I know of at least one guy at our wedding my wife had sex with. She told me, after our wedding, that she fucked one of the guys at our wedding. He is high school friend who she drove out to Colorado with once to visit some other high school friends. They had a lot sex on that trip out west. Funny thing is we spent a good amount of time with him and his gf and I had no idea about their past. I need to inquire about any others.

This remind me that we were out at a bar years ago with a bunch of her high school friends, maybe as part of a reunion. I asked her how many people in then bar she slept with. She said 4 but I could get more details. I think I knew about one maybe two of them.

I agree with you. Mine learned something from each guy who fucked her, and I get the benefit. As for meeting up with them at our wedding and subsequently, I really enjoy it when there's a group of us including a few guys who have fucked her, and she can joke with them openly about how, when, and where they fucked, how good her orgasm was, and such. They all know she's no longer available but they all love to tease each other. There are still plenty of opportunities for them to see her naked; they just don't get to fuck her anymore.

No room for jealousy in a healthy relationship!

She might invite them back?
 

As I've mentioned in this and other OCC threads, she's very open about her past sexual experiences. Recently, whenever we're around any of her exes, especially the ones who attended our wedding, the conversation soon turns to their shared sexual encounters. No activity, just talk. She jokes with them about how good a fuck they were, what she liked best about their cocks, how well it fit, if she had a good orgasm, and so on but she always reminds them that she's fucking only her husband now (me). I always enjoy these discussions, especially when she and the guys talk about times, places, how good it felt, joking and laughing and about times they got caught, and especially the times they did it in public. Many of the guys say she was their best fuck ever (of course they'd say that!). And she loves to describe the orgasms she had with them. All in casual conversation. (The other wives and GF's are used to this by now, but some choose to not stick around.)

I find it a real turn-on even when she tells me privately, but when we're in a social situation like a dinner or a party, or just hanging out with friends and some of her ex lovers are there and they're participating in talking about her earlier sex life face-to-face with me there, it's even better. I love it!, and it usually leads to great sex when we get home.

Lately she's been joking about how exciting it might be to throw a private party where she invites only her former lovers (there are many dozens, some nearby, some far away). She laughs about pulling this off, and kids around that the only matter still to be settled is whether she'd lie there with her legs open as each one comes around to put it in, or if she'd have them all lying there side-by-side and she'd come around to straddle each one. She jokes with them about this, and most seem to favor her coming around to straddle them, the reason being that they could more easily play with her breasts. At that point she reminds them that this is only a fantasy, and that the ones who attended our wedding already got their last fuck the night before. When she did this again a few weeks ago, she flashed them her breasts as a reminder of that night they each fucked her before the wedding..