Self humiliation:!anyone into this?
 

OK fellow OCC perves, I would love to hear if anyone else is into this. For background, I'm married to a beautiful Indian woman who is a total prude and who basically does not have sex with me beyond what it took in the first couple months of marriage to start a family. Apparently I am no longer needed for sex. This means, de facto, that I do not please her in the bedroom, and that my lovemaking has somehow rendered her fridgid to me. She apparently has no interest in other men either. I have become obsessed with the fantasy of another bigger and more macho man breaking her ice and doing what I have failed to do - provided of of course that I get my seconds.

We have the same family doctor. He's about 50, single, handsome, and clearly a player (all the women in his office are hot and/or milfy, and we have both seen him zipping about town in his convertible with some new hot young thing). He is more studly than me, and I have imagined my wife with him many times. I have also caught him checking her out on several occasions when we have been at the same social events. About a year ago I asked for a prescription for Viagra that I did not need (at 40 I still get good wood even if I am the only one tha plays with it), just to start planting the seed with him that she's unsatisfied. I acted it up, acted embarrassed, pretended to be shy about it, and made some comments to him about a lack of ability to keep up with this young wan 10 years my junior. It was all total bullshit but he wrote the 'scrip anyway.

I am having this fantasy about asking him about enzyte or eztenxe (supposed size enhancers), and trying to get into a conversation with him about penis size and satisfying his patient and my wife. I want to tell him how my erect penis is really not much bigger than my flaccid one (he won't know one way or th other), and want to tell him how my wife is used to so much bigger and manly men, and that we have big problems in the bedroom. While we do, it is not due to penis size, my loads or my manliness overall. But, I want to tell him thatit is, that my wife is unsatisfied and that she has had many lovers in the past who were so much bigger than me that she's reLly in need of satisfaction. The truth is that she lost her virginity to me and has only been with me, but I want to "confess" to her doctor how she's a craven sl*t, but that she plays the roll of the quiet married woman and hides her past.

This would be humiliating to me and would likely add something to her future visits to doctor horndog, even if it was just in his head.

1)anyone else into this?

2) can anyone see the downside?

I guess one cannot go back from this type of action, but it intrigues me so. I'd be happy to get any thoughts any of you Occ perves may have on this self humiliation topic.

- Hopefully you've achieved your self-humiliation goal by posting this. If you still need more, post your wife's email address so someone here can forward her this link.

So much for that
 

So much for that supposedly supportive and friendly Occ community. I guess if I posted a picture of some nasty looking old woman I could get 50 people to comment on how good she looks, but ask about a perversion that can't be so uncommon and get ripped on. Nobody out there has humiliation fantasies or experience to contribute?

Yea, that
 

Well yea, there's that. I would be making that up, but would likely ask for medical advice indicating that I cannot seem to please her. With the follow up questions I could then explain about my size, premature ejaculation, and that sort of thing. I have thought of saying I am smaller than she is used to; that sort of thing. I would see if that drew out more questions in the interest of science.

Like
I said, I'm mulling it all over in my head.

The downside is if the doctor is ethical your approach probably won't matter.

But that doesn't mean you shouldn't do it if it really turns you on.

And actually, have a fetish for being humiliated is not uncommon. I've met many men that did and have written stories about some that I've dominated, even though I'm just a tiny little thing. I'll tell them their weiner is small too at the drop of a hat. I told one guy his cock was so small I couldn't see how he'd even father children. He loved it and jacked to orgasm while I was insulting him.:)

would like to hear more
 

I'm sure me and other readers would love to hear more of this or read the stories. You are free to paste one into this thread if you like.

It is also nice to get a woman's perspective.

I hate to do this, because I would LOVE to share the actual stories.... After all the whole reason I wrote them in the first place is because I have an intense passion for erotica and this stuff actually turns me on. I wouldn't devote so much time to it otherwise.

