The first time I tried to eat my wife's pussy, she said no it was dirty. A few weeks later after a night out of drinking, I tried again. She just laid there and let me not saying anything. She had one hell of an orgasm as she does whenever I now eat her pussy.

Yet she will not ask me to perform oral on her. She won't even hint she wants it, yet when I do perform oral on her, she really gets over excited.

I would love for her to just put her pussy on display for me and tell me she wants me to eat her.

She makes an exception for him
 

I always enjoyed nibbling on my wife's pussy, she always seemed to like it, but was eager to get to my cock in her as soon as possible. I had an accident and severely injured my neck, so getting in a position that is comfortable for both of us is difficult. My wife treated it as no big deal, she said she'd rather blow me.

One night we were in a bar, this is when we were open to having others in our bed, my wife had on a short skirt, pantihose, but no panties. We run into an old friend my wife went to HS with, Jake,but had not seen in years. He was a nice handsome guy, my wife said a lot of girls had a crush on him back then, they started laughing and talking about some of the girls he used to date. I was the driver that night, it only takes a couple of drinks and my wife is likely to say anything, she asked Jake what was his secret to going out with some of the hottest girls in school. Jake, gave my wife a tipsy smile and said "pussy eating".

My wife and Jake laughed over that for a few minutes, then she said, "I don't think my husband would mind if you proved your skill", I said, "have fun, but be discreet". Jake got up to go potty, I'm sure he wanted us to talk about it for a second. I told my wife, "if he does a good job, you can give him a BJ."

Jake came back, we said "you're on". They decided our place was the closest best option, I said I'd stay back for a while so they could get started. They left, I actually saw another couple I knew, had a few sodas with them before I went home.

When I got home, Jake was already gone. I went to our bedroom, my wife was moaning with her hands between her legs. I asked how it was, she said "incredible, I saw stars". I asked if she gave him a BJ, she said "no, he said maybe next time".

WE didn't see Jake for months and it never worked out again.

My wife has to really be in the mood for me to go down on her. She can't believe I love it, she thinks of the area as gross. And she's ticklish if not properly warmed up. But, she has said she's glad I enjoy it cause when she's in the mood she loves it! :D I just wish she was in the mood for it more often.

Also, she does not like to go down on me, but she will sometimes and is great at it.

I don't just lick the clit - I use my whole tongue to rub the lips

I understand but a bit of a broad stroke just to say watch some porn. How about working with your partner instead to ask what feels good? Not saying Barmixer is wrong but there's other options which may help your partner appreciate you more with the effort you put in.