Did my Wife Give Head to Another?
 

True story, this happened three years ago. My father in law was arrested for a DUI and driving on a suspended license. My wife called a cop she had known for a long time (and her friends hubby) in order to get charges dropped, or to make sure they were never filed. It was his second offense and could have been facing jail time. A couple of days later I woke up at 345 am and noticed she had left for work way early, she usually leaves at 5. Moments later I get a phone call from the cops teen son wanting to know who had called his dad from that number. Naturally I freaked out and called my wife. She calls back and explains she left early to givethe citation to her cop pal. I didn't buy her story and pissed that she never told me anything about it, we fought like hell the rest of the day. Later that night she puts on a sexy nighty and sucks me for a long time. Since then I have found out that Mr Cop was fired, for among all things, taking sexual favors. Over the past 2 years I will occasionally think about it, but I know that my wife will take this to her grave. I don't expect her to ever come clean.
That said, I get really turned on by her sucking and fucking other guys. I've been telling her recently that I fantasize about her with other men. So last night she's giving me fantastic head and I keep telling her how wonderful she is with sucking cock. As I was slipping my cock in her, she asks me how she would do in a blowjob contest. I laugh and she asks if they really have bj contests, I'm like, "I would imagine," then she asks me if u would get turned on by watching her suck another cock, and would I get jealous. She asked how would I like it "if she were sucking on the end of one." naturally I get hot and fuck her hard while telling her to tell me that she loves to fuck and loves getting her pussy filled by her boyfriends. Her pussy was dripping wet until we came. I asked her later about what we said, and she basically said she could never swing or be loaned out. Still, I have to wonder if sge really wants to be shared, and I also start thinking about her encounter with the cop. I think she's not completely open to all this because she wants to maintain the goody goody church mom image. Thoughts? And thoughts about her rendezvous? You guys/gals agree that her meeting was probably a little more than dropping off paperwork?

I would imagine your wife probably did something with her cop buddy. He may have pounded the hell out of her who knows…

That's the thing, who knows. Shes not going to peep a word, and the cop sure the hell isn't. A buddy of mine summarized it like this: 10 % chance she was honest, 70% chance she gave him a handjob or head, and 20% that he fucked her. Hell, I just want honesty. Lol.

I can relate. Considering some of the things my ex did when we were married.

It's a duck...!
 

If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it is most assuredly a duck! That being said, I for one would most certainly conclude that your wife, at the very least gave him a blow-job! Since the not to distant past era of escapades by some of our political leaders, many people have come to believe that "eatin' ain't cheatin!" Your wife, giving the set of duress and circumstances she was presented with, may also have subscribed to this theory and decided to suck a cock other than yours. As long as you are comfortable with it and even better, aroused by it, all is good.

Before my wife and I mutually agreed to enjoy an occasional hotwife / cuckold threesome, she would sometimes meet up with a mutual friend of ours, an old flame of hers, that was fucking her before we got married. She now admits to giving him numerous blow-jobs and finally spreading her legs and letting him fuck her. When I found out I was unbelievably aroused and excited. With some patience and gentle persuasion, this admission opened up the door to some fun sexual escapades for the three of us! I have never looked back and regretted it!

- Not enough info for best guess. Did the citation disappear and charges never arise for your F-I-L? This is important info to include.

Do you think your wife actually rang the home phone of her friend at @ 3am, hoping the cop would pick up and not his wife - or son? If your wife did not do that, then what's up with the son calling you at 3:45am? Actually, even if your wife woke the entire family, why do you think the son called you at that hour?

I'm thinking that if the son was motivated to call at that hour, this was possibly not the first disruption by your wife, and he wanted to stop the tension developing in his household. The cop was obviously a philanderer with questionable ethics (hence the firing) and his wife and son were both aware of a string of women - your wife being just one - and were tiring of the impact within the home.

Look at the bright side. If she did, and your F-I-L didn't go to jail, lose his license, etc., you saved money. She'd probably have become his chauffeur on your nickel. Bill Clinton didn't think a blow job was sex, so its not like she's having secret sex with someone else, is it?

