[QUOTE=clairwill;2531325]
why don't you start off by making your wife start wearing sexier panties - not when your friend is there but as a rule...
these white cotton ones are a complete turnoff...[QUOTE]

Although I do understand what you mean, imho there are several good reasons not to change to sexier panties right now.
First of all my wife has overcome quite some bounderies to get where we are now. I don't think it's a good idea to push things further by changing the panties she has worn for most of our marriage. If I have a choice I would much prefer her to show more of her breasts to him. Clairwill said that castle has fallen, but unfortunatly I think there is only a small crack in the wall ;)

Secondly I bought my wife some sexy lingerie in the past, and she did wear it, but she honestly doesn't think they are as comfortable as her regular white panties. Above all else I would like my wife to feel at ease and comfortable in the few clothes she is still wearing if I show her off. I have attached three pictures of my wife in more sexy attire to this post, but if she doesn't feel comfortable wearing them for much longer then the time it takes me to remove them I will not ask her to wear 'm all night.

And last but definatly not least, I actually think white cotton panties are extremely sexy. They look natural on her, they are resonably decent if compared to other lingerie and the colour white holds some kind of promise, as if she is still a virgin waiting for her knight in shining armor. You can call it a fetish of some sorts, and you might not be able to understand, but I actually like my wife in these white panties. That's why she is wearing them all the time :cool:

Thank you. The slow progression is more of my wife's choice then mine, but I actually do think it's highly erotic this way.

Somehow I have this idea in my head new years eve will be some sort of 'finale'. We started last summer sending our friend ever more erotic pictures, and after our vacation on Tenerife at the end of last september we slowly started exposing her body to him in real life. We have two more months before it's 2018, and if I think about the progress we made in the last two months and extrapolate that, it could well be my wife will show herself topless or close to it during the night we open the champaign to celebrate the start of a new year. I have no idea why I have this fixation with new years eve :confused:. If my wife will let me we will show her breasts in full glory long before that...

Don't be disappointed if new years eve won't being what you hope for, but just keep it going slowly.
Suddenly going too fast might mean she quits!

This, definitely!
Proceed at a pace she is comfortable with above all else, you don't want to blow this opportunity by pushing too hard.

Sexier panties will be part of the success for sure :)

She'll feel sexier and surely agreed to show them.
Seethru panties will in same time allow you to show more of her pussy and your friend to be more interested in seeing them.

As a bonus, you'll enjoy them every day :)

Maybe you missed Tim's explanation of this issue earlier:
"Although I do understand what you mean, imho there are several good reasons not to change to sexier panties right now.
First of all my wife has overcome quite some bounderies to get where we are now. I don't think it's a good idea to push things further by changing the panties she has worn for most of our marriage. If I have a choice I would much prefer her to show more of her breasts to him. Clairwill said that castle has fallen, but unfortunatly I think there is only a small crack in the wall

Secondly I bought my wife some sexy lingerie in the past, and she did wear it, but she honestly doesn't think they are as comfortable as her regular white panties. Above all else I would like my wife to feel at ease and comfortable in the few clothes she is still wearing if I show her off. I have attached three pictures of my wife in more sexy attire to this post, but if she doesn't feel comfortable wearing them for much longer then the time it takes me to remove them I will not ask her to wear 'm all night.

And last but definatly not least, I actually think white cotton panties are extremely sexy. They look natural on her, they are resonably decent if compared to other lingerie and the colour white holds some kind of promise, as if she is still a virgin waiting for her knight in shining armor. You can call it a fetish of some sorts, and you might not be able to understand, but I actually like my wife in these white panties. That's why she is wearing them all the time"

Her being comfortable with the situation is the most important aspect of all of this, not whether or not anyone else likes her panties.

Thank you for your post DippsyDudel, you hit the nail on the head. I think it's incredible my wife has agreed to go as far as she did, in such a short time, and I think it's very important she feels comfortable when stripping ever further in the presence of our friend. Uncomfortable panties would surely not help.

For the rest of the weekend and all of next week I will not have access to my computer, since we are renovating our livingroom. We stripped it bare tonight (except the pc and the tv), and tomorrow the electronics will be disconnected too.

My wife and I rented at a cottage next week, so as to escape the mess our house is in. The cottage is part of a larger complex of vacationhomes, and the complex contains an indoor subtropical swimmingpool, amongst other facilities. I already asked my wife to expose herself during our stay there, so other people besides our friend might see her body, and she actually seemed quite eager to do that. I hope I can take some nice pictures during our stay there ;).

I already proposed to my wife to fake a nipple slip in the swimmingpool, and to have sex with all curtains in the cottage opened, but for now she seems too pre-occupied with the renovation to be really into detailed sexual fantasies. I can't blame her: everyone who has renovated their home while living there will testify to the stress that comes with it.

I do think it's a very good sign my wife likes the idea of continuing us exposing her in another setting: it proves she is really growing in this respect :)

Does the wife know you post on here? As would be interesting to here her take on the whole situation.

Please (re)read the story, she doesn't know, as she would be very angry if others saw her pictures.

I hope there will be some picture shooting next week too! Maybe a few pictures while she flashes her nipple or when you two have sex in front of the windows :P

At least, have a great week together and don't push her too far too quickly!

(Have to say: I was hoping for a few new pictures here:P)

Because we are renovating our livingroom my wife and I rented a cottage at a local vacationpark near where we live. The park has its own subtropical swimming pool, amongst other facilities.

Yesterday my wife bought a new bikini, so we descided to go swimming after diner. I dared my wife to fake a little nipple slip in the pool, but since there were a lot of children around that was not an option.

So after we finished swimming i thought of another dare. She would have to leave our little changingroom, topless, to go to a nearby locker and open it. She would not be allowed to cover her breasts, so if anybody walked by he or she would have a full view of her breasts.

Since this would be the very first time my wife would be topless in public, i did not think she would agree, but actually she did. I have attached some pictures below this post, and we send some of these (the ones not showing her nipples) to our friend. I don't have access to my computer this week, so i cant edit the pictures all too well, but i think this will do.

thanks for the update and the pics... I hope there is more to come from your short vacation!

keep up the good work!