Several of my wife's sexual fantasies really emphasize the 'fantasy' part. As in physically impossible:

1) Mind control: most of her favorite porn involves some form or another of mind control, the ultimate form of submission, doubly so because the subject can be made to love what they are doing. Needless to say, unless someone knows someone at some secret lab, I don't think this one is doable. :p

2) Tentacle porn: She loves that staple of Japanese animation. Again, lose of control, "I shouldn't like this, but it feels so good."

But there are some others that we're trying to explore.

3) Having sex or masturbating in room with one-way mirrors. People can see her but she can't see them. Similarly, we've talked about using a blindfold in a similar situation. It is why she loves having sex in front of an open window where people might see us from a distance. She's always excited and scared of being caught.

4) The ultimate fantasy has to be a performance at a swingers club, involving her putting on a show for me on the dance floor and ends with me fucking her in front of club, as she cums loudly in front of everyone like the dirty, dirty girl she is :D

1) fucking two guys at the same time (done) - next time she wants to have two cocks in her pussy at the same time and have us both give her a facial

2) watch me as I fuck another girl (done)

3) an all girl threesome

4) a full swap with the possibility of being in separate rooms

Some ideas to make it happen
 

Try roleplaying this one: mix up her favorite cocktail (but double strength) and pour her a shot. Tell her it's a 'magic potion' and that after she drinks it she will have to do what you say - she has no option but to do it because the 'drug' will remove her self control. If she refuses or freezes on any instruction then she has to take another shot because 'the mind control drug' must be wearing off, etc. Obviously she has to play along, but by giving her 'the drug' you give her permission to act like she is not responsible for what she does. You could also amp things up by commanding her to say "I love..." to whatever you make her do.
Failing that, if she can't get her head around roleplaying then ask her if she would let you roofie her. That will really remove her self control. Make sure she agrees on camera (or in writing) while sober that she wants to be roofied.

Play some of the anime porn on a big screen and make her watch it naked, and bound, right in front of the screen. Get some dildos and vibrators and start working on her as the Octopus does the same on screen. When you're ready, lube up and slide all over her (and penetrate her in any and all holes you can find).

You could probably manage both of these at a sex club. If the club doesn't have one way mirrors try either blindfolding her, or hanging some see thru material in front of her. She would be lit up and seen by everyone, and they would be shadowy figures in the darkness.

Good luck - your wife sounds great!
(Mine won't even admit to any fantasies, let alone make them happen)

Anyone else have a wife in denial?
 

My wife won't even admit to having any fantasies, let alone make them happen. The worst part is that I know she reads a lot of dirty stories on her Kindle and can spend hours on the Literotica website on her iPad.

I actually confronted her about it but she denied she was interested in the genres she reads so much of (forced submission, milk, BBC, 1nce$t - she ignores all the other ones) and claims she just reads them to fill the time. Absolute BS of course but what can you do? She both denies she is aroused by them, and then also says they're just fantasy stuff anyway and she wouldn't want to do it in real life.

Clearly gangbanging her like I was six well hung black strangers is not something I can do, but she won't even let me tie her up or spank her (as happens in her stories). I've asked her what her fantasies are, and offered to try to make them happen, but she just deflects... every time. It irks me now, especially when I see so many other people (men and women) on this site being open about what they want and enjoying themselves.

So... anyone else have a wife in denial?

My wife often fantasizes while I eat her. The other day ( we like matinees ), she really got into a new fantasy. After a mind blowing orgasm, she told me she had a fantasy that one weekend, before we were married, her parents went away, leaving her home alone. She said we remained naked all weekend, and fucked in nearly every spot in her house, except her parents bedroom.

One part was how she crawled under the table to suck my cock, while I was eating lunch. Another was bending her over the sink and fucking her as she did the dishes, staring out the window. All told, she said we fucked 27 times and she could hardly walk the next day in school.

The part that got her off wast telling her girlfriends (all virgins) how good it wasc and what they were missing.

Could it be how you're approaching it? My wife has a super low sex drive and rarely explores her own fantasies. But by being patient and more subtle in my approach with her we can occasionally have some pretty satisfying encounters. I took it as a challenge to figure out what "works" for her as opposed to why she couldn't be as expressive as the women we read about here (or others from my past).

