My wife and I are heading to our favorite nudist resort in Florida and we enjoy the outdoor showers they have. They are situated near the large pool and very much out in the open. It is a great experience taking a shower outside in front out many onlookers, but it is a bit embarrassing cleaning the private bits. I only wish my wife and I could fool around as we do in our home shower, but I don't wish to be thrown out of the resort. But I can have the fantasy.

Sounds like the setup at Cypress Cove, one of our favorite nudist resorts. Even though we rent a villa with its own shower when we go, it is more fun to use the communal outside showers in the RV area in the morning and of course the ones by the pool during the day.

We are headed to Lake Como, another favorite. Not as much outdoor shower fun, but we can walk around nude on their nature trails.

Our home nudist resort has indoor communal showers near the pool as well. During the summer we have our own outdoor shower, but off-season the showers by the pool are the only ones available since all of the outdoor water lines are shut off.

You guessed right. We will be there in 9 days. Will stay for 10. The showers in the villas are tub showers, much too small. We also go to Sunny Rest in the summer.

Not to mention the bathroom is way in the back of the villa, so no windows for natural lighting or ventilation. We are further north than you, but have been to Sunny Rest as well.

We used to be a one hour+ drive to Sunny Rest, but we moved and now it is a 3 hour + ride north.

Camping weekend
 

My wife and I camped on a rugby club site with the caravan and camping club in North wales. The rugby club allowed the club to use all amenities including showers and toilets. As the camping club official instructed us where to find everything they pointed in the direction of the shower blocks. She told us the door locks are broken so theres a piece of wire on the window ledge to push in as a temporary measure. As usual my wife didn't listen. The steward said use the single shower on the left. This was a small cubicle. My wife went right into the comunal showers. The lock on this door was also damaged and needed a similar piece of wire to lock the door. Un be known to my wife though the communal showers had two entry doors. She stripped off and walked round into the line of showers and begain lathering up. This is where she told me the story from. Full of soap, completely naked, big tits and hairy muff out. She rinced her hair then turned to wash her backside. As she turned back her eyes met an old guy who also took a wrong turn into the showers. It was too late to cover up and she didn't have a clue how long he'd been there. She said he was like a rabbit in the headlights. He panicked, she panicked before he looked her up and down again before he apologised and retreated back the way he came. I howled with laughter as she told me. Even more funny, we had bought bingo tickets for this night so we had to sit beside him all night.

If you’d like to make your fantasy a reality then I’d suggest checking out the two Desire resorts outside of Cancun. These resorts are usually comprised of 50% swingers and 50% nudists - all of whom get along well and respect personal boundaries. But what that means in practice is that these are nudist resorts during the day and then a bit more “lively” at night. The latter could certainly include you and your wife getting handsy in the public shower that faces the hot tub, in the hot tub itself, and on the loungers around the hot tub. Most of the monkey business happens after dark but we saw one couple going at it on a lounger prior to check out. I believe they were checking off a box before they left :)

Beach shower
 

A few years back my other half and I were holidaying in Ibiza. Jane is not shy about going topless generally speaking but tends to want safety in numbers which is why Ibiza is a favourite holiday destination of ours.

On this particular day Jane had been initially reluctant to go topless as when we got to the beach no one else around us was sunbathing topless. As the day wore on a number of ladies near us did go topless and before long Jane had removed her top too.

Her confidence grew to the point of happily going for a swim topless, something I always find more of a turn on than just lying sunbathing. As we were leaving the sea at the end of our last swim before heading home for the day Jane said she wanted to wash all the sand and salt off and headed off up the beach to the fresh water showers at the top of the beach. We joined the queue for the 4 showers and other than one older lady a few people in front of us I noticed that Jane was the only one topless. While we waited a couple behind me asked if I had the time. They must have been well into their 50s if not older and were from somewhere in Northern England based on their accent. I turned to them and told them the time and as I tuned back, Jane turned around (she was standing a yard or two in front of me) and said she couldn’t believe it was already nearly 5pm! It was obvious from the older couple’s reaction that they had not realised that Jane was topless or perhaps that we were together when they asked me the time and were now slightly flustered to be talking to a beautiful young topless woman.

