, and she agreed.

After that point, it exceeded what I had mentally prepared for. When he took off hid pants, kneeled on the floor and slid my wife down to the point where her ass was on the edge of the seat and he was between her legs, I was literraly shaking in an oh my gosh moment! I was not mentally prepared for that.

Regret? No. Blown away. Definitely!

Has your wife mentioned the incident again since it happened? Any chance of meeting the other guy again?

We talk about it all the time. It never ceases to get us both extremely turned on as we talk about the experience as part of our foreplay. I have not asked her point blank if she'd ever want to do it again as I wouldn't want to ruin it for her
As long as she thinks it was a one time event, it's ok with her to use it in our play. I know that if she felt I was trying to get her to do it again, the wall would go up and our new found sex life would suffer tremendously.

I asked my wife for her perspective
 

I had a good long talk with my wife about our adventure. By having a good serious talk that wasn't associated with foreplay, I was able to get her real take on what happened, including her thoughts and feelings before, during, and after. Her perspective was definitely different than mine. When I get time this weekend, I will put our conversation down in writing, and then post it here.

Thanks
 

Look forward to hearing more.

And Now from my wife's perspective
 

As I indicated, I had a good long talk with my wife to get her perspective on our anniversary adventure. I had told her that I wanted to get her true thoughts and feelings on everything that happened, and it was helpful to me to get her honest take on what happened. As this part comes from her, I am going to relate it as she told it to me.

The night we went out to dinner a couple of months prior to our anniversary and you said that you had a proposal for me that would help you to drop the extra weight, I was thrilled to know that you had been thinking about your weight issue, because it has been a concern of mine for many years. When you told me that you would be willing to drop 30 pounds by our anniversary if I would be willing to do something for you, my ears immediately perked up. When you told me that you would be willing to lose the weight if I was willing to allow you to show me off to another man, I decided that I wasn’t going to just dismiss the idea like I had done in the past. As you know, I thought about it for a bit, and then said, all you want to do is show me off to another man and nothing else, right? When you said yes, I thought about it and figured that if my allowing you to show me off to another man would be the motivation you needed to finally drop the extra pounds I’ve wanted you to drop for years, then I could allow myself to be a little embarrassed as another man saw what no other man other than you has seen before, so I agreed. You should have seen your face. You lit up like a kid in a candy store. And our sexual intimacy that night was refreshing, as it was obvious this was something you really wanted.

Then when you joined the gym, and I started to see the change in you as the pounds started coming off, I was thrilled. After a month and you were more than half way to your goal weight, I knew that this was really going to happen, so that’s when I asked you how you were going to go about finding just the right man. I don’t want this to be someone we know as I think that could get very awkward. You said you were going to put an ad on Craigslist and you would take care of all the details of finding just the right guy. I told you to make sure that you screened the guys very carefully as I didn’t want this experience to be one that the guy would tell his friends about, and then everyone in town would know about it. I then left it up to you to find the perfect guy.

When you reached your goal weight, I was thrilled with the new you, because we were able to go out and buy you a whole new wardrobe as your old clothes no longer fit. I also started thinking more and more about what we were going to do for me to fulfill my part of the agreement, but didn’t want to ask you about your plans, because you said that you wanted this to be a complete surprise. The whole adventure took on a new reality the day you took me shopping and bought me that new little black dress. I remember trying it on in the store with nothing on underneath it and thinking, this is real. This is what another man is going to get the chance to see, and to be honest, I was getting a little turned on with the thought that you were indeed going to show me off to another man.
Then came the day of our anniversary. I remember running the whole gamut of emotions as I got ready for our date and I put nothing on other than my dress and my heels. I literally felt almost naked, which I was. My emotions were taking major swings. Excitement that I was going to be doing something you had wanted me to do for a long time, and that I knew would turn you on tremendously. Fear, because for the first time in our married life, I would be allowing another man the opportunity to see something that only you had ever seen before. Fear, because of not knowing how I would feel as you exposed me to another man. Fear, because of not knowing what your plan was on how you were going to show me off without other people seeing it, which would cause me a lot of embarrassment if someone else did see this, especially someone we knew.

