Just the thought
 

Your original question was about "the thought of...", so I'll address that.

She's had lots of cocks in her before me, and I do think about it a lot. What turns me on the most is the thought of her public fucks. I witnessed some of the outdoor ones and I cherish those memories, just like she does. The visuals of certain hard cocks pistoning in and out of her as she smiles and laughs stays with you for a long time. The real turn on is when her smile explodes into an orgasm, the guy pulls out and she lets her legs flop open.

She always allowed watchers but never photos. The images in my mind are better than any photograph.

I enjoy fantasising, but she's actually done nearly everything I can fantasise. Just wish I'd been there for the early stuff.

I agree with you
 

I agree. Even though she hasn't shared her body outside our marriage, I think maybe I'd be OK with her doing so as long as she didn't become emotionally attached. I don't think I could fuck a woman without getting emotionally attached, which I really wouldn't want to deal with, but she's always told me she can compartmentalise recreational sex from emotional commitment.

Our sharing days are over but looking back the thing that blew my mind the most was the time when my wife rejoined me in our bedroom having just been creampied by my best friend in our spare bedroom. Her sheer glee and joy at having succeeded in seducing him to completion sent me wild.

So even though I'd always been squeamish about immediately entering her c*nt whilst still full of another man's cum, the urge to reclaim her was utterly irrestisble. Her still-hot slipperiness created an explosive sensation as I entered her and brought on the swiftest and most intense orgasm I have ever experienced.

Me
I like her to be happy and enjoy OUR swing lifestyle.. I like making her happy as she does me.....

As far as knowing her w/ another only?....::::::>

--I like seeing her w/ her high heel waving around in the air missionary.

--I like seeing her perform w/ other guys, sucking/fucking/etc.

--I like seeing her taking several guys @ once, ,, or seeing her used .

--I like sticking my cock in her sloppy seconds pussy knowing someone elses big cock was there.

--I like when I stick my cock in her sloppy seconds pussy that she cuck-talks me about it all.

We are swingers from day one...

-----To add to this her prespective-- She likes the same seeing me w/ other women.. example: she will get behind me and push my ass into whoever Im fucking missionary.... or face sit them looking at me to see if I'm enjoying myself....

I too wanted to know why seeing my wife fuck and cummed in by another man, so did some research. Without a long explanation, I came to a reasonable conclusion.

If a man's woman fucks another man, it triggers an instinct on all men that no matter how angry or jealous he gets, it makes him ultimately hard for her used c*nt. Why? Its an instinct to prevent her from bearing another man's child. Making him hard lets him fuck her and replacing the other mans sperm in her c*nt. How? Because the last to fuck a woman is the one most likely to impregnate her, found be empirical results. Secondly, as shown by experiment with realistic dildos, the human penis is the most efficient shape to remove existing semen from a vagina.

Nothing else can make a man so aroused as seeing his own woman being fucked by another man and recognizing her pleasure of fucking another man. And what man doesn't want to slide his cock into her freshly fucked and creampied c*nt?

This extends to the desire to hearing minutest details of her fucks with other men before you. It only serves to increase your lust for her more than if she never had another man.

GF sharing
 

I have added comments to threads before regarding the couple of years with an ex gf and our sharing experiences.

For me ( and it maybe a bit cuckoldish) it was the look of absolute sexual intensity she displayed, passionately kissing and touching other lads and helping their cocks slide inside. Joint orgasms and enjoying their cum. It was as if she was in a different place and a different person. So erotic to me
We had two rules regarding sharing eachother with others...1) always in same room ( with some slight variances) and 2) Not older guys and where possible, actually just a bit younger ( so as not to have a direct conflict/comparison with me and our relationship....)

It worked for me so many times seeing Amy have so much fun ...and me too

Totally agree
 

EXACTLY!

Totally agree.. well explained

I like the idea behind this thread and it's actually something I'd almost got round to doing myself but didn't really know where to put it. I'm also very much with the OP in terms of my feelings about such an act.

I guess I've been quite fortunate in that I've actually been able to bring this to life with two women in the past 35 years and also that even now, there are still three ladies in my life who this applies to, one of those being one of the previously-mentioned two!

The first time happened when I was in my middle 20's - probably 25 or 26 in reality - and was living with a woman 11 years older than me. Carole was a gorgeous little thing! Lots of dark hair, small, VERY cute and often taken by others as being her 14-year-old daughter's older sister!