The couple were friendly and chatted with us while we waited for the shower queue to clear. I noticed a coupe of times that the guy was glancing at Jane’s boobs which I couldn’t blame him for doing! Jane told me to go first when a shower became available so I quickly rinsed off and was pretty much done as the next shower became available for Jane. This gave me the chance to step back and watch as Jane rinsed off under the shower wearing only her little bikini bottoms. As the cold water hit her chest her nipples hardened and her boobs were as pert as they could be with her erect nipples pointing straight out.

It was quite the sight and there were a lot of eyes glancing at her, both male and female. The lady from the older couple we had been talking to got one of the showers next to Jane almost immediately. Next to her was a Spanish looking lady about Jane’s age who I noticed had been looking at Jane quite a lot. She suddenly untied her bikini top and pulled it off and rinsed her chest under the shower while wringing her bikini top out under the fresh water. She had quite white boobs so obviously didn’t go topless much and I thought she had probably taken the lead from Jane which had given her the confidence to rinse off properly and get all the sand out from her top. A moment later she put her top back on and left.

The older lady had seen this and was rinsing around her own boobs with her hands such that she was moving her bikini top around a lot and flashing a hint of nipple as she did it. The ladies husband came and stood next to me and as we made small talk his eyes didn’t leave his wife. Jane finished under the shower and walked over to join us, looking absolutely incredible with her nipples as erect as I have ever seen them. The older lady continued to rinse off and Jane said to us “she has loads of sand caught in the underwire of her top. I told her just to take it off but I don’t think she was that keen.”

Just as Jane said that the lady reached behind her back and undid the clasp of her bikini. She used her arm to hold her top in place and then turned around with her back to us to face into the water flow. “She hasn’t gone topless since we were on our honeymoon 30 years ago” the husband said clearly quite surprised by his wife’s actions. With her back to us she continued to use one hand to try and wash the sand out of her biking top while using her other arm to hold it in place across her chest. We couldn’t tell how good a job she was doing of this as she had her back to us but based on the eyes of some people who were on the other side of the showers it was clear there was a degree of flashing going on.

After a moment she turned around and walked out the shower towards us still holding her bikini across her chest. “I’m not sure how well that worked” she said, “I can still feel sand in my top.” “Give it to me” Jane said and put out her hand. The lady looked unsure but her husband said “up to you but just please don’t complain all the way home like yesterday if it isn’t sorted!” With that the lady pulled her bikini top off, handed it to Jane and quickly placed her arm across her chest. She had big boobs and they were quite saggy with pointy nipples that pointed downwards due to the hang in her breasts. Jane took her top and walked back to the showers where she asked if she could quickly rinse it off to a lady who was just going under one of the showers. Seeing Jane talking to another stranger with lots of other eyes on her while she had her tits out was another very sexy moment.

The older lady said “she is great, I love her confidence” and I responded that her confidence was one of my favourite things about her. Jane came back and handed the ladies top back to her. She took it and then removed her other arm from covering her boobs in order to squeeze the water out of her wet top. This meant she properly revealed her boobs to us for the first time and she didn’t seem in a hurry to cover up again. She asked us where we were staying and we chatted for a few more minutes as she made no effort to put her bikini top back on.

After a few minutes we said our goodbyes and Jane and I headed off as we left the older couple while she put her top back on.

Festival showers
 

Around 15 years ago I went to Isle of Wight festival in the UK with a group of about 15 friends. Fantastic few days of music, dancing, drinking and great weather.

The showers at the festival were separated into guys and girls and so they offered no real interest other than it was nice to have a decent shower each day. The cubicles were individual and had doors and there was a large changing area which had been divided down the middle to split the male and female areas.

On the last day my good friend Louise said she was going to go for a shower and at the last moment I decided to join her. On the previous days there had been a long queue so thought I would keep her company for that but when we got to the shower area there was no queue at all! I guess being the last day most people were just waiting to get home.

As well as there being no queue the arrangement in the shower area had changed to. What had been the girls area was now closed and everyone was just sharing the one remaining changing area and block of showers. As we walked in I noticed straight away that while most people were being discreet there were a couple of girls who were openly topless as they got dressed post shower. There was also one guy drying himself without making any attempt to maintain his modesty.

Louise and I didn’t comment on this change in set up and walked over to one of the benches and put our clean clothes and shower stuff down next to each other. I pulled my T-shirt off and my shorts down so that I was just in my boxer shorts and kept chatting to Lou. I was aware that I had never even been in my underwear in front of her before but as we were such good mates I didn’t think being in my pants in front of her was a big deal. Once in just my boxer shorts I started arranging my clean clothes ready for post shower and sorting out my shower gel, toothbrush etc.

