Ugh! Reborn is among the worst. They felt guilty of whatever it is... and go all nuts. Or, they start out being proper and religious - then become sl*ts when they are in their 40s~50s.

Did a 3some with a couple of older women many years ago. One had been kinky since her 20s, the other a divorced mother of 2 grown children only had the experience of one man until a year or so before - which case, she became a total sl*t. sex with men and women, 3somes or more, BDSM, etc. She was quite a looker for 48 or so and worse sexy outfits without panties, and looked good.

She was going through a rough time, one of her close gay male friends died in tragic circumstances, her brother died from a brain tumor the year before. Both her parents had health problems and were bankrupt from her brother’s medical expenses. She was questioning her career decisions having both a masters degree she did nothing with and a commercial pilots license she abandoned when she was young. She became a flight attendant because she wanted to travel and party, now she was looking at her 30’s in the rear view mirror. This weird pilot who was extremely religious but none the less obsessed with her decided he was going to try and save her from damnation. One day she was pulled in for a random drug test that she thought she was going to fail because she had recently used ecstasy. While she was waiting to pee a supervisor came into the office in a panic because a flight was short a flight attendant, he waived the drug test and put her on a flight to Hawaii. In her state of mind she decided that the god guy the pilot was talking about was real and giving her a second chance.

I had some amazing experiences with her, she loved to watch other women give blowjobs and to that end introduced me to her "sl*tty friends" which was basically a group of female pilots and other flight attendants. With no warning I would come home or meet her somewhere and there would be another woman there. She would cuddle up with me on a couch or chair or edge of the bed and watch. Some were in their early 20's, some were probably getting pretty close to fifty - but all were absolutely amazing, just incredible head. She told me I could see her “sl*tty friends” without her if it was convenient but I only did once. In her mind fair was fair but I was never totally at ease with it.

The threesomes with her female sex partners weren't quite so great, they were usually just awkward and just not that enjoyable. A few were okay, but these were usually straight-up lesbians rather than bisexuals who surely didn’t really want me there.

I always knew it was going to end, I figured she would either do something really stupid with drugs or someone underage. Maybe she would fall for one the girls she was fucking and just decide she really was a lesbian after-all. Her finding Jesus and moving to Texas to marry the guy who “saved her from damnation” never crossed my mind. Leaving her total absence of sexual boundaries and frequent drug use out of it completely, her IQ was something like 170, how did someone so smart let that jesus worm in her ear?

I'm not religious, but if someone finds that religion can get them away from drugs, I'm happy for them. At my age I've seen drugs and alcohol destroy many people close to me. Everyone deserves peace and health anyway they can achieve it.

Please don't misunderstand me, I don't begrudge her that at all and I was relived when the whirlwind stopped with no real consequences to her. I just don't understand how someone who had been a bisexual party girl for almost twenty years and an extremely intelligent one at that could go all-in on the Book of Leviticus.

In my rural high school
 

The most sex-crazed guy settled down after graduation and became a Pentecostal minister. Before that, there wasn't anything that he wouldn't do for a dare, in front of other guys, including things that you can do on a farm that are highly illegal, if you know what I mean.

It got to where girls wouldn't go with him on a double date with another couple, because he not only like having sex in front of the other couple, but would want to swap partners as well.

That's priceless! Thanks for a good laugh.

From a Woman's perspective
 

Hi, thought I'd share what I have told my ex's (which include one active member on here! Five Hole you know who you are... If there are any more, please tell me!)

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
I try to be honest with the guy I am with. Usually I make them go first!

2)If so, what is the number?
I'm currently at 27 men and 3 women.

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?
I sure hope so... If it is wrong it means my memory is bad

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
Not typically, I did have one guy have an issue with being over 10. We hadn't yet had sex. I ended sucking on him and that changed his tune! Five Hole was a bit nervous, but then he took a while to cum and I actually started to think "I" was the problem for a bit. I was not and neither is he... I say his stamina was a gift! He was shy at first, but I fixed him! Sorry babe, couldn't resist!

