Originally Posted by arnoldziffel (Post 2537630)

Anyone who has been to a concert will have experienced the phenomenon that is the queue for the ladies toilet. Most of us guys have gone to the mens room having arranged to meet our lady friend(s) at a meeting point ( I'm thinking sports stadia here), only to be left waiting for an eternity. When the ladies eventually arrive they say "Sorry, the queues in the ladies were terrible".

Sooo.... some ladies think outside the box and run into the men's room - ok perhaps using a men's urinal mightn't be the most hygienic but some ladies(?) get over that for the relief a pee brings. Another way of doing that would be to use a cubicle....the lady mightn't even 'show' anything but would there be a bit of embarrassment for any woman having to walk out of a men's toilet past a line of men who can only 'believe' that the lady has performed her toilette in the men's room or perhaps something else with a lucky guy or guys?

The stuff of fantasy perhaps but, it would be a common enough occurrence and in Russia, going by some of the videos I've accidentally clicked on :rolleyes: .....ladies peeing outside during social events , particularly weddings and concerts seems to be quite common (yes I do appreciate that there is quite a difference between social mores in Russia and Norway as well as a greater availability or ladies toilets). Any merit in the idea Maren?

Originally Posted by Maren1 (Post 2544093)

My friends! Sorry I took so long. I'm a chicken, but now I've been given a time-limit to get out there and get started, so... I got no choise now! :O OK, here's the plan:

This week I am going to "get seen", changing in a changing cubical at a shopping center nearby. I've already tested out how the curtains work and practiced how to "accidentaly" leave too much of it open without it looking like I'm trying to. Gonna take this slow (cause I'm nervous as hell!), but my goal is to at least know I'm being watched, and then hopefully dare to continue. There are a lot of pieces that has to fit here though. Maybe I have to go in and out several times before someone actually notices, and then I also have to know for sure he's looking. And maybe when I finally know for sure; I haven't got enough time to finnish before the guy is dragged along with his wife. -.- I may be overthinking this, but we'll see how this goes :)

Hopefully I'll try on thursday or friday. If there's not enough people there to make it work, I'll just see it as a dress rehearsal (pun intended). And then I have to return for my main preformance on saturday (which sounds scary, cause then there will be way more people for sure :O).

Thanks for listening! :D
Love, Maren

Originally Posted by arnoldziffel (Post 2544125)

...perhaps you could leave your mobile phone on the ground facing out under the curtain to where your prospective voyeur is seated/waiting ...if you're lucky, you might catch the reaction when he sees you changing!

The best of luck with it whatever happens Maren

Originally Posted by Omega88 (Post 2544319)

Would assume all following this thread wish you luck! Sounds like you have a great approach and deadlines do work for most things. Just jump in and have fun, even if things do not work out with a good audiance.

Depending on what type of store(s) you have selected, you might find a semi revealing / sheer top to try on and wear it outside the cubicle [with or without anything underneath] to look at it "in better lighting" or a better mirror even if there are not other people around. Might help expand your comfort zone for Saturday! :)

Good luck!