Prepare for a deluge of volunteers :)

videographer during the throws of passion
 

Several years back, I had a subscription to the Playboy channel (the ex didn't know) and they had a show that was based on a woman videographer that would take a role-play scenario and film them having sex every which way. she would not participate but would be right there coaching them, watching and filming them.

That always seemed so erotic. I would love to do that but my wife would not feel comfortable with it. She is a great lover and passionate but squeamish about the thought of others participating in any way. I'd love it. I can't say I'm interested in seeing her with another man which is hypocritical since I would love to have another woman that we felt comfortable with join us.

Apparently not.
Seems like members on this site are not the fit 65+ 😁😉
And when looking amoungst the 65+ people we know, not many fit ones.
Only my dad (80+) and her stepdad (75+) seem to not have grown a big beerbelly.
But they are not on her list 😉
So IF we ever go through with it, it will probably a stranger we meet somewhere on a nude beach or so.

There is a swinger couple near me that was on that show.

Well I have to disagree on that. 66 here, almost 67,. Run 3.5 miles every morning, do about an hour of weight work after that and cycle 50-100 miles a week.
I'm sure there are others out here who are similar.
But since is is a "fantasy thread", not Tinder, I'm assuming a lot of people, like me didn't jump in to offer their services.
Also, and maybe I'm wrong because I can't re-read the OP while typing this, but this was his fantasy, but did he ask for volunteers? Maybe it's just a fantasy (at this point)

Seems like you have quit a daily workout routine. Keep up the good work!
And you're about half right. The MMF fantasy started out a long time ago as my own fantasy. We have had the habit of sharing our fantasies with each other and actually acting out some of them. Since about a year or 2, my wife has indicated that she might be interested in an actual MMF, in the right circumstances and with the right person. I always figured "the right person" she was thinking of would be of our own age or younger. Imagine my surprise when she confided to me that the person she was thinking of in a MMF scenario should at least be 20 or 25 years older. Not that we're actively looking at the moment, but you never know. The right person in the right circumstances when she is in the right mood ... that usually happens when you don't expect it 😉😋.
We have had several nude/erotic things happening since we have been married which I never had expected from happening ... not even on the morning of the day they occurred.

That's fantastic. Do you know what the theme was that they filmed? I'm curious if it was exciting for them.

Same here! I'm 70!
 

I am 70 and I don't feel that old!

When a taboo fantasy becomes a boomerang...
 

During a skiing trip many years ago my wife, then 28, met a younger guy in her ski lesson class (I was skiing by myself). He was two years younger, 26. An engineer. Quite good looking, I must admit (Keanu Reeves type).
Well, three days after they met she started telling me that she really liked him and vice versa.
“So what?” I remember answering. We had been married for six years, at that time.
Before leaving the skiing resort she told me the guy was planning to drive to our city (distances in Europe are not like the ones in the U.S.) to meet her again.
Then came the appeal to my taboo fantasy: “He agrees to do a threesome. But only after having been with me alone at least once”.
I took the bait like a huge salmon.
I authorized the meeting, dreaming of what would come later on.
But the threesome never came. Lots of excuses, then the news that the guy was moving to Paris, France, with his family (wife and 5 yrs old baby daughter).
My pride was hurt, but the affair was over.
Only a few months later she told me that Paris was a lie and that they kept meeting twice a month halfway between their homes. And they were planning to live together.
This did not happen because the guy’ wife, a German, was much stronger than myself in creating problems for the two lovers.
So the story ended.
If anyone wonders why we didn't get divorced, well it is another story. Maybe later if anyone is interested… It stil was a matter of sex…

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My wifes assets, then...

Best friends, betting our wives.
 

When I was in college, my best friend and I used to play darts a lot. We took to "betting a night" with our girlfriends. It was never serious, but we had fun pretending that the winner would get to fuck the loser's girlfriend that night. A high price to pay for losing, lol.

In the years since, we both got married to different women. For me, the fantasy hasn't gone anywhere!

In my updated fantasy, our wives agree to being part of the game. They know the stakes and they think it's fun and hilarious. With the tournament about to begin, they enter the room in sexy night gowns...nervous tension in the air. A dart board is on the wall. My friend and I play a best of 3 games.

The rules are clear.

When the loser officially loses game #2, he immediately strips his wife naked in front of everyone. Then, without saying a word she lays on the nearby bed and spreads her legs wide. The winner proceeds to take her in front of everyone. The rules state that he must fuck her as hard as he can. The goal is to forge maximal jealously for the loser.

Importantly, under no circumstances is the winner's wife allowed to hook up with, or pleasure the loser. However, if she chooses, she is allowed to join into the fun after a few minutes. The loser must watch carefully as his best friend fuck his wife.

At the end of the session, the loser must use the winner's cellphone to take a few pictures of his best friend posing with his naked wife. In the last picture, she takes his cock in her mouth and looks into the camera. The pictures are his forever.

Like I said, high stakes!