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
I did. I actually brought it up to Five Hole and a few others. If I really like a guy I tell and share. My hope is that he will too. Some of the stories I've shared and heard have been awesome and make me excited to hear and think about them. Although there is nothing better than hearing them for the first time!!!
:)

Religion can be a strong and strange animal. I'm sure we've all seen cases like above, to all extremes.
We are far from religious yet we know someone has been watching over us. After all, both my wife and I have been pronounced dead yet live. WTF?
When first moving from Illinois to Florida we got reaquainted with a carclub friend who used to live within 50 miles of us back there. He now lived 120 miles south.
The sexy, sl*tty wife I used to fuck left him for a preacher that led her down a path of goodness and all that crap. She left her husband and kids for that preacher. Last I heard he was fucking everyone around but her.
Let us pray! Or prey!

As far as my wife's past I feel I know every detail, good and bad. She had a rough up bringing and has been thru hell.

my input...
 

Red flag #1 - The preacher (or any man) who convinces a woman to leave her children to start a new life is low-life ahole.

Red flag #2 - Any mother (or father) who leaves their kids to start a new life is a low-life scum... and never loved their children to begin with.


@JennyRed : Thanks for being one of the few females to hang with our group of kinksters. I do share some of the stories or photos I see here with my wife. I introduced her to open relationship, since I was used to always being that way - and yet she's getting more guys than I get women :rolleyes:

But I like to ask this of women, even my friends when it comes up. Does your number (27) include blow jobs?
I asked this because MEN like to inflate their numbers, women like to reduce their numbers... so they omit oral and sometimes anal sex, go figure.

Update the questions + more?
 

@ Others: Maybe I'm confused with another thread... but the questions on this thread is missing something.
I would like to re-arrange the listing of the questions and add a few questions. Such as:
"How many men and/or women did your wife/SO have since you've been together" and:
"Have these been with your blessing?" Nothing that will take much more time to answer.

This original thread is 2009... Would you guys be cool with me re-doing them a bit, updating here before starting a new thread for us to boast about. :)

This past Saturday, we went to a performance show which had about 4~5 acts. One of the better performers (who I happen to know, who she never meet before) was talking with my wife after the show and mixed with the rest of the crowd with no makeup or costume. She ask me "May I go backstage with him to play?" I said yes. Later, she said they needed a condom, which I went to our car and fetched. But the packaging was damaged. We had not planned for sex with others that night, otherwise we'd have our "kit".

Later, There were two other men she wanted to have sex with that night, guys who I've known many years before my wife that she's never had sex with or seen each other nude. They didn't pan out for reasons I won't go into in detail other than, scheduling and location issues. But we did do an after party with a buddy which we've done MFM before, but doesn't add her score up.

Is she turning into a sl*t? :o :p

PS: with one of the guys, it would have provided opportunity for me to have sex with 1 or 2 other women that night if it worked out.

Pam
 

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
Sort of

2)If so, what is the number?
Pam would only say that she had more than 10 in her pussy before we were married.

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?
From some of the stories she related and reading some of her lovers' letters to her I think she may have left a couple out. Maybe more than a couple! Who knows how many in her mouth. Probably fewer than in her pussy because oral sex was not her favorite, neither giving nor receiving.
As for her ass she only admits to letting one guy do her ass. I wasn't the lucky one although she did offer it once early in our relationship.


4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
Not really!

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
Pam and I used have Scheherazade sessions where she regaled me with tales of her past sex life. Of particular interest were those about Jack, her grad school professor and Masters thesis advisor who pushed her limits. While she was no innocent virgin before Jack, he introduced her to a host of taboos. She told me about some of them and when I saw some of the videos and photos he took (Long gone, unfortunately.), I saw those and some others that she hadn't told me about..

Updates
 

"How many men and/or women did your wife/SO have since you've been together" and:...We lost track. But around 100 men. Many repeats.