One of her early responses to why she's reluctant to explore fantasies and more adventurous sex play is she's afraid it will spiral out of control. I suspect there are other more subliminal fears and possibly repressed memories of abuse. It's a delicate situation and very frustrating for me, as my drive and sense of adventure is pretty high.

One thing is for sure, the perception of pressure or other negativity is the same as throwing ice water on things. It's all about trust. And figuring out how to genuinely communicate. The stuff she's reading is the deep end of the pool, which she might not ever really want to swim in. Figure out how she wants to get her feet wet in the shallow end.

Sorry about the unsolicited advice, but you've got some potential there!

My wife is very similar. She won't admit to fantasies any more. She got more involved in Church several years ago, and now seems to think Jesus is in the bedroom with us. It's a touchy subject. I've told her she needs to leave him out of the bedroom, but she denies that she does it. Before all thsi she would at lest admit that she has thought about two cocks. Not anymore. Jesus ruined our sex life.

Yes, great topic
 

Previous boyfriends!!!

Very very very nice ... Would love to see more

Good advice, but...
 

...in my case I've followed it already.

We've been married 20+ years (which in itself is part of the problem - how do you maintain the variety/novelty?) and I've spent a good amount of time re-living 'Groundhog Day'. Each time I see what works and what doesn't - and then I try a little something new. Things are getting better now that we have reverted to 'scheduled sex' (something a couples counsellor suggested a few years back) which removes the spontaneity but at least gets her in the saddle twice a week...:D I think she's been reminded again that she does enjoy a good ride!

As I have posted before, my wife loves to fantasize. Recently she has been vocal during sex, expressing what she likes. Sh has taken to sucking on my fingers, simulating sucking another cock, which she knows is my wish. She sucks hard, telling me he is going to cum, and asks me where he should blow his load. She knows this puts me over the edge, and she times it so she cums at the same time as I do.

The last time she did this she added a little twist. It seems she wanted another woman involved. She fantasized that I was fucking her doggy style and the woman crawled between my legs so she could lick my balls as I pounded her. She had her lick my cock with each stroke, and eat her pussy as well. When I came, my wife took my cock in her mouth and sucked me dry, asking me how I liked the other woman sucking me.

I just wish this would happen, but don't ever expect it.

The closest we ever came to this was at a lifestyle party at a hotel in Charlotte, NC. I was on the floor, getting sucked by a guy's wife, when my wife went down on the husband. He could not get hard, so nothing much else happened. We had a rule that said no fucking others, but I often kid her that she would have sat on it, but she denies it. She claims she wanted to get it hard for his wife, because she could not do it herself. Knowing my wife, I think she would have felt the need to fuck him since she got it hard. Guess I'll never know!

Like some others here my wife won't admit to having any sexual fantasies and won't come up with any new ideas either. I have to introduce things and hope she's OK with them. (I covered this in the 'What have you got your wife to do' thread), and mainly involves nude beaches , outdoor sexual activity, wearing stockings or going braless out shopping etc.

The thing that baffles me is that some things she seems to get into and enjoy so I figure she must have some ideas going on in her head but just wont share them. I even wondered if she actually enjoyed the act of being coerced into doing things but I don't want to push her to much. In spite of her getting quite adventurous at times the one thing she doesn't like doing is actually talking about sex.
The one thing that seems to get her going is being photographed and recently she let me take a sequence whilst she masturbated and orgasmed. She does seem to come alive in front of a camera but that's not always practical depending on where we are.

So I have to resort to mind reading. Just in the course of thinking up something new and hoping she'll go along with it.

My wife had an amazing orgasm tonight. I asked her what she was thinking about, and she said she was talking to the neighbor mom earlier today and the lady admitted she hadn't had sex with her husband in over a month and she was fed up with it. My wife was fantasizing that I walked into the neighbor's house, lifting up her nightgown and taking her on the kitchen counter.

I didn't mind the fantasy, either!

Hot
 

That's very sexy

Georgina's fantasies
 

Georgina doesn't profess to have any fantasies at all, but when she settles her huge c*nt lips on my mouth and I ask her what she wants to hear there are generally two overriding topics.

1. The Farm

I pick her up from her office on a Friday afternoon and make her strip in the car, throwing her clothes over the back seats.

Then i tell her that is to going to be a sex slave for the weekend. She gasps, but doesn't say she won't do it.

This is while she has the soles of her feet on the dashboard and her fingers frantically frigging her wet c*nt. I tell her she isn't allowed to cum.

