Thanks Louise
 

This one got me rock hard.

I say this with affection and support, but... what's to be jealous of? Your wife is sharing herself with another guy, but WITH YOU to share the experience. That's pretty cool, and a big gesture of trust and love. Hopefully if you talk it out with her some more, you'll understand that she's not trying to replace you but instead wants to add to the pleasure you both experience.

Good luck!

I think the jealousy is part of the fun all you have to remember is that it is you she will go home with at the end of the fun. Just look at it a fun after all it's only sex.

The jealousy is part of the fun. Why do people watch horror movies and deliberately scare themselves? Because getting scared can be fun. Same thing with jealousy.

Of course everyone reacts to jealousy differently and some things that are fun for one person won't be fun for another. It was a slowly escalating process before I felt like I could handle someone else fucking my wife up the ass, but getting the text message from her telling me it happened is actually the hottest sexual memory I have, so it's worth it.

I am brand new here and my first post. To my knowledge she fucked 3 guys before me(?), 2 were boyfriends and 1 was a one time fling. She also did another guy twice after we were married, one time I just watched the other time, we both fucked her. That was fun, he was a black guy to.

Just after my college years, I was married for just over 3 years in the late '80s. I made the "mistake" of marrying a gal that was hot and very sexual. Over our three year marriage, she must have screwed at least 20 other dudes that I know of. It bothered me a lot the first 2 years because I was young and insecure, but I definitely knew what to expect by the 3rd year, and there weren't any surprises when she came home full of stink by then.

We had been married about 6 months when she first cheated on me (that I know of). I was at a party and sent one of my casual friends over to my apartment to get some of my CDs. After he didn't come back, I tried to call my wife, but she didn't answer the phone. I wasn't sure what was going on, so I caught a ride to my place...of course, his car was there in the driveway. I peeked through the window and saw him sitting in his underwear on the couch, though I couldn't see my wife. I walked into the apartment, and he hastily dressed and left, saying he was just there drinking my beer and he should go. My wife was in our bed. She denied that she had sex with him, got mad and refused to have sex with me that night, even though I was leaving on a 4 day trip early in the morning. I knew damned well that she screwed him, and she finally admitted to it over the phone while I was out of town. I was enraged and broke up with her right then. After the trip, we both moved our things out of the apartment, and she had some other dude helping her that I had never seen before. She definitely screwed him during our break-up, but she might have been with him even before then.

We were separated over a month, and I screwed several other women myself (including her sister, lol)..but she called me up and insisted that we meet to talk about getting back together. She wound up sucking me off in my car, after saying that she had just gone through a fling stage and I guess that convinced me to give our marriage another try :)

I trusted her over the next couple of years, but looking back, it's obvious that she was having sex with lots of other men, though she denied almost all of it. A few highlights:
-After a party, she drove a couple of dudes home as she was the designated driver. She came back smelling stong of men's cologne, especially on her breasts. I got pretty mad about it, but she denied anything happened. She did screw me that night, but I was really too drunk to notice if she was already used beforehand...she might have been telling a half-truth and just sucked one of them off or took it up the ass.
-She went to work one night, and I noticed her lingerie drawer a bit open. I inspected it and noticed that her sexy undies and fshnets were gone. The next day, they were back in the drawer, I never said anything to her about that.
-One day, i found a pair of her stained undies in the trunk of her car. They were a few days old but still smelled strongly of sex...she must have hid them there but forgot about them. I never mentioned them to her either.
-She went to garage sale to buy a refrigerator, and came back saying that the owner was very forward, promising to give her a good deal after squeezing her tits. She also said he had some porn tapes for sale, and went back to get them on my okay. Looking back, I figure she screwed him several times, though she told me she was just teasing him for good deals.
-She got the brakes fixed on her car, and when I asked her how much it cost, she said it was free. I was kind of catching on to her game by then and not getting too jealous about it. She later admiitted that it was a "cash or trade?" deal.

There were a lot of other things going on too, here and there, but I think I just stopped worrying about it because she always came home afterwards.

