How many guys have boned the wife.
 

She told me 12 when we first got serious,but as time went on I knew this had to be wrong. She finally admitted after many years of marriage its more like 30 and she quit counting around 25. Im guessing its at least 30 guys but closer to 40 and most of those had to be in only a couple years, 18-22 years old. I bet she sucked off alot more guys than that and did even more "fooling around". Im pretty turned on by it, but wish she would be more exact and more up front about her past. I knew she liked fucking when i met her so i can't have a problem with it later in life..right?

30 to 40...
 

I asked her this question just the other night and she reminded me that we've talked about it before but she said that I got mad at her answer. I do remember being upset by her count early on in our relationship. Now that we are married and sure of her love and dedication to me, her past is a turn on for me. Her number is between 30 and 40.

She started early, so this was between 13 and say 30, including an unfortunate period in her life when she had a boyfriend who took advantage of her vulnerable state and brought guys home (including his boss) to fuck her. She doesn't remember the exact number and rarely talks about it, but it turns me on now when we do talk about it.

PS
 

*As far as I know, there have been no others since we became a couple.

Dont know if this has been said so far.

But if a girl tells you how many dicks she`s had you can multiply that number by three and thats the truth.

If a guy however tells you how many women he has fucked, you can divide the numer by three.

6
 

Six before me, but that may be different. My wife and I started dating in the late 80's - she was 20, I was 17. She was a hot, petite blonde with a killer body. When we started dating, I asked her how many guys she had fucked before me, and she replied with "six," and proceeded to name them all (we come from a small town). I knew all but one.

Her first fuck was a guy she had the hots for at work when she was 17. She lost her virginity to him, I guess he probably fucked her a few times and they broke up. I played in a band with him, and he was cool about it - never talked about my wife at all. She dated a guy for three years after that, and he joined the Navy, and they agreed that while he was away, they could fuck other people and would just get back together when he was in town on leave. She dated other guys during his time away and fucked them all, but would fuck him when he was back in town. She had a one night stand with another guy who I also played in a band with. I knew every one of these guys except for one that she was fucking in a town a few hours away. She worked for an older couple at a pizza joint and started dating their son or nephew, can't remember which, and she would drive to see him on weekends in the other city so he could fuck her. When I first met her, she was actually driving down to "break up with him" and told a mutual friend that she wasn't going to fuck him, but she probably did one last time.

I think she dumped him to get with me, and it worked. After about two months of dating, her Navy boyfriend was coming home on leave. She was going to leave him for good so she could stay with me on New Year's Eve. So she dumped him at her house (her dad worked nights and her mom left years before). So they had the house to themselves, I'm sure she probably fucked him one last time that night, although she won't admit it.

We dated for two more years before we got married, and during that time (right after the New Year's break-up with her ex) we went through a week where we weren't getting along. We didn't break up, we just decided to see each other for a little each day and then hang out with our other friends. Her and her best friend were hanging out with two guys (we all knew each other) and the guys were obviously trying to fuck the girls. I told her that bullshit was over, and we got serious. She claims she never fucked the guy that liked her, but every time I brought it up over the years her story changed from "we just hugged" to "I just kissed him on the cheek." I stopped bringing it up, but I think he at least fingered her. My best friend told me that all our other friends thought that she had fucked him, but she gets mad if I even bring it up.

Almost 25 years later we are married with two grown kids and she is still smokin' hot. Her past used to make me jealous, but that has faded and now it turns me on. Her mom put her on the pill when she was still a virgin, so she let every guy she fucked cum in her pussy.

I've asked her over the years to confirm her numbers, but she gets mad and says "I don't know, less than 10." So she may have forgot to name a few or intentionally didn't name some when I asked her when we were dating.

I don't know the exact number, but it must be hundreds. When I met her she was 25 and had a gaping sloppy pussy. She never had a baby either. She can take a thick 10" dildo easy all the way to the rubber balls! She dated a biker so maybe she got passed around. She never told me much about her past sex experiences. I wonder if she one time worked as an Escort!

