wow that's me too
 

I've been trying to get to happen as well. To see other guys chatting flirting hitting on the wife as they are trying to pick her up. We be gone out with this intent a few times and I guess my wife just doesnt have it. Guys just don't try anything with her.

It totally sucks and not sure what do to.

Thank you. Since you have a lack of messages, I left a message on your profile page.

Hi Thebigg,

The question of the thread is:
What turns you on most about the thought of your wife or GF with another?

What turns me on about my wife being with another man, when we did MMFF before we were married, was the notion that the intimacy I had exclusively with my wife was lost, and another man knows what it's like for his hard cock to be inside of my wife and completely have enjoyed her vagina as I have. He can forever smirk and say to himself, "I've fucked that b*tch and know everything there is to know about her." To me, that's very HOT.

Hey Spy,

A bunch of things. 1. Less than a week after I moved out (18 months ago), I walked in on her fucking the young Spanish dude in our old house right when he was cumming in her. Her legs were behind her head and she was shaking. I slipped out before she saw me. 2. That same night she was sexting me at about 1:30am for a couple hours. Among a whole lot of other stuff, D told me that even though he wasn't as big as me, he had that upward curved cock and that she must have cum 10 times. 3. The next day I went back to the house while she was out to pick up some clothes. Out of complete erotic curiosity, I went over to the bed and pulled back the sheets. It was at least 1/3 full of cum stains. Insane. 4. She texted me later that night and asked if I was happy fucking Jenna (I had left D for her). After a bit I wrote that I had picked up some clothes and saw the bed. And then I said, "congratulations. I saw the sheets". She wrote back immediately and said he's 28 and gets hard when the wind blows. We stopped the late night sexts for a while, and then.... 5. About 3 months ago when the kids were going back to school, I had to go to her place to sign some papers. I had just split with Jenna and apparently the Spanish dude left town. She looked incredible and was wearing short shorts and a white top. Her nipples were pointed out and up (they are remarkable as you may have seen from pics I posted). I couldn't take it and kissed her. She buckled and we spent the whole morning fucking like we hadn't in years. I asked her to tell me all about Sebastian (the Spanish guy). It was a side I never saw in her. Over the last few weeks, she asked me if I masturbated thinking about her fucking him as much as she did thinking about me with Jenna. She asked me why I didn't do the 3-way with her and her friend Anna that she said she "completely set up for me". I said I wasn't sure if she wanted me to or if she was testing me. She said, "no, I wanted you to fuck her in front of me". I asked her what she liked about sex with Seb. She told me, well other than that his cock hit my clit from every position, he could cum at least 10 times a night. When I told her how hot that was, she said, I kinda wondered if you were turned on by the idea of him cumming in me. Duh. Last night, she asked me again. I replied "for sure". So she wrote, "well you did. The week before you left, I came home full of his cum. And you licked me out and fucked me. I have another young man and we could do it again. And maybe you could bring someone...."

So that's why!

Just remembered one other thing. D said that sometimes after he came, he would tell her "balls are not drained! Balls are not drained!" I love fucking while we are talking about how this guy couldn't get enough of her pussy. Same for her. She asks me to tell her everything.

Mine is the same way, and unfortunately have no suggestions. She never has told stories from her past nor what has happened since we were married many a moon ago. Have seen guys try to pick her up and she loves the attention but it has never gone further when I have been around. After a wedding years ago I was talking with friends at the reception and when it was time to sit at the tables for dinner I found some guy had his arm around her waist rubbing her side and trying for more and she did nothing to stop him. Who knows what would have happened if I had not led her away. After another wedding a few years after we were married we stopped at a bar for a nightcap and when I got back from the gents a guy was sitting next to her rubbing her thigh. Was not into the idea of others with her then and told the guy to take off. There have to be many other times but she keeps them in the vault... :(

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Hey Spy, one other incredible thing to add, but can't send more messages for a few hours. You there?

I've given this whole thing a lot of thought (it's what I do!). The whole cuckolding angle - humiliation factor, etc - really doesn't hold any appeal for me and yet I've always found the idea of the woman I love being with someone else an incredible turn-on. The closest I can figure is that it's about stepping back and seeing her as a purely sexual being, completely independent of me, which makes me want her even more. This is why I love the idea of her having sex with another man or even just exposing herself, but the idea of her actually developing emotions for anyone else is the last thing I want. I remember hearing some porn actor (can't remember who) talking about his relationship with his wife or girlfriend, who was also in porn. He said something to the effect of "She can suck a dozen other men's cocks and I'm fine with it but if I caught her having a romantic dinner with anyone else I'd totally lose it."