Getting my wife started
 

Ok I've only recently discovered this part of the forum, but I have an issue I'd welcome your help with. My wife (32) is pretty conservative in daily life, but a bit racy in bed. We've recently started fantasising during sex about same-room sex with another couple. Fantasy has only gone as far as the other guy touching her boobs, but we both get turned on by it.

I'm pretty keen to try it out, but this fantasy thing is something we never discuss outside of bed. I have no idea how to take it further, so I'd welcome any thoughts and suggestions.

I'm also keen to get her to post some anonymous pics on the site, but again, no idea how to go about that.

Does anyone have experience of persuading a wife/gf to do anything like that?

Look forward to hearing from you ...

J

Id stay well clear if I were you ? I know a couple that did many years ago and it destroyed their marriage, there is a huge amount of difference between fantasy and reality - it don't happen like you see in porn films and there will be a whole heap of baggage

just my thoughts

Thanks for that - maybe that's right. I wonder if the posting thing is less risky though - it's still quite fantasy-based. At least, more than the same room sex.

Try posting
 

If she is ok with it, take some shots of her, (not showing her face) and post here. You will get comments and a chance for both of you to see if you like the reactions or not. Also it can be a thrill to both of you to go out especially when out of town and have her go braless in public. Usually leads to great sex afterward. Check out my page I have pics of my wife and a true story of a night we spent while out of town.

It works out for some, not for others. The most common factor in successful tries is communication - talk to her, comfort her, make her feel your constant love and support. If she feels pushed at all, that will plant a seed of resentment that will later bloom into anger. But if it's a journey you're both on, together, safely, then she'll be more likely to take it further.

Hard to tell whether it'll just be a phase for her, or a longer interest or even passion, but only time will tell.

BE PATIENT. That's the hardest part, but the best play.

Good luck!

The famous San Francisco philosopher, Harry Callahan, put it this way:

"You've got to ask yourself a question. 'Do I feel lucky?' Well, do you, punk?"


There are three outcomes. Two of which are not good. #1: she'll hate it and it will be your fault. #2: she'll like it, but will feel very guilty about it, and it will be your fault. #3: she'll like it, and appreciate that you like her enjoyment, feel the same way about you, and everything will work out.


Think about the Callahan question. You know your wife, I'd don't so I can't tell you what to do.

A few pics
 

Here are a few pics snapped with my iphone while she was dozing the other morning. Poor quality but the light was not good. What do you think?

I wouldn't mind waking up to a bottom like hers :o It looks great

Yes very squeezable and lickable too (which drives her wild). Hmmm this unaware posting is quite exciting...

More
 

Definately need to post more.

Ok thanks for the encouragement - we're going on holiday tomorrow so I'll try to snap some pics. Any requests?!

And, keen to keep this in the non-fiction forum for a bit at least... Anyone got any stories of success in persuading wives / gfs to try a bit of same room sex?

My wife and I have gone a bit farther than that, but it started with same room sex in the context of a swing club.
My wife was extremely reluctant, but there had been a lot of stress in our marriage, and she agreed to go to a local swing club on the condition that no one else would touch her. That was fine with me. We had a great time watching others and playing just with each other. I made sure to take very good care of her. At on-premise swing clubs "No means NO!", and no one was pushy.
After several visits, she became much more relaxed about it and started to play with other men and women.

The advantage of an on-premise swing club is that you are anonymous and unlikely to meet anyone you know. You make no commitments and can leave whenever you like without hurting anyone's feelings. The same cannot be said of trying to set up same room sex with friends or acquaintances or (even worse) with some possibly compatible from the Internet.

Off premise swing clubs are also a possibility, since you will meet & greet other couples at a bar or restaurant and get to know them a bit, and agree on your mutual expectations.

We much preferred the on-premise route.

DR

My second wife and I did both on- and off- premises clubs. She didn't like the on-premises ones, at all. She much preferred the off-premises where we would spend time meeting/greeting people with whom we might play somewhere else - privately.

In fact - she never played or did anything but flirt - either of the two times we went to on-premises clubs. But, she met people that she then invited to play, later - somewhere else. So, we went to on-premises clubs for me to play, and her to meet people.

It worked out - for a while. But, neither of these were the reason/cause for our split. She met a guy through work connections and wanted to 'play' with him ... but, he didn't want any group things - so it was always just the two of them ... that was the beginning of the end. She eventually fell 'in love' with this guy - and wanted to move in with him ...

These are interesting stories; thanks! My plan right now is to bring it up in conversation on holiday - and also to snap some pics. Got a blurry shower pic but not much use. Trickier than you'd think, secretly filming your own wife !!!

A couple snapped this morning. Comments and thoughts welcome as always :)

cute ass we want to see more ;-)

Thanks. Got one this morning of her lying in her back with her skirt hiked up. Will try to convert and post tonight. What else would you like to see?

Had sex last night and we fantasised about her sitting on a train and spreading her legs do a guy opposite could see up her skirt ... Progress?!

yeah we'd love to see some upskirt pics of her ;-)

As promised.

So hot
 

I'm having a great solo sex session and these just made it SO much better - totally beautiful butt and the fact that photo quality (lighting) was not ideal added to the erotic pleasure - seriously. I have enjoyed this thread and look fwd to seeing more of her. VERY nice. :)

i finaly convence my wife to do some sexual stuff with another guy,but she only gave him bj and only did her ass.

Only:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: