That's a lovely story, very exciting. I hope you try the suggestion about wearing a very short skirt, maybe like a tennis skirt. I'd love to hear about that if and when you do it, what reactions you got. There's nothing stupid about the way you feel, I think it's very exciting and you should give full rein to your fantasies. All the best of luck to you.

The moment of truth!!
 

I'm going to town now. Wish me luck :) I'll get back to you as soon as I can

My first adventure, kinda
 

So, it was an exciting, tense scene yesterday at H&M. Maren was extremley nervous, but guess what: she's very proud and somewhat embarrassed by her own achivements :O I'm gonna take you through it slowly and tell it excactly how it happened, cause I think it's pretty exciting to explain how I felt througout. I must warn you though, it doesn't get incredibly exhibionistic. I think I did good, especially for my first time, but a lot of people might see this as somewhat innocent. I'm mentioning this, so no one gets dissappointed after reading through this epic wall of text.


SATURDAY, FIRST TRY:
Not unexpectedly, H&M was filled with christmas shoppers yesterday. When I first got there I took quite a while to build up the courage, using ages browsing in the isles. I was seriously about to drop it entirely. Then I thought to myself, "you know what Maren, you can at least try these clothes on, before you give up." I also remembered a comment someone made, about wearing something "risky" in the area right outside the changing cubicles, which I thought sounded appealing. So I found some white tops that I knew would get somewhat see-through. When I finally went to the cubicals, my belly was dancing around my torso in exitement. There were a fair amount of people in the changing area and guys too, so of course I chickened out and closed the curtain shot. I'm also glad there wasn't a line or anything, then I would probably never had done any of it. Maybe I should describe the changing-room area. It's kind of a wide hallway, with cubicals on the left side and an opening into the rest of the store at the middle. I took a cubical in the hallway, so I realized pretty early on that going out wearing something suggestive was the easier way to get seen. I have to save the "changing with curtain opening"-scenario 'till another time.

So, in the booth. The first top was too transparent for me to dare removing my black bra, but I found it exhilarating enough that it was showing through (cause that's how tame my life is xD). I stepped outside "too look at the bigger mirror on the wall". It wasn't so bad, I was dressed after all. Had a feeling that everyone was watching me and that they all could read the red on my face, but it was probably just my imagination. I went back in, removed the top and then I removed my bra, thinking, now I have to push myself further. At this point I felt a little easier about it. Maybe I didn't imagine I'd actually go through with anything else.

I tried on one of the other tops. From my perspective, it looked pretty obvious that I didn't have anything underneath. I could definitly see the pointyness of my nipples, but then again I was looking for it. So, I stepped out and immediately got very light headed. Then I got terrifyied. When I saw myself in the outside mirror I could absolutley see the brown through the white, if you know what I mean... and the shape of my nipples were pretty obvious too... And then, I catched a woman staring at me. She tried to be subtle and pretend it was only casual, but I knew she saw. I went back inside as fast as possible without running xD I really felt I was being judged and my face was red and felt like I was burning up inside. This was enough for me, and I had to get back in my clothes and get out of there.

I went and bougth a cappuccino next door and locked myself in a bathroom stall just to clear my head from all the people outside. To my suprice I got over it really quickly though, even the woman. I felt my heart beating, but it was out of excitement as much as terror. I felt like I had just been running. I almost immediately started fetishising the expierience, even though I knew there wasn't really much of an episode to anyone but me. And then, I had to please myself. This is not a lie I tell to make my story more interessting, but really, there was no way out of this. There was something animalistic about it. I had to just put my cappucino down, pull down my jeans and do it. I'm including it cause I know some of you want to hear it, and also it definitly turns me on to mention this very private thing about myself. The excitement was like an out of body expierience. I know it's cheesy to say this, but I felt so naughty having myself on display like that. And I still do :)


SATURDAY, SECOND TRY:
The feeling was overwealming, I went back into the store for round 2, still with butterflies, but definitly more determened. I picked out new tops and this time I went for the gold medal and completley overestimated my new found courage. When I got to the cubicals there were less people though, and no men at all. I think this really boosted my confidence. I also got one of the cubicals close to the middle, where the hallway opens up to the rest of the store. First I hiked on a short skirt that looked just lovely but really wasn't my size, and then I tried on a couple of tops that were similar to the one I mentioned earlier, none more promiscuous at least. But then, I came to the most scary of them all. I tried it on, a low cut top that was meant for wearing something underneath, definitly transparent. A top that I think someone would be wanting attention if they were to wear it alone. I can try describing it, as I didn't find any photos on H&Ms website. It was a translucent dark grey with white flowers on it, maybe I should buy it as a christmas gift to myself :) Would have looked cool with a black top under it.

I felt light headed again as I finally built up the courage and walked out of the cubicle, and I kept fubling with my phone to try and draw attention away from my chest. The middle cubicals were further away from the mirrors, so the length of the walk felt frightening . I also felt so naked in the thin fabric and the short skirt (yes I was wearing panties, but still), like: this is something someone else would wear, not me. Then I looked in the mirror, and... the top was SO see-through in this light... OMG! :eek::eek: I may be overreacting, but I felt like I could have been topless. My breast were basicly on display and I covered them up so quicly that I almost dropped my phone to the floor. I went back inside almost immediately, my heart pounding. I didn't even dare to look around me, but I don't think there were any curious spectators this time. I looked myself deep in the eyes in the mirror and tried smiling and laughing to myself to relax, but it didn't quite work. Once again my face was red as a strawberry and it felt like I had been running a mini marathon. I knew I had to get out again. I got dressed, left the tops and skirt in the cubicle and got home as fast as I could. The air was cold, but I felt warm neverthereless.


Wish I had a good way of ending the story. May I suggest, to be continued? :) I'm very pleased with myself and I might be doing this again. I think you can all guess what I had to do when I got home. And afterwards I ate an entire bag of chocolates, which I felt I deserved, but left me ful :) Some might find this text to be tame (which I understand), but I think I got a lot further then I'd ever expected. Thank you all for listening and helping me with motivation and thanks to Juliet for the wonderful suggestion (even though I did it a little differently) :) Can't wait to hear what you think about this :D

I think it is a great story. You pushed yourself past your normal boundaries. You were excited and embarrassed, which is what you wanted to achieve. Good job.

Story is great. Next time you should try to post link to the cloths you try on.

Very good first steps. You came up with an action plan, and you saw it through. Now you can sit back and plan out your next steps. See-through in public is a great first step.

Congratulations!

hell yeah that little story was hot as hell...too bad more people didn't see the show

I really enjoyed reading this! I think small steps like this are a good way to get started! I'm excited for your next adventure!

wow... very exciting story... and so well written you take us right inside all your deepest thoughts, fears, emotions and turn-ons.... great job on all fronts... cant wait to hear of your next adventure!!!!

Nice
 

I agree with everyone else... great story! Thank you for sharing. I am looking forward to hearing about the rest of your upcoming adventures. I am sure they’ll be very exciting 😁

Fabulous first 2 adventures! Congratulations! :) Glad you liked the idea of trying on sheer or semi sheer tops as a way to start. Great progress on that 2nd top - it sounds very sexy. That woman may have really liked what she was seeing and wished she could wear something like that too! ;)

That grey top sounds wonderful and you should definitely get it or something similar! You could wear it out at first with a layer underneath, and try wearing it at home without a 2nd layer to get more comfortable with it. Then maybe wear it out for an evening of fun and remove the 2nd layer at some point after a beverage or 2. My wife has a similar outfit in black: a black lace top with an all black shell top meant to be worn under it. Each is sheer by itself but together is mostly translucent. Have gotten her to remove the shell top when at a restaurant and later in the evening at a bar for a nightcap. You should try on similar tops again soon! And short skirts! And take some photos to document your progress for your own memories. You can share them here or not, all depending on what you want.

Maybe another time not store related you could wear a sheer lace camisol under a sheer or near sheer top [white under white] when out and about and unbutton the top layer as much as you can. Or sheer tops with a sweater / jumper / jacket. Had a GF years ago who did that: an off white sheer lace camisol under a shirt partially unbuttoned. As the evening went on she would unbutton more buttons and she could control how much was showing by leaning forward or straightening her back. Loved it! :D

Looking forward to your next adventure and progress!

Sounds like you are talking about something a little like the pic below.

A great idea. Since Maren started off in that "direction", it seems like a great next step.

Perhaps taking a little evening stroll, and unzipping the jacket when there's no one around. The advantage is that you can choose how far you unzip; and a passer-by would not necessarily be able to make out that the top is see-through.
When you reach an isolated area you can unzip completely and feel topless...without actually being topless.

Or you could go back to the department store and try on some shirt/jackets with the see-through top already on.

So many possibilities!

Thanks! <3
 

Thank you all for the great feedback :) Couldn't have done it without you all! There used to be a time not so long ago where I only felt wierd and silly for my fetish, but this is definitly helping me see it in a better light. I'm glad I'm not the only one who feel the way I do :)

I think Omega and Nudony's suggestions are very interessting, and it sounds like a good evolution to my first expierience. When I've tried it out more times and gotten more comfortable I might branch out that way :)

Hello Maren,

do you already know the video "Trying On Clothes At The Vintage Market" (vimeo.com) from Lucy Muse?

Cheers,

Fred

That reminds me of an en event a number of years ago. My wife and I were shopping for Halloween costumes at a shop in the East Village. We found a sexy outfit, but weren't sure it would fit her. The shop had no changing rooms, so I suggested we just find a corner and she should try it on. We found a doorway to the basement and she quickly stripped and started to put it on. A clerk walked up and said, "you can't do that here." She just said, "how else am I going to know it fits?" (there were no returns at that store) And put the thing on (it fit). Then just put her clothes back on with the clerk just standing there gob smacked.

DR

:)
 

Thanks Fred. I enjoyed it :D

Love hearing about you challenging yourself! Does it get a little easier every time? Hope you keep this up. What a sweet adrenaline rush it must be for you! Maybe a selfie in the dressing room for memories.

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I have only done it once, so I don't know yet. Guess it will be a little easier when I get more used to it :) I might take a selfie for my own memories ;P I just don't know if I would be comfortable sharing it online. I'm not now

Hello Maren1

Just caught this thread, and I know exactly what you mean. To reverse it as the onlooker, while if a woman flashed her tits at me in public it's very nice, to me it's much more of a turn on if the exposure is accidental, if I'm seeing something I shouldn't, and that the woman would blush and be horrified if she finds out she is exposing some flesh.

Walking around with your top deliberately undone with nothing on underneath is "blatant" exhibitionism, and potentially against the law, whereas if your top was to "accidentally" open or fall down then you're the "victim" and any men who notice will be seeing something they think they shouldn't...

I guess the knack is to be subtle so that to the onlooker it looks accidental, e.g. undressing in a hotel room with a slight crack in the curtains, enough for onlookers to see you, but small enough to look like an accident. Or covering yourself with a towel when removing a wet swimming costume, but accidentally letting it slip so your breasts or bottom are momentarily exposed on a public beach...

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I have many "plans" on ways to do such things in a way that looks genuine. It is definitely most believable with bikinis though, because they realistically could get undone.

New Year's Resolution??
 

Maren - no updates of late? Hope you are planning new adventures... Maybe you need a new deadline - like before the end of the year?!?! ;)

And maybe a New Year's resolution to have at least 1 new adventure each month in 2018!! :)

1st & 2nd attempts
 

I think I share the opinions of my fellow readers Maren, you really described your 'toe in the water' attempts very well indeed. There was no exaggeration and reading your stories I felt like I was almost there with you. I can understand why you might think your adventure might be considered tame but it was far from it. It is all relative and some are more brazen than you but the fact that you are experimenting with your 'fetish' is very exciting for those of us following your progress. I'm sure the hair was standing up on the back of your neck with the rush you felt and I am not surprised you need to release the stress by... ahem... taking matters into your own hands when you got home.

I am not alone in saying I look forward to the next instalment and there is no rush... it's bloody cold!

The Well?
 

Maren, do you live near Oslo?
In that case you could drop by the spa 'The Well'. Its encouraging nudity, but most people hide behind shawls and blankets, so you can easily create as many 'accidental nudity' scenes you like, going all the way to walzing around stark naked (which is allowed, but barely anyone do - only dutch and german tourists :).