"Have these been with your blessing?" Nothing that will take much more time to answer.....YES! and I've always been there playing around or watching.



clitty I'm beginning to worry about you and your wife's arrangements. Be careful and don't let her get out of hand and fool around with too many men when you are not there. I realize we are not all the same. But for us any kind of sex acts are for the thrill of the other partner. If my wife were at a motel fucking George I wouldn't get any benefit except knowing she's having a good time. Not our way of doing this.

@Clitty: I actually had to think about that and write it all down. I think I need to add one if I include giving a BJ. As a rule of thumb, I tend to only give BJs out to guys I want to have sex with. Only once did I ever give a BJ and then not have sex. I'm not sure if I am alone in doing that, but that is my thing.

Currently, I am single and just having fun, but I have to agree with ModelT-MsDollie. I have never been interested in marriage (probably because my parents split up and I was there as a 10 year-old when it all went bad. My mom locked herself in room and was crying and threatened to take her own life while my Dad and the man that would become my step-Dad tried to reason with her. I sat in another room with my younger brother and sister unaware of what was really going on. For lack of better words, it was a fucking fiasco and I don't know if that is what has made me anti-marriage, but back to agreeing with them.

If you are going to have fun and have another person in your life, you should discuss about having fun together or with the others blessing. I don't think leaving and doing things with another person while your special someone is not there is GOOD for the long haul of that relationship. Again as ModelT-MsDollie said, that would be my rules, but that is me.

When I play around the other party (if it is a couple) has to be consenting on both sides. I don't do the cheating husband, no matter how hot he is. Too many chances to get caught and I would not want to hurt another female. When I play with Matt and Cate, it is both or nothing at all.

@Five Hole: Are you writing the next epic American Novel Matt? Get it up for us to read!

I do want to commend you on your writing skills. You have a certain way of writing that attracts me in like bait to a fish. I enjoy the way you write and craft out your stories and find myself getting turned on when I read some of them!

Boy did I run this into the ditch, my sincere apologies!

No... doubt it. The backstory is cool.

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1- My wife was w/ 90 ish guys before me.. she was always a swinger, and sexually active from 14.. we met at a mutual friends swing party.
2-90ish?
3- yes
4- not really, I've been with about the same women when we met.
5-yes, we have, and sometimes we remenise about the good old days and laugh together.

A pic from the good old days when we met in her very long hair days.

Sorry I had to quote to remember the questions.

Originally Posted by robert69 View Post
Hello all. A few questions:

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?

2)If so, what is the number?

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?

yes
12ish
no
no
yes

1) Yes
2) About 20 (she thinks)
3) Yes
4) Yes because her past is a turn on for me
5) Yes we talk about every thing and every one she has fucked

Wife's shady past
 

It has been a rollercoaster ride being married to a former prostitute but I wouldn't have it any other way.

Kind of.
She lost count after 100 and that was when she was 21, now she's 24.
It matters in a way.
Yeah, she's a size queen

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
yes

2)If so, what is the number?
over 30 men (she is my wife; we have been married five years, her experiences would have been from age 19 - 25)

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?
I spied on her speaking with a close girlfriend on the telephone

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
yes and no

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
yes. sometimes she turns me on during foreplay alluding to a past (bigger) lover, and what he could do for her

I am very interested in getting some feedback. Thanks for your honest answers

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?

Yes.

2)If so, what is the number?

Full Sex: 2
Blowjob-only: 1
Handjob-only: 1
Letting them touch her - only: 2

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?

· About full sex; I'm 99% sure she is telling me the truth.

· Blowjobs, handjobs and letting guys touch her; I'm 99% sure she is NOT telling me the truth. When we started dating, that number was 2; and now it's 4; and I expect it to grow as she opens up more.

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?