My Sarah
 

I got to be my wife's second. I know this because we were friends for 2 years before we started dating, & we confided in each other. She just turned 18 when we met at work, I was 20, & we became friends. She was a virgin then. She didn't date much, had a domineering father and low self esteem, but eventually she hooked up with this guy who lived on her street. He was a tool. Had cool water toys (she lived on a lake), had the nice tanned body, even had the sweetest mullet, but was also a real big fan of the missionary position and supposedly only lasted about 7-8 min. He never went down on her, she never gave him head (or any other guy for that matter, so I got to be first for that!), just basic missionary for a few minutes, then done. Poor girl, living the sheltered life, she never thought sex was much more. Then one night, I asked her out, and we've been together for 23 years since. I un-sheltered her, and WOW, the beast came out!

Since then, she's fucked 5 of my friends, 3 of the wives of those friends (4somes with the hubby), a couple strangers, 3 other women, & even gave head at a bar on a dare. So by my count it's 14.

My late wife was the love of my life and, to tell the truth, was pretty much a sl*t in her younger years. We never came up with an exact number but she easily gave it up to dozens of guys. When she was in her late teens and early 20's she was known as an easy date and fucked most of the guys she went out with. The first time we fucked each other was a one time date and I was just another guy. Several years later we met again, fell in love, and got married. As far as I know she was faithful to only me after we got married. I always wanted to watch her getting fucked by someone else but she wouldn't do it. She did, however, tell me stories from her past as part of our foreplay. I loved hearing her stories.

My wife has fucked 2 other guys after we got married. I was shocked when I learnt about it, and she tried to deny it when I confronted her. But I had ample proof and she confessed to it. Interestingly, sex has been better , way better after this revelation.

Related question for you all.....................
 

Seems like a lot of us are very interested in our spouse's pre and post us sex lives. So................

Have you had more or fewer sexual partners than your wife? (women can answer as well)

If more than wife, are you happy?, sad?, couldn't care less?, hope she catches up?, or other?

If fewer than wife, are you angry?, jealous?, proud of her?, turned on thinking about her "in action"?, hoping she continues to increase her number?, complacent--heck, every one knows it's a lot easier for a girl/woman to get laid than a man?, or other?

For me......
 

I've had more--at least I think I have. There was a long period during college when we were apart and she was a getting boned a lot, but I think I'm still ahead.

Wouldn't mind her catching up a bit, the thought doesn't make me angry or jealous.

In a VW backseat....
 

One of my best friends has been married to a girl, Donna, for about 30 years. He and I have shared lots of info over the years, some of which our wives do not know we have shared, including some photos.

His wife had told him in detail all of her dating while in high school, a rural school about 40 miles from the city where he grew up. They met while both were in college and fell in love quickly, having to get married quickly because of their first daughter.

One night we had too much to drink and were discussing our sexual experiences. They love to hear about nudist clubs, but she would never go with us. They liked to go boating and have sex on the boat on the lake or river with other people on the water but not nearby.

She was telling how she never had an orgasm with anyone she dated until she dated a preacher's son and they had sex in the cramped back seat of his VW bug. Once she had one, she would insist on dating him, even calling him on short notice to go out but he had to have the VW. She told how they had sex in parking lots, at drive in movies, and lots of places but always in his VW. My friend got quiet as his wife kept talking, and they left soon afterwards.

Later, I learned that he had never heard of this guy she dated nor about all her orgasms in the VW.

I think based on what I know at this point that my wife and I have close to the same numbers of partners +/- 2 or so. Hers were mostly before our marriage. There was 1 or 2 after the marriage but that was never a problem. I knew about 1 before it happened and the other one that I know about for sure because I was there. Now THAT was a great weekend.... :D

My wife has had more.

