No, never have had any desire to share my wife.

I know my wife would never agree, nor do I wish to do so. But, it has encouraged me to share pics and videos of her with other people. One, I've been swapping with for quite a few years.

I would never do it and I know she definitely wouldn't. But I do know threesomes (two guys, one girl) is a big turn-on/fantasy of hers. She even mentioned wife sharing as a fantasy one time when I was asking her what her sexual fantasies were. She pulls out her vibe every time she reads one of those erotic threesome books. And one time I saw where she had been watching porn with two guys inside a woman at once. But she would NEVER actually do it - just a fantasy.

I was in denial over my desire to see her have sex with another guy, if she teased me about another guy I would get turned on, but deny that I enjoyed it. Baby steps got us closer and closer, flashing, a sensual massage, flirting, finally she did it when out of town on a business trip.

So I enjoy the stories on the board about sharing, but we were way down that path before I found this board. I completely understand that most men find the idea abhorrent, I did too for a long time.