"And I had two or three friends that she was comfortable being nude around, too, especially if their girlfriends were with them, also nude."

What, your friends would come over with there girlfriends? The girls would all be nude? What about the boys - nude or clothed?

Zeuren-about the neighbors
 

Two good friends I knew in undergraduate days lived upstairs over our apartment. Both were in law school and kept odd hours. They would come and go and my wife would not give it a thought that she was nude. When they had girlfriends with them, usually on a weekend, and came downstairs, the girls sometimes would undress, seeing my wife nude. Sometimes topless, sometimes nude, it depended on the girl and her comfort with the group. The only time I remember all the guys and girls being nude together was when we would go to the apartment's pool late at night. We would streak to the pool as a group and had a fun time. Usually it was just fun, but sometimes we would get quiet and fool around but not every time. We were newlyweds and never fooled around with others, but we never felt shy about fucking and sucking around others. We could only do this really late at night. The dog walk was near the pool and people would appear all hours walking their dogs. Also, there were a tremendous number of kids all over the place so we had to watch out.

Sometimes, I had other guys over and my wife did not object, except once. The upstairs guys would occasionally bring over a few friends and I never remember my wife being nervous or covering up at all. The one time she objected, I had classes with an older guy---an engineer---who came back for a graduate degree. He had a wife and a couple of kids and lived in the same apartments. My wife knew his wife. He started coming over for no reason, except to see my wife's fun parts. She felt bad that the guy wasn't home with his family, and she finally told him that he was making her uncomfortable in her own home, and he stopped coming. He asked if he could take a photo and she said absolutely not! By the way, as comfortable as she was with her nudity in the first floor apartment, she never undressed anywhere else---at parties or other pool parties---even if others were nude while we were in grad school.

Sorry have to disagree. Most in my opinion don't like being objectified, some yes. Most.......nope!

I am exactly the same way. I love showing my wife off as we had been to nude beach before but I won't allow any touching or maybe even flirting as she object to speak to anyone at the beach. I can say that is one of the funniest time with my wife. Im glad I wasn't the only one feeling this way which I can't explain y either.

Maybe it could have to do with self confidence.
Do you think you are less valuable than other men and you fear of losing her ?
Do you think she will leave you if she finds other men take better care of her ?
If not, then there is no risk of letting other men touch her breasts or kissing her cheeks.

Never forget, you are more than just a shaft and couple relation is more than just coit.
Sex can be recreative without any loving feelings, just for the fun.
It's another kind of enjoyment.

I think one reason might be that we may want to take our sex lives a little further. Maybe some of us would like to try a threesome but our wives have no interest. Maybe this is the next best thing.

You might be on to something there. My wife is hesitant to take full on nude photos, but isn’t shy about coming out of the bathroom naked and walking around bedroom before getting dressed, with the curtains open. She’s done it for years at hotels and resorts. Recently begun doing it at home.

Has she been seen? I don’t know for sure, but it sure is possible.

I kind of never thought that far. But has the subject came up between my wife and I. The answer is always been no from her perspective. For me it is trying to get her out of her shell with just showing off in general and even that is hard. Would i allow touching yes, but it has to go both ways so i respect her decision. Maybe one day but it is not something im going to put pressure on.

I think it depends on the situation; at least for me.

During our social nudist years my wife and I befriended another couple. We quickly became pretty close. We'd meet up at their house, hang out naked, go to the nudist resort and spend the weekend with them.

Our male friend was pretty flirtatious and often complimented my wife. And she appreciated the compliments because she knew they came from a "good place." As a result she didn't mind giving him full-body naked hugs; or him massaging her shoulders, or patting her on the butt as a gesture of affection. On one occasion we were sitting naked together, and while joking around, she plopped down on his lap; and as he put his arm around her he got a nice handful and faceful of her boobs. My wife was totally comfortable with the situation. So was I. I actually found it endearing.

This is not behavior we engaged in with random people. My wife didn't really allow anyone to touch her like that. But we had an established rapport with this couple. She was ok with him putting his hands on her naked body; as a matter of fact he is the only person she's ever allowed to do so.

