Originally Posted by vyrstigor (Post 1725285)

My wife is 31 and we have been married six years. The problem is that she wants to have sex many times a day. Yes, she's beautiful, but it's too much! Does somebody has a similar problem? Can you suggest anything?

Originally Posted by vyrstigor (Post 1725285)

My wife is 31 and we have been married six years. The problem is that she wants to have sex many times a day. Yes, she's beautiful, but it's too much! Does somebody has a similar problem? Can you suggest anything?

Originally Posted by vyrstigor (Post 1725285)

My wife is 31 and we have been married six years. The problem is that she wants to have sex many times a day. Yes, she's beautiful, but it's too much! Does somebody has a similar problem? Can you suggest anything?

Originally Posted by mythryl1969 (Post 1723856)

Not to be mean, but...

If you accept being treated a certain way, you communicate that you agree with the treatment. The longer you accept it the more you reinforce that perception until you get to a point where the person giving you that treatment would be legitimately shocked to hear you object.

Please keep in mind that I am not talking about the absolute morality of how you are being treated - for instance, wife abuse is never okay no matter how long a woman 'accepts' it - but it is an undeniable truth that part of what helps perpetuate that cycle is the inability of the victim to break themselves free from the abuse.

Make no mistake: Short of some type of medical development or physical handicap, having your wife refuse sex with you for even a month is a serious presumption on your relationship; when you start talking about multiple months or even years you are absolutely talking about emotional abuse and a rejection of the fundamentals of a true marital relationship. You aren't a husband and wife at that point regardless of whatever reasons that you continue to cling to the titles. Kids, economics, whatever it is or however significant the reason is. Remember that ideally marriage precedes all of those things and establishes the foundation for supporting those things, not the other way around. A physically intimate relationship is absolutely one of the cornerstones of a marriage and it separates 'just friends' from 'lovers', and if two people are not lovers then they have no business being married. If sex wasn't important to marriage, after all, then why the hell would anyone have EVER cared about sex before marriage anyway?

In the end, it is up to you to decide how much abuse you are willing and able to tolerate. Just verbalizing your objections is meaningless if you don't back them up with action because your actions will always speak loudest. PuffyNips story is a perfect example of that principle in action; as long as she thought he was still just talking nothing changed. It was only when he proved that it was more than talk that she was forced to decide.

And yes, she might decide the sex isn't worth it and dump you. But then if that's true, you aren't losing your wife; you aren't even getting dumped. All that is happening then is that your roommate is moving out.

Originally Posted by Barmixer (Post 1726955)

I read this, and as a man I feel so bad for you. I have been married for 45 years to a woman who loves sex. When we were first married, we fucked like rabbits. As time passed, the sex was less frequent, but the quality improved immensely. She learned to try a multitude of things. Nothing was taboo. Try it once, and more if she if she liked it. There were times she asked for anal, and times she did not want it. But when she did, she loved it.

She is multi-orgasmic, and a squirter at times. The first time she squirted, I was down on her, and she was at first embarrassed. When I told her i loved it, there was no stopping her. She loved to watch herself squirt, and loved to see herself get fucked.

She likes porn movies, and is able to cum seeing a cock enter a pussy. I can make her cum just by talking dirty to her. We have been to swingers parties, although we only watched, and she liked to be watched. Once we went to a clothing optional resort in Cancun, and I got to watch guys eat her on the side of the hot tub.

At our age, the sex has dwindled down to a couple of times a month, but it is still good.


Guys, talk to your wives. The quality improved because my wife was afraid she would lose me to someone half my age. That would never have happened, because she was a much better fuck, but I did not need her to know that.

Take her to dinner, and tell her to skip the panties, and wear only thigh high stockings. Grab a feel discretely, and let her know she is special. Encourage her to flash the valet as she gets out of the car, and she will notice the attention she gets when you leave.

Originally Posted by naaktstel (Post 1725315)

would you let her have a lover?