my wife had I think 22 guys before we met & so far 5 since

Her number
 

One guy boned my wife before we met, then it's just been me.

Only one other ....?
 

So, are you happy or sad about that? Do you wish you were the only man who has had her? Or do you wish there were many more?

Not really, because she already knew about it soon after it happened...and didn't really seem to care too much. The sisters didn't keep too many secrets from each other. One night we were all drinking together and they started talking about all of the guys they had both screwed, which made me think more about what my wife had been up to behind my back. Another time my SiL told me that my wife told her that we had a open marriage, which was the first time that it came out into the open. Towards the end of our marriage, my wife practically pushed me to have more sex with her sister, which I did. Besides that, my wife's other older sister had given me a full blowjob before our marriage:)
I could tell the whole stories but it would probably need to be in a different thread.

In the beginning I was jealous about that, but as time went on I didn't care. I used to be jealous of guys checking her out, now I love it!

Sisters
 

One of my ex's had two sisters, and that provided for some interesting possibilities. I got to know one sister while my ex and I were just in a dating mode. During a short breakup (there were a few, early on) I dated the sister I had met and we had some fun and had talked about fucking but she knew that I really wanted her sis, my future ex. And we remained just friends from then on.

After a rather long, on again and off again dating period, we finally decided that we wanted to be together. It was after we were married that I met the other sister, who I was not really attracted to. After a few years, my ex said that she would really like it if I would fuck the sister that I met later. Seems that her husband could not get it up anymore and didn't really care. I would have loved to help out, especially when I learned this sister happen to have a big clit. But, I just couldn't into the idea, which even shocked me. Never heard if the other sister had a big clit too. Both of these ladies were a little masculine where my ex wasn't as much. Well, sadly, I never got to fuck either sister, which was a little odd in that family, since ****** ran in the bunch. The lady who would have been my MIL (died a year before I came along) had fucked all of her SIL's.

My other three ex's were only children. The lady above and one other ex had daughters who were really nice ladies, in many ways :rolleyes:

My wife Sheila
 

After spending most of the summer at home, Sheila is about to go out on the road again in August. She will be in Kansas City, Missouri 8/22/14. She left her phone on the table so I checked and sure enough there were several texts from a couple of guys. They also sent photos showing her their cocks. Both are black men. Both were telling her how much they looked forward to "fucking" her while she is in town.

Sheila
 

I'm going to be in KC on August 22nd. Let me know how to get in touch with Sheila. I'd love to tap her ass.

Ann
 

Mine had between 40 and 50 and still talks about some of them to this day. Seems like she did prefer the ones who were well hung. Wish I could have watched

Very similar here
 

My wife often lied about her "number" as well. But like most liars, they forget what they told you before and so their "numbers" go up and down.

I think I have found out about most of her guys but probably not all of them.

Well Ann was certainly a busy girl, no?
 

And pretty hot--care to share some more details about her exploits?

Two, I think? That's me and "possibly" her ex.
 

My wife had a BF before we got married but they never went further than tongues (so she tells me!). They broke up when she learned about his overly-flirtatious ways with other women. It also turned out he was moving to France soon and and that fact told her to cut all ties with him. I entered the picture a year after and we were happily married for six years before her "seven-year-itch"; her ex had returned for a brief holiday and she fell for his line of BS. Apparently, they never did "anything" but I had proof of a month's-worth of his text messages insinuating otherwise. Women tend to be addicted to their first loves and my wife was one example.

I was devastated at the time, but time heals all wounds and it seems her betrayal has worked into my pysche and flipped it inside out because her infidelity has become an addictive fetish for me which I cannot shake off. Now, I want her to become a hotwife and cuckold me, but she's only interested in playing the faithful wife. That's not a bad thing but I'm more open to exploring different avenues now than I was back in the early days of our marriage. I just hope she comes around but until then...

Mine fucked 7 before me, 8 after.

She fucked 2 guys before we met and 6 (aside from me) since we've met. 3 of them she doesn't really keep in contact with anymore, but most of them I'm at least casual friends with. A few I'm good friends with.

Twelve, excluding me and only one of them since we've been together.

No's 3,4 and 5 were in two separate threesomes (lucky mr 4).

1 before we met - first real boyfriend but she made him wear two condoms :D

2 more other than me after we got married. once with another couple we hooked up with to swing with - having her suck me while I was kneeling beside her and watching him standing at the edge of the bed pounding her pussy was great. His wife had sucked me off just prior...