She was also delightfully submissive and this is what came to bear....

We'd gone to visit a guy who had been my best friend at school and with hindsight, I'm now thinking I must have wanted something to happen because I had her pack a very specific item of 'clothing' before we left.

Some time after we arrived, T and I got talking and it emerged that life hadn't been particularly kind of late and he hadn't had a girlfriend in quite some time.

The Dom in me saw an opportunity and decided that Carole should fuck him - or - perhaps more specifically, that I would give her to him. So I did!

One evening when everything felt right, I told her that I wanted her to have sex with Tony and to change into something appropriate. While she did so, I told him my 'fiendish' plan and to some surprise, he went with it!!

She came back in just a see-through, purple sarong - nothing else, and sat down next to T and promptly started to fondle his cock through his shorts. They just basically got it on while I watched. he stripped her (didn't take much doing!) she sucked his cock, he gave her a good licking then fucked her quite hard on a pile of cushions spread around the floor.

When it all 'became too much' I suggested we both shot all over her and we did just that - almost simultaneously we both pumped loads over her face and tits, leaving her a sticky, spunky mess on the floor. No awkwardness or embarrassment afterwards but the three of us never got to do it again.

On another occasion, I came home just after she'd had her hair done (at home) and the guy who did it was also a friend of ours and someone I knew she'd have no problem fancying. I'd often teased her that one day Jimmy and I were going to give her a really good seeing-to and decide that today was that day!

He was about to leave when I said "There's something I want to show you" at which I peeled her sweater off leaving her in just her bra and jeans. Jimmy was standing the other side of her and so I undid her bra and as I did so, we took a nipple each and sucked deeply.

Carole's knees let go and I caught her as she headed for the floor. I undid her jeans and she stepped out of them and her panties and as we fondled her, she dropped to her knees, unzipped us both and started to suck both our cocks alternately before breaking away and making a run for the stairs.

I caught her at the top, pushed past and sat down, forcing her head down on my cock. Jimmy came up and immediately slipped into her from behind and started to fuck her.

"I hope that's where I think it is?" I asked him, knowing how much he loved anal and also that his partner couldn't do it after a birthing injury. He just smiled and carried on fucking.

We took her to bed and spent an hour doing everything two men can do to one naked woman and once again, I loved giving her away!

Jimmy and I also fucked my current partner on a few occasions but that was in quite a different (more balanced?) context as she hasn't got a submissive bone in her body! I'd still love to see her fucked by others though, even now she's 65.

I'd love to see her stretched and fucked deep and hard by a really thick cock. I'd love to see her taking a really big guy in her ass (she still loves anal sex!) and I'd love to watch several suitably appreciative guys spunking over her big tits and her sexy, bare feet. I guess this is the eternal voyeur in me!!!

With Amelia, it's quite a different context. I know she'd had a VERY limited sex life before she and I became 'acquainted' and I know how much she's enjoyed exploring and discovering since we've been an item. One thing I never quite got over was one night we spent together where every time she was awake (and there were a few!) she wanted sex!.

Despite being 17 years younger (she was 59 at the time, now 76) I found it hard to keep up and ever since, I've wanted to put her in a hotel room with 3 - 5 fit, young (30-ish) preferably black guys who would enjoy a much older white woman and who between them could ensure an never-ending supply of large, hard cock and hot cum and maybe that way we could find out just how big her appetite really is?

I would have loved to have arranged something like this for either her 70th or 75th birthday and it probably won't happen now but I still love the idea.

We we fucking one night after work, half in, half out of the back of my 4 x 4 and I was sure I could hear someone watching us even though it was quite dark. I mentioned this to her and her abrupt reply was "So??!!" and then to push her ass back against me to carry on fucking!

It was at that point that I developed the idea of having her 'positioned' somewhere so that any number of guys could simply wander up behind her and fuck her anonymously. She's not allowed to argue or refuse, they can fuck her in any hole but they are required to cum only in her mouth and I will decide when she's had enough.

I also like the thought of her doing the sex club or theatre sl*t thing where guys line up to fuck her and cum in or on her. I just want to see her taking lots of cock and in particular, tasting other men's cum. Amelia LOVES cum so in my simplified logic, surely more is better.....??!!