Then the limo pulled up. As we had never been in a limo, I got more excited about the night. After we got in and you gave the chauffeur the address for Ted’s home, I really enjoyed the luxurious atmosphere inside the limo. When we got to Ted’s house and you called him to come on out, I was pleasantly surprised that you had picked a very good looking man that was nicely dressed in Dockers and a nice shirt. I remember our talking about just about everything as we drove to the restaurant. I was glad that we had a long drive as it was very nice to have the opportunity to get to know Ted more. I was really surprised when he said that he was 32, as he looked more mature than that. We found out that he had been married for 8 years and had two children and a third child that was about a month from being born. It was fun to hear about him and his family, which helped put me at ease that you had done your homework on finding a real good guy.

It was fun to continue to talk about family during dinner, so by the time we got back in the limousine, all three of us were very comfortable with each other and I felt we could talk about anything. That is the point where you started telling me about how Ted’s wife had had some major complications with this pregnancy, and therefore, Ted hadn’t been able to be intimate with his wife for the last 6 months. I looked at Ted and he just nodded. When I asked him how he was handling that, he indicated that it was a real struggle for him as he and his wife had always had a very active sex life. He said that when he saw your Craigslist ad, he was really excited, because it gave him an opportunity to go out with a fun couple and possibly get the opportunity to have a great experience. I asked him if his wife knew about this, and he indicated that he had shown her your Craigslist ad, which said you were looking for the opportunity to find someone that was clean, pleasant, and above all, discreet, that you could show your wife off to, up close and personal. He said that his wife really liked that idea, because of the fact that neither him nor his wife had ever had an extramarital encounter, and this sounded like a great experience that was probably going to be just some hot flirting with a great view.

I had to smile when he said that, because he seemed to blush a little as he was explaining it. I knew then and there that you had really done your homework, and picked a cute guy that would help fulfill your fantasy of showing me off, and that because he hadn’t had any action in 6 months, would probably really enjoy seeing what I had underneath my dress.

The limousine was an 8 passenger limo with a bench seat in the back, and a wrap around bench seat on the side and front of the passenger compartment. When we got in, you sat in the corner of the wrap around bench seat, with me beside you to your right, and Ted was seated next to me on the other side of me.

After Ted told us about his wife encouraging him to come out with us, you then took hold of the hem of my dress and started sliding it up my legs, and said to Ted, so this is what your wife wouldn’t mind you seeing, right? Ted intently watched as you kept sliding the bottom of my dress up. I remember you stopping as soon as you could see my bush and looking over at Ted. The look on his face was just precious. He looked so excited as soon as my pubic hair came into view. You then had me push up with my hands on the seat so that you could slide the bottom of my dress out from under me and then you pulled my dress up around my waist. I thought poor Ted’s eyes were going to bug out as he intently stared at may crotch. When you reached down and took your two fingers and spread my lips apart, exposing my clit, it felt like a bolt of electricity shot from your fingers and zapped my clit, because it literally tingled.