· It mattered more a few weeks ago; before signing up to this forum. I found exciting to know her past, but I felt jealousy and certain insecurities. I didn't care about it when dating my exes; I suppose this is what is like to be in love. :(

· Now, I'm feeling way better about it. I accept it and even thank them because they made her happy and discover new things that she now masters with me.

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?

Yes! Even when I felt jealousy; I loved to ask her about every single detail. She wouldn't say much most of the times; but when I was lucky and she was hornier than usual; she would tell me sizes, shapes, movements, color, etc.

[QUOTE=robert69;563789]Hello all. A few questions:

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?yes

2)If so, what is the number?17

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?yes

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?no

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?yes

Great questions!
 

"At least 30" is what she says. I have no reason to disbelieve her. I know she has had two or three long term relationships and a number of one night stands, flings and FWBs. No reason for her to lie.

We have discussed a number of previous encounters. She tells me my cock is "average" size which I think is right. She has had bigger for sure, she once even fucked a guy because of rumours about his size. Doesn't matter to me at all, as her perspective is that size isn't important. She says my "fit" with her is the best she has had - it is easier for me to bring her to orgasm from penetration than most exes - though she does tend to cum fairly easily from penetration.

The number of men she has slept with turns me on and has made her a great fuck!

:)
 

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
Yes.

2)If so, what is the number?
Around 40-50. We got together when she was 25-26. She is now 31.

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?
Yes. Don't see why she would lie because she knows it turns me on that she has been with others.

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
Yes. In the sense that I like that she has experienced a lot.

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
It happends. Often as some kind of foreplay or during sex. Most recently was two weeks ago when we were visiting her parents in the town she grew up in. We passed her old school and she told me that she in high school had sex with a guy in the locker room. We ended up having sex in the same locker room. :)

Numer one, yes. Number 2, 12, but I think more like 15 maybe. Number 3, no, I still think it's around 15. Number 4, no. Number 5, yes.

my ex-wife has been with at least 50 guys. we have gotten back together for sex, and she LOVES talking about their dicks and how much they cum. I was at her house last week for an incredible (!) fuck, and she had a new book on her bedside table called "The Multi-Orgasmic Woman". I didn't like fucking her nearly as much before we split up, but she is amazing now.

A little different than most
 

My wife and I grew up going to school together in the southern U.S. and ran in the same crowd. But we had never dated or even kissed. That changed when she moved back to the States when she was 24 after living over 2 years in Southeast Asia. She was pretty hippied out and had spent time living on remote islands favored by youngish European and Australian travelers. Fairly wild crew, lots of partying, toplessness, full nudity on the beaches and lots of sex. Except for her when it came to sex, that is. We started seeing each other and quickly had sex. When the subject of prior experience came up she told me I was her first. I didn't believe that even a little bit. I knew she liked to party plus she had told me she often went topless on the beaches and had no problem being around naked people or being seen naked when she was traveling. I didn't hold it against her though. At that age, time and place I assumed that most women didn't tell the truth about the number of men they had slept with, lying on the low side. I didn't care anyway. I knew she wasn't a sl*t but I figured there had to have been at least one or two guys she had been with.

Within a year and a half we were married. Her story never changed, she had been a virgin. I didn't start believing her until right before we got married. She had no reason by that time to not tell me. She knew I wouldn't have held it against her if she had fucked someone else nor would I have held it against her if she had lied to me about it. Also by that time she had been backed up by her best friends and some family members. Most of them thought was crazy for waiting so long to have sex and practically cheered when we did.

25 years later, I'm still the only man she's had full sex with. She loves sex, will skinny dip at the drop of a hat and we visit nudist and clothing optional places.When the talk turns to sex with new friends, especially younger ones, it's hard to convince them she was a 24 year old virgin.

I had posted this is in a similar thread earlier.

1) I do now. She has originally told me a number that was much less than actual. I found out when she was filling out paperwork for a new GYN and checked the box for "over 10" instead of "1-5"

2) 12

3) I do, since I had found out the number wasn't right she told me before. She knows I love how many and not jealous.

