She did give me the go-ahead... :)

But I'm busy for the week to sort through some of the pics. Many I can't use.

I love eating pussy. Please share her with me!;):p:p:p:p:p:p:p

a pussy shot
 

Here is a close up of mine... sorry it took a while.

I did, on another thread: https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/showthread.php?t=187718

Twice again since the posting.
 

I've been busy in the real world for the past month and shit, trying to make a living and shit.

Last June, she went to a concert music venue I didn't care about with the same Friend for which this thread was started. We talked about coming home sometime after 12... she text me she was on the way home... but in the end, she shows up around 12. Yeah, she did point out that when she left - it was with her over-night bag, but - whatever... I don't want to get into that, its been a month.

Yesterday, she brings up that she wants him to take her to another event that very night. Okay, sure... its 9pm now, bring her back by 1~2am. Even when she got in his car, we talked about her being home at 1am or so - directly from the sat. night event. Its 2:30a that she texts she going to his place for food and a drink, fine - make it quick.

Now its past 8:30am. I'm a rather unhappy husband. No text, she doesn't answer her phone or shit.

That's 3 strikes you're out. He's not able to make sure she comes home, she's to drunk or whatever to give a fuck.

So when she gets home, I'll have some words and now, I'll put my foot down for rules.
1 - All dating privileges with this friend are void.
2 - If he wants to go with us to a club to pick up chicks, sure - fine.
3 - Him taking my wife anywhere, by himself... void.

Sounds good?

No it sounds bad. But what else are you going to do. I'm thinking you've lost your wife and taking this approach will force the issue. I haven't been in a situation like this since I was a teenager and that was a very long time ago, even then I don't want to equate my teenage break-up with your marriage going tits-up. You are essentially saying to her, choose between him and me. I hope you are ready for either answer. Good luck and keep writing.

Well, lets see... I finally went to sleep after my 8:45a post. Woke up at 12, pissed off - no text or shit. I locate the guy's number which I should have saved on my phone and text him to "bring her ass home" A few minutes late, I call her... she does pick up, first I've heard any thing from here since 3am. I let her say a few words, I hang up and turn off the phone. My way of saying - I'm pissed.

Well, she came home about 12:45. Got in bed with me and the baby sleeping next to me. I gave her little feedback - not good one. She gave me a kiss, "I love you". We have family here, and how to explain why she is out late with another man - great. It takes me over an hour to fall asleep. I wake up to her in the bathtub getting ready for work.

She gets dress, sees I'm awake. Sit next to me in the usual fashion - I say nothing. We spend a few minutes looking at each other, she knows I am pissed off. She can't say sorry or anything. Says "I love you", my response is "okay" and she leaves. I soon send her a text "I can tell by your love from all the text messages you sent me last night" - which of course, there are NO text messages or phone calls.

It hit me, BD/SM type demos, lessons and tutoring are usually in the daytime or early evening - which is what I was told they were going for. I looked up the schedule, for which the time they would get there, would be past such things and it would be open to almost anything. It would be this "Friend" first time there. I find in the dirty laundry basket, a sexy school girl outfit that she's worn to the venue with me. But when she left, she was wearing street clothes. WHICH is typical for demos and lessons. Since I walked her out to the car, she/they didn't carry anything out... so she didn't want me to see?

Now, there is a chance she did this, fearing me being jealous. For which, doing shit like this CAUSES red flags to go up... but if she wanted to hide something, she could have easily put the outfit on the shelf.
So, now I'm going to have be tactical and see how honest she will be when I ask her about last night.

Remember, I don't care if they had sex... but being very late, no comm and shit... is a problem. Its breaking my trust.

captaintrips, what I say in words, no matter how much detail I put in, will not be enough to explain our feelings and relationship... You are right, this could be trending into bad territory. But I doubt it. I am not ALL things to her, and she is NOT all things to me... thats why we have an open relationship. Do I fuck her in the ass or fisting? No - but I am able to do so with other women. Hence, I'm generally okay with this arrangement.

I doubt she'll throw away our marriage and put our toddler into turmoil for another cock. I would dump ANY woman before let her effect my marriage and family.

When she gets off work, we'll have some serious talking to do and the rules will be in place.

I know she is hurting as I've never NOT tell her "I love you" when we part.

I like the open relationship life style... I enjoy having sex with other women and watching her have sex with others. But I'd shelve it keep our relationship intact.

Update: We ended up going out after she got off work, a celebration with some friends at a gay club.

But while she was at work (before we had a chance to have a serious talk) she text me that she doesn't want a fight, want me mad at her, that she'll not got out with this friend.

We sat down and talked for about 30min. I went over it was the problem of NOT knowing whats going on, and expectations of her return home is what pissed me off. The outfit situation was not "hidden", reasoning was to not let family see, which I would have agreed. But this was me getting back to timely communication. Not when I'm trying to walk out the door.

The reason for the lateness is that they watched a movie and she feel asleep (okay, I can see that) - but I got back to her on communication. Which I think, still needs to be addressed more so.

We have some things to work out, but there are no fires. I would like for him to be able to take her to some places, that I am unable to do - so I need some one on one talk with him, if that is to continue in any way.

On a happy note, whose down for a photo of an open pussy, which I refer to as my cock warmer? :D

Photo sounds like a great idea to perk the thread back up. Glad she was receptive to listening to your concerns.

Hope all works out, but.....
 

I hate to say it, but to me it her answers sound too made up. You seem to be trusting and just maybe she is playing you because she knows that you will take any answer she gives you.
Just falling asleep doesn't answer why she didn't respond to your calls and texts. Does she always turn off her phone when she watches a movie?
I hope I am just being overly cautious but to me she doesn't seem to be giving you the complete truth/story.
Be careful.
She could be doing things behind your back right in front of you.