You just have to find the right people in the right situation. I never though I could watch another man put his hands on my wife's naked ass or tits without whooping his ass. But with Paul it was different. We loved the guy. So him putting his hands on her was never an issue.

Yes, it depends on the guy and the situation. We were once at a nudist resort with another couple and went to the dance in the clubhouse at night. It was unseasonably chilly that weekend and everyone was wearing something to keep warm. My wife had on a zip up track suit top. As we were all dancing together the guy of the other couple suddenly reached over and unzipped my wife's top (I guess he was frustrated). I thought "Oh oh," because I know if even I had done that there would be hell to pay. But she just laughed it off and kept dancing with her boobs swinging free, so we all benefited.

Sharing
 

Because we love to be seen by total strangers. Just knowing guy are masturbating looking at us is a total turn on

Pride
 

I love my wife dearly and think she is so sexy.

It turns me on greatly when other men see her not just fucking but eagerly MAKING LOVE with other men. She is so erotic and when they see her pleasure, they know she loves adultery:)

Well on that note, don't mind me enjoying your photos and giving it a tug right now

Emma
 

After our second child Emma got really down about her figure and she didn't like the way that her body had changed.

We both have quite hectic jobs and she struggled to find the time to do gym work to shift what she wasn't happy about.

We have always been very kinky and had lots of fun together so one night she got a bit tipsy and we decided to take a few photos as part of some late night fun.

As we looked through the pics she realised that her body was still great and we posted a few descrete pics onto a sharing site and the reaction she got really boosted her.

We have done it off and on for years.

Personally I love chatting to other married men about their wives and sharing intimate pics.

The thought of another guy wanking to her is a huge turn on as is the occasions when we have actually been able to swing too.

There is definitely something to this but the whole rationalization process is a complete mystery to me. :confused: My wife is the reverse on the home / away issue: as have written in other posts, daily at home she will walk around naked after a shower, standing in front of windows with no curtains as she stares at her closet, but when I try to leave the curtains open when in a hotel she will insist they be closed as someone might see into the room.... Have stopped trying to figure it out... :rolleyes: :)

With women, seems there is NO rationalization.
My wife has gone from never, ever showing at home, but flaunting all on vacation, to the opposite.
20 years ago she would have been mortified if seen naked by a neighbor. Now it seems like she actually sets up scenarios to be seen. Women. Go figure.
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Yes, you are correct - you can’t rationalize with wives. With mine, it now isn’t a home or away thing. It depends on the day, but more and more she doesn’t seem to care who sees her naked. She is becoming more comfortable with her body and I think she inside likes being seen at her age. Anyone neighbor walking by sure gets a good view nightly.

Just a few moments ago, my fiancée, who calls herself a "prude", walked out of the house with a deep plunging neckline dress she just bought; so deep in fact that all she has to do is raise her arms and her tits pop right out. I'm sure that while she's hanging out she'll have a couple of "wardrobe malfunctions." As usual.

I've stopped questioning her about her wardrobe choices a long time ago. No sense in trying to lol!

wow that's great
 

I would love to have your problem to see my wife in a dress of any kind would be great. I begged her to get an office job so she would need to wear the office outfits. now she wears rights and sweats and jeans to work. nothing sexy or revealing with these.

the fact she can go braless is hot. take pics let's see her in this outfit. I wish I had a hot wife instead.

It is exciting. First, naked without the face, but it isn’t enough. The rush comes with taking the leap and sharing her full beauty, her pussy and her face. Then seeing the comments, or hearing them in a live chat. It’s lik a drug.

no way
 

I agree with the comments above about trying to understand wive's motives. My wife will walk around nude at beaches and resorts, but always closes the shades when dressing even though we live in the country and have no neighbors nearby.