Again, I guess it's a combination of the voyeur and the Dom in me plus my lifelong thing for older women. If someone had offered me a woman 30 years older with big tits, huge nipples and an insatiable appetite for cock and cum - at any point in my life - I'd have thought I'd died so now that I have my own, I'd love to bestow that on a younger guy who hasn't had that luck yet!

And there's teh added delight of creating my own - quite specialised - porn...........!!!

Similar
 

She looks amazing, very sexy. I can definitely see why he’d be making sure he had as much sex as possible with her. Did she say how much she enjoyed the sex with him? I’m guessing that like many younger girls she will have been keen to impress / please an older guy?[/QUOTE]

Just joined OCC and have spent ages just reading through so many hot stories.

My wife has pretty much been open about her early years and sex, which always turns me on hearing the details.
She was 14 when she lost virginity to a guy over 3 times her age,
although she had given many BJs before.

In reality, because she spent most of her teen years with much older guys, friends of her family etc, she took it for granted about what they expected of her so it was a little 'like lie back and think of England'. They undoubtedly loved the availability of a pretty , slim, nice boob size teen girl being to hand whenever.

Yes, from 14-20 she was used sexually ( not in a forced/rough way if that makes sense) by many older guys who she knew and eventually settled with a guy about 30+. Again , from what she says , although she was expected to perform for him and his gambling friends, she saw it as what she had to do not what she necessarily wanted. She admits that sometimes she did enjoy the orgasms that ensued

It was only after she realised she deserved her own life that she packed up and left , drove 200+ miles away and started again for herself.

There is lots more I can say and tell about how what she says is both telling but a total turn on to us both when intimate, but I am conscious this is my first attempt at a reply so don't want to go on too long

Welcome to OCC and good job on your first post! Just be careful about quoting young ages.
Again, Great story! Thanks! :D

Just the thought of it
 

Well, I don't know exactly what turned me on so much when she told me about being with other men; I just know that it did. Here's what happened: As soon as I foolishly broke off our relationship she was pursued by numerous guys, and most of them got to put their penises in her, and she told me about each one with a late night or next day phone call. Also while we were apart she told me of new nude adventures where she stripped off to be the only one naked at a few parties. She said she was enjoying a spree of 'recreational' sex and exhibitionism. Just the thought of her putting herself out their like that, exposing herself and fucking freely, drove me crazy to the point that I ached to get her back. She described the sexy clothing she wore on dates, and how easily those clothes came off. If I happened to bump into her while she was with a date, she would jokingly introduce him as the guy she'd be fucking later that night, but I knew it wasn't a joke. And once I did happen to be at a party where she was, and she did a complete strip-tease in front of everyone. That time, I think seeing her naked tw*t and realising how many new cocks she was entertaining with it just drove me over the top. When we finally got back together, I was happy to learn that she hadn't formed emotional connections to any of the blokes she'd fucked, said the fucking and the stripping off was just for excitement. What drew me back to her was the thought of all that activity that I mostly wasn't a part of.

Fantasy becoming Reality?
 

I am thoroughly enjoying reading so many tales and experiences mostly from like minded guys about their wives and turn ons. So I thought I would add more detail around me and my wife and the times we have been ultra turned on.
I think we both realised soon after we married how hearing about Pat's past lovers and sex experiences was a big turn on, especially for me. The more details she gave the more we would get out of each session, Sometimes I'd just lie back and stroke as she told me intimate facts about her past, she would join in and other times we would be shagging and both reaching complete orgasms as we talked and imagined.
There seems and endless supply of Pat's stories, especially from the years she worked abroad, before I met her, which inspires me. So in the main, I have heard many tales in detail about Pat and past encounters….somehow in a moment of heightened stroking I suggested how I would have enjoyed being a fly on the wall in one of the (many) hotel bedrooms she had frequented when in Spain working. She picked up on this and our conversation developed along the lines of me being an observer while she fucked a lad. Not in a cuckold way, I’m not into humiliation or that sort of dome/sub stuff but purely from an erotic hedonistic motive. This was several months ago and has been revisited a few times to help our intimacy.
However, recently things have moved into areas I didn't really consider, but am equally as turned on by. Pat mentioned the work we need to do in our garden ( there is a large unattended area left after some building work). She suggested she ask her friend Linda if her son could come over during his college Easter holidays and give us a hand and earn a bit of cash in the process. Ben is 18 now and attractive from the little I have noticed of him.
I had no objection to her idea and made some joke about her maybe liking having a younger boy for company. Her reply surprised but massively intrigued me. ‘ Well, yes, and it could be fun as long as you didn’t mind he has a bigger cock than you!’ ‘WHAT?’, I responded… and yes it appears she has not only seen his cock but also used it!. She tentatively explained how it had happened last summer when she went with Linda, Ben and his gf to Linda’s small holiday cottage in Cornwall. I wasn’t annoyed that she was admitting being disloyal but found my cock growing harder as she explained more. I will leave that story for maybe another time and thread, but happy to chat with anyone who wants to know more please.
But we now have the potential situation where a fantasy of me watching Pat shag another male will actually happen….in a few weeks. I cannot help but be excited and as I know Pat and I are solid in our emotional feelings I realise she and I enjoy sex for sex’s sake pure and simple. Ben isn’t a competitor, more an aide to increase and explore our sexual breadth.
Look for my post in a few weeks time, I hope!