2nd time was at Hedo III where we hooked up with a couple at the nude pool where we started to both finger each other wives under the water - my wife I think ended up having him stick his dick up her while they were fooling around in the water - a lot of bouncing up and down was going on. We then shared BJs with each others wives.

Later we met up for dinner and proceeded to fuck each others wives on the jetty. again watching her getting pounded from behind while I was fucking his wife was dammed hot - I later watched as she sat on him and rode up and down - watching her cum while his dick stretched her pussy lips apart was really something...

We then did our own wife before calling it a nigh - next day was a repeat - both times bareback and leaving a load :-)

need to do this again - she loves it but then gets guilty despite the fun....

Me too....virgin
 

Hey MOPA, I can identify with your comment. My 'bride' said she was a virgin when we married almost fifty years ago. That worked then, as it was mostly the norm for young women of that period. Times have changed and I've found that so have I; I have encouraged her to 'try some others if she'd like'......I'd have never offered that early in our marriage. I'm curious about other guy's and couples who also came into the marriage as 'virgin's' but now desire to expand their experiences with the concurrence of their spouse. May gal is still very vibrant and attractive even in her late '60's. I've had any number of male friends who have said they want to fuck her, and I'm good with that......curious about how others here feel with a similar scenario. Big fantasy for me is to watch her have sex with some of my friends. What are the thoughts of others here?:confused::):cool:

@abear857: It's almost as if you typed my story!
It's a great fantasy of me too, but she won't even hear about it. We both were virgins when we married (ok, she had the tip of a dick between her labia, but that's about it)so we have only fucked each other.
I miss the experience and lack of progression in our sex life!

For my wife
 

I have had a few different pussy in my time. However my wife has only had one cock. I recently bought her a toy but it doesn't get used. I've stopped fucking her so either she ducks her toy or finds another cock. The scary thing is she might be happy just not having any sex.

If you look at our albums you can see she's nit that sexy or attractive. So I'm thinking she's more likely to stop having sex entirely

My wife
 

I use to thick it was around 15 guys or so, but she's been sharing more as she gets drunk& parties & gets horny...shes told me about at lest 23 guys that fucked her in high school & college...she was the thick curvy party gal trying to be popular. Lots of older guys & a lot of blacks too!! still loves her bbc dildos when we fuck & now I know why.

Hope this isn't off topic, but as Norm MacDonald says... "What the H?"

If your wife is in your albums named Suzy, then she's a solid 7 - 7.5 even before the obligatory 2.5 point increase for ladies who willingly pose for pics! I'm not sure what you mean when you say she's not that attractive. She could easily find someone willing to fuck her and even to treat her well at the same time! If you're holding back to push her to be unfaithful, I suspect you'll be surprised by how soon that happens!

Am I missing some posts where you describe this decision?

Not criticizing, but literally just confused by what you're doing! :)

Most of our stories are in my threads CLOSET CLEANING and many other comments here and there so I won't repeat. But our lives are very similar except we'll be married 57 years in October. We've both been doing something right.
Since she was ra-p-ed at 13 1/2 it gave her a different outlook on sex. I was just lucky to get in her pants. But as wild as she was with being an exhibitionist and playful with others I always thought she was fucking other guys when I was working. But I was also encouraging it because I was banging her friends while she watched. Seemed fair if she did have sex with others.
It was a long time before I actually believed no one else was getting it from her. In fact with all the kinky games we've played it wasn't until she began reading OCC that she finally did have group sex several times this spring and summer. She went about it in a big way too! Took 56 years to convince her and already she said she tried it, it was fun, but she's not interested.
Even years ago I started believing no one else was fucking her because she would go into detail about flashing and guys playing with her tits while I was away. It's still difficult trying to explain that I wanted to watch her get gang banged and I did enjoy it when it happened.

My first post here.

I met my wife at age 21 and she admitted just one guy had fucked her before me. She told me she had sucked his cock too but she was a bit naive and didn't expect him to come in her mouth - but he did. She didn't like it. She would suck mine too but would never let me come in her mouth.

Now later in years she won't suck me but I get raging hardons thinking of her naked, sucking that guy off and him fucking her. I wish he would return for a re-match. I'd let him do it and I'd watch and jerk myself off. I'd love to see her naked for him and to see him fuck her.