Then you said something that took me completely by surprise. You told Ted to go ahead and rub my clit. As he reached over, I remember saying, what? You looked like you were wanting to explain this just as Ted’s finger made contact with my clit and he started rubbing it. I was really surprised when you just shrugged your shoulders instead of explaining. When you took your hand away leaving just Ted’s fingers massaging my clit, I remember giving you one last look that could kill before looking over at Ted. He was intently rubbing my clit and staring just google eyed at my vagina. I looked down at his lap and he I could see that he was very visibly aroused. It was then that you told Ted that he might want to open up his pants so that I could massage him as well. I remember Ted immediately stopping his massaging of my clit to unsnap and unzip his pants so that he erect penis could be freed. As soon as it popped into view, Ted went right back to massaging my clit. I remember just staring at it, as other than you, I had never seen this before. And to be honest, it was a whole different feeling for me to see Ted’s erection, knowing that the reason he was erect was because of me. Talk about some mixed emotions. I really liked what I saw, but I am married, and am not supposed to like seeing another man’s erect penis. Talk about a major conflict. When you encouraged me to go ahead and feel his cock, I looked at you, trying to read from your face what you wanted. I didn’t want to touch him, but then again, he was making me feel so good by massaging my clit, that I did want to touch him and return the favor as well. It wasn’t until you said, come on sweetheart, you can at least touch it, that I figured I owed him that much because he was really exciting me with his massaging of my clit.

I still remember how it felt when I first touched it. It was velvety smooth. I couldn’t believe how hard it was. I touched the shaft then went up and felt the head. I was a jumbled up mix of emotions. I really liked touching it. It felt so smooth, and I felt so naughty, as I grabbed hold of it and started stroking it up and down. Deep inside I knew that I wasn’t supposed to be doing this, but I also knew that this felt really nice and between my enjoying pumping another man’s cock, and his rubbing my clit, I could feel myself getting real warm and comfortable with this. I knew it was wrong, but it felt soooooooooo good. It was then that I slid down in the seat to make myself more accessible to Ted.

As you know, it wasn’t long before I let go of his penis, leaned against you and turned slightly in the seat so I could raise my right leg a little and give Ted more access. I know he got the hint, because that is when he asked me if it would be alright if he put a finger in me. I was enjoying it so much that I just nodded when he asked me if I would be ok with that. Then he put a finger in my vagina. Ohhhhhhhhhhhh, I was in heaven. It felt sooooooooooo good to feel his finger penetrate me. I was so wet that he had absolutely no trouble with lubrication. He worked his finger in and out of me for a bit, then slid another finger in me. I was just trembling with anticipation and pleasure. I was building towards and orgasm, and I wanted my orgasm. I wanted it bad, but I still was having a ton of mixed emotions knowing that it was Ted getting me to this point and not my husband. The mind games were playing out hot and heavy. As I got closer and closer to cumming, Ted stopped and asked if I would mind if he tried something that he knew I would really like. I looked at him and was more than a little hesitant, until he said, I know that you don’t want to be penetrated, but I think you will really like this. I was coming so close to having an orgasm that I finally just nodded yes.

With that, he took his pants off, kneeled down on the floor and had me turn around on the seat and had me slide down until my legs were hanging off of the seat and my butt was right at the very edge of the seat. He was between my legs and I was on pins and needles as I waited to see what he was going to do. He kneeled up and put the tip of his penis just above my anus, and started sliding his penis upwards. At the angle he was at, his penis slid over my vagina, between my vaginal lips (almost like a hot dog and bun) and then the tip rubbed up and over my clit with the shaft having contact with my clit until he finally stopped his upward motion with his balls resting on my vaginal opening. He then rubbed all the way back down to where he started and then did it again. This whole time was literally driving me crazy, as this whole rubbing action was directly rubbing my very sensitive vagina, labia, and clit.

He did this action for probably 15 or 20 times, and to be honest, it felt so good, and I was just about ready to have what I knew would be a major orgasm, that I wanted him to do it just a few more times and I knew I would go over the edge. But something happened. On the last time, he scooted back just a bit before doing another run. As soon as he started back up, I felt the tip of his cock catch my vaginal ring, and this time, instead of just sliding up and over my opening as he had done many times before, the tip of his penis started to enter my vagina. When I felt the tip catch in my opening, I felt the head of his penis start to expand my opening before he stopped. Where I had my eyes closed before, and was just enjoying the wonderful feeling, my eyes now flew open and I had this oh no, feeling come over me. I could not allow this to happen. I needed him to pull it out. I could not allow him to have intercourse with me. This was wrong.