We arrive at a remote farm where I send her out of the car naked. She is greeted at the farmhouse door by a barrel chested man who takes her into the kitchen, lays her on the cold tiled floor and fucks her.

His wife comes in, she doesn't have any knickers on, Georgina can see her hairy slit up her short skirt as sits on her face so she can be licked, as she dumps the spunk of the yard dogs into my wife's mouth as she tells Georgina that she is going to be fucked all weekend.

She is fucked by the farmer, his wife and all the farmhands and all the yard dogs, as well as a stallion in the barn. She rarely lasts that long before she is coming in my mouth - demanding to be fucked hard.

2. The club

She has joined this club in central London. it is close enough to where we live that she can get a bus there and get back later before i get home. The rules of the club are that all members have to be naked from when they enter the club. Once inside there are no sexual limitations and everything anyone wants to do is acceptable. Just thinking about going to the club and being fucked rigid turns her on so much she is constantly wet. Her knickers would have been soaked, but as she didn't have any knickers it was just her thighs that were soaked.

Georgina had already decided that, for the journey to the club, the best thing was to just wear a raincoat over her naked body. On one of the bus journeys she goes upstairs and the missing button on the back of her coat shows her naked c*nt to the guy climbing the stairs behind her.

She is already hot thinking about what she is going to do at the club that she allows the guy to spread her thighs and stroke her c*nt with his fingers before he lifts her up and drops her onto his rigid cock.

He lifts her up and down on his cock until he fills her c*nt. She gets off the bus and walks to the club with his spunk running down her thighs.

The cloakroom attendant can see the spunk running down her thighs but doesn't say anything. Georgina hands in her raincoat and walks into the club.

She is horny as hell and looks through the peep holes until she sees two black guys with huge cocks. One is fucking this little blonde woman while the other sits on a sofa stroking his enormous cock. Georgina enters the room and is invited to suck the reclining guys cock.

She sees the other black guy spunk inside the young woman as the hunk fed his huge cock into her c*nt and started to fuck slowly.

Georgina looks up and sees the woman standing above her. she has her skirt lifted and sinks down to place her hot c*nt on Georgina's mouth. The spunk immediately starts to drip out and Georgina licks it and she licks the woman's clit. The woman cums in Georgina's mouth. Georgina is turned over and is fucked by the huge black cock.

The other huge black cock soon appears at her mouth and she sucks it greedily. Black cock in her c*nt delivers a huge amount of spunk into her c*nt as she gasps with orgasms as she tries to deal with the big black cock in her mouth.

The cock in her vagina withdraws and Georgina immediately feels his spunk running down her thighs as she works hard at making the other big cock cum in her mouth.

Suddenly she feels a raspy tongue on her c*nt lips. A dog. It jumps up on her and rams a huge cock into her wet c*nt. He fucks her and cums inside her, leaving his knot in her for long enough for the next horny woman to come into the room and lie down in front of her to have her c*nt licked.

As Georgina walked back to the bus stop the spunk was still running down her thighs into her shoes. She had a huge smile on her face as she got on the bus and walked up the stairs, hoping for another follower. maybe next time?

Sex on the beach
 

That's a "thing" for my GF. Sex on the beach with an audience.

Last time we were on the beach was in St Martin. She tried to coax me into sex while we were strolling on the beach one evening. She was wearing a small dress with no underwear; I was wearing shorts. Suddenly she turns to me and lifts up her dress. Then she just yanks down my shorts and grabs my package. Holding my penis, she just says: "Let's do it; right now!!"

She had talked about sex in public on the beach before; but I just thought it was a meaningless joke. I didn't think she actually had it in her. I started going for it; but then I took a look around. There were people walking the beach. And I chickened out. We fooled around and jerked each other for a bit; but I didn't go all the way. She was a bit disappointed.

But she hasn't given up. We are going back to St Martin next year, and she has stated that she really wants to have sex in public this time around. No excuses. Who am I to deny her fantasy? So we made a deal. This time we're going to spend the night at Club O. And we're going to stay completely naked. When the opportunity arises, we can head for the beach and I can give her the proper pounding she's been asking for.

And hopefully we won't get kicked out. I don't think she'd even care if that happened.