my ex having other guys without my knowing about it
 

My perspective on being turned on by my ex-wife having been fucked is a bit different from many of the others in this thread. If someone had asked me when we got married about the danger of some other guy fucking my wife, I would have responded that was about the last thing I could imagine happening to me. She had insisted upon telling me when we met that although she had a long-time boyfriend in college, they never had sex. I had never asked her about this, and in fact I thought it rather odd that someone could have gotten out of college without having sex. Certainly being made into a cuckold would not have been something I could imagine even happening, much less liking. But as it turned out things didn’t go the way I expected. I got cucked pretty quickly, and then cucked by a number of guys over the ten years we were together. In all these occasions what these guys were doing with my ex was entirely behind my back. Sure there were suspicions, by I was naïve and very good at denial. My self-assurance came to a crashing end when we were splitting up, and she called me up one day to tell me what she claimed she should have revealed long ago: that some teenage sailor she met in a café in Paris had fucked her. Shortly thereafter I discovered all over the Net graphic nude photos of her taken by that college boyfriend. I had to face reality at that point. The details of the multiple times I got cucked by these guys I have pieced back together from the various passing hints, or taunts my ex gave me over the years. They are too lengthy to go into here, but for those interested, I have posted them as Messages on my profile page (now pushed back to page 3). There are also albums where I have posted those photos from college, as well as another set of nude photos done without my knowing until after it was done while we were together (and yes, another occasion of my getting cucked). I have posted here an example from each album. Facing up to the embarrassment of figuring out how many times I got cucked was a real challenge, I admit. But now thinking about the details of each of these guys sliding his hard-on into my ex, and the apparent pleasure she took from each I find a terrific turn-on. I don’t know if I was wrong about liking being cucked, so much as now, having had to face the reality of it, taking the pleasure I can in knowing about it.

Too bad you split up?

Amelia
 

Like many who have responded to this thread, I have zero interest in the cuck thing. For me, it's partly about widening her experience and party about me enjoying watching this wickedly sexy woman!!

Amelia has ALWAYS been able to 'out-fuck' me. Although 17 years older and so now 78, she 'can go for miles' as the song says....!

I have lots of enduring fantasies about her but two elements which persist are of her being 'given' to a room full of younger (30-ish) fit, hung black guys and being left with them until there isn't a cock left hard enough to fuck her again.

Black because that's something I'd love to see. Younger because they'd get harder than I ever could nowadays and a room full because Amelia LOVES cum so she gets the creampie to end them all (and she adores the feeling of a huge amount of cum inside her) and also I want to watch her tasting LOTS of other men's cum!

This way, perhaps we'd finally find out just how many times she can cum before deciding that's enough, she can take more, bigger and harder cocks than she's ever imagined, be pumped so full of cum that it pours out of her (which of course she will then be required to eat!) and where guys need to cum before they can get inside her, they can unload into her mouth and all over her face and tits.

All holes freely available, no condoms (it's idealised, of course!), full use of her sexy, tits and HUGE nipples - all resulting in one well-fucked, sticky, spunky mess. Lots of photos to enjoy later and one absolutely shagged-out, sexy senior!!

She was got good!
 