The turning point came on day in a store that we were shopping in. She had just gotten off work. In the middle of our shopping, she froze and proclaimed that we needed to hurry home because she started her period...she said it was almost gushing out of her. We got home, and after a trip to our bathroom, she said it wasn't her period after all, but that she was just "very wet." I saw her panties and it was obviously semen that had oozed out of her. At that point, it didn't really bother me...she took a shower and then we had great sex. We had a different kind of relationship in our marriage after that, but that's another story. But until that point, she must have screwed a different guy at least once a month.

OK, another related question...............
 

How many of you guys--or women--have had their spouse done by a good friend, either before you met, while dating or post marriage. And then talked about it with them? (Note--I found out the details of this story much after the fact.)

My situation was probably a bit unusual. I have posted that my future wife and I dated--and had sex--in HS and then her family moved and we saw each other only in the summers for more than three years. Screwed our brains out every summer but then "dated" others at college and pretended to be celibate. Found our later, after marriage, that we both had been doing the "beast with two backs" with a number of other partners.

A couple of months before we finally married in 1967, we were together again. And had a big fight over jealousy--I was mad because she had flirted with some guy at a party. I walked out--but didn't say we were breaking up. I didn't call, nor did she--she was very strong-willed.

After about a week of this, she goes out to the bars with a girl friend on a Friday night. Along comes a good friend of mine (actually ours) who we have double dated with quite a bit. He asks "where is K", she says "we broke up". So he sits down and buys her a drink to "console" her. And another........soon they are slow dancing and he is rubbing his hands all over her.

They ditch her wingman and he gives her a ride home. Comes in for a "drink"--yea we know what that means--and clothes are flying off even before the door is closed. They stumble into her bedroom where they enjoy a fuck-fest of epic proportions. She sucks him, he eats her, 69, then intercourse in every position they know. The sex goes on most of the night. And, he is taking her bareback--very common back in the day--as she was already on the pill. Semen is flying!

They wake up the next morning hung over with that "Oh, what did we do" thought. My buddy excuses himself and my future wife is overcome with shame and embarrassment. She immediately calls me and says "we have to meet--I have something I must tell you".

So I come to her apartment and she confesses the whole story--leaving out only a few details that she thinks might embarrass me. She begs for my forgiveness and understanding and starts to unbuckle my belt. I am shocked, angry, and very, very jealous--but also incredibly aroused. My cock is harder than blue steel so I fuck her face, then her pussy and finally her ass--all to reclaim her. She is very sore everywhere after two such bouts or hard sex in a few hours.

To tired--sore--to fuck any more, we just talk and talk about everything. What happened last night, why it happened, our relationship, etc. Within a day or two we decided to marry--we are now together over 45 years.

My next stop is to see my buddy. He thinks I am really going to be pissed at him, but I'm not. She had told him we had broken up (Question--did she really think that or was she just trying to get my attention?). And we had never subscribed to the rule that a buddy had to avoid a friend's exes forever--that was just simply a waste of too much good pussy in our view. And she was very hot--why wouldn't he want to fuck her??

So we discussed the night at length--both then and many times after. I'm pretty sure he told me everything once he realized I wasn't going come after him.

My wife was very proud of her tight pussy back then--she did her "kegels" religiously and really could squeeze and massage a cock in her. My buddy agreed that she was the first girl to do that to him and that she was exceptional. He also said that although she had let him ejaculate in her mouth, her BJ's were a bit lacking in enthusiasm and just adequate, a point with which I agreed. Though she has since become a world class cock sucker in my view.

He tried at one point to enter her butt but she refused him. I said later "I have you there, I have enjoyed all three of her pleasure ports". He said yes, but that "he had touched parts of her I never would". "How do you know that" I asked. Your wife told me, he replied. So now I have a picture of him an inch deeper in her pussy than I can ever manage--damn!! (she later confirmed she had told him that).

But at the end of the day, we are all fine with what happened--and all are still friends. He later offered me a shot art his wife after he married but we never made that happened.

My wife LeeAnn
 

Since she was a former escort when she was in her early 20's, the guys that boned her are too many to count, but there were a lot of them.

Bud, that's quite a story.....your wife was very frisky
 

Sounds like it was OK for you until it finally got to be too much. But at least you tapped her sister--did you tell her that?

mine (the first one) had never fucked another guy. she had never sucked a dick either because she hated it... I had all the trouble in the world to make me suck !!! :(
after a few years of marriage, she made ​​fucked by another guy, because she learned that I had fucked other women!