But, I was ready to explode in a massive orgasm. I had felt it building. I knew that I was right there. If I told him to stop, would that put an end to the playing and I be denied the huge orgasm I wanted worse than anything else? Would there be hard feelings? Would my husband be upset?

All of that went out the window when I felt my orgasm start. I needed it and needed it real bad, and I knew that if he was inside me and he shot round after round against my uterus, that this would probably be the most massive, explosive orgasm, I had ever had. I had to have him in me so I hooked my ankles behind his butt and pulled him into me until our pubic bones crashed together, and I just exploded, as did Ted. I was trembling, bucking and shaking as Ted was thrusting and spasming inside of me. I felt every single blast of his hot sperm. It wasn’t until after my orgasm finally settled down that I realized that I had just allowed a guy that was shooting live sperm to shoot his whole load inside of my vagina without any kind of precautions or preparations. We hadn’t had to worry about that for 25 years since you had your vasectomy, and suddenly, I have a vagina full of another man’s live sperm. As you remember, Ted and I just laid there for about 10 minutes until we both got the strength up to get up so Ted could get dressed and I could clean up. I remember having so much sperm coming out of me that I went through half a box of tissues as I kept cleaning up afterwards.

After we took Ted home and then got dropped back at our home, I remember that you couldn’t keep your hands off of me, and you wanted sloppy seconds. Going right to bed, we had a wonderful sexual experience, and then had two more throughout the night. When I reminded you that Ted had shot me full of live sperm, you just shrugged it off, and said, hey, whatever happens, we had a wonderful night.

When I told you that this was a onetime event, I appreciated the fact that you concurred, and to be honest, remembering the night sure has helped our sex life since then.

There it is from my wife’s perspective.

So, um, could I have Ted's number... got a thing for the wife to try :D

Jk.. great story. Glad u had fun as did your wife.

Those of you who have experienced erection / libido problems from blood pressure medication mentioned in this thread have my sympathy.

I used to wake up 3 or 4 times a week with a more than useful erection - until I was diagnosed with high blood pressure. I was put on medication that successfully treated the blood pressure, but my erections vanished over night to a soft hard on at best once a month. I was then put onto statins to combat high cholesterol - and even that soft hard on vanished.

My GP is female and showed not the slightest interest in my erection 'problems' - so I asked for a private referral to a male urologist speciliast who confirmed the effects of my medication were well known and documented and prescribed me a course of Cialis. This has returned me to my orignal 'prowess' and despite this Cialis supposedly only lasting for @ 36 hours - in my case it lasts for up to 10 days.

I eventually found a website highlighting the side effects of a whole range of blood pressure / cholesterol medication and ran a copy off which I gave to my female GP next time I saw her - telling her to consider this aspect for any male patients she deals with in future

Fortunately, since we had this adventure, libido is no longer an issue for either of us.

Fortunately, since we had this adventure, libido is no longer an issue for either of us
Concern might be an issue, but libido hasn't.

What is it that is causing concern?

Any photos to share?
 

Hopefully you didn't just sit there and watch.

Timmothy, I don't want to get hammered for my concern, so send me a PM and I'll tell you..

Very intently, but yes, I sat there and watched. Paralyzed as I could only watch would probably adequately describe it

Dodged a bullet
 

Did you ever hear about a guy that was thrilled that his wife was having her period? Two weeks late, I'm thrilled to see her monthly visitor arrive

Congrats on the monthly!

Good News!

You can say that again!

A friend of mine is having the same problem with his wife. He now only has sex with her like once a month. I'm not certain when this started, but he's been married for over 2 years already. I believe they knew each other for 6 months before he proposed so it could be 3 years total. I guess after an extended period you just get bored.

i've been married 44 years & sex is never boring - maybe not as frenetic / frequent as all those years ago - but at least twice a month

.I wouldn't say we get bored so much as we get busy, we get tired, and we just don't make intimacy a priority.