Very hot
 

Such a hot fantasy especially being your wife's relative amd your fucking her with her help! Very hot hope you make it come true ;)

My wife won't even entertain the idea of fantasies...,

Niceeee
 

Has she said she would get down and lick her cousin's little pussy? Spreading he lips wide and exposing her clit licking it in circles and sucking on it bring her cousin to orgasm...

Wow!!!!
 

That would be so incredibly hot and fun. I hope you get a chance to play this out. Could be so much fun

I thought the same thing about my wife until seven years ago when my wife was REALLY into sex and she suddenly said, "Promise me you would fuck my sister if you got the chance." It was, well, extremely shocking to say the least, but man that opened up a world of everything.

Then she told me that when she was 19, she had sex with her then-boyfriend in front of his best friend and she was pissed he didn't join. And the rest is history. The flood gates were open then.

I am sure your wife has fantasies but doesn't dare share them for whatever reasons...you just have to get them out. :) In a kind, loving way, of course!

Awesome
 

Wow love this thread it's so exciting to read all the stories and fantasy. That's so hot your wife wants you to fuck her sister!! Sweet hope you get a chance to maybe she would like to watch you doing it...

Wife dreams
 

My wife shocked me (and gave a raging hardon) this morning, when she said she had erotic dream. She was in military service and she was the only woman there. When I asked for details couple times, she said "It was brutal, forced, not just sex." ... it ended there as the morning routine kicked in, but it sure got my head spinning with images.
Now my wife is very conservative with strict catholic upbringing, whenever anything other than straight sex (swinging or bondage,but even blowjob) is mentioned, even jokingly, she shuts it down. So her confession was a big shock. I would love her to open her mind at least as a fantasy goes, for mutual pleasure. I'm more than certain, it is in her, blocked by social conditioning.
Anyone had some experience how to encourage a woman not to feel bad about erotic fantasies?

My wife has shared very vivid fantasy life with me over the years. If they are at all possible I try to fulfill them for her. I probably hit 75%. One was particularly out of character for her but I had also had the fantasy so I put it together for her one night.

She told me she had long had the fantasy to be tied up, dominated, used and spanked by a very dominant guy where she was helpless and was used to satisfy him completely. This was a few years before the 50 Shades thing came out.

It took a while but I found a guy on a swinger site who was a dom and looking for subs. He travelled for business so it took me several months before we were able to get our schedules to meet. During that time we exchanged lab tests showing all three of us to be completely disease free and safe. I told her what I had set up and she was excited and scared all at the same time. We drove to the city he lived and met him at a mall.

After meeting she was up for the adventure and we followed him to his house. He showed us around and then took us to his basement where he had a dungeon built and equipped with all sorts of toys and devices. My wife was very intrigued and after a glass of wine she let him place her into a stock device that left her ass and pussy fully open to his view and fully accessible to him. he teased her from head to toe bringing her to the brink of a full climax but each time stopped before allowing her to get off. I watched and was mesmerized at his mix of pleasure and pain and her responses.

he said he wanted her to stay, to be his slave for the weekend. He had many verified certs online and we decided to go with it. I got a hotel locally and left that Friday night with my wife still restrained to a bondage bed with her ass a bright crimson and still begging for sexual release. We agreed on some boundaries and I was to pick her back up on Sunday at 4PM. She had her cell phone and a safe word and could stop things at anytime. My stomach was in knots all weekend wondering what was happening and wondering if I had made the right decision to leave her.

I went back Sunday as scheduled and she was bound to a device that had her ass up in the air. I could see red marks left on her body and she was moaning in pleasure with a large dildo from the device lodged up inside her pussy but unable to move to give herself any pleasure. The room smelled of sex and I could see he had cum both inside her and on her several times. He told me that he had withheld release from her and wanted me to be present when she finally was allowed to orgasm.

I watched and listened as my wife begged this guy to fuck her ass and then he pushed his cock inside her. She cried out asking for permission to cum but he told her no and finally blew his load inside her with her thanking him for his sperm. He then told her she could orgasm and get off with me and she begged me to fuck her. I was already rock hard and pulled my pants down around my knees and pushed inside her used ass with her literally exploding in an intense, shaking climax like I had never seen. It did not take me long to blow my own load. Afterward we stood and talked as my wife remained spread and on display with cum leaking from her still full pussy from around the dildo and from her gaping ass.