We had a friend that nailed her with his wife and I looking on! She was pounding on him while both were nude, and she was straddling his lap and facing him. She was screaming with each pound on his dick. She was like a wild woman! She was leaning back and letting him kiss and massage her tits while she was pounding him. She was hollering, "Oh, God! Oh, God!" the entire time. Never have I seen her enjoy wild sex so much. It got me horny as hell, but I was somewhat jealous that she never gets as turned on when fucking me. It makes me wonder, if she loved it that much, how many times as she experienced the same from other guys without me knowing and watching it. I should at least get the pleasure of watching her go wild while fucking other guys. So, if she swings, just let me know when and where, and I will be there with camera taking video and playing it back pretty often.

Ever since I was a frustrated teenager lusting after anything wearing a bra, I have been curious about the women around me. But, unlike those on the internet, they are almost completely inaccessible sexually.

My wife is the same to all the other men in her life. Since she was a teenager men have tried it on with her, and generally failed. If other men are like me, all those who interact with her will have mentally undressed her, and fucked her in their imaginations.

She has a high profile professional job where high personal standards are seen as essential. She’s exemplary in her role. No-one would guess there are nude pictures of her on the internet or that if the situation was right she’d might meet another guy just to be fucked by him.

When I met her, the chase and the seduction was a thrill. Obviously I can’t repeat that for myself. But encouraging her to flirt with another guy, to meet him, to let him undress her and enjoy her is everything I imagine about me enjoying another woman like her. Getting past her barriers to get her to open her legs for another man is the hottest thing that I imagine these days. Fortunately she enjoys that too, even if for her it’s mostly fantasy.

unsplitting?
 

A fair question. Since I wasn’t presented with the undeniable evidence that I was getting cuckolded until we had already split (her giving me the account of being fucked by a teenage sailor in Paris – see my profile page for this), our splitting had to do with a host of other things than my being cuckolded. So the question would be whether, if we were still together and I found out/admitted to the cuckings I was getting, would I appreciate aiding and watching her getting fucked by some stud. A friend I related my experiences to suggested that since I get such a big turn-on now thinking about them having her, I would have loved that. I don’t know. My being cucked behind my back seems to have been a matter of naivete and self-denial. I didn’t actually play any part in the cuckings I was getting. Actually participating beforehand seems a bit different. So I honestly don’t know. Seeing a video now recorded by one of those guys when he cucked me would be great, but I think that is part of the turn-on it is now in knowing all about it.

The fantasy turning into reality
 

I dreamt of my wife fucking another guy and 6 weeks ago that dream turned into reality, and it lived up to the expectation and beyond. I was not sure what to expect but when his cock slid in for the first time it was so horny, but not as horny as the noises of pleasure she made and the one thing that really made it for me was when she came and lucky enough she will cum multiple times, so what makes it for me is her pleasure I wanted it to be the best fuck she had ever had. The picture is just me with her the light is low, unfortunately she is actually quite shy.

The turn on
 

The whole cuckolding thing is not something that can work for me. I believe that a relation/marriage is all about equality. Cuckolding is not.
I’m not very well endowed, about 5,5 inch, and unfortunately I don’t have much stamina. So when we have seks. It’s often the slow love making. And while my wife finds that very satisfying, at times she just want to get fucked long, hard and preferably by someone who’s over 7 inch.
The first time she brought up that our seks life was “lacking” that part. We quickly decided to try to get another man into our sex life and we’d setup some ground rules. She would pick the men. I have to agree. And lastly I’m present. That is mandatory and not negociable.

The first time turned out a bit different than we first imagined because it didn’t became a threesome but more like a hotel pick-up. (described here). But luckily that first time was truly satisfying for both of us. Since then there where many other men. Sometimes I joined in and it became a threesome. Sometimes not. And than I’ll just watched and enjoyed the show.

I love the looks on her face when she orgasms. It’s great to see a guy climaxing and shooting his semen into my wife. And I truly enjoy seeing the semen dripping out of her pussy.
That’s the big turn on for me. It’s the pleasure that my wife gets when she rides that cock and the way she’s getting fucked hard. For me it’s real-life porn.

We’ve moved to another part of the country at the end of 2022. Before that we had a 3 “regulars” who’d she could call when she got in the mood for some banging. We’ve tried it with some men from around here, but unfortunately none of them suitable to become a regular. But hupefully in time there will be one or more men to enjoy for her.