Lou removed her top and skirt and was now standing in her white bra and girl boxers. She has great boobs and I couldn’t help but glance at them in her lightweight bra which her nipples were poking against the fabric in. Lou wrapped her towel around her waist and then removed her boxers so I did the same. We then walked to the showers with our towels round our waists and with Lou wearing her bra.

We got into cubicles next to each other and carried on chatting as we showered. I noticed Lou’s bra being hung over the door to her cubicle and couldn’t help but think that she was naked literally 2 metres away from me while we were talking! I decided to lengthen my shower until Lou was also done so that we would head back to the changing area together.

When Lou’s water turned off I wrapped my towel around me and stepped out of my cubicle. A moment later Lou stepped out and had her towel wrapped around her above her boobs so that everything was covered. I noticed that her long hair was dripping wet and wondered if she had another towel to use. With her towel wrapped higher up her body most of her legs were on show and it crossed my mind that she was naked under that short towel as I walked back across the changing area with her to our stuff.

Two hippy looking girls were drying off just next to where our stuff was and while they were not flaunting their nakedness they were just going about drying themselves in a normal way resulting in their naked bodies being visible to the people near to them. I decided to set the tone and said to Lou “I’m not going to try and awkwardly dress myself under my towel while still quite wet so if you are going to be shocked I suggest you turn away!” Lou laughed and responded “Crack on, I’m not perving but I’m not going to hide my face either!”

With that endorsement I went about drying myself. Initially with the towel still wrapped around my waist but then when I got to drying my torso I undid it and exposed my lower half. I was facing towards the benches with our stuff on them and so side on to Lou. I was slightly excited about the situation and so while in no way a semi, I was pleased to note that my cock was looking decent. Lou still had her towel around her but was drying her bum and fanny by rubbing the fabric around and had her back half turned to me. I asked her which bands she wanted to see today and so she turned back towards me to engage and I could see her eyes immediately flick down to my exposed cock. I made no attempt to cover myself and kept drying my hair while continuing to chat. Lou took it in her stride and didn’t seem bothered.

She picked up a pair of knickers and bent down to step into them and then pulled them up while her towel was still wrapped around her. As soon as she had pulled them up she turned away from me and undid her towel and pulled it up to dry the rest of her back and arms. I noticed immediately that she had put on a thong and so I now had a great view of her bum, something I had never seen before.

In an attempt to maintain our dialogue I commented on the fact that there were far more girls than guys in the changing area and jokingly said “makes me feel slightly more self-conscious than I would have done otherwise!” Lou turned her head around to look across the changing area and it was true, there were probably 20 girls and only 4 or 5 guys. Lou turned back towards me and was now holding her towel across her chest. I deliberately made no effort to hide myself and went about my business being as relaxed and natural as possible. I put one foot up on the bench to dry it and then the other all the while remaining naked and with Lou now facing me and chatting away.

After a moment’s hesitation she removed the towel from her boobs and started drying her hair. She wasn’t facing directly towards me but was sort of side on so I could see one of her boobs. I deliberately didn’t turn to face her initially and so just stole quick side glances. Lou then hung her towel over her shoulders and picked up her denim shorts and stepped into them. As she did she said “It’s going to take a few minutes to dry my hair properly so felt like I didn’t need to have my bum on display the whole time!” By now I was standing facing towards Lou but was holding my towel in front of myself so as not to appear overly keen to be naked around her. With her shorts pulled up she was now facing mainly towards me and she lifted the towel back to her hair and therefore fully exposed her boobs to me. Lou’s boobs were very nice - probably a C cup, maybe D and round and full. She had light pink nipples and areola and her nipples were quite erect.

Lou bent forwards and flicked her wet hair down so that she was almost bent double and started vigorously rubbing the towel through her long hair. This made her boobs hang down and swing around as she moved about which was a fantastic view of them! Seeing her boobs in this way and in a public setting was getting me quite excited and I was aware that my cock was getting more blood in it and was basically semi-erect under my towel.