4) No. I think it's hot she loved fucking so much.

5) Yes, we discuss all the details. It is a huge turn on hearing about cock size, positions, oral, swallowing. We talk about it in bed a lot.

1. Yes. I knew her for a while before we were together. I'd been out for drinks with her at at last 2 of her boyfriends
2. 13
3. Definitely
4. Nope.
5. Yes. It's a huge turn on for me. I like to hear stories from her Uni days where she'd go back with a guy, let him okay with her big tits and give him a hand job/blow job. She's not so forthcoming with cock sizes, arguing she can't really remember anything significant either way, but that doesn't bother me as I know mine is big enough for her. She told me about her first time (her boyfriend came over to her parents house before school one morning) and how she reconnected with an old school friend a few years back, he came round and she ended up jerking his off.....this was whilst we had just started dating but weren't exclusive. I fantasise about him coming round again and me watching them reenact that scene :)

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you?
Absolutely and I love the details
2)If so, what is the number?
37
3)Do you think she is telling you the truth?
Yep
4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you?
Doesnt bother me one bit. Makes her that much more appealing to me
5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.?
Of course! She had some really big ones but most were about average

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you? Yes

2)If so, what is the number? 5

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth? Not sure

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you? Not really

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.? I have. She told me about a drunk college rendezvous that didn't happen because they guy pulled his pants down and she laughed at the size of his dick and told him to leave. She also told me about the guy she was with the longest before me (through high school and some of college) and how they weren't really sexually compatible; how she could only feel his thin dick rubbing on the side of her hungry, wet pussy hole so she started taking him in her ass so she wouldn't be as sexually frustrated. This is also the same dude that told her squirting was nasty so she held it in for 15 years with me before she finally slipped up. What really surprised me was no one went down on her until me and she was 21 the first time we had sex.

She is so sexy, you and the other 5 are lucky men. I love her thick bush.

Her Story by the numbers
 

1)Do you know how many guys your wife or girlfriend has slept with prior to meeting you? Yes.

2)If so, what is the number? She had fucked 15 cocks, only sucked 1 and had 1 in her ass.

3)Do you think she is telling you the truth? Yes

4)Does the number of guys she slept with matter to you? No, It turns me on when she shares stories from her past.

5)Do you ever discuss her past sex life with her? I.e. cock size she has had, etc.? Yes. Her freshmen year in college she stroked the largest cock. It was about 9" and thick. She said that's when she realized she loved stroking cock.

1) Yes

2) ~14 (same as me)

3) Most likely. She had group sex a few times, so her partner count is probably -/+ 2.

4) It would only matter if the number was zero. One of my best (female) friends in college, had sex with 40+ guys and that had no impact on my opinion of her. I'm not one for sl*t shaming.

5) On a number of occasions. Aside from a few guys (including myself), most of her sex partners were pretty bad. Either they were unskilled, uninterested or came prematurely (or all three). Her ex-fiancé belonged to the rare group of "good-in-bed" guys. Apparently he had a huge penis (her friends' referred to him as the porn star). Hearing about her past sex life was really helpful for our own. I learned all about her likes and dislikes.

1. yes
2. five
3. I think she is but its possible she isn't.
4. No, I am not concerned over it.
5. Yes. Before I ever fucked her I told her I planned to be the fuck of her lifetime. And she frequently reminds me of that and how it totally came to be true. I consciously make sure that she is frequently boned to perfection as she wants to be boned. And believe me it is a pleasure.

additions
 

since my first pot the number of guys has gone up to 20 {if 4 in one night counts but thats another story}

uh, what is that story?

1) Since wife is a former prostitute, I can only estimate.

2) Several hundred

3) Yes, I have met some of her former clients

4) Not really

5) Used to all the time, even with friends listening in.

Yes
13
Yes
Nope
Yes, but she doesn't give many details, claims to "not remember" any details. She's told me about her exes and certain scenarios but not details like cock size, not that something like that bothers me particularly