Listen to these guys wired. This guy is not playing with a full deck. What started out as a kinky fun thing is turning to another pervert's fantasy. No way I'd give my wife pills or fuck another woman who has been put to sleep.
You need to tell this neighbor you are not interested. Lie if you have to and tell him your wife knows what was happening and she's pissed.

I hate to be a wet blanket at this party but IMHO you need to get away from this guy and stay away.

1) Engaging in sexual activity with someone unable to consent due to drugs administered for the purpose of non-consensual sexual activity is a crime, and even if it wasn't, it is nothing anyone with any amount of humanity would do.

2) You have no idea if he is recording the activity so, if you were to "mess" with his unconscious wife and fail to return the favor he could blackmail you into drugging your wife. The flip side would be he would turn the recording over to the police, his wife would say she never consented, and you would be a registered sex offender.

3) Anyone who would drug his wife or girlfriend for the purpose of "sharing her" with a scumbag is below pond scum and deserves to have his testicles removed from him with a dull butter knife. Forgetting the women's equality shit for a minute, When she married you it was with the intention that you would act in her best interest at all times. I am sure that you have heard at weddings that "The woman was made of a rib out of the side of Adam; not made out of his head to rule over him, nor out of his feet to be trampled upon by him, but out of his side to be equal with him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be beloved. No matter what your beliefs are, I know she didn't sign on for being drugged and fucked by the next door neighbor.

I apologize if this is a little over the top, but this is criminal activity. You need to distance yourself from this guy cause he will take you someplace that you don't want to go. And if you do want to go there you are sick.

Great information jimmybob. It's amazing how we can be perverts but still have some common decency and want to help our fellow members.
My wife and I won't even drink much when out having fun. We've always said we want to know exactly what's happening. It's always been a fear of mine when going out that someone might put something in my wife's drink. Yes we do drink a beer or two.
I've seen enough pictures of wired's wife to care for her and not want any harm to come to her.

Hey Wired,

sorry shits' gone so awry. Yeah he's gone off the rails. I think the best this is to tell a little lie and say the wife is pissed and not happy about some thing. Otherwise he will keep pushing you

My 2¢ worth is that you have not indicated whether the wife was knowingly or unknowingly participating in this And if it was unknowing, criminal conduct lines have been crossed. At least they would have been in the UK and I suspect also where you hang out. This guys needs to be busted and the best way I could think of doing it and establishing whether the wife was really in on it, is to mention to her how fine she looked naked lying on the bed the other night. I would also recommend not keeping your wife in the dark about this.

I'm with Jimmybob on this and he says it much better than me.

I like that idea captain. Simply let the neighbors wife know you saw her laying there naked and looking good. If she doesn't know the shit will hit the fan and your troubles will be over.
I'm sure his will only begin. Might be a house for sale in your neighborhood soon.

With all due respect, I'd keep my mouth shut. The guy is a loose cannon and you don't know what he might do if trapped. He might say you were in on it or molested her or bring your wife into it. I would not care to be questioned by the authorities in this matter.

That's why I didn't touch her, I was thinking the same thing.

agree there ... your neighbour is disgusting anyway and god knows what he might come up with if cornered!! Better keep away from him and do let your wife know about all of this shit so that she stays on her guard too. You dont want him to approach her with some cooked up stuff in your absence.

I'm thinking the best thing to do is approach his wife but I do worry about what he might say, would he lie and say I touched her....kinda risky either way.