Lou stood back up and held her towel infront of her as she picked up her hairbrush. I decided to stick with the open approach we had adopted and picked up my boxers and dropped my towel to put them on. Lou’s eyes went straight to my now much larger and fuller penis which was not sticking out forwards but was definitely bouncing rather than dangling! I pulled my boxers up and you could clearly make out my penis straining against the fabric. Lou’s eyes had stayed on me while this happened and she now looked away slightly embarrassed that I had noticed her staring. “Thought I had better get some clothes on before that became anymore unmanageable” I said to try and make light of the situation. “Don’t know what you are talking about” she said as she grinned at me.

With that she put down her hairbrush and dropped her towel on to the bench. She was now facing me as I sprayed deodorant under my arms and she asked if she could borrow mine. I handed it to her and she lifted one arm after the other to spray it all the time facing towards me and chatting happily while topless.
Lou reached down and picked up her bra and started putting it on. Once done up she adjusted her boobs in the cups and pulled her T-shirt on.

We finished getting ready and headed back to our campsite and friends. Years on and I still see Lou quite regularly. She is now married with a young child. We have never really discussed the festival shower experience although on one occasion a few years ago she did mention when we were with a group of people that I had seen her boobs before.

Female coworkers watching me shower
 

This happened somewhere I used to work.

A friend the other day asked me, If I remember her taking some women on a work experience into the male changing/shower room on a welcome tour of the place and decided to introduce me to them and them to me while I was showering, there stayed to talk me and she explained to the girls about the the work they will be doing and what involved

all watching me shower before moving on the the next stage.

Nice, thorough account without any annoying embellishments or obviously fantastical sequences. Thank you!

A few of the posts about festivals really chime with my own experiences. I have been to Glastonbury quite a few times, the showers were exactly as a previous poster described. Prior to that they were completely open and mixed, but sadly I missed out on that experience. Must have been incredible.

For me, it was mixed changing rooms, but shower cubicles, and it was very nice and all, but nothing particularly exciting.

But one year...

A few of us were hanging at the campsite, taking a break from the relentless band-hopping. I knew late afternoon and early evening was when the queues at the showers were shortest, so I said I was going to head over there. Got my towel from my tent and off I went. I was picking my way through the guy ropes of other people's tents when a voice behind me called, "Wait!"

I looked round to see a friend of a friend skipping after me. Pretty little thing, slim with long auburn hair. Very smart, very funny, but definitely had a couple of screws loose. We called her The Danger.

It was about a 15-minute walk to the showers, and we chatted about this and that, bands we'd seen, bands we wanted to see, where to find the best falafel, how this shower was going to sort her right out. We had had this flirty thing going on for, who knows, a year, but nothing had ever come of it. She's a flake, she's a headfūck, I already told you she's The Danger. And for once, it's just the two of us.

We get there, and sure enough there isn't much of a queue. Maybe ten minutes. She's bouncing around, excited to give her hair a good wash after three days of sweat and dust (it was a hot, dry year). As we get close, we can see into the space. A long row of quite roomy shower cubicles on the right, changing area on the left. There's a nice, calm atmosphere, people quietly getting clean and enjoying doing so. The early evening light cast a beautiful golden glow on the place. All in all it was a world away from the hustle and bustle of the festival, and I felt like staying as long as I could.

At some point, as she's watching people move between the changing area and the showers, the penny drops for The Danger. "Wait, is this mixed?"
"Yep. Should I have mentioned that? Is it going to be an issue?"
"Nah, fūck it, we've come this far. When in Rome, right?"
"Right. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal."
"I'll ignore you and you can ignore me", she said. Was that a glint in her eye, or wishful thinking on my part?

The people on the door let us through. She went just ahead of me to get changed. We found two spots in the same section, where there were two benches facing each other. She went to one side, I went to the other, and we undressed with our backs to each other.

She must have got ready lightning fast, because by the time I looked up, she was already in the shower. Lucky her - every other cubicle had two or three people waiting in front of it, so I was in for a wait.

Now, the shower doors weren't completely solid, but only a really determined perv could have seen anything worthwhile through them. Instead, I tried to catch the eye of The Danger, who was just about able to see over the top of the door. I stood there, towel around my waist, hands on hips, tapping my foot and rolling my eyes in exaggerated frustration that I was going to have to wait a while. She chuckled, looked down and to the side, and beckoned with her hand, mouthing "come on".

"Huh?"
I walked over towards the door and stood two paces from it.
"What do you mean?"
"I said come on"
"Are you serious?"
"Hurry up before I change my mind"
I took my towel from around my waist, tossed it over the top of the door, and stepped in.