For what I know of my own wife's thoughts are basically she doesn't mind being seen by strangers, it's people she knows that freaks her out. She doesn't want to have people she knows thinking of her "that way" (or at least she can pretend that they aren't). She'll also get naked in a situation where a lot of other people are naked as well, like a hot springs or swingers club. By that logic, I might get to expose her to people she knows by a trip to a hot springs or, if I'd get her drunk enough, at a topless pool in someplace like Vegas. :D

For me its twofold. One, my wife has amazing breasts, and I feel like it is a crime to keep them hidden. Most of our friends have seen them bare either in person or through photos, and I'm not interested in having friends who haven't seen her naked.

Second, I love to hear comments about her body and what others would want to do to her. Its a huge turn on. I don't think about the psychological reasons why, I just enjoy it.

No figuring wives. Mine is super nervous about going topless or nude at a beach where we know no one and wouldn’t come across people we know, yet will walk around naked except a towel on her head after a shower. Even with the curtains open at night with the big picture window in our bedroom/sitting room area. The chance a neighbor is walking by that moment might be small but bigger than at a beach in the islands. Even so, it turns me on watching her and imagining a neighbor seeing her.

Saw this interesting article on something similar.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...fe-another-man

I think with me it's about
40% Voyeurism
25% Thrill of the taboo
10% female sexual fulfillment
25% Royalty Perk

Voyeurism hits the top. I love watching her. She is my favorite live porn actress. Watching her is such an amazing turn on.

I guess next would be the royalty idea or that other men find her sexually exciting.

Right up there with that is the taboo nature of it.
I put that on par with the royalty idea because this does make it exciting.

I think in my mind the female sexual fulfillment was up there too. Higher than 10%...I just couldn't get the percentages right. Its higher than where I listed it. At times I think of how awesome it would be for her to have multiple hands, mouths, and tongues on her. Of course two cocks at once. Wow.... The idea that your woman could please two men at one time. So there is that. It may not mean much to her but in my mind it elevates the woman's status....she can please multiple men. Wow....that hardens my cock a bit.

Showing her in photos does the same thing asside from the female sexual fullfilment aspect.

cuz its awesome
 

my younger cousin likes looking at my wife. i like it too

I think it is unanimous! Know we all want to see more... much more! :D

Like showing her off because I get off knowing other men desire her

I do it because it's the best way to cum since she's so boring with sex. This way I can enjoy comments of guys wanting to fuck her and making tributes.
It's 10 times better than fucking a dead body in bed

As someone else stated earlier, I'm proud of my wife and I especially like showing her off


A couple more...

This is why
 

It is very easy for us to answer this question. My wife has always been a flirt, tease, exhibitionist and that suits me, as a voyeur, fine. We got together when in our late teens and are still together many, many years later.
With encouragement from me she used to love going out in see-thru tops, or tight t-shirts with her nipples bursting through. I used to love walking alongside when she was wearing a see-thru top, her pert tits jiggling around - she gained the attention of every male. As we got older so we both became more daring, she allowed me to take photos of her with her legs spread wide apart, she loved to have a threesome with me and a good mate of mine and she even fucked and sucked 4 guys one night as I was watching. That night I was the only one that did not fuck her, but we have had many good sessions after that as she lay there telling me how much she enjoyed being fucked by 4 guys. She loves that her face is in photos, otherwise, she says, anyone looking at her would not know what she looked like, and if they wanted to wank over her, they need to see who they are wanking over.We have received many tributes to her photos, she loves receiving photos.
I love it because other guys are wanking over her, imagining what it would be like to get inside her, let me tell you she is an exceptional fuck. I don't have to imagine, I can fuck her whenever I want, I don't think of her sucking me, she sucks me off whenever we fuck, and she swallows. I don't have to wonder what her pussy tastes like, I know that it is the sweetest taste.
I am adding some photos from her teens to now - enjoy wanking over them, and a nice closeup gif, send a tribute if you wish, we would like that.

Love seeing her
 

I alwas love seeing her.

its so much fun thinking about this
 

I LOVE that he gets this intimate with my wife all behind her back and in front of it!