She showered and we left around 7 that evening. She was so excited and also exhausted. She said it was the most exhilarating thing in the world to totally give up power and control. We never went back but we have played with some BDSM play over the years since.

She sounds like a carbon copy of my wife! This was a fantasy we "dirty talked" of on a regular basis while we were fucking. She stepped it up a bit when we discussed the possibility of actual women we both knew. She is the one who finally got a girl to fulfill her (my?) fantasy. Great time!

Mine either.

Mine dreams of living the "eyes wide shut" experience of a classy orgy in a luxurious place.

I've known for a while now that my fiancée likes the "rough stuff" and fantasizes about being dominated. But I wasn't really into it so I avoided it.

But...our sex life had been getting kind of boring. We had a conversation about it and the "rough stuff" came up. She felt I had neglected her need for rough sex and ignored her masochistic tendencies. So I decided to give it a shot and indulge her in her fantasies. Boring sex sucks.

We had done some "abuse-play" before, so I was familiar with the concept. She just wanted to take it further and make it a "casual" thing. Because I'm a fairly strong guy I had to train myself to apply just the right amount of pressure and choking so she wouldn't pass out on me. One wrong move and some "real" pain could happen. It's really about self-control. So we practiced a few times.

Well the results have been spectacular. I get to skip the whole "foreplay" routine: forcefully pushing her on the bed, or over the couch face first, and pulling down her panties gets her wet immediately. After that, a throat grab and choking as I penetrate her hard. She cums almost right away. Flip her over, bend her knees to her face, climb on top of her and choke her while I'm on top of her pounding. She cums again. By the time I cum all over her she has already came three of four times.

I've come to accept her masochistic fantasies. She is more willing to experiment if she is being dominated. We've started looking at bondage stuff...we'll see where it goes from there. Butt she WAS looking at butt plugs!

I guess the moral of my story is to keep an open mind when it comes to your partner's fantasies. I'm not really a sadist; but if a little abuse leads to more interesting stuff: I can sure as hell pretend to be one!

I think that knowing what our wives and girlfriends like and giving it to them is like Valentine's Day. If I know she likes red roses, a mushy card and a dinner she can dress up for, then I should do that if it makes her more receptive to me.

My wife's
 

Is for me to expire and she gets all my life insurance.

My Woman
 

So my girl is a nurse and says she has to change catheters, help clean guys up, give enemas, at the them, etc. She said she has had some good looking guys with huge cocks that start to get hard when she touches them to clean or whatever she needs to do. She said some of the guys make like they need something and when she moves the sheet their cocks are super hard. She loves cocks and wants so much to stroke them, suck them, and ride them but is afraid of getting caught and fired then loose her license. She wants to fuc% one of her patients, she said she reads their charts and know who's clean or not so she would totally let him cum in her. She admitted hat she would lean over the patient pretending to grab something and let her breast press against him and sometimes depending where his hands were brush her pussy against it at the side of the bed. She said she got so wet one time her scrubs next to her pu$$y were wet and the patient made a comment and asked her for her number, she met him outside the hospital and they fuc%ed that day. She also said that she wants to be strapped on the gyro table and have patients, Doctors, and co workers take turn depositing their cum in her pussy while she is blindfolded so she can't see who's fuc%ing her.

Wife's Fantasy
 

I guess my wife's fantasy is really twisted compared to the stories that I've read about other wives. I've lived out a few of my wife's fantasy's for her & most were fairly tame. Having sex in the woods in the middle of the day & having me walk back to the truck naked & drive home that way. To her calling me on the cellphone & telling me to strip as soon as I walk in the back door, only to find out her 2 sisters are sitting in the living room when I walk in. I think those were the warm ups for the biggest fantasy she had planned that I didn't think she had in her. One night she handcuffed me to the bed & said her all time fantasy was to be in total control of a helpless man & she can do whatever she wanted. She said men like to do that to women & she wanted to find out what its like to be in total control. I was thinking hell this could be fun, me & her in a little bit of foreplay, then walks in her girlfriend that I'm not to crazy about. The wife came up by my head & told me you can fight it or enjoy it, its up to you & handed her GF a pair of scissors. I told my wife you gotta be kidding, not her anybody but her & she started snipping away, PJ bottoms in pieces, shirt cut in half, then snip snip, naked. Couldn't believe it, the wife just let a woman strip me while she watched & its a woman I don't even get along with. I figured what the hell its her fantasy no big deal, she let her friend strip me, see me naked. Then her friend starts stroking me & I thought oh no this ain't happening. Then her GF comes up with this bright idea, lets shave him, they like us bald lets see how he likes it. The wife is all over that & goes & gets the shaving stuff & before long clean as a whistle. Then her GF brakes out the camera takes her a couple pics. Then her GF starts a stroking again & I'm thinking oh no I can't let her do this to me, not her. The wife is just smiling saying how long can you hold out. I said really your gonna let her do this? Then she said I can have her get naked? I had to let it go, her GF laughed & says it's been fun & says I gotta go, really that's all you wanted to do? Now the wife gets naked & decides a 69 is in order & she was as wet as I've ever seen her. I would have to say she enjoyed every bit of her fantasy, she definitely has some good fantasy's.