She was standing at 90 degrees to the door, her right heel raised a little to keep things discreet, looking at the partition between this cubicle and the next. Her hair was shaped into a ponytail, falling down over her right shoulder, just about covering her right nipple. She was completely naked, but serene, in control of the situation, whereas I was standing there, shaking, in utter disbelief.

"Right, let's get it out of the way." She turned towards me, locked eyes, put her hands on my shoulders. I do my best to be a gentleman, and she knows it, otherwise I suppose I wouldn't be there. I wouldn't so much as break eye contact without her consent. "Go ahead and look." She looked down, and so did I.

The water from the shower was flowing down her untied hair, dripping from a tiny waterfall at the edge of her small breast, down towards her flat stomach. I followed it as it became channeled by invisible downy hairs, across the tiny curve below her belly button, towards the little patch of reddish-brown between her legs. Unforgettable.

But I couldn't let my gaze dwell too long. Can't be greedy. Just a glimpse. I looked back up and met her eye. She had one eyebrow raised. We both grinned. The grin broke into a laugh. Ice broken. Curiosity satisfied. Let's get clean, shall we?

I'd love to tell you we spent the next half hour in there soaping each other up, but that's not what happened. We just took turns under the shower head, got ourselves good and clean, and giggled a lot, while I struggled to keep it below half mast. A playful hip bump here, a shoulder nudge there, but that's about it.

Conscious of other people waiting, we were done after ten minutes or so. By the time we stepped out we were both feeling a lot less inhibited than when we got in, so we walked back to the changing area uncovered. We put our towels on our spots on the benches and sat down facing each other, drying off in the warm air. It didn't matter who saw us now. We stayed like that for a few minutes, exchanging smirks, shaking our heads at what we'd just done.

We got dressed and headed back in the light of the golden hour, feeling brand new. As we walked along the old railway track, she took hold of my upper arm and leaned in. "Don't tell anybody, OK?"
"I told you, it's only a big deal if you make it a big deal."
"Right. No big deal. Who are we going to watch tonight?"

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PS: The Danger and I never did get it together. That was as good as it got.

I've been to a few nudist resorts with communal showers, and there seems to be two categories of female showerers (is that even a word?). Those that face the wall and those that face out.

My wife will face the wall unless someone strikes a conversation with her; and if that happens she will turn around only briefly. My ex - as well as some women I've seen - will not only face out; but will proceed with lathering up tits, ass and sometimes even pussy while interacting with other people.
Even if it's just "confident practicality" in their eyes, they must be aware of the optics to men of a woman openly running her hands all over her body. Because otherwise it's just "plausible deniability."

I went once to a public sauna in Germany with a female colleague my age. We had not seen each other naked before. It was totally casual, no flirting or anything, we were both in a relationship. There were two showers opposite each other and when we went to take a shower she kept facing me. I did likewise. I guess she enjoyed the view as much as I did. I am pretty fit with visible abs so don't know if that had anything to do with it.

With social nudity, it can be pretty hard to tell.

I was staying at a nudist resort overnight; it was pretty late and my wife had fallen asleep. I was restless so I decided to go hit the hot-tub. There was no one else there.
Then a rather attractive woman showed up, sat on the top ledge of the pool dipping her legs in the water; and we just started casually chatting. As I recall she was a school teacher.
After a while, she then got up, got in the shower by the hot-tub; facing me while continuing our conversation. So there we were, just the two of us; with me looking up at her completely naked in the shower. My thoughts were immediately: "Wait...is she trying to seduce me?" Then she joined me in the hot-tub, sitting in the opposite end, and we just continued our 'very normal" conversation. I was a bit confused by the situation. I left a short while later; and she smiled at me before sprawling out in the hot-tub.

Thinking back on the situation, because it was so late she was probably thinking she'd have the hot-tub to herself. But I was there. As I displayed nothing but "gentlemanly" conduct, maintaining eye contact, she probably assessed me as "trustworthy." So she likely thought nothing of showering in front of me and being seen in "full-frontal" naked glory. There was of course a part of me that would have liked to think she was being "sexy for me"; but that was actually pretty unlikely, as she must have seen me with my wife earlier that day.

Confident nudist women can be hard to read; because they "see things differently" from men. What can appear to be seductive might just be comfort/confidence. The line can be blurry.