A real dichotomy
 

My wife is like a bowl of chocolates -- I never know what I am getting. I think she is sooo sexy and beautiful, but she thinks otherwise. As long as there are other girls strutting around topless, she is fine doing that, so long as it is her girlfriends. Yet, if it is just other girls that she doesn't know, she won't necessarily get topless. She will strip naked at a nude resort and walk around in all her glory, but be reluctant to dump her top at a bike rally without friends doing likewise. This past summer at a bike rally, we were in the pool, and she was topless with a white see- through bikini bottom on. A guy she didn't even like, came over and asked to take a picture of her. She worked her way to very shallow water and posed for a topless picture and camel toe front bottom for him. I said, "Can I take a picture like that of you?" She said, "No, I don't want anyone seeing such a pic if we were to get killed in an accident." Of course, that guy could post that pic on any website for any and everyone. I wish he would post it somewhere -- I would like to have a copy. Then we were in a bar with friends, and were drinking pretty heavy. One of the guys couldn't stand looking at my wife's boobs hanging almost out of her very low-cut dress. He reached in and felt them for a minute or so, and several other guys' hands reached in and did the same after his success. She laughed, and so did everyone else. I thought it was funny and laughed with the others. Later that evening, we were visiting with another couple, and my wife had on a different outfit, but it was also sexy. It was a white thin jersey, low-cut cowl top. As she was sitting there talking with them, her right boob was about to fall out. Our male friend was looking at it and hoping it would fall out, as I was. (Incidentally, earlier that day, he had taken a number of pics of his wife and my wife together on a bed in their camper with both of them topless and even hugging on one another.) After about five or ten minutes, the boob was just hanging in the top, but was ready to pop out. Both he and I had taken about all we could stand. and reached up and popped it out. In the process, I said, "Both he and I were waiting for it to fall out, and it was time." My wife didn't say anything. She left it out there for maybe five minutes, just airing out. Then she slipped it back in the top -- still about ready to pop out again. After the couple left for the night, my wife aid, "You better not pop my boob out again." I said, "Why not, it was only a short time before it was going to fall out on its own." She said that if that happened, it happened, but I couldn't help it along. I responded that it seemed odd that about three or four guys could reach in her top and fondle her boobs at the bar, but I couldn't reach in and expose her boob at our house with one other couple there. She said, "Well, the next time in the bar, I will not let anyone fondle my boobs." I told her that was not the problem, but the fact that I couldn't pop the boob out and have me and another guy look at it seemed contradictory to what had transpired earlier. Like I said, she is a box of chocolates, never knowing what you are going to get. Any thoughts from the guys or ladies on this? I would be interested in hearing what you have to say -- especially from a lady's perspective.

Covert Pics Taken When She Wasn't Looking
 

Never would pose for these types of pics.

JonThink, they will drive you crazy sometimes, keep you guessing most of the time but keep life interesting all the time! I've given up trying to understand them! I would love to hear from the ladies too! :D

yes, like nectcouple said,
"they will drive you crazy sometimes"
my wife has other "exhibitionistic quirks" that have evolved over time, some actually reversed. But one thing remains constant, she's got to be in the mood. There is no swaying, cajoling, or begging that can make her get naked if she isn't up for it. Best I can do is provide the best scenarios where she will likely show herself off.

Unrelated.... but I have to say, I swear that is my wife's tits you posted.!!........;) But to my knowledge, she was never "beaded-up" like that!! But yes, nice rack!

I agree
 

Everything he said. It turns me on and she really has gorgeous breasts. I love the idea that she's turning on other men (and women and couples). She has a conservative personality and works in a priggish environment, so the taboo nature of it is a charge, especially when she does pics at work!

I looked at my wife long before I met her. Imagining her naked. Imagining fucking her. So it follows that other men look at her the same way. Just because we're married doesn't mean she isn't desirable. And it makes it so much hotter when I know that she is unaware of the effect she has on other men. So sharing pictures of her is my private turn on.

I like your thinking
 

I would love to believe other men see my wife and wonder how she looks naked. what k8nd of gear dies she have on? how does she keep her pussy hair etc...
would love to find a guy to actually ask her a question like that but we havent