We it seems like a couple of months after I wrote the post, April 17th to be exact. I found out that back in the early 80's that not only did my wife fuck 3 different black guys, she also got pregnant by 1 of them. I was out of town working for 16 weeks and only came home 1 time a month so I never suspected anything. When I came home to stay she told me she was pregnant but I just assumed it was mine. A month or so later she had a miscarriage and she had never told me she was carrying a black baby. We moved to another town shortly after the miscarriage. The way I found out was by going back to the town to a friends funeral. A black guy I knew came up to me and said he was surprised that Sugar(that was what the black people called my wife) and I were still together. I asked why he said that and he said well I figured after she got knocked up fucking the black coaches on that softball team she was playing on you would have split up. When I asked Phyliss about it she said he was just mad because she didn't fuck him too. Then she told what he said was true.

John

my nasty wife Kayc
 

My wife dosent remember just how meny befor we were maried, she says at least 50 and probly more some were 3 at a time and some wehe just blowjobs in parking lots. we have had at lesat 20 men in the last 15 years, so i ges close to 100. I am glad she likes sex, we do have fun

A common wish, I'd bet!!
 

Ranger 1,

I think many of us would like to be a fly on the wall watching our wives boink some of their old BFs, no?

Ken

Been there!
 

A long time ago, my wife gave me a couple of video cassettes that we found in one of her storage boxes. She told me they were videos of her having sex with one of her ex's, both by themselves and with other partners during their swinging days. It took me years to find a player to accomodate them (digital 8mm) and get them transfered to computer, but I finally did. Now, I get to be that fly on the wall and watch her fuck him (and others) any time I want. I find it hot as hell! (Longer story about it here on OCC somewhere. I wrote about it on one of my first posts when I first joined OCC.)

Never judge a book by its cover...
 

When we first met (many years back) I thought my sexy and petite Asian gal was the "innocent" type and hadn't been with that many guys. I guessed three or four. Well when we finally opened up about our sexual past she remembers 13 partners plus me. Just about all the 13 during her wild college days where she experimented a lot. She said there could be one or two more but she was too drunk to remember a certain party. That blew my numbers away!

OK I'll admit that it excited me to hear some of the stories. I wish I were there!

I've been trying to figure this out… unfortunately never get a consistent number…

First time I asked the number was 15, then a couple of years later I asked and it was "I don't remember"

Recently, she named all her old boyfriends and it came up to 9. we met when she was 23 years old and she lost her virginity at 17. so 15 seems reasonable? no clue, any insight into a woman's psyche greatly appreciated… love hearing about her ex's but she's seems to be holding back

My wife had 4 guys before me. She lost her virginity at age 21 to the guy who became her first husband. 2 others were guys she dated after divorce and 1 was a one night stand. She was 36 when I married her.

8 including 1 bad story...
 

My wife told me once story about her past. I was always curious why she didn't like it from behind or oral (as she really enjoys sex in all other options). The story is: 8 guys, starting at age 16 (today she is 36). She had 2 ex-boyfriends, 1 ex-husband and 5 "just for fun / just for sex". Including one bad story. It was when she was 17. She's very sexy, and a that age she was (I have her photos, no, not to share ;-) ) very very sexy. She wanted to be a photo model. She had met a photographer, he was 35, had wife, 2 kids. He had promised her good photo session, help with career etc. (and partially fulfilled his promises, my wife was a photo model for some time, even started in our country's miss contest, with no success).
They had many naked photo sessions and quickly photographer offered her sex. She agreed and enjoyed it very much. He was a good lover. It was little strange for her to be fucked by a married guy in his home, when his wife was in next room, taking care about kids. Or te be fucked in the trent during photo session in national park, with other girls (models) waiting around. But generaly she enjoyed it. After some months of such relations photographer started to be more and more agressive. Yes, agressive from behind. She was trying to find a pleasure in his hard moves, but at the end she was feeling only the pain. In the "final day" of their relations, they had met in his home. First he asked her for oral sex (she did quite often for him), and when he came, took strongly her hairs and ordered her to swallow. She didn't enjoy it. After that he took her from behind. Very strongly. Sha started to scream with pain, but he quickly had another cum, this time in her pussy, and after that he watched at her, enjoying her creampie. That was their last time. They still cooperated professionaly, but with no sex. I asked her, if she thinks, she was ****d that day. Nowdays she thinks it was a kind of a ****, but not enough to go to the police. Everytime a man tries to reach her from behind, she thinks about this camera man. What's more, I think, she didn't tell me the whole true. I guess, he propably made photos of her, because she very often tracks his websites watching for naked sessions of other young models. Maybe She's afraid he may send them to the public? I don't now...