I'm proud of her and turned on thinking about her sucking and fucking other guys. She tells me she has had no others since we have been married but hopefully in the future I will get the chance to see her in action!

Her
 

She has had more, for sure. It used to make me jealous but not anymore. Its always turned me on to hear her tell stories of the guys she'd fucked before we met. I'd seen videos of her in action with guys she was with before we met and I hope to see it live some day! :D

I've had fewer. I used be to be jealous of her past, but now I get turned on thinking about her fucking those other guys when she was younger. I could never get her to swing or share now though - she's not into that at all.

My Asian Wife
 

My Asian honey has been boned by 17 guys total. Me, the fifteen before me, and one when we were having marriage problems a few years back. To be fair I boned a gal during that time too. That rocky time has actually made our marriage stronger now.

that sounds attractive.

Dude i've seen your wife so i know that those 17 guys including yourself are very lucky guys to have had " boned " her !!!!!!

Lots of good stories here''--any more input on "more or less than your spouse"?
 

Related question for you all.....................

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Seems like a lot of us are very interested in our spouse's pre and post us sex lives. So................

Have you had more or fewer sexual partners than your wife? (women can answer as well)

If more than wife, are you happy?, sad?, couldn't care less?, hope she catches up?, or other?

If fewer than wife, are you angry?, jealous?, proud of her?, turned on thinking about her "in action"?, hoping she continues to increase her number?, complacent--heck, every one knows it's a lot easier for a girl/woman to get laid than a man?, or other?

Any Other Input or comments??
 

Must be some other guys who know or suspect their wife's pre-them activities?

My first wife was already seperated from her now ex when we met. She eventually confessed that when we were seeing each other, she had 4 blokes plus me on the go at once & she was being boned by all of us. She had one more cock when we were married. We divorced for other reasons.

My 2nd & current wife has had hundreds, litrally hundreds. She was married when i met her, she couldn't keep her legs closed for any cock. She's 25yr older than me but still loves her cock :)

You have my attention - please elaborate! :)

She dated a very well know rocker. He wrote a song about hookers and used her name in the song... "fire down below"..i wonder how she made her way through school! When I met she was 25 and had a very sloppy pussy. I'm about average, but there is about 5inches of her I'll never feel. Sometimes not knowing is better. Could explain why she is more comfortable with woman-woman sex. Maybe too many men before me.:o

Fire Down Below
 

Rosie or Nancy?

you got a 50/50 on that one! ....sure made me think!

Im not 100% sure, but between 4 and 6.
We have been together since high school and lost our virginity together.
We spent a couple of years apart while she went to college 100kms away, and suspect she may have had sex with one of the guys in her class. They were very close. I know for a fact another guy fingered her at a party because we had a fight about it at the time!
She was also involved in a threesome with another guy and girl from her class, but she told me at the time he didn't fuck her. The story seemed a bit off at the time so I'm not sure about that one.

We have had an open relationship since we were married which she has taken full advantage of.
She played World of Warcraft for a few years, and had sex with three guys from her guild in that time, two who had to fly in from interstate just to fuck her.
She has also had sex with one of my workmates. Started as a bit of harmless flashing on webcam one afternoon, which led to masturbation shows on webcam which led to her asking him to come over.

There could be others, but that's all I know about.

known or suspect?
 

Well, since you want known or suspect.....and you are the OP.

She flat out told me that while in high school she had a 19 yo boyfriend that had his own apartment and her parents were never happy about how much time she spent over there. So you know he was tapping that... And, she started school early so she when she graduated high school she was barely 17.

And I have other reasons to suspect that she started young. Found an old family picture of her at Disneyworld. She must have been 14 or so, and wearing a pair of shorts so short her ass was hanging out and a white blouse you can see her bra through. Knowing her as I do, that was no accident and might even have been trolling. Also, guys from high school that she doesn't even remember keep googling her and trying to persuade her to get on social media like Facebook. I figure they're trying to knock a piece off the easy chick they didn't get back in high school. Would like feedback if anybody has any alternative theories.