And, adding to the mix, you say you get turned on by the thought of her sucking and fucking other guys.

What's the downside of this? Don't press the issue so you can keep telling yourself she's sucked another's cock.

Me? I'm happy if my wife sucks mine these days.

We need you to take hidden pictures of your wife and to post them to be able to answer better.

Yes, citation and charges disappeared. Second, she called the guys cell phone. And, she was ( and still is) friends with his wife.

Ask her point blank, did you give him a blow job. If she isn't expecting it, then she will probably be to shocked to cover her reaction, and that will tell you what you need to know. Then make her come clean with the details so that you can share them with us :D

- Thanks. More info always helps. To get back to your initial question, the disappearance of the citation does smack of some intervention by your wife. Still no proof that this wasn't simply a case of the cop doing a favor for a friend of his wife - without a favor (of any sort) in return. Even bad guys have good days.

I'm still curious about the phone call to you from the cop's son. If your wife called the cop's cell phone, how do you think the son knew about that at 3am? And how do you think the son came into possession of the cell phone and searched the call history to determine your home phone? The cop likely took the cell phone to work. That's why we have them.

The teenage son made a very bold and intrusive move by calling your number at that hour. Extremely unusual. I'm thinking something was cooking in that household that made him feel a necessity to violate so many social conventions at once. Any thoughts?

I think the kid was the type that stayed up all night and played xbox. Second, not sure why he would call, but the kid was a big ass, always thinking he was an extension of his dad. The cop in question had a history of playing around. Btw, are u a cop?

- Ha! Nope. But I do have an excellent BS detector. Maybe you heard that go off.

Wow, so your insinuating that I'm bullshitting? I can think of a million things to do rather than create some fiction for an Internet forum. What I described, really happened. I don't know why the kid would call back at 3 something in the am, but heres a few random thoughts that I want to mention and counter:
People leave home without cell phones. It's called being forgetful. Second, the kid was the type that would do shit like this. In other words, being an intrusive little shit was par for the course. Finally, I'm sold that she blew him for the following 2 reasons: the guy had a rep for being on the take. And, the payback blowjob she gave me that night, complete with a sexy nightie. She's never donned the lingerie just for a BJ. So, you may ask, why don't I come out and ask her. Seriously? Even if Ive convinced her that I would love to see her perform head on another guy, shes not going to admit to past transgressions. As long as their is plausible deniability, people will lie their ass off in order to save it. It's just human nature.

- No insinuation. I'll claim it straight up if I believe that to be true. You asked for reader thoughts - I'm sharing mine.

I do admit that your story sets off my BS detector and my response is to look more closely - particularly when invited to do so. I do the same if a smoke detector goes of in the house - look a little closer before calling the firemen.

You are a far better judge of your wife than any of us here. If you insist she blew the cop, then I believe you completely.

The BS needle jumps every time you mention the side-story of the son. Such extremely atypical behavior. The more you say, the less plausible that piece becomes. Kids gaming at 3am typically wear earphones which would completely obscure a cellphone ringing in an adjacent room. If they use open speakers instead, it would be most likely behind closed doors to avoid the wrath of other family members. Open speakers behind closed doors would obscure a cellphone ringing in another room.

You draw a picture of the kid gaming under those conditions and still hearing the cellphone. By chance, the dad leaves the phone behind when he goes to meet your wife. By chance, the son assumes dad forgot his phone, stops gaming, hunts the phone down, opens call history and decides to call the last number and confront whoever answers. To me, this is not plausible, and reduces the plausibility of the rest of the story accordingly.

You did ask for readers to share their thoughts. Those are mine.

Again, if you say your wife is blowing other guys behind your back - regardless of the number or reason - I do believe you.

I'm convinced that for the charges to be dropped completely, she HAD to have done a gang-bang for him and at least 3 his buddies!

OK, now that we've got fantasy out of the way.....;)

So seriously, lets face it, something went on, you can almost bet on it. But use this knowlege to your advantage. The door has already been opened with her hinting she has a fantasy of a blowjob contest, etc. So build on that.

She def did something with that man.