Never understood this as 'fantasy' or the whole cuckolding thing. We're all capable of affairs, I guess, in the right circumstances and straying happens. But I really don't get the willingly watching/knowing/being told after you'd set it up thing at all.

I couldn't work it all out in my head to be a positive thing, glad I decided as I did. I am jealous of the guys who did her back in the day. I would love to go back and do it myself. There's no way to turn back that clock.

No. Most women had a life before we came along, and ditto us with other women. That's life. Affairs could be part of life too. Beyond that...nah, don't see the appeal, although plenty have that fantasy and if it works for them...

I should clarify. I am not jealous of them. I'm envious. I don't mind that they did, at all. I would have and would love to. Better yet, I get to. Still. Anytime.