But alas, I can't post any actual stories I've written -- because I'm a professional writer and my publisher owns the legal rights to them. (I know, I'm a sellout, but a gal has to eat... and I'm not really good at much else other than writing. I barely get by as it is.)

I'd tell you where you could find some of them being offered for free, but I don't want to violate site policy here. I'm sure my publisher would love for me to do it... hell he makes me promote on twitter every single day. But he wouldn't care that I got banned here either... and I don't want to chance it cause I really like this site.

I'd be directing you to an ebook distribution page that contained both free and pay materials, so I'm pretty sure that would not go over well with the OCC site operators.

But I will continue to interject into conversations. I know it's not the same. Sorry! :(

I figured . . .
 

Gina- can't blame a guy for trying. We'll skip the copyright debate for now.

I would love to hear how you work humiliation of the man onto your routine. Also, I have thought of various things I could bring up at the appointment that would emasculate me and change this doctor's perception of my wife. I want him to want to fuck her (which he likely does already), and to suddenly think that it could happen, or perceive her as a ticking adultery time bomb.

I also, to this day, jerk off thinking about some of the times I have lost women to other men. This includes situations where I was flirting with and believed myself to be close to bedding several women, only to lose them in a "sword fight" with another dude. This happened a few years back when a guy who wastagging along on a golf weekend with me and several buddies scored with a young woman I had been wooing at this resort for years, and whom I invited to one of our after hours parties. Not only that, but he fucked her brutally (the whole condo could hear), and repeatedly over three days, the whole time bragging about it, sharing details, and degrading this girl that I had such a tender crush on.

How ficked up is that?

Well, in my own life, I discovered early on that when I'm involved in a sexual situation another side of me, a whole different Gina, steps up and takes control. That Gina is not at all shy about expressing what she wants. I've been known to direct guys to masturbate for me beforehand so that I could be sure they weren't distracted by their own desires while pleasing me. :)

I know it's selfish and I admit it, but it's just who I am, sorry to say.

After sex, I'm a lot more mellow (usually) and most guys who know me in real life would absolutely freak if they knew what I was like in the bedroom!

Your ass?
 

Gina, is that your ass in your avitar?

Yes it is.

More of it?
 

Then what can I do to see more of it?

It may not be tiny... but that's all of it, I assure you :D

Well, I have to say it is a very nice ass!

please show more

- Have you thought of asking?

You will find the mods here very responsive, and Alex (Boss #1) to be the same.

You can reach any of them via PM directly through the site.

You may or may not have your wishes granted, but at least you will get a definitive answer.

a little skeptical
 

I'm a little skeptical of this Gina who only shows one icon and jumps into people's threads to pimp herself. It would be much better if you beliettled me or something, or shared in the discussion Gina, not give me this "I wrote about it but you can't read it" crap.

Anyway -

humiliated myself again the other day. Was outside a building my company just purchased affixing locks, trespassing signs, and basically securing it for future renovation. Two hookers came out of the house right next door. One was a young (apparent) black and latina or black and white mix who was very very hot, sweet looking, with a sense of torture or dread about her. If you find cute little mixed race hood rats attractive (and I do), you would have wanted to rescue this girl and get her off the street - she was in a full on french maid outfut and they were apparently gearing up to meet a john or johns. Her companion was an older thick black girl with tats, chunky sloppy looking cottage cheese thighs, big saggy titties, a definate gut, who was looking like ten pounds of sugar trying to fit in a five pound bag. She started asking about the building and what I was doing, and started offering up her shit (but in a half joking manner as I was clearly on the job). I told her that I didn't have time, even though I would only need 30 seconds or so. She responded that she could be gentle and would make it last and I came back with somethig to the effect that I would need to take a pill and wait 45 minutes anyway. The young pretty one started out looking toward me with some longing (handsome guy, nice car, just bought a building) but her expression turned to trying to hide her laughter as I divulged these pseudo weaknesses. I will see them again, as they apparently live next door. The black girl said she would come up with a nickname for me. We'll see what it is . . .