Since then, has your wife shown any more interest?
 

I know that you indicated that your wife said this one occasion was the one and only time you would ever see that. With the passing of time, has shown any more interest in a possible repeat performance?

It was one of those once in a lifetime events
 

Even though reliving the experience over and over again as part of our sexual foreplay, my sweet wife has absolutely no interest in a repeat performance.

Thank yo for asking.

My wife is changing
 

My wife has never been a prude but she wasn’t very open about sexuality. Surely we can talk about anything, including sex and fantasies. She knows I like voyeurism and a little bit of exhibitionism but that didn’t do anything for her. I’ve also been curious about swinger clubs, mostly to be able to watch and be watched, but she wouldn’t even think about it. We had a very active sex-life in the beginning of our relationship but after 22 years it has deteriorated drastically. Apparently she wants to change all of this now…

Come to think about it, I guess things started to change a few months ago. Although we regularly are nude in public when we visit a sauna, she always refused to go to a nudist camping, visit a nude beach or even get topless on the beach. Last summer we towed our caravan to a camping in France. This camping seemed great in the brochures so we made reservations for it in advance. Unfortunately the camping wasn’t what we expected, too large for us and too noisy. Soon we started to regret that we didn’t choose a smaller camping.

Our neighbors from across the street (I wrote about them before) went on vacation to a camping in France at the same time we did, so we’ve been text messaging from day one about the trip to France. They called us about an hour after we sent them a message that we were going to search for a smaller camping the next day. They told us they were at a smaller camping, not to crowded, not to noisy but with plenty to do for the kids. Naturally we asked if there were any pitches available and if they would mind if we came over. They didn’t mind and already found out that the pitch next to them was available. They also said that we should be aware it is a nudist camping! Much to my surprise, my wife didn’t hesitate at all so we spent the rest of our vacation on a nudist camping, together with our neighbors. That probably was the first change.

Last week my wife exposed me to one of her friends and showed a lot of interest in nude pictures of her husband. That certainly was an exciting change! I wrote about this a few days ago, not knowing what it would lead to…

My wife arranged a babysitter so we could spend Friday evening with my wife’s friend and her husband. Without my knowledge she brought a memory stick with our vacation pictures and she offered our hosts to show them. These pictures aren’t as explicit as the ones we’ve seen earlier that week but many of them showed me, my wife, our son, our neighbors, their daughters and the boyfriend of their oldest, completely nude. As I’m a certified masseur, there were also plenty pictures of me rubbing sunscreen on the others. This didn’t go unnoticed so I explained the sunscreen was often used as an excuse to get a small massage from me. (I certainly didn’t mind!). My wife’s friend started complaining that her husband seldom gave her a massage and the sparse times he did, it quickly turned into sex. Again my wife surprised me with her openness. She suggested that I could give her friend a massage and her husband could mimic my moves and practice on her. The offer was quickly accepted so a few minutes later we were in their bedroom , watching our wives undress. Both of them got fully nude and laid down on their bellies. When the husband sat down on the bed next to my wife, his wife said “oh no, we are not the only ones getting naked!”. My wife agreed so I started to undress and so did the husband after some hesitation. Both of us were semi erect when we got on the bed but that soon changed. My wife’s friend was clearly teasing me by opening her legs more than necessary, leaving me no other choice than to sit between her legs while massaging her back. When I looked at my wife, I saw she decently kept her legs together but this enabled him to sit on her legs with is balls against her ass. I saw his erect penis touch her ass when he leaned forward to massage her shoulders. He didn’t seem to try mimicking my moves at all. By the time I finished massaging the lower back and started doing her gluteus, I was too distracted to notice how the massage of my wife was progressing. Encouraged by her reactions I started slipping my fingers trough the perinea of my wife’s friend, progressing towards her genitals. I was deliberating my next move when I noticed my wife moan. I was shocked to see my wife on all fours getting fucked doggy style. Two of my fingers slipped inside the friend while I watched the penis of her husband sliding in and out of my wife without a condom. I had mixed emotions but my excitement won so I decided to mimic his moves. The four of us had incredible sex and another change was evident when the wives went down on each other. My wife always told me she wasn’t into that at all. The four of us continued having sex until we had to go home because of the babysitter. My wife and I actually had some more sex in our own bed that night.