Context is everything. I have had so many casual conversations with naked women in the showers of my local sauna. Just chatting about the temperature of the water, or sharing shampoo, or whatever. Totally relaxed, not even in an "act normal" way, just completely matter-of-fact. Like of course we're naked, we're in the shower. If you weren't OK with it you wouldn't have come here. And these women aren't nudists either, they're just comfortable being naked in this context.

Agreed! I enjoy seeing my wife naked in any situation, but the most enjoyable is when she's naked amongst others and just casual about it, like in a communal co-ed shower and she's happily sharing soap, shampoo, etc., while nude. Usually at a resort or at the occasional nude beach that has showers or footwashes.

My wife the exibitionest.
 

This is a repost from some time ago, sorry if you don't want to read it again.

My wife and I used to go to a particular nudist resort where there was a series of shower heads just outside the clubhouse.

This resort was very much not a “family friendly” venue, minors were forbidden, and it catered to long haul truckers with ample parking for several big rigs. It wasn’t required for visitors to disrobe, and many times the clothed outnumbered the naked, especially in the clubhouse.

The seating was arranged so those sitting inside could watch anyone shower and there was always particular interest when a woman did so. There were several not so observable showers located around the resort and most of the time women would use those rather than “put on a show” for the non nudist truckers.

After watching others, both men and women, my wife remarked that the showers were set up purposely for the entertainment of those inside.

One rather hot muggy afternoon, while she and I (both naked) sat having a beer in the clubhouse, she being mischievous and rather turned on by being only one of a couple of naked women in a room of probably 30 clothed truckers, she whispered for me to sit still and watch.

She proceeded to walk naked through the sea of men and outside to the shower heads. The men there took immediate notice and it seemed that every one of them were now looking at my naked wife. She proceeded to adjust the water then stepped into the water stream and wet herself completely. Her hair at that time was well below her waist and the sight of her amble breasts and full but trimmed bush had every man’s attention.

For the next 15 – 20 minutes she slowly lathered, washed and rinsed every part of her body, paying special attention to her tits, pussy, and asshole. I overheard several comments from the men around me as to what her performance was doing to them.

After she finished washing, she slowly dried herself being sure that what part of herself she was drying was the part of her that was best viewed from the clubhouse.

She walked back in to me and smiling, quietly asked if I enjoyed the show and if I thought anyone else had watched her.

Needless to say, we didn’t need to buy any more beer the rest of the afternoon.

(this is just how my wife acts at a nude resort. she is just super casual and doesn't mind if non-nudist are there just to see a naked woman. she laughs about it and knows exactly what she is doing. her philosophy is that she is at a nude resort and she's supposed to be naked and will be looked at so she might as well make the most of it and enjoy the attention. that's why I love to take her places.)

I guess what made this even hotter was that we were not really talking while showering, just looking at each other.

hot
 

I believe she enjoyed it as well. At least I do in the sauna when there are some good looking guys. It is however unfair that while you can see everything, we dont know, how you really look when you are hard.

Communal shower standing
 

I've been to a few over the years and I agree. For me, its all about the mood or vibe of people in the shower.

If I'm in a good mood and the vibe of the place is good, just happy people, holiday mode, no one that looks like an axe murderer, then I'm look around, turn around, face all directions, smile, chat sometimes.

If I'm just there to shower and get out, or someone there doesn't seem right, then I'll face a wall, or corner, shower and get out.

My last time was a great experience. We were at a nudist holiday camp and the shower had a few couples in there, with other people coming and going. It was a morning of a nice day and everyone was happy. Us women were doing all the talking. The men stayed quite and only talked when asked a question. We were talking at one stage about a place in town for good food and deciding what to do for the day. We were also talking about the communal dinner coming up and what to wear. Naked all day, except when going into town or going to a formal communal dinner. It was great fun, a chat chamber. No hang-ups, just people happy being nude and having a shower.

Bad Ragaz
 

I don’t have much experiences with places for nudists, but I have been several times in Bad Ragaz in Switzerland. There are ordinary pools but also saunas where you have to be naked (at least in showers, where you typically remove your towel, otherwise it becomes too wet :D. I must say I have never encountered any disturbingly looking men there. Sure, many of them old and fat but otherwise nice. And there are usually some young around 20 with nice body.
Once, me and my friend (we are both women in late thirties) had few glasses of vine by the pool and then decided to go to sauna (I know it’s not healthy). When we see some young nice looking boys, we have kind of joined them in the showers, give them smiles and looking at their things probably more than usual. I was fantasying, that exposure and close proximity of our naked bodies will make them harder, but I honestly didn’t noticed anything. Hope noone complained about us that day :D

Would you like it if the guys were looking at you and got a full mast erection?