Something about telling a beautiful young girl that you premature ejac and need boner pills seems to turn me on.

First off, I'm a writer, not a pin-up model. If you don't like that, then look elsewhere. There are literally thousands of pics of nude women on this site. But there is far less written erotica, so I think most people would be glad to have someone contributing stories instead of posting (and reposting) the same old naked pix. But I guess that's part of being a guy isn't it? You don't give a shit what a woman is really like, you just want to see her naked. She's just a slab of flesh to you. No wonder you have impotence and premature ejac problems.

Second, you're right, I'm regretting posting about my experience being bound in public in college. It was a mistake to even post anything on is, because I knew I couldn't relate the whole story here. But a fresh thread on the topic had just come up and I figured what I posted was very relevant to it, but now I see I should just shut the fuck up, because like always... as soon as you give a man something... he wants more... never fucking satisfied.

So I'm pretty much through with you CrackDingo... you're not even worth HUMILIATING.

/end rant

woman jeez, time of the month?

And you're certainly not worthy of viewing my ass, so I'm changing my pic, when everyone asks me why I'll tell them they have you thank. (Well you and lots like you. Geez a girl gives you guys a treat by showing a little sexy skin and next thing you know she gets 50 messages publicly and by PM asking for MORE MORE MORE>... well get you're fucking little dickies out and post those, pigs, then I'll think about "more.")

Ignorant ass

- After further consideration, Gina, I can only hope you are a woman who keeps a promise.

Gina Gina gina
 

You seem to take yourself quite seriously. You also seem to have missed the whole thrust of my post here. I don't have a small dick and don't have premature ejaculation problems at all. I have had many satisfied customers in my day - all hot. I would be making up stories to tell my doctor so that he believe my wife is under served and perhaps lust after her more, or perhaps take some chances that he might not otherwise take. He seems like a total horn dog, and I do fantasize about other bigger, more "manly" men taking my wife and igniting her passions in a way that I have not been able to do myself. Both for her benefit and for mine.

As for my compliments about your ass and the desire to see more is concerned, you could take it as flattery. If you were to read some of my posts on various threads you will see that I tend to follow the ones where the poster actually knows the woman. I am the guy who asks questions about the woman, what makes her tick, what she likes, whether she has enjoyed many men, etc., as a pic of a random ass means little, but the pic of an ass attached to some hot chick that likes to dominate men and likes to write about it means much more. Hence my requests.

So again, the topic is self humiliation and whether my forray into this is totally f-Ed up, or whether there are others out there who dabble in this sort of thing. You tell us that you know something about it, but insist we look elsewhere to get the story. That's a little lame - that's all. I just urge you to share some of the cool kink here with us. Overall I have found this to be a pretty cool site. Also, there is little need to take this so seriously.

So can we call a truce, and can we hear about your experience in this realm? By the way, it looks like you have a very pretty face.

Listen. I'll just say this once, because now we're getting way off topic. This part of your quote is why I'm so furious. I NEVER told anyone in this thread to go look elsewhere.

I posted what I could ... in fact in SUPPORT of you because it looked like initially you weren't getting much quality participation and I figured I could help the discussion along a bit by adding what I'm allowed to.

But just like when I posted my butt, all I got was requests to see my tits or pussy...

... and when I posted what I could relating my experiences (people, understand this comes from copyrighted material, that's no joking matter I could be held liable for commercial damages if I posted w/o permission) again all that people wanted was more... more of the source material or whatever.

Look I admit it was a mistake to even post ANYTHING that is sourced from something I wrote that I have already sold the rights to... I won't do that again. But can't you guys at least be happy by what someone DOES do for you (posting their butt or some sexy insights) rather than always asking (to the point of badgering) them to always do MORE?

I'm willing to do this "truce" you suggest. I just ask you to see my point.