If you'd like to really push yourself you could go for the moroccan (i think) Rhassoul 'ritual' - you're suddenly req'ed to strip naked i a mixed group and put clay on your entire body.

see thru
 

We were on vacation and we stopped in a quaint local bar it was dark mostly men drinking and playing pool.
Wife thought it was a great place to have some fun!!!! She wore a sheer top no bra short skirt and stockings and we returned to the bar a few days later. When we arrived she kept her jacket zipped up but we were sitting at a table with stools. There was about 8 to 10 guys in the bar drinking watching sports on tv but we caught them looking at our table. After a few drinks wife unzipped her coat halfway crossing her legs to the point her stocking tops were exposed.
Where we were sitting only one table had a direct view of my wife and that table had two older men maybe 60's appeared to be local. By now she had her sights on teasing these guys :) unzipping her coat where she was totally exposed. She also started opening her legs but not sure with the lighting whether they could see she had no panties.
The guys definitely enjoyed the show smiling and even waved at her. It was a fun night and wife was super horny after :)

Here are some pics before we went out

GREAT photos!
 

and a very fun story- those guys will talk about your wife's daring display for years....

Any way you could post larger photos of your wife- even the same ones? I and many others would love a better look!

Very hot! Good for her, I bet she had a blast! Please tell me she had the guts to completely remove her jacket at some point of the evening

Showed me a photo
 

I was recently the recipient of something that I am convinced was “accidentally on purpose.”

One of my wife’s best friends was over at our house and we were all talking and having a few drinks. At some point my wife’s friend handed me her phone to show me a picture. I looked at the pic and then hit the back button and discovered that the very last photo she had taken, from just that day, was her standing completely naked after getting out of the shower. She had taken the picture in her bathroom mirror and there was absolutely nothing hidden.

The three of us continued chatting and I tried to not visibly react to what I was seeing as I looked back and forth between her sitting next to me and the naked photo on her phone. I debated trying to send it to myself, but I figured if I started doing things on her phone it would attract attention.

I probably looked at the picture for at least a minute, and she didn’t seem in a hurry to get her phone back. Eventually I closed the photos app and handed it back to her.

She had to know right? She handed me her phone, open to the photos app, and the naked photo was right next to the one she was showing me. And it was taken that same day.

I am 100% sure she wasn’t hitting on me, but I’m pretty sure it wasn’t an accident...

I don't think she was expecting you to hit the back button. IF I passed somebody my phone to show them a photo, I don't expect them to start looking at other photos I have without my consent. Why did you hit the back button, by the way? I'm curious...

And depending on the app and how you exited the app, it's possible when she re-opens said app, that photo will appear!

Showed me a photo...
 

Maybe - maybe not... On one hand, a lot of people do not really think about [or even remember] what photo is next to [before or after] a photo they are showing on their phone. Especially if they are talking to another person at the same time they are showing you the phone / photo.

On the other hand, unless that photo was already open on the app, she probably had to see the thumbnail pics to be able to select the one she showed you...

Maybe she is really flighty and did not see the next pic, being so focused on finding the right one... or maybe she is a closet exhibitionist... :)

Next time you see her you can ask to see whatever pic again and then start scrolling to "find other similar ones" and see how she reacts... :D

I think that some may well do it accidentally, click on photo and it does move to previous one. I have done it and said sorry , but the girl was my friends sister and it was a nude selfie like the one described. She was ok as there was no way that I could copy or share the photo, so she had complete control. Even when I said she was a natural red head , she just laughed called me a knobhead as we had known one another since young and i knew she was always ginger lol.

Not related to the original thread but recent comments reminded of a similar sharing photo event. A couple years ago at a wedding reception for the daughter of a friend people were taking many photos of the goings on - the bride / groom had provided disposable cameras on each table for people to capture various momments. Of course most everybody was also using their own phones. Towards the end of the evening [and possibly after consuming a few adult beverages] the mid-late 20's woman seated next to me asked what pics I had of the evening so I gave her my phone open to the photos - I had not looked at any of the pics yet. She started scrolling through them commenting on various pics. Unintentionally I had caught a few revealing shots, DB or side boob as women were leaning over tables talking to people seated, etc. Good fun was had as she exclaimed OMG a couple times... After a couple minutes I suddenly remembered there were more than a few pics on my phone of the Mrs wearing less than what might be called appropriate wedding attire... Having promised the Mrs I would never share any pics, I quickly recovered my phone using the excuse I wanted to take more pics. In hindsight, should have let the woman continue scrolling. :D

Cut Off Jeans
 

We had broken up about six months before. But we still hooked up occasionally, maybe for the memory and maybe for sheer cheap thrill of a hookup. Either way, there was something there still drawing us to fuck.

I was over visiting her dogs and she was hanging out. There was no sexual subtext like in other occasions, just sitting and chatting. But she was adding a sexual element to it from what she was wearing. She took an old pair of jeans and made them into cutoffs. Very short cutoffs. I hadn't really paid attention as I had seen her naked all the time. But there was this weird moment when I was sitting drinking coffee.