In college, she had a roommate that by her own admission was extraordinarily promiscuous. They were not in a dorm, but in an apartment, so that was by choice rather than assignment. Virginal schoolgirls don't hangout with promiscuous women like that. And, I once ran across a set of photographic slides chronicling her descent into drunkenness and passing out at a party. I asked her what that was about, and she said it was a bunch of grad students that she used to party with in college. Never mentioned them before or since, and none of her "regular" college friends know anything about them. So I figure there was probably some group action going on there. And her BFF from high school and college once told me about how she used to come home after partying without her bra on and not knowing where it was.

I didn't know it at the time, but when I started dating her, she had a reputation for fucking anybody in law school that she thought might later help advance her career. I'm 90% certain she fucked an adjunct prof who was of counsel at a firm she wanted to be hired at. She wound up getting a job there. She told me about her first day in law school she went to a law school party, left it with two dudes to go light up a joint. I'm not sure how those things work, but my understanding would be that she was expected to put out for them in exchange so that she fucked at least one, maybe both of them. Anyway, she wound up living with one of those dudes for a while.

I strongly suspect that she fucked a couple of partners at the first firm where she worked to get work and influence her rise through the ranks. I suspect that she fucked one of the name partners at her second firm. I know for a fact that she fucked one of the other influential partners because it became a notorious affair. She fucked a client for that guy, too, who was also a personal friend of the partner. They used to go out of town overnight on business trips together for hearings and such. They also used to go on "business development" trips to NYC. No telling who she was fucking there since he clearly had her fucking for at least client retention.

Also, one of the firm's Xmas parties was held in their offices one year. The wife wandered off for a while. While she was gone, several of her male colleagues took turns keeping me occupied in conversation for about 45 minutes. You know, guys with whom that was pretty much the only conversation I ever had. I have since come to suspect they had her off in a room somewhere taking turns with her.

And then she told me a couple of weird stories like folks going skinny dipping at firm retreats where spouses weren't invited. A friend of mine I trusted to talk to told me that she was setting up a cover story because she was participating if I heard and asked then she would say, "I told you about that when it happened and they are lying about me being there. I wouldn't have told you if I had been involved." If she got naked, she got fucked, so I suspect there was more group action going on there.

At her current firm, she's fucking the regional manager. She was fucking the manager of the local office but he quit. I think she's still fucking some of the folks from the last firm. One of those guys is now a bigwig client of the current firm and married to one of her (female) partners. I figure she's porbably still fucking him and maybe his wife too.

That's it off the top of my head. I never counted it all up, but I figure I can come up with a solid 25-30, most by name, if I tried. And that's only what I really know about or have some good reason to suspect.

Btw, if anybody thinks my speculation is either spot on or completely wrong, I would appreciate the feedback. I think some of it's a bit out there, but then what do I know.

Question for dg1977
 

Your history is a lot like ours. I got my wife's cherry when we were young and in HS but we spent a number of years apart during college where we considered ourselves "going together" but allowed to date.

And for both of us "dating" included a lot of boning others. No harm, no foul.............

But do you think your wife may have had a few/several/many others of whom you have no knowledge? I'm pretty sure my wife has so indulged.

Oh yes, I am absolutely positive. She's a serial cheater. I'm really not supposed to know about any of that, which is one reason I only suspect it. She's adamantly denied the notorious affair even though I have everything but pictures.

Archelon, I think your suspicions are spot on!
 

Sounds like a lot of lawyers fucking other lawyers. And why not?

Many women are reluctant for obvious reasons to provide "full disclosure" of their past to their husbands. So we have to speculate based on known facts and circumstances. I think your reasoning is very sound.

Like your wife, my with had a very promiscuous roommate her freshman year--who took her to a lot of wild parties and got her introduced to alcohol. When she's drinking, she never to my knowledge has turned down an available cock.

And she did a lot of drinking--to the point she flunked out of a pretty easy school.

