Hope this isn't off topic, but as Norm MacDonald says... "What the H?"

If your wife is in your albums named Suzy, then she's a solid 7 - 7.5 even before the obligatory 2.5 point increase for ladies who willingly pose for pics! I'm not sure what you mean when you say she's not that attractive. She could easily find someone willing to fuck her and even to treat her well at the same time! If you're holding back to push her to be unfaithful, I suspect you'll be surprised by how soon that happens!

Am I missing some posts where you describe this decision?

Not criticizing, but literally just confused by what you're doing! :)

Most of our stories are in my threads CLOSET CLEANING and many other comments here and there so I won't repeat. But our lives are very similar except we'll be married 57 years in October. We've both been doing something right.
Since she was ra-p-ed at 13 1/2 it gave her a different outlook on sex. I was just lucky to get in her pants. But as wild as she was with being an exhibitionist and playful with others I always thought she was fucking other guys when I was working. But I was also encouraging it because I was banging her friends while she watched. Seemed fair if she did have sex with others.
It was a long time before I actually believed no one else was getting it from her. In fact with all the kinky games we've played it wasn't until she began reading OCC that she finally did have group sex several times this spring and summer. She went about it in a big way too! Took 56 years to convince her and already she said she tried it, it was fun, but she's not interested.
Even years ago I started believing no one else was fucking her because she would go into detail about flashing and guys playing with her tits while I was away. It's still difficult trying to explain that I wanted to watch her get gang banged and I did enjoy it when it happened.

My first post here.

I met my wife at age 21 and she admitted just one guy had fucked her before me. She told me she had sucked his cock too but she was a bit naive and didn't expect him to come in her mouth - but he did. She didn't like it. She would suck mine too but would never let me come in her mouth.

Now later in years she won't suck me but I get raging hardons thinking of her naked, sucking that guy off and him fucking her. I wish he would return for a re-match. I'd let him do it and I'd watch and jerk myself off. I'd love to see her naked for him and to see him fuck her.

We it seems like a couple of months after I wrote the post, April 17th to be exact. I found out that back in the early 80's that not only did my wife fuck 3 different black guys, she also got pregnant by 1 of them. I was out of town working for 16 weeks and only came home 1 time a month so I never suspected anything. When I came home to stay she told me she was pregnant but I just assumed it was mine. A month or so later she had a miscarriage and she had never told me she was carrying a black baby. We moved to another town shortly after the miscarriage. The way I found out was by going back to the town to a friends funeral. A black guy I knew came up to me and said he was surprised that Sugar(that was what the black people called my wife) and I were still together. I asked why he said that and he said well I figured after she got knocked up fucking the black coaches on that softball team she was playing on you would have split up. When I asked Phyliss about it she said he was just mad because she didn't fuck him too. Then she told what he said was true.

John

my nasty wife Kayc
 

My wife dosent remember just how meny befor we were maried, she says at least 50 and probly more some were 3 at a time and some wehe just blowjobs in parking lots. we have had at lesat 20 men in the last 15 years, so i ges close to 100. I am glad she likes sex, we do have fun

A common wish, I'd bet!!
 

Ranger 1,

I think many of us would like to be a fly on the wall watching our wives boink some of their old BFs, no?

Ken

Been there!
 

A long time ago, my wife gave me a couple of video cassettes that we found in one of her storage boxes. She told me they were videos of her having sex with one of her ex's, both by themselves and with other partners during their swinging days. It took me years to find a player to accomodate them (digital 8mm) and get them transfered to computer, but I finally did. Now, I get to be that fly on the wall and watch her fuck him (and others) any time I want. I find it hot as hell! (Longer story about it here on OCC somewhere. I wrote about it on one of my first posts when I first joined OCC.)

Never judge a book by its cover...
 

When we first met (many years back) I thought my sexy and petite Asian gal was the "innocent" type and hadn't been with that many guys. I guessed three or four. Well when we finally opened up about our sexual past she remembers 13 partners plus me. Just about all the 13 during her wild college days where she experimented a lot. She said there could be one or two more but she was too drunk to remember a certain party. That blew my numbers away!

OK I'll admit that it excited me to hear some of the stories. I wish I were there!

I've been trying to figure this out… unfortunately never get a consistent number…

First time I asked the number was 15, then a couple of years later I asked and it was "I don't remember"

Recently, she named all her old boyfriends and it came up to 9. we met when she was 23 years old and she lost her virginity at 17. so 15 seems reasonable? no clue, any insight into a woman's psyche greatly appreciated… love hearing about her ex's but she's seems to be holding back

My wife had 4 guys before me. She lost her virginity at age 21 to the guy who became her first husband. 2 others were guys she dated after divorce and 1 was a one night stand. She was 36 when I married her.