She came over to me and started complaining about bug bites on her legs. In the process of showing me, she puts one leg up on the chair next to me. As she did, her pussy was completely exposed. And I'm not talking about a lip. Her pussy was completely naked. Her cutoffs were cut very short and didn't really have a crotch to them any more. She had a habit of not wearing panties and today was just such a day. For about thirty seconds she is showing me the bug bites on her legs while exposing her whole pussy a few feet from my face.

It was so explicit. I could see her inner lips open a bit. She flashed me a bunch of times but I still don't know if it was intentional. My guess is any woman who is showing her vagina knows it.

I believe
 

...your guess is correct. Sounds like a missed opportunity.

There was a time where i had my wife wear a black tank top with no bra. We were just cleaning up and that was her attire for house chores. When cleaning i had a couple items that needed to be return at a friends house thinking we were just going to drop it off and leave. We end up chatting a bit because he was cleaning with his wife also. In the sun, it is sort of transparent but when we had step in there garage in the shadows, she basically could of been topless. You can literally see my wife nipples of size, shape, and color.

It was not intentially is probably why i love it so much even thoough she wears outfit like that on date nights.

I can't count the times I've gone shopping on a big sale day where the department store is really busy, when I find the ladies dressing rooms mostly full, or even if they are not, I go to the men's section and leave the door locked but not quite latched. I strip naked and get some tight top all tangled up in my hair and arms, I end up with no way to cover myself.
I then stumble and fake fall with one high heel on right out of the door on the floor. I've gotten pretty good at making the door bounce closed with all my clothes locked in the dressing room.
The guys are always so helpful and a clerk with a key is not far away.
There has never been any mention of arrest as I think all involved are just trying to rescue me.

I have always loved when women change into new outfits. One time while out shopping a nice looking girl walked out in a see through top looking for her friend and didnt even care she was exposed. She stood out in hallway of the dressing room and checked out her outfit. Then walked back into room and put her clothes back on and left.

My wife was pretty flat chested when we met and never wore or had any need for a bra. Tank tops or just about any shirt she wore gave everyone a clear view of her nipples when she set or bent over. Over the years just about all of our guy friends had to see her boobs multiples times. Fast forward after three kids. Now her boobs were bigger but still small. She now always wore a bra although the ones with the molded cups. These made her look busty in clothes but were always too big for her breasts. The top of the hard cups would bow out from her chest when she set in a chair and really give everyone a clear view of her whole boob. Once again any current guy friends soon became acquainted with her now larger boobs. After having the kids she no longer felt comfortable in a bikini and now wore a one piece. She would buy the size needed to cover her butt cheeks and this resulted in the top of the suit being too big. Now everyone got a clear display of her breasts when she set down at the beach or the pool. Many times while sitting near the water guys would walk past her and find excuse to stop and talk, all the time looking down the top of her gapping swimsuit at her bare breast. She acted oblivious to what they were doing. Several times this lasted 15 to 20 minutes with her breasts on display the whole time. One time she mentioned how nice one of the guys was and I told her he should be, he was looking down her top at your boobs the whole time. Of course she said he couldn't see anything.

Did she know all these times and just wanted to show off her breasts accidently or was she really unaware?

Of course she knew
 

Your wife knew exactly what she was doing. It goes back to what is called plausible deniability around here. Your wife can expose herself, yet deny it if anyone says anything.

The older I get the more I realize just how many women do this.

Your probably right. She either doesn't care or just loves to show off...

new shorts
 

I just got these new board shorts for my wife...as I was hoping, they have the potential to be quite revealing in certain positions :-) We are headed to the beach for vacation in a couple of weeks and I had been looking for something fun for her to wear. When I came across these I thought they might do the trick. They just came in a few days ago, and when she tried them on, she asked if she needed to wear underwear with them. Of course I said no :-) Although they would look good out shopping with one of her hot pink thongs underneath, but no need for it at the pool or beach, since they are made for surfing. We started fooling around and she started telling me how they would be perfect for flashing her kitty at the beach (of course that's why I bought them!) She said that if she was laying out and spread her legs a little, that both of her smooth lips would easily show through the hem of the shorts...exactly as I had hoped :-) I'll surely have some nice pics and hopefully a fun story when we get back :-)