She works in Henderson at St Rose

My wife, 52 years old, has shared a couple with me. One is to lick pussy and have her pussy licked by another woman. The other is for me to share her with another man, preferably with us in a MFM threeway. So far just fun to talk about during sex.

Wouldnt know where to get a roofie.

Wife's fantasies
 

I found a great way to find my Wife's hidden fantasies a few years back. She had always been reluctant to share them with me, often saying she really didn't have any or telling me I already fulfill them.
But, one time, while vacationing in Hawaii, I told her I would have any fantasy she had fulfilled... on me! That evening she closed the curtains to our patio, got me naked, tied me up, and blindfolded me. She then started giving me head and teased me like crazy. Every once in awhile she would just make me lay there, waiting for her return to do something else. She positioned me in various positions, poked and proded me everywhere and even spanked me a little., always leaving me for a bit, wondering what She was doing. She even rode my face like I was her personal jockey saddle. This continued for a couple of hours until she eventually got on top of me and fucked my brains out. Of course, I loved every moment of It! That is... until she removed my blindfold. There I was, tied up naked, looking at an open patio curtain, with two guys staring back at me!
I guess it was just me allowing her to put me in the same spot as I would have done to her. All of a sudden she knew she could trust me with her fantasies. Since then she has confided to me many of them. Some I really had no idea!!! We now try to act them out for her as much as possible.
I am still trying to figure out just how to fulfill her fantasy of having a couple of strange men grope and have sex with her in a club or bar. Her safety always comes first.

My wifes biggest fantasy we to be tied down and put on display so everything was showing, she wanted to be helpless and in a position where people could look but not touch, she wanted her legs raised and spread apart but she would be masked. It developed over time into being touched but and then being fucked but still only stayed a fantasy.

She would go on webcam to let men watch her and would have phone sex with strangers while I was there listening in. There was a few times she was tied to bed naked with a cam attached to the ceiling looking down at her and she had a mask on with a phone headset so people could call her and chat, she loved being unable to do anything while they told her what the would be doing .

Another fantasy she did act out was getting another mobile and she would take naked selfies which again didnt show her face or anything that would give away who she was but did show everything else . She would then send them to people she knew like work collegues and friends or sometimes just numbers she would come across then follow it with another message apologizing for sending it to the wrong number, quite a few people texting back asking for more or coming back with suggestions, she did the same on email a few times sending pictures to collegues work emails. She just loved it knowing people she worked with had seen her tits and pussy

That idea has really got me thinking. I wonder how many other nice gfs and wives have actually done things similarly . cheers

on this forum I read a lot of stories where the husbands in one way or another want to put their wives it is Interesting that I never found the voices of women for this reason. Here is and this line, too, offers opinion men, as they drag fantasies with their wives. And then I thought, I'm probably the only one. Because I have the opposite problem. I passionately want to be exposed by my husband. Very often I adjust to these situations. My husband is against my actions and fantasies. What am I to do? I can't leave him. He loves me, and so do I. I know that if we break up, it won't be long. We already tried that. Can someone tell me? It would be great to get an answer from a woman. Since the answers are from men, I'm sure I'm almost aware. But, I'm not against them, I wonder. Maybe I'll hear something new and put it into practice. Thank You.

Does every woman have these?
 

My wife really does not have any sexual fantasies to speak of. She's never said anything nor does she have the type of friends to confide in. They are all very religious and sex is for when you want to have a baby not something you talk about.

Now as a guy I have several and my wife has only done one partially so my bucket list remains pretty full.