Personally, i find it normal to go out with my wife and not have assholes trying to pick her up. Its nothing to do with attractiveness, and probably more to do with people getting hit on in bars not being particularly the norm. Perhaps you are not going to a bar thats dive enough.

What you feel about your wife shouldnt have to be validated by others.

Btw - any women come up and hit on you, ever?

Peeking
 

When I was in my late 40s we lived in a housing development before we moved out in the country where we live now. We had a wooden fence around our backyard mainly because I like to get an all over tan in the summer. One day I was laying outside on a chaise lounge naked on my back with my legs slightly spread. At the time everyone was shaving their pussies smooth. I had mine waxed a couple of days before so I was bald as a billiard ball down there. I had rubbed tanning lotion all over my body even on my pussy. I was reading a magazine and sipping on a drink when I thought I heard something from next door. I looked to my right at our fence and I thought I saw a hole. I was trying to play it cool and not let on that I suspected something was going on. I thought I heard soft moaning. I swung my legs over to the right, sat up and spread them a little taking my finger and kind of scratching my pussy. I was sure then I heard a soft moan. I got up and walked to our gate and grabbed my robe out of sight of the hole in the fence. I threw it on and quickly ran out the gate and around the fence. There was our young neighbor, Nelson with his dick in his hand jerking off. It seems Nelson had a big crush on me. He was 18 and about to go to college in the fall. He stayed home while his parents worked during the day like I did with my husband. Nelson mowed our grass and had seen me many times outside in my bikini while he did yard work for us. I always wore it if he was coming over. It turned out he had drilled a small hole in the fence to spy on me while I sat outside naked. We had known him since he was 10 yrs. old or so and was kind of a cute small kid a kind of friend to us. I guess he had been jerking off to me for years. Poor Nelson, he was so embarrassed that his little hard on shrank in his hand. Since he was now 18 I decided to give him a treat. I put my arm around him and told him it was OK, I was not mad. He was shaking as I led him into our living room. I sat down on the couch and opened my robe up for him. His little dick, about 5 inches hard, was tenting his shorts. I sat down on the couch spread my legs and told him to slip off his shorts. When he did his little dick popped right out at attention. I told him not to touch himself yet and get on his knees. I then taught little Nelson how to eat my pussy. He moaned as he licked and I knew if he had his hand on his dick he would be squirting all over the place by then. He learned fast and I had several orgasms on his tongue. I then had Nelson go and get a towel, kneel in front of my spread legs, and finish himself off. Nelson was too small for me to fuck (I like large dicks and I would have barely felt him. He also came rather quickly too) so he remained a virgin that summer. I had a very good summer on Nelson's tongue until he went off to college. I let him suck on my titties and lick my pussy all that summer but I never touched his dick. (I still think he would have squirted almost immediately if I touched it.) He was happy just to jerk off for me after he was done pleasing me. He went off to school that fall and we wound up moving to our present house. I've always wondered who took his virginity and when. I might have screwed up his head but I did teach him how to eat pussy real well.
Here I am on the couch. This is what Nelson got to eat that summer. I kept him well fed.

100% - I know for a fact the 3 of my best mates have masturbated to thoughts or pictures of my wife. I've returned the compliment of course :)

I am sure he does
 

my good friend and I send each other nudes from the wives

started with underwear but now its full frontal unawares from both sides

he has an office and I know thats where he sees my e-mails

I wanna ask him where he masturbates, if its at his home, maybe he just uses the memories of what I send him; but if he jerks off at work (which I do) then I'd know hes beating to my wife; I would love it if he did

Yes they have
 

Yes they have.

Well when we go out with that intent because she feels a bit frisky and wanting the attention from others. Why is every guy an asshole that hits on another woman?

Women should be able to go out socially without some guy trying to pick them up soley for a one night stand fucking session.

Agreed
 

I have a busy that has seen my wife’s pics and seen her topless in person and he loves it! Asks all the time to see a pic

this was a great read. thanks for your input guys.

Younger friend
 

I have a younger friend that my wife and I met a couple of years ago. I spend quite a bit of time with him, my wife knows and likes him but doesn't know him as well as I do. Over the last several months I've shown him several naked photos of my wife, she doesn't know this as of yet.

He is between ladies presently and from time to time he finds himself home alone & quite in need of relief. He has told me that he has on several occasions he used memories of her photos to get relief. I told him that when he feels the need to text me and I will send him a few shots to use.

It has been somewhat of a running joke with us lately, he sends me a text "Help!" and I ask what is his fancy, he sends me his request of "muff", "tits", "ass" or his usual "show me everything", which I do. He has a few shots he specifically asks for. Naturally they are not censured and do show her face.

He tells me that he uses them and then deletes the photos so others don't find them on his phone. I assume he does but don't really care.

Since seeing her photos, he has admitted that when ever he is now actually with her, he looks at her knowing what she looks like naked. He also admitted that he enjoys jacking off much better knowing he is looking at someone he knows and sees often. He says it raises his level of excitement knowing he is going to see her in person in a few days.

I personally like the idea he is doing this.

2 that I know of
 

I know two of my friends have jerked thinking of my wife Lisa because they told me. The first one is my buddy at work who I share pictures with of our wives. His wife travels for work quite a bit so when she's gone he told me he occasionally will think of the pictures of Lisa he has seen. He said he's also pictured our wives together.

The second is my best friend Eric who I've known since grade school. Not to long ago on a guy's night out Eric confided in me that a few times he has jerked thinking about the night after a wedding when Eric and Dana shared our hotel room. Both couples ended up fucking in our respective beds. Eric said that's the hottest thing he's done in quite a while and it pops into his head sometimes when he has some alone time. I told him I still think about that too and wouldn't mind if it happens again sometime. It also probably helps that Eric is one of the few guys that has seen Lisa naked in person skinny dipping a couple of times and strip poker once.