Depends
 

That depends. In public places with strangers? No, that would be disturbing and scary. With colleagues and friends I know they are OK? As long as he was not demanding more, I would be pleased that he finds me attractive. Moreover if he was handsome, I would be happy.

But actually I was rather thinking more about parallel reality, where guys have permanent erection, so nobody can tell if they are aroused at the moment or not. Where I could just see all the time their pride in full shape and not in the silly form even during some casual chat.

Naked wife shares showers with naked men
 

The first time this happened my wife and I were at my brothers house, which was fitted with a sauna, steam room, and jacuzzi bath. After a few drinks my wife and I decided to take advantage of the steam room, and the two of us stripped off before entering. About five minutes later my brother knocked on the door and asked if he could join us - well it would have been rude not too say yes - so he joined us and the tree of us sat there naked for 20 minutes talking amongst ourselves.

He then suggested that we should adjourn to the jacuzzi - so the three of us left the steam room, wrapped ourselves in towels and wandered out to the Jacuzzi, where his wife was already in, naked, and her clothes on a chair nearby. After the Jacuzzi we all showered together in the outdoor shower that was next to the jacuzzi.

It became a regular thing - every other Sunday we'd go across to their's and three of us would use either the steam room or sauna before joining his wife in the Jacuzzi.

I've often thought about this. At nude beaches with wife I completely enjoy the views, but I have zero problem keeping myself erection free. I think if we all walked around with raging erections most women on the beach would be appauled.
If however I was to leave the beach and say went to a private pool and was with wife and a few friends and we were all naked I would 100% get hard immediately. I assume any other men present would be the same. I think it is the environment as much as the naked boobs and pussies that does it.
I also assume once the girls had got over the initial hilarity of it it wouldn't be anything like as shocking as if in public, and they might actually prefer it: I've heard more than one woman say they look better hard.

If you act normally and keep a appropriate distance women women you know will be amused. If you close in on them, start touching your dick or talk about it then you're creating stress.

Naked wife shares showers with naked men - part 2
 

I would guess that the strangest time my wife was exposed to two other men while using my brothers steam room and jacuzzi was when she had been modelling in the afternoon for a body-painter.

The shoot overran, and we were expected at my brothers for a meal, so Anna just slipped her clothes on over her painted body and we headed off to my brothers house. Once she was dressed you couldn't tell she was wearing body paint under her clothes, which was good because there was another couple there Pat and Dave, who we knew fairly well as well.

After the meal Anna and I went through to the steam room, stripped off and entered. We were never sure whether my brother would join us or not, but today he did - bringing with him Dave. So there we were the four of us sitting in the steam room, all naked, except for Anna who was showing off her painted body to us all.

I've attached a picture I took of Anna after we got out of the steam room, before our shower where the streaky paint was all washed off before we joined the other four in the Jacuzzi.

I just remembered one from about 25+ years ago, when I was like 22-ish.

I was visiting a friend who was staying at one of those furnished apartments for a few months, the type where you keep all your stuff in storage but stay at a place month-by-month until you find a place to live or waiting for a house to be built, etc. In his case, he got his first "real" job after college and didn't know where to live permanently yet, so he stayed at the furnished apartment for like four months.

The complex had a pool, and there was a shower around the corner. It was clearly not a gendered shower, just a place to shower before/after going into the pool, and obviously with your swim suit on.

But I remember coming around the corner, and there was a young couple kinda playing hanky-panky, but they stopped as soon as they saw my friend and me. They were wearing swim suits.

My friend and I took a shower with our swim suits. The young couple were super embarrassed that they almost got caught, so they left soon after.

Then a family of a mom, dad, and two little kids came around the corner, and the mom stripped totally naked and showered after using the pool.

Another family came around the corner, saw the nude mom, and immediately turned around and just left.

I remembered my friend and I hurrying out of there, not understanding what the mom was thinking. I also remember that she was "the type you DON'T want to see naked," but that isn't why we ran.

Maybe the mom was European and new to the area and just thought that we were all the weird ones, not her, but I never heard her speak, so I have no idea. Or she was one of those exhibitionists who uses motherhood as an excuse to get away with things, which I have learned is super common over the years. I will never know!