Well, there are already a couple of those on the board which were pretty heavily commented on.

I imagine my response sounded a little harsh; it's a hair-trigger issue for me, as I went through a similar sort of dead bedroom, and ultimately dead marriage for 20 years. I eventually figured out how to fix it, and did. The responsibility to live the kind of life a person wants lies directly on that individual. I finally came to the realization that the fault of my no-sex marriage was solely mine. Fast forward another 20 years and I'm married to a much more compatible woman who loves to fuck. After a few years of marriage I successfully turned her into an agreeable, fun, and oftentimes enthusiastic hotwife. And my kids; they knew what was up during the first go-around and got over it. My life today is orders of magnitude better than it was before; happier, more relaxed and much more productive too.

But it doesn't have to. If you have the will to change your station in life I heartily recommend Robert Glover's No More Mister Nice Guy as a starting point. Best of luck in all your endeavors.

Any BBCs among your wife's 67 lovers?

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Before we started going steady at 16, she told me that she had to tell me something before we got too serious. She told me she had been with a lot of guys. She didn't know an exact number but it was in the 20s. This was all between the ages of 12 and 16. She developed early and with a big chest and she got attention. After her first, she was never alone and was never faithful to any boyfriend. She would rarely initiate, but hardly ever said No. she screwed, friends of boyfriends, siblings of girlfriends, study partners, teachers, guys at parties, you name it. It was not uncommon for her to have sex with two different guys in the same day. She even added a few more after we started going together including her own cousin. I would estimate that she has had her legs spread by almost 30 guys, screwed over 600 times and gave at least a few hundred blow jobs. I've met many who have had her in her past at high school reunions. I had wondered how much of a sl*t she really was and after she realized I didn't mind, she stripped and blew a friend of mine, then easily initiated a threesome with him. She is truly amazing to watch. She's had a couple of my friends and a few we've met online since we've been married. She took to it naturally, like she had never stopped. I'm convinced that you can't really take the sl*t out of the girl. We don't do that stuff anymore, but oh the memories.

Three so far to date.

One who she hooked up with multiple times when we visit the Washington DC area where he lives. (Probably 8 times or so.)

One guy we met on a vacation weekend get-away, met out on the dance floor at a tiki bar on the beach.

One other gentleman we met at a lifestyle club we have visited on occasion in Dayton, OH. I think they hooked up twice total in the past few years.

She has been communicating with one guy for several months on a swinger site and plan to meet but no date set yet due to his and her schedules conflicting. She travels for work, he travels for work and he has his kids on every other weekend.

I'm assuming you meant well. Feel free to let us sneak a peek at the hotwife you chose to brag about while going all guru on me. I'm guessing a fair share
Of our friends here would trade my once a month for your once a day. So yea, thanks for the encouragement. Really.

She read this and says I am missing two.

1. A guy we met in a hotel bar one evening when she was traveling with me for work. It was in St. Louis, MO and the guy was french I believe.

2. A guy she met out in Dallas, TX while on a business trip. - I was not aware of this but she swears she told me about it lol. So, I guess that means out of 68 to date................

I do have a few images from two of these.

If I am to believe my wife, there was an old boyfriend twice when I was in the service, which I did not find out till many years later. The problem is she was and still is horny - even at the age of 67, so I can't believe she did not fool around when I was away on a long cruise, or away on business trips.

When we did it the first time, there was no evidence of her being a virgin. She did act like she was a novice, even going as far to saying "if you want to put that thing in me, you have to do it yourself, because I am not touching it". May have been an act.

We are going to visit friends this summer, and he has confided to me that his wife fucked around while engaged. She told him all about it, and when he fucks her he asks her "is this how they fucked you? and she says yes - it was great" This gets him off.I plan on asking him to have his wife (a few glasses of wine) to tell my wife, and ask my wife if she ever fucked around on me. Hopefully my wife will share stories with her as they compare notes. There may also be mutual friends involved.

Any other suggestions?

For a long time I knew my wife's number was 3 other guys, a few more if you include oral and a handjob. I knew about them all before the deed was committed. Last year and old friend of mine died, he knew it was his time and he went peacefully. A few weeks later my wife and I were in bed getting sexy, talking about her hotwife activities, the few that there are, it still turns me on for her to talk about them.

Sometimes she is coy and makes up some story to arouse me, but she is a terrible liar and I can easily tell she's making it up. This time she said 'there is something I have to tell you about Alan', the friend that just died, she said 'I think you'll like it, but you may not.'

She told me that when we met Alan, she had a little crush on him, he was a real geek and even in his mid 20's he had never had a GF. She said the idea of being his first drove her crazy with lust, so she plotted to seduce him, and she did when I was out of town. Alan was a very good friend of mine and a hunting buddy, after clothes were off he was getting cold feet until my wife promised to never tell me about it, and she didn't until he was passed.

If I had found out about this when it happened I would have been crushed, now it is a big turn on, especially the part of how she had to give him a very detailed anatomy lesson on the first naked female he had ever been with. She said they only did it once then and once after he moved to Atlanta and she visited him when she visited her parents there.

A grand total of eight, including myself. I was the first. After we'd been married a few years, we experimented with three small swing parties, mostly with couples we knew. Even though she agreed to try swinging, my wife is very conservative, and very devoted to me. She is just not the flirting type. So short story short, seven other guys have boned my wife, and they did it while I was in the room.

Did she enjoy while she was doing it? If there were seven other guys, she must have done more than one in a night. Was she turned on by that? My wife is very conservative too so I have not even gotten as far as you with some experimenting.