Next morning my wife went to the doctor and we’ve done a lot of talking last night. She claims it happened spontaneously and was once in a lifetime only but I’m not convinced. I’d like it to happen again but I’m also afraid of what else might happen. After all these years my wife is definitely changing and I’m not sure how I feel about it.

Be Careful
 

You are indeed right about medications such as blood pressure tablets causing erection problems and many GPs consider it an irrelevant side issue but you also need to be aware of the dangers of Cialis type medications as well. I know of a friend of a friend who died of a massive heart attack due to use of Viagara and the second time that I used it I got horrible pains in my calf muscles and have never been game to try it again, was it DVT (Deep Vein Thrombosis). Hypertension can sometimes be controlled by changes in exercise and eating choices. Actually some of the choices are fairly simple, for example I found that drinking normal tea would pump my blood pressure up.

In the last 4 weeks I have been on an almost sugar free diet which has seen me drop 2kg even though most people say that I didn't have any to lose. I did actually and the weight has gone from the tummy and bum which is great. I have a serious slow progressing underlying medical condition and had been getting weaker over recent years (I'm 65) with associated erection problems but have found that there has been a noticeable improvement in the last few weeks. "Mr Happy" is starting to get a smile on his face again. I would suggest readers to try eliminating all cane sugar from your diet and cutting fruit down to a very small amount. The diet consists mainly of vegetables and meat and you can get more info at sarahwilson.com.au You could get many other health benefits even if you are not having erection problems especially for those suffering skin problems.

The biggest surprise my wife ever gave me was almost 10 years ago when she was on a business trip. We had talked about her having sex with other guys, she had even come close on a few occasions, but it was always a fantasy, I was the only man she ever has actual sexual intercourse with.

Late in the afternoon I get a call from her, "you know that fantasy we talk about all the time, the one where I have sex with another man, would you like it to come true?"

I was a little surprised, I asked her "what's going on, why are you asking me?"

"There a a real hot guy here, he's about 10 years younger than we are, he was flirting with me at check in and the elevator, he said he had a 'big surprise' for me if I came to his room. I asked him what he meant by 'big surprise', he said 9 and a half inches and a night I'd never forget. I just told him I had a business dinner to go to, he said he was in room 532, call him after dinner if I was interested. I am wet just thinking about it, but I don't want to do it unless its OK with you."

"If you think it's safe and you make him wear a condom, go for it".

"I'm not worried about him being a criminal, I know the company he works for and he would have to have a condom, are you sure you're ok with this?"

"I'll be turned on thinking about it, have fun and call me later."

"I love you, I will."

I fell asleep late that night and the phone didn't ring until the morning, she was cheerful, "good morning sweetie".

"Well how was it, or did you chicken out?"

"No, I didn't chicken out, it was incredible, I can't wait to get home to fuck your brains out. I can't talk now and I'll be with people all day, I'll let you know when I'm on the way home from the airport."

When she got home we spent several hours in bed.

Just a follow up
 

With our anniversary coming up this year I have been trying to get my wife interested in a repeat performance from last year. She has continually told me that last years experience was a one time event.

Then last night during our foreplay she said, "you know, it might be fun to find another couple to go out on the boat to celebrate with us this year". Then she winked. Our boat is a 42' Ocean Alexander so we will have plenty if room for a great weekend cruise/play in the San Juan's.

I think it's time to start looking for just the right couple :-)

Huum a lovely story in perspective. ;););)
I want you to know the same pleasure as for your last birthday party wedding :):):)