<10. Her exbfs and people I know that she fucked before me are accounted for. She isn't too clear on the miscellaneous numbers, one night stands, nonbfs, etc. That part remains a huge mystery.

Same here--the "number" is always changing......
 

Is it because she actually can't remember all of them--she was drunk, on drugs, gang banged, etc.--or because she's not completely truthful for some reason? Or some one night stands that embarrass her to admit?

Hard to tell with my wife. Others?

Do you know how many guys have fucked your wife. Before you or after you have been together? Has she told you her "number" and do you believe her?

-before we got together 4 guys fucked my wife. yes i believe her number

Does her past make you angry or jealous or does it turn you on to think about her with others?

-turns me on when I think about it.

Do you personally know any of the boys or men men who have penetrated her? Have you discussed their experiences with your wife with them?

-I know 3 of them, and have discussed it with them before the 2 of us even got together.

Do you know how many guys have fucked your wife. Before you or after you have been together? Has she told you her "number" and do you believe her?

- 7, I don't think she has any reason to lie about it

Does her past make you angry or jealous or does it turn you on to think about her with others?

- All of the other guys were before we had even met. What she did before we were together were her decisions to make. Just as the girls I had sex with before her were mine. It does turn me on and get me a little competitive to hear about her past experiences. I want to be the best she's ever had, so it's a fun way to try to do everything I can to please her.

Do you personally know any of the boys or men men who have penetrated her? Have you discussed their experiences with your wife with them?

- No, never met/known any

So its been a challenge for a number of reasons… so far I've got the boyfriend count and thats reasonable… a couple of months ago she asked me a funny question which sparked this whole curiosity thing, she asked "after our first date did we have sex or did I give you a bj?"

I thought it was a funny question and led me to believe that this happened in the past with her often? am I wrong?
I think she's embarrassed by some of it and not readily admitting things… but she has sl*tty behavior at times which leads me to think more. I've gotten a few stories out but not enough!!

A Lot
 

We lost count, a long time ago, of how many guys my wife has fucked. We got married when she was 28 and I was 30. She thinks she had probably fucked around 30 - 35 guys at that time and remembered most of them. Since then, it's been a huge number. We have now been married over 30 years and have always loved to watch the other have sex and to hear about it if we weren't there. We've never, with a few exceptions, done it with friends, neighbors or people we've worked with. She used to travel a lot on business and would try to get laid almost every night while traveling and then call me to tell me about it. I would always do the same if I found someone. She, of course, found a lot more than me. When on vacation we were always picking up guys in bars or anywhere else we could. In the 90's we made a lot of trips to Hedo and she would usually fuck several different guys a day. Add that to a lot of swinger clubs and a few gangbangs it been a lot of guys. We're retired now, living in a small community in the Caribbean so have to be very discreet but when we travel we still are always looking for sex. We have slowed down very little. She has even gotten more adventurous the last few years. Now she is completely into DP, DVP, multiple guys, golden showers and most anything else. This type of married life is certainly not for most couples but for us is has been great and still is and I'm sure it will be for a long time to come.

Wow!!
 

She can't remember if she screwed or just blew her future husband on their first date? I'd have to agree that must have been common events for her back in her dating years.

So which did she do for you?

How many guys have boned your wife?
 

Do you know how many guys have fucked your wife. Before you or after you have been together? Has she told you her "number" and do you believe her?
Don't know the exact number because she's pretty shy about talking about her past boyfriends but she has mentioned at least 4. I suspect, due to the line of work she was in before we met and that work involved mostly men and lots of them, that that number might be considerably higher. I do know that when she was younger she had a small wild flirty streak in her and she was kind of a closet exhibitionist, not openly enagaing in it but never too shy to show alot of skin. Plus she mentioned that the few women that worked in that same business, even the married women, were hopping in and out of bed with many of the guys and even though she didn't admit to it, I would imagine that she was engaging in the same activity.

Does her past make you angry or jealous or does it turn you on to think about her with others?
No, it doesn't make be jealous or angry, it kind of turns me on to know other men have poked her. In fact I have a few friends that have expressed a real deep desire to get into her pants and though she has never been too enthusiastic about the idea of sex with other men I would have no problem sharing her with them.

Do you personally know any of the boys or men men who have penetrated her? Have you discussed their experiences with your wife with them?
My wife was dating her last boyfriend when I met her and I'm sure he was getting some. I met the guy once but I never talked to him about her

Love to see more of her lucky man