On my part I will only post stuff in the future that is "fresh" i.e., I still retain my own copyright and thus there are no legal issues.

I'm sorry you seem to have such hostility for me. That's your prerogative I suppose. But I have no reason or desire to even figure out why and address it. So let's just agree to not communicate OK?

CrackDingo, go back to pg 1 of the thread... by my accounts this was the first REAL supportive discussion of your topic. 'nuff said

It was the "written stories about . . ." part that caught my eye Gina. That said, I'm glad to see that, from your perspective at least, I am not alone with this humiliation thing. In fact, if I can sneak into the local strip bar for a few minutes after work tonight I hope to strike up a conversation with a dancer and confess my made up "problem," and try to get some hot stories out of her. I have done that many times as well with some great results. One girl was so intrigued that she took a video camera I provided her, found a big docked brute to fuck her on camera, and shared the video with me to give me lessons on how I should be handling my wife in the bedroom. It was totally trashy and hot as hell. She offered to try to cure me herself in fact, but I never took her up on it. Others have offered to cure me as well. Many of you ladies seem to like a project.

Been awhile
 

Crank - you have replied to some of the postings from me in the past so I think it fair to reply to you here. You are not alone. I have developed onto relations now with my husband where he is enjoying the acknowledgement of his inability to please me in the intercourse and enjoying the strength of having a satisfied wife through my now permitted activities with other men. It took us a long time to get to that point (i start thread on topic in past that I no update in much time). One of the catalysts to our new openness was him overhearing or being aware of my statements to others, including men who are his work superiors, about his smallness and very fast orgasms. We have developed into what might be called the cuckold relationship and I have shared with him what I have told my other lovers about my home sex life and it has turned him on very much. He is having with me now the fantasy confessing his shortcomings to another man so that other man can try to take me in the bed. When right opportunity arise he look forward to that true "self" humiliation, which is different than me doing it and reporting back to him. This is backed by the new strength he feel through knowing of my fulfillment and happiness. You should try toget your wife involved. Best of luck and I would like to hear more of how you are going with the strip dancers. I enjoy the story of your last post.

thanks Soni - nice to see you're back
 

Soni - glad to hear from you again. Very glad to hear that your past frustrations are working themselves out - apparently nicely. I would love to hear how it is that you are satisfied now, so you should update your old posts or start a new one.

Also thanks for sharing how you and your husband approach the humiliation thing. Whether my problems are true or not (or to the extent to which it may be true) I would love to tell another man about my inability to light my wife's fire for the purposes of setting him up to "take her in the bed" as you say. By all means, if/when that happens for you, it will be fun to hear about it.

And as always, if you get your nerve back to repost some of the pics that you posted and then took back off, I think you have a number of admirers on here other than me who would enjoy taking another look.

Nothing happened the other day with my quest for the strip club but I could add quite a bit here (or maybe on a new post) about how I have played this humiliation game with many of them.

I have only recently seen this post. Did the doctor cuckold you?

Not sure how I missed your question.

Short answer, no. I wish. I'm a wanna be cuckold.

I have expanded my humiation play by getting treated by and having several follow ups with my doctor's beautiful physicians assistant who is like 29, super fit and probably getting banged like a pormstar every night (or so my Facebook spying seems to make me think). I have her trying to treat my weak erections and my premature ejaculation, which she has asked me to describe repeatedly in detail.

Nothing in the world keeps you from getting cuckold. If your wife isn't going to do it for you - find someone who will... as its not quite cheating since you're still not getting "ANYTHING".

There are women (Doms) who will gladly torture you.

I'm not into s & m per se, pain. Etc. would like a friend who goes out and fucks studs and then tells me about it and makes fun of me because I don't get to fuck her. But as a married man with a more than full time job, a little kid and a high maintenance wife I just don't see where I could ever get away with a mental or emotional relationship with another. Cyber maybe...