So do I know my wife's true "number". Heck no, I doubt she even does.

Yes, I was shocked at how much fucking goes on in the legal profession. Three of my wife's female friends who were also lawyers wound up fucking and then marrying their lawyer bosses. The first firm I was at was relatively small and several of the female staff and female attorneys were dating and fucking clients. I couldn't believe that, but I was young and naive back then.

I have two big questions left. First, who she was fucking on those business trips to NYC...just the partner or some of his clients. That could have been a real party. Here at home, those guys have access to corporate apartments and so I also wonder how many of those she is still fucking.

5 guys have had her before me. She lost her virginity at age 19 and married the guy. After him and before me she had some fun. She has never had kids and it is tight as can be. We have been married for 15 years.

my wife has fucked alot of men before i met her and shes fucked 3 others Since we have been married but she didn't tell me that she had.i told her from day 1 of our marriage i wanted to see her fuck another man while i watched. her only excuse was the last time she had fucked our neighbor she was hoping i would come home and catch her doing it.and join in but that never happened but now 20 years later she wont even entertain the ideal of fucking another man with or without me being there.

Since we have been married and decided to be "open" I doubt that she has had guys I don't know about. She normally delights in telling me what she has been up to and so I doubt she has had any "secret" boyfriends.

While she was in college, I'm not so sure. We would spend weeks apart between visits. There was only a small group of them in her class (about a dozen) and they all seemed very familiar and close. I went to a couple of their parties and was amazed at how open they were with each other, and how quickly the clothes came off when they got drunk. There were definitely guys there that wanted to fuck her, but I don't know for sure whether they did. She has never told me either way.

There was also a period of about 8 months in that time when she was stripping for a company that did bachelor parties. She has always been a bit coy about what went on at the parties. All I know is she did stuff with toys, veggies etc. I doubt very much that anything more than that went on, but who knows. She never talks about it, and when pressed doesn't tell me much.

DG1977
 

Hmm, I see lots of similarities with my wife during our far apart college years.

First, you take a coed who is used to getting a lot of cock from her boyfriend, Then separate them by a great distance--too far to visit for weekends, etc. Then introduce a lot of other horny college kids close by and the opportunity and motivation to "hook up" is very powerful.

And you indicated that she dad some "close calls" in college that you reacted to angrily. So either she stopped fooling around or just stopped telling you about it. Your call..........

In my wife's case, she just stopped telling me about it.

We were in college in the 60's--at the beginning of the sexual revolution. How about you?

Nah we were in college in the late 90's.
All I really know for sure is that they all saw her naked and at least one and I think two of the guys fingered her (and one of her female friends did too but that's ok haha!).

To be honest we have never really talked about those times in detail.

She has letters from him. They dated about a year. I met her right after him. Funny that song is about hookers....makes me think. What don't I know! Maybe I don't want to know!

I don't really know that much of the details.
The first guy (the one that really wanted to fuck her and made no attempt to hide it) ended up fingering her in the bathroom at a party they were at. I can't even remember how I found out about it later. All I can really remember is she told me "one thing led to another" and he fingered her. We had a fight at the time, and that was that.

The other guy and the girl I don't know much about either. Her story was that she was asleep with her female friend in the same bed together, after another party.
She woke in the night and someone was fingering her. She went with it for a while because she was still half asleep and thought it was a dream. When she woke we realised her friend was having sex with one of the guys, and they both had their hands down her underwear.
She sat up and her friend said it was "her turn", implying that the guy (who my gf had no attraction to at all) was now going to fuck her. She said no, and I'm not really sure what happened after that.
That was the story told to me at the time, anyway...

I was the only for my wife until I fixed her up with a young black guy for her 50th birthday. That started her to be black only for the next 6 years. She says she has fucked somewhere between 100 and 150 black guys in that 6 years.
She also thinks she had a black cock stuck in her pussy